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May 23, 2009
Shelley remains in my heart and I think of her everyday. I miss her so much; her beautiful smile, and the way she lit up a room as she lit up my life.
Ginny
Paul Landen
April 3, 2009
Steve and Seneca,
I can't even begin to express how much I miss Shelley. She was simply one of the finest people I've ever known. Sitting in her office every day, I feel her presence so strongly. She will be a part of all of us for the rest of our lives. If I can be half the teacher she was, I'll be doing pretty well.
Let's keep in touch.
Paul
Diane Anderson
March 30, 2009
To Steve and Seneca: May peace find you during this time of loss. After reading all of these wonderful entries, the words I would have chosen have been repeated time and time again. Dr. Theno was my mentor, my inspiration and I still believe the doll manufacturers missed a grand opportunity to create a "Dr. Shelley Theno superheroine action figure." What a force to be reckoned with, she was!
I will miss her forever, but her influence will remain with me always!
Trish Callan
March 19, 2009
Steve,
Gayle & I had the pleasure of seeing Anchorage from the sky in your great plane tour you gave us thanks to our friendship with Jan. It was a shame to hear of your loss, way too young, please accept our condolences. The obit was beautiful, it sounds like heaven got a great addition with earth's loss.
Trish & Gayle
Lorrie & Randy Rakoczynski
March 18, 2009
Steve and family, we are so sorry to hear of Shelley's passing. Although the times we spent together were far apart in time and miles, we shall cherish our friendship always. We will forever remember standing on the bridge in Chicago into the wee hours and our days in Salem and Rockport, MA. She was such a warm and loving person. We shall miss her always. Please keep in touch and our prayers are with you.
Anne Henning
March 17, 2009
I first met Shelley over 18 years ago (I was 11), and I can honestly say that in that first meeting I remember she invoked the “fear of God” in me. However, she quickly became a person that I held the utmost respect for. Shelley asked me questions because she cared about what I thought. She challenged me to think harder, deeper, smarter. She encouraged me to always give my full effort to my strengths and helped me work through my weaknesses, and as a pre-adolescent, I believed there were many of those. She was my mentor and my hero. Shelley once told me that if she could make a positive difference in just one person’s life, then her life would have meaning. Shelley touched so many lives, and I feel amazingly blessed to have been one of them. I’m so sorry for your loss, Steve and Seneca. Sen, you know I’m only a phone call or a 9-hour flight away. Love you guys.
March 16, 2009
Dear Steve and Seneca, We were saddened to hear of Shelley's passing. We never did get to spend much time with all of you but really enjoyed the few short visits we had. Steve and I are on a job in Eunice,NM. We live in Andrews TX in the motorhome. If you are ever in the area please let us know. If there is anything we can do ever, call on us.
Max and Steve Ellis
Theresa Greer
March 16, 2009
Over 40 years ago I walked into my third grade classroom and sat next to this freckle-faced brunette. Shelley introduced herself and we became instant friends. She has remained my best friend all of these years. We danced a hula in the 5th grade play,made a pinata in the image of her dachshund, Archie, in the sixth grade,went through the "boy craze" together, spent a New Years in Vegas (what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, even though we laughed for years about our stay.)and shared stories on the phone until 2 a.m. more nights than Steve cares to remember.To have a friendship that lasts 40+ years is a rarity. Shelley was as close to me as any sister could be. My family and I will miss her dearly. She is always with me and in my heart, but there is a piece of me missing now. Thank you Shelley for being a terrific aunt to Josh and for loving me unconditionally. You can never be replaced. Seneca and Steve, please know that I am always here for you and love you both deeply. Shelley was one of a kind!
Aunt Theresa
Lori & Dave Klein
March 16, 2009
Steve and Seneca,
I've always thought of Shelley as a big sister. She was the best listener, always giving you her full attention. She had the greatest smile - it would light up my day when I would see her in the hallways on campus. I will miss her laugh - so genuine. I will miss torturing her by spelling her name wrong - always great fun!
I know what Shelley meant and will always mean to me. But I feel lucky to have been able to hear from the students that she taught what they meant to her. As an academic advisor when we were both at UAS, I always got earfuls about faculty. And Dr. Theno was a tough, smart, challenging, professional and admired instructor. I will always be proud to say that I served with her in education and most especially, that she was my friend.
Dave and I have kept you close in our hearts these months. We continue to do so.
