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Thomas K. Sisson

1923 - 2018

Thomas K. Sisson obituary, 1923-2018, Concord, MA

BORN

1923

DIED

2018

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Concord, Massachusetts

Thomas Sisson Obituary

Thomas (Tom) Kingsford Sisson, an amazing and adventurous soul passed from this world on Tuesday, October 2, 2018, concluding a life warmly and richly lived since June 22, 1923. Husband of Edith Arnold Sisson for sixty-two years and father of Virginia Baker Sisson (and William Maze), Katharine Townsend Feehery (and George Richard Feehery), Edith Thomas Sisson (and life partner Michael Jansen, deceased) and Polly Fleckenstein (and Lawrence Fleckenstein), he was also grandfather of Tegan Feehery (and Christopher Belkas), Caitlin Feehery, Alexander Maze and Benjamin Fleckenstein. He thrived on being both an intellectual and an outdoorsman, always reading, beekeeping, gardening, collecting and selling eggs, hiking, sailing, cross-country and alpine skiing. He was son of Dr. Warren Richard Sisson and Emilie Heffron Sisson and stepmother Katharine Wendell Sisson. He was younger brother of Dr. John H Sisson (and Barbara of Lincoln, MA), Dr. Warren R. Sisson Jr., (of Manchester NH) and older brother of Alexander Sisson (and Carol of Anchorage AK). He was the last of his generation. He served in the US Naval Air Corps and US Coast Guard during World War II, flying patrols for German submarines and sailors in distress. He worked in television, starting in commercial television (WNAC-TV). He was a pioneer working in public service programs at the Lowell Institute Cooperative and Broadcasting Council (now known as WGBH-TV) where he was the producer-director from 1955-1958. He continued his career as a teacher and dean including Boston and Harvard Universities ending as Associate Dean for the Graduate School of Arts and Sciences at Harvard University. He spread his knowledge of bee keeping to many classes at Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary. He kept bees for almost eighty years including in his dorm room at Harvard University. Tom was wise and attentive, bold and gracious, handsome and daring. He was a scholar who attended Deerfield Academy, Harvard University, where he earned his BA, Oxford University and Boston University where he received his Masters of Education degree. In 1956, he married Edith Virginia Arnold. They moved to Concord in 1962, renovating the 352 Sudbury Rd farmhouse. Later on, it was discovered that this was the ancestral home as a six times great grandmother Rebecca Hubbard was born there. He lived here until family evolved and downsizing lead to moving the garage, which has been originally built as a barn, west on his property into Southfield Meadow where he liv ed his last twenty years. He thrived spending time outdoors, climbing the mountains of New Hampshire and Maine avidly with family and friends, always after whichever daughter scrambled up the final summit to be first at the peak. He was proud to have climbed Mount Katahdin in Maine over 15 times including several winter ascents as recently as when he was 82. Every morning for as long as I can remember he rose tenderly, trying not to disturb anyone as he picked up that days Boston Globe and made a pot of Earl Grey tea to take back upstairs and share with us before our school and his work. His family and family farm gave him infinite pleasure, reciprocated by the love and bounty they provided him. His bees produced hundreds of pounds of honey annually, his chickens laid a comparable number of eggs and nightly we shared the bounty of his garden, fresh peas, tomatoes, eggplants and parsnips. He delighted in spending time with family in Limerick Maine. Over time he helped build a cabin with logs he cut from the forest around him. His love of the mountains led to his involvement as co-founder of the Francis Small Heritage Trust, to preserve the special land around Sawyer Mountain. In addition, he and Edie were tree farmers and stewards of their land. His service to his neighbors and friends included being trustee of Boston Childrens Museum, Marlboro College as well as advisory committees for establishing wilderness areas in the White Mountain National Forest, water resources of Boston, Thompson Island School, advising the Concord League of Women Voters and serving on the Concord Comprehensive Planning Committee, A memorial service was held on October 21, 2018. in the Concord Academy Chapel. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to the Francis Small Heritage Trust (https://fsht.org/). I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. Henry David Thoreau. Arrangements under the care of Glenn D. Burlamachi, Concord Funeral Home, A Life Celebration Home.

