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Brian McKay Obituary
Brian Patrick McKay, age 52, of Wall, formerly of Colts Neck, passed peacefully on October 22, 2019 with his loving family by his side.
Brian had a long career working in IT on Wall Street for several firms including Align Communications and RMJ Securities. He was a devoted and loving husband , father ,son and brother. His life was his family. Brian graduated from Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft and from Saint Peter's College in Jersey City. He was born in New York City and raised in Colts Neck, NJ.
He was predeceased by his father Peter H. McKay. He is survived by wife Suzanne , his son Peter Richard McKay, his mother Carol Ann "Cookie" McKay, his brothers Kevin McKay and his wife Jennifer of Colts Neck and Timothy McKay of Freehold, his brother and sister in law, Tammy and Tom Conway his nieces and nephews, Connor, Jordan , Madeline, Ryan and Mia McKay and Luke and Claire Conway.
Visitation will be on Friday October 25, from 4 to 8 PM at the Reilly Bonner Funeral Home, 801 D Street, Belmar NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will celebrated on Saturday at 10 AM at Saint Mary's RC Church, 1 Phalanx RD ,Colts Neck. Committal will follow at Mount Olivet Cemetery, Middletown NJ. In lieu of flowers ,donations in his name to the CBA Scholarship Fund, 850 Newman Springs Rd. Lincroft, NJ 07738, would be greatly appreciated.
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Ian Bowell
October 30, 2019
Brian was an inspiration to me at Align and beyond. I still think of him from time to time and wonder what he would say and do. Thanks to Brian Heery for letting me know of Brians passing. My thoughts are with all in this sad time, but celebrate his life. Best wishes, Ian Bowell
Brian Heery
October 30, 2019
So sorry to hear of Brian's untimely death. We shared so many memories together in Align and many good nights of fun. You will be greatly missed Brian Heery, Dublin, Ireland
Christine Toner
October 25, 2019
Deeply saddened to hear of this tremendous loss to the McKay family and all those that knew and loved him. Sending love and light.
October 25, 2019
With our deepest sympathy. The Romano Family
Cindi Westendorf
October 24, 2019
My heart breaks while it also smiles at the memories of this man. He was kind and smart and always a friend and neighbor that cared. Rest easy dear Brian. Peace to all who know and loved you xo
Wes Marsh
October 24, 2019
Sending our deepest condolences to the McKay Family your are in our prayers from the Marsh Family.
Jennifer, Nicole, David, Alex & Olivia Policastro
October 24, 2019
Deepest sympathy to your family. We are praying for you all. ❤
Jeremy Harper
October 24, 2019
So sorry for your loss. I will pray for healing for your family.
Malvern Fire Department
Malvern Arkansas
Maureen and Mike Cahill
October 24, 2019
Deepest condolences Suzanne and Peter. Your family is in our prayers.
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