Harry and Timi Tullis
March 16, 2009
Steve and Seneca,
Shelley was and will always be a bright spot in my life. There will be such a huge hole in my heart now that she is no longer with us on this earth, though i KNOW she will remain a part of me forever. Both Harry and I will forever treasure the days we spent with you, here in Juneau, Anchorage or Australia. those memories will live on and on in my heart. Most of all I will miss her laughter and smile and HUGS.
Please know how much you are both in our thoughts and prayers!!!
love, T and H
Jon Bendz
March 16, 2009
I remember Shelley when she first came to Alaska and worked with Steve at the old Quadra Engineering office. She was a lovely wonderful person who remained a friend all her life.
My thoughts are with you.
Irene Pullen
March 15, 2009
Dear Steve and Seneca, I was shocked and speechless when on the telephone with Shelley. I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. If there is anything that I can do please let me know. Love and hugs, Irene
Diana Odom Gunn
March 14, 2009
Dearest Steve and Seneca, Call anytime for any reason. I've been there. love, Diana
Terri Vescio
March 14, 2009
Steve and Seneca,
All of my love and warm wishes are with you. I am stunned and saddened by the premature passing of Shelley. I find myself thinking of KU and the passion and joy she brought to all of our lives. I am grateful to have known her and am warmed with fond memories of her.
Terri
Malena Babcock
March 14, 2009
Dr. Theno, my dearest friend and professor. You inspired me in so many ways, that I know I have been blessed. With your beautiful smile and pleasant attitude, you were always ready to start class and although your exams were tough, your classes were enjoyable. You knew well that because of you I walked and received my bachelors’ degree. I already miss you, but I know that you are now in a much better place than us.
Steve and Seneca, my deepest condolences for the departure of Shelley. We all pray that God will give you the comfort, peace and resignation for the loss of your loved one. Please take care and God Bless you.
Bob & Lynda Page
March 13, 2009
Steve and family, I am so sorry for your loss and pray that any sadness you may feel now will very soon turn to an even stronger love and memory of your wife/mother. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Thinking of you all in our prayers.
Bettie Wallace
March 13, 2009
KPC was a much brighter place when Shelley arrived. Status quo was not in her vocabulary and she worked hard for positive changes.
We have missed her this year and a void has been created that can never be filled.
Steve and Seneca my heart goes out to you. Hold on to your memories.
Vika
March 12, 2009
My dearest friend. My personal and professional inspiration. I would not be where I am today, with a Ph.D. in psychology of all things, if it weren't for you. As you used to say, you made me "see the light." I now have the life and job I've always wanted, all because of you. You're the only person with whom I could have an 8 hr conversation, in person or on the phone, and not be bored for a single second. You are the only person who could make me stay up all night talking, and then go to a 9 am talk at whatever conference we happened to be attending. My apartment makes me think of you because you arrived, took a look around, and helped me decorate it. Vancouver makes me think of you because you and I walked the entire perimeter of downtown and you accused me of trying to "kill" you. You loved to walk, laugh, shop! Talk, talk, and talk some more. You loved your family and your daughter more than life itself. You made me stronger. Your impact on my life has been unmeasurable. I have known you for exactly 10 years, but I'll remember you forever. I love you.
Donna Hendren
March 12, 2009
From her family in Colorado, Arizona, New York and England, Shelley was a one of a kind, full of life and always willing to take on the world. Shelley will be forever in our hearts as we will always remember her sweet smile and infectious laugh. She gave it her all and showed those left behind what strength and character can endure. Shelley left this world as she lived, with grace and dignity. We were all blessed for having her in our lives.
JaNell Kaleikini-Conner
March 12, 2009
My fondest memory of Shelley comes from that of my childhood. Shelley knew how to get the attention of an unruly 12 year old and taught me a lesson I will never forget and I thank her for sharing with me. Shelley was a kind and loving person and will be greatly missed. She is in a better place now and free from pain and suffering.
Seneca, I miss you and love you and hope that you can find peace during these difficult times. My prayers are with you and your dad.
Ray Zagorski
March 12, 2009
One can never express the loss of such a wonderful colleague. I will miss her very much. You will forever be in my memories.
Pat Lovejoy
March 12, 2009
Steve and Seneca, I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss....and mine! I loved that beautiful little Shelley woman with all my heart and will miss her and that spunky attitude ever so much. Ahhhh the memories I have of her! They will be my treasures. Stay in touch. much love to both of you.
