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ALAN ROY DECKER
AGE: 63 ALLENWOOD
Alan Roy Decker, 63, of Allenwood, died Tuesday, June 15, 2010, at Monmouth Medical Center, Long Branch. Born in Staten Island, N.Y. in 1946, he grew up in Manasquan before moving to Allenwood.
He is predeceased by his father, George Decker, in 1994 and is survived by his loving wife of 22 years, Leslie; their son, Zachary; and daughter, Sarah. Also surviving are his mother, Eunice Decker; and sister, Lynn Crue.
A graveside service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday, June 18 at Greenwood Cemetery, Brielle. Neary-Quinn Funeral Home, Manasquan, is in charge of the funeral arrangements. For complete obituary, please visit www.neary-quinnfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Alan Decker
PN
March 28, 2021
Deepest Sympathy to Alan’s Family.
Very saddened to learn of your loss.
I worked with Alan many years ago at the NJDCA.
My memories are many..he was a great friend, shared many life stories and always would help those who needed it..a true gentleman who was patient beyond measure..a man of integrity. May he Rest In Peace.
God Bless You, God Make You Well, God Watch Over You
PN
Maury Nunes
September 16, 2011
A gentleman of integrity - A Sigma Chi Brother. All honor to his name.
Mike Mennuti
June 17, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mike Mennuti, Construction Official, DCA
June 17, 2010
Ms. Decker and family, I worked with Alan within the State DCA and always felt Alan's kindness, understanding and consideration towards his fellow workers and the public he served.
Always hold dear the memories of Alan, his strenght and his love of family and country. He was proud of his service to America, and I was thankful for his contribution to freedom. I will pray for him along with the prayers for my father, who I also lost last week.
Lana and Gary Parish
June 17, 2010
Dearest, Leslie, Zachary, and Sarah,
Where do we begin to express our loss of such a wonderful man. Alan, a tremendous husband, father, and friend to many. He was so well versed in many subjects, and relentless in teaching others all that he knew. Incredible patience, intelligence, acts of kindness, and hard working ethics only touch the surface of this man.
I pray my sister, Leslie, nephew Zachary, and niece Sarah Ashley heal quickly from such a tremendous and early loss. Bless this family in their time of need.
Love Always, Aunt Lana & Uncle Gary
June 17, 2010
Mrs. Decker and family, my name is Nancy Gorski, I am the Evening Supervisor for the Monmouth County Vocational School District. Al was our instructor for the Plumbing II class. I would like you to know what a pleasure it was to work with your husband. He was a very kind and easy going man. He did a great job with his plumbing students and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joanne (Murtha)
June 16, 2010
Leslie, Zach & Sarah:
I am so sorry for your loss. He always loved to be there for his family, He would take the boys (Bill & Joe) paint balling with Zach. They always had fun, and spoke of how cool & nice he was to them. May his love always be present to carry you all through life.
Bill & Joe Murtha
June 16, 2010
The Decker Family:
Our Deepest Sympathy goes out to you. You are in our thoughts & Prayers.
Al DeMichele
June 16, 2010
The Decker Family
Alan has been constantly on my mind and in my prayers the past couple of days.
I truly enjoyed having him as a supervisor during our tenure in the Southern Regional Office. Always easy going and friendly.
I will miss him and may God bless him.
Al DeMichele/Fire Sub Code Offical
Debbie Klimek
June 16, 2010
Leslie, Zach & Sarah: I will always have Alan in my thoughts and prayers. All these years he has been the soul of kindness, put up with my (and the offices') craziness and we know went home and laughed! God be with you always, His friend and secretary, Debbie Klimek
June 16, 2010
Leslie and Family
My sincere sympathy to you in your hour of Sorrow.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
It has been a pleasure working with Alan, Being in the presence of his kind and gentle smile in spite of what was going on or how he felt brought such a peace to the work unit and that's what I will miss.
Know that earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Sincerely
Iva McRae
DCA/coworker
Fayez Fanik
June 16, 2010
My deepest condolences to the family. May God rest his soul.
And may God protect his family.
June 16, 2010
Many wonder full memories,on East Virginia Ave Alan who so helped our son Andy in the trades. Sorry, your family will be in our thoughts and prays, The Murray family,next door.
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