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Published by The Concord Journal from Oct. 20 to Nov. 1, 2018.

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James McCargar

September 27, 2019

To the kind folks of the Sisson family...

Tom was a mentor to me, particularly in the leave of absence I took from Harvard between my freshman and sophomore years. He was exceptionally kind, wise, and thoughtful... helping me to put many aspects of life, nature, and humanity into perspective. I have spoken of him often as one of a handful of people who most impacted me, yet he took such feedback with a chuckle and genuine modesty.

Edith I hope you get the chance to read this, despite its tardiness, and perhaps remember my visits to your Concord home; I do, along with your welcoming and patient response.

An unusual, grounded gentleman scholar.

James (Jim) McCargar
Dexter, MI

Christine Gerzon

December 29, 2018

Dear Sisson Family,
I was reading the Drumlin Farm newsletter this morning honoring Edie s 90th birthday when I discovered that Tom had died. Please accept my belated condolences. I have always had a special place in my heart for the Sission family who I admire for your intelligence and your love of all things natural and beautiful. Tom always greeted me with such enthusiasm and kindness every time I had the pleasure of visiting your family home on Sudbury Road. I have fond memories of all of you. Big Edie- I imagine life without Tom is a challenge and I am sending my love your way. Hope to stop by for a visit. Chris (McVinney) Gerzon

December 6, 2018

"I am sorry for your loss. It is always hard to lose a loved one in death. Our heavenly Father is very aware and understands the pain you feel. He will give you comfort. (Psalms 86:6,7) Your family has my deepest sympathy."


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Tom LePage

November 13, 2018

Such a kindly man. I am deeply saddened by his passing

November 12, 2018

Offering our sincere condolences. May the God of love comfort your heart and make you firm in your time of grief. 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17.

Barbara Sutton

November 12, 2018

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May the God of Comfort, continue to comfort the family during these difficult times. May he continue to give support and loving kindness, to all. 1 Cor. 1:3,4.

November 9, 2018

Offering our sincere condolences. May the God of love comfort your heart and make you firm in your time of grief. 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17.

October 24, 2018

At the most difficult times, look to God's words in the Bible and be comforted (1 Thessalonians 4:14)

Tom Ragle

October 19, 2018

Good man, good trustee of Marlboro College, good friend.

peter Orlando

October 13, 2018

Tom will be missed by me and many others at the Council on Ageing. He was a true gentleman and kept us enthralled with his bees.
Peter Orlando

Ludmila Svoboda

October 11, 2018

Dearest Edie and Family, Our love is with you. We will hold our memories of Tom close in our hearts...Tom being escorted up our kitchen stairs by the then three year old Abner...We will see you on the 21st. With much love, Ludmila

Jennie Ernst

October 9, 2018

Dear Sissons,
Our thoughts are with you in your loss of Cousin Tom. Like the rest of you, he has been a part of my concept of family and roots since I was a little child - someone who represented the place and people I come from. He was always ready to share hospitality and experience with us when we visited. Gregg, the kids, and I all send our thoughts to you at this time.

Polly Fleckenstein

October 9, 2018

Dear Dad - Happy trails to you. Katahdin awaits! You gave us so much, thank you.
Dear Mum - He will always be with you in your heart and in so much that you did together.
Dear Sisters - thank you for sharing so much of our lives together.
Dear Family and Friends - thank you for all your support and caring in so many ways now, and in the years past and in the times to come. We love you.
"Every storm, and every drop in it, is in itself a rainbow." Henry David Thoreau

Jinny Sisson

October 8, 2018

Dad - you left us all with memories and skills of a beekeeper. My ladies produced 157 lbs this summer. Thanks to all that you taught us over many years.
love,
Jinny

Ginger McEachern

October 7, 2018

Dearest Edie: We are crushed to learn of the passing of sweet Tom. He was an incredibly special person to all of us, we are so sad!

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Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Chapel at Concord Academy

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Oct

21

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2:30 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

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74 Belknap St., Concord, MA 01742

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