Annette
March 12, 2009
Shelley you changed my life forever. I have never laughed so hard, thought so much and recognized what true passion about education looks like. Your enthusiasm, precision, dedication and devotion to your field and your zest for life have changed the world in ways only those who knew you could understand. I will never laugh as hard as I did in Mexico. You've instilled an immeasurable joie de vivre in everyone who knew you. Your influence and passion will never leave--we will carry it forward forever.
Love always,
Patti Bendz
March 12, 2009
Steve and Seneca,
Know that I miss her immensely, and love her dearly. My thoughts are with the two of you. Love Patti
Randy Ashford
March 12, 2009
Dr. Shelley Theno's untimely passing will leave a void of friendship that will be hard to fill. She touched the lives of many students during her time at KPC, and I had the good fortune to be one of them at a pivotal time in my life.
She was generous, kind-spirited, and she inspired others through her example. Shelley was unafraid to stand by her convictions. I hope to honor her memory by making the most out of the education she helped to provide, and to be ready, as she was, to stand up for the less fortunate of this world. Goodbye, Dr.T- you will be missed.
James Wiedle
March 12, 2009
I remember Shelley quite well with her great sense of humour and love of life. The many discussions we had in college in pursuit of our psychology degrees. She will be missed!
Debbie Belford
March 12, 2009
Steve and Seneca, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Shelley was a beautiful, wonderful person and will truly be missed by many. Our hearts reach out to you, and if there is anything we can do, please let us know... your cousin's debbie, patrick anthony and jerrod
Peggy & Inez Stritzinger
March 12, 2009
The time we spent with Shelly was unforgettable. Her trip here to Baltimore and the fun we had running around D.C. will stay in our memory forever. Although we may not have spoken for many years, Shelly will be forever in our hearts and memories. Steve and Seneca, you are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Shelley at the center of the world at Greenwich, England
March 12, 2009
Cathy Pearce
March 12, 2009
To Steve and Seneca, and all those who loved Shelley...I'm not sure how we'll survive without her wicked sense of humour and laughter, but I know we must. She was such a big personality, and I think she changed everyone she met for the better. I know she has made a great impression on me, and I owe her more than I can ever say.
I know she really wanted to be my matron of honour, and I'll always remember how she kept hinting about it until I asked her, and how excited she was at the thought of helping me find my wedding dress. Shelley, darn you! I know this wasn't your fault, but you'll always be my matron of honour in my heart.
Gary Turner
March 12, 2009
Shelley will be missed so much by those of us at Kenai Peninsula College. She was such a force and inspiration to her students and colleagues...words cannot express. On a personal note, she and I discussed, argued, laughed and cried together and I will miss all of that. Most importantly, I considered her a friend and will remember her always.
Steve & Maridee Crouch
March 12, 2009
We were so shocked to hear of Shelley's passing. We remember her as a beautiful person, inside and out, with a positive and friendly attitude which radiated out to all people she touched.
Steve, we remember you, Shelley and Seneca as a family to be admired with so much energy, drive and dedication in your associations and work. We know Shelley is blessed and now in a wonderful place. Bless you and Seneca and take care.
Summer
March 12, 2009
Dr. Theno was my psychology professor at KPC, and she was a professor like none other. She was tough, but inspirational; she was an advocate for her students; she had a great sense of humor; and she made a permanent impact in my life. She made such a difference in my life, and during those years she truly was like a mother to me. I feel a great loss in her passing, but great joy in that I had the opportunity to have her in my life, even if it was only for a few years. Mr. Theno and Seneca, you have my deepest sympathies.
March 12, 2009
We are deeply saddened by this unfortunate event. We will remember Shelley always, and relish our time with her and Steve at various venues throughout the country, and most of all, for the precious few days we spent together in Barrow. We will never forget her.
Bernie and Toby Berson
Perrineville, NJ
Ginny
March 11, 2009
Shelley, my always best friend. Her beautiful smile, her hearty laugh, and her passionate love of life will be missed so very much. We traveled together to Greece and Turkey, and Mexico (where the funniest thing happened that we laughed about for years after), and with or husbands to Scandinavia, Russia and the Baltic countries. Being with Shelley always made your day brighter, assured you would absolutely enjoy yourself, and end the day with a smile. I loved her very much and she'll never be replaced in my heart.
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