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Brian O'Neill Obituary
AGE: 61 • Jackson
Brian passed away on Thursday, Dec. 1, 2011, after a brave and heroic battle with cancer. Born in Belleville, he lived his childhood in Iselin before moving to Jackson in 1963.
Brian was predeceased by his loving mother, Joan O'Neill; and brothers, Dennis and Patrick. He is survived by brothers, Thomas and Timothy; and sisters, Nancy, Maureen, and Jennifer. We will always remember him as a charming and handsome man, with his piercing blue eyes and long curly hair, driving around in his silver Camaro, listening to Led Zeppelin.
As per his wishes, there will be no services.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian O'Neill
Nancy oneill
December 4, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful man,brother ,and friend We will love you and miss you always. Love Nancy
Denise Fredette
August 1, 2012
I didn't forget that it was Brian's birthday on July 30, it just took me a couple of days to put into words the loss I feel knowing that he is really gone. I think sometimes that he will walk into where I work with his beer cozy and that big smile he always had for me. I miss him and always will. And I could never forget Denny's birthday because my son was born on the same day. R.I.P. Brian, Denny and Pat, you are all truly missed and still on the minds of many.
July 31, 2012
It's funny that I thought about Brian's birthday today as I flipped my desk calendar. I forgot it was Denny's yesterday, both were great friends to Bill McGeachen and myself. I believe they are truly missed by everyone who knew them.
July 30, 2012
Yesterday would have been Denny's Birthday and today would have been yours Brian ...How I wish both of you were here with me ..I miss both of you so much till we meet again Love,Nancy oxox
Chuck Monk
March 21, 2012
It took a while for this to set in & for me to gather my thoughts on what I wanted to say. Brian meant so much to me as did all of the O'Neills especially Pat. I always thought of everyone as the older brothers & sisters that I never had. Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for all of the family especially for Robin, Risa, Shea & Ryan. I always enjoyed watching football games w/ Pat, Timmy & Brian at the O'Neill house. As we drove by it not long ago, my mother said "It somehow doesn't seem right that for the first time in Harfield history there is not an O'Neill living there." I couldn't have said it better myself. Harfield will NEVER be the same. I always enjoyed hangin w/ Brian & did my best to see that I'd do ANYTHING I could to provide at least a little comfort in his last days. Some would say that he's not suffering anymore, which of course is a good feeling, but it does not make the sorrow any less painful. Rest in Peace my brother & say hi to Pat, Denny & your mom. Your friend & brother Chuck.
Debbie Applegate
February 9, 2012
Dear Nancy & Sheena, I tried to contact you before you came home. I knew. I am so sorry for another loss in your family. Brian was a strong and determined man.He fought a very difficult fight but unfortunately it was his time to go "home". Please extend my condolences to your family & especially Timmy. I'll never forget the great time we had when brian, timmy & maureen were at your house then the nieces & nephews. Beautiful memories. I love you both.
debbie applegate
February 9, 2012
To all of you, I can't begin to express my sympathy's! He surely struggled & is finally with your mom, denny & our dear Pat. I didn't know brian long, but i surely cared & loved him dearly. May God bless you all in this time of morning. Know that I keep you all in my prayers.
Chris & Laurie Rubessa
February 6, 2012
Dear Nancy, so sorry to hear about your brother Brian, Our deepest condolences to you and Sheena.... The Rubessa Family
Chris, Laurie, Christopher and Taro
Ninette Clark
January 27, 2012
With our deepest condolences...May the power of our Lord hold you all tight in his arms.
Sincerely;
The Moura Family
Michelle, Denise, Ninette, Monique, George and Nicole
Kathi Desilva
January 27, 2012
Brian was always a good friend to me! I miss u buddy! I think of U, Honky, and Timmy all the time. I miss u!
January 3, 2012
My BIG Brother Brian, Its been a month since I last seen you. I miss you so much you ment the world to Sheena and I. You put up such a fight something I am so proud of you for,But God called you hometo be with Mommy.
I rember the dream you had some time last summer.some thing you never remembered till that dream. You told me you were 7 years old and all the neighbors were so happy that the O'Neills bad a baby girl and you were so jealous of me, untill they put me in your arms and you fell in love with your little sister. That love never stoped! ...Till we meet again I think of you every day,I love you so very much...Your little sister, Nancy xoxoxoxo
December 31, 2011
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Brian giving me away at my wedding
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Brian and Wayne after a Mets game!
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Sheena's Godfather
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Brian and Rick
December 31, 2011
December 30, 2011
hey nancy sorry to hear what happen hope all is well take care john oconnor
carrollyne rappa
December 30, 2011
On viewing the photos of Brian I can't help but feel the warmth of his friendship to me,laughs good times oh so many years ago. I will remember him always My warmest regards to your family.
Cheryl Zahn
December 19, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Brian will be greatly missed!
Jane (Donley) Castner
December 13, 2011
To the O'Neill Family,
Sometimes it seems too much for one family.........Brian now watches from a different angle, so be strong. God Bless you all at this sad, sad time.
Nancy's Wedding
December 12, 2011
Sheena's Birthday
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Brian&Derek
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Brian&Joan
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Our deepest sympaty to the o'Neil family for your loss. I haven't seen Brian since school, but he always brought a smile to my face.. God Bless you and may he bring you comfort in this sad time.
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Denise Fredette
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Maria Pallante
December 10, 2011
Brian rest in Peace.Sorry for your lost Robin,children and O'Neill family.
Steve Wilson
December 10, 2011
To the entire O'Neill family, I would like to express my heartfelt sympathy and I share in your sorrow. Brian was always such a good guy,I remember the earley days hanging at Nick & Dels Pizza and his Robert Plant hair,such a cool guy.He will be sadly missed God Bless you Brian.
laurie Roberto
December 8, 2011
Our Hearts are with all of the ONeill family as the now suffer the loss of Brian,My heart is with Nancy,as I know how much she loved you Brian and cared for you when you needed her the most.rest in Peace Dear Friend your troubles are over...Snake and Laurie Roberto and Sons.
Donna Lambert
December 8, 2011
Brian and I shared the same birthday I thought of him every year.He was a big part of my life back in the day.My deepest Sympathy to his family.
Two of my best friends in the world
Born Bad
December 8, 2011
December 8, 2011
my deepest condolences to the family, Robin, