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Ruth Myers Obituary
York - York, Pa. Ruth Caroline (DeStephano) Myers, age 69, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 28, 2020, at her residence surrounded by her beloved family. She was the loving wife of Eddie E. Myers for 51 years. She was born December 21, 1950, and she was 1 of 5 children of the late Carmen and Virginia (Luckenbaugh) DeStephano. Ruth graduated from York Catholic High School in 1968; it is here that she developed her love for art. She was a loving and devoted wife who raised 3 children who she cherished. She was also a loving grandmother. She was the matriarch of the family; she led with wisdom, pride, care, and love. She enjoyed sewing and painting, but her true passion was food. She and her husband owned Creative Caterers for over 35 years, and they owned The Wrightsville Inn for 17 years. It was there that she demonstrated her ability to craft delicious meals. Throughout the restaurant you can see her beautiful paintings. She is survived by her husband Eddie E. Myers. She is also survived by her 3 children, grandchildren, siblings, and best friend: her daughter, Michelle Myers and her fiancé Charles Hamilton, granddaughter Felicia (Roppelt) Abrashoff and her husband Kelvin Abrashoff, and grandson Alex Roppelt; her son, Eric Myers and his wife Sam Myers, and grandchildren Jessica Myers, Regan Myers, Alex Harrison, and Gabrielle (Harrison) Gladfelter; and her third child and baby, John F. Myers of Ramrod Key, FL. She is also survived by her baby sister Phyllis DeStephano-Krall and her husband Donald Krall; her brother Carm DeStephano and her baby brother Paul DeStephano. Last, but not least, her best friend, Joan Marie Davis, who was like her sister. And to all her customers who became her extended family, she loves you all and misses you dearly. She could not have done it without all of you, and for that, she is eternally grateful.
There will be a Celebration of Life Service for Ruth in the future. The John W. Keffer Funeral Home and Crematory, Inc. 2114 W. Market St. York is assisting the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society 1818 Market St. Suite 2820 Philadelphia, Pa 19103.
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Susan Hovis
November 23, 2021
She is well loved by her sister Phyllis .
Lisa Weems
May 9, 2021
I am so sorry to hear that Ruth has passed away. She was a very sweet and kind lady. I will remember her the rest of my life with her beautiful purple rooster painting on the wall of my house.
My deep condolences to her family.
Lonnie Gurreri
December 3, 2020
My deepest sympathies to the entire Myers family. Ruth was a generous and kind soul filled with energy and purpose. I am truly saddened to hear that she has ascended this world but am privileged to have had the opportunity to know such a wonderful person. I will never forget the comfort and generosity that was shown to me by the Myers after my father passed. I pray you all receive that level of comfort in dealing with you loss.
Lonnie Gurreri
December 3, 2020
My deepest sympathies to the entire Myers family. Ruth was a generous and kind soul filled with energy and purpose. I am truly saddened to hear that she has ascended this world but am privileged to have had the opportunity to know such a wonderful person. I will never forget the comfort and generosity that was shown to me by the Myers after my father passed. I pray you all receive that level of comfort in dealing with you loss.
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Steph Shearer
December 2, 2020
Sending love and prayers to all that knew Ruth. May the memories of her lift you up , and the knowledge of her love for all of her family and friends keep you strong.
Susan Leader Hovis
December 2, 2020
I have never met Ruth , but know her sister well . Phyllis DeStephano Krall . Phyllis has shared many lovely stories about Ruth over the years . I knew that Ruth was a talented artist . Sometimes she would paint some of the photos that Phyllis took . I also know that Ruth owned a restaurant / bar in Wrightsville and made the best chicken . I am sure she is missed by many .
Dave Kline
December 2, 2020
Ruth was always there for us and made our events very special. Her wit always made me laugh. Dave I really should not be texting you right now because I'm driving,wait until i get to the next red light. Always on the go and aimed to please. Ruth will be deeply missed.
Liz Stotsky
December 2, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel the love from the memories of your mom. My condolences to you all. I always liked seeing your mom at the restaurant.
Joan Mummert
December 1, 2020
We are so sorry to learn about Ruth's passing. Whether the events were ours or a rental, she was always such a joy to work at the York County History Center, and her food was always wonderful! She will be missed by all of us. Prayers for her and to the entire family.
Patricia Dominick
December 1, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Ruth was always a shining light at the KBG Holiday Party. Her attention to detail and her loving way always made the party special. I always looked forward to seeing her and speaking with her about her family. I will keep you all in my prayers for stregnth and peace this holiday season.
December 1, 2020
So sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. Whenever we were at the restaurant for dinner, Ruth always took time, no matter how busy, to stop and ask how are you guys doing. Ruth will be missed by many. May your memories help you through this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers to Ed and the family.
Brian and Sharon Shultz
Sandy
November 30, 2020
My condolences to Ruth’s family. She must have been a wonderful lady, and I am sorry I did not have the opportunity to meet her. I am grateful for her concern for my son and for the opportunities she gave him. Blessings to your family.
Most sincerely,
Sandy
Denise Lauer
November 30, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear about Ruth's passing. I always looked forward to seeing her at the inn. She was such a friendly kind hard working woman whom I enjoyed discussing her art with. My prayers and condolences to her husband and family. She was truly a lovely woman.
Crystal wiland
November 30, 2020
So sorry for you sudden loss!! Reminisced with ruthie about a month ago at the restaurant!! Great memories!❤
John Prime
November 30, 2020
She was part of the community and loved to help charities. Even in the busy hours, she would stop to chat and tell me a funny story.
cathie moley
November 30, 2020
Always enjoyed talking with Ruth at Christopher and Banks, she will be greated missed, beautiful lady. Prays to Ruth and her family. Sincerely Cathie Moley
Linda Leber and Tara Cooper
November 30, 2020
She was a great lady. When we were there she always took time to stop at our table and hi. She will be greatly missed by me and my family. Prayers for Lisa and your family.
Joanne & Tom Murphy
November 30, 2020
So very sorry for your loss. Ruth was one of a kind!
Tom and Joanne
Victoria Connor
November 30, 2020
Ruth will remain in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. On behalf of the York County Bar, our deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Barbara Krier
November 30, 2020
Prayers for peace to all!
Hugs and blessings!!
Lisa biller
November 30, 2020
Ruth was there for me when I got married and when my mom passed and when my husband passed she help me through it all she had a lot of wisdom she will be missed ♥
LuAnn & Brad Mylin
November 30, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Liz Winand
November 30, 2020
We will miss you Ruth and all your special care you gave us when visiting “the Lower”. Our sincere condolences to the family. Liz & Steve Winand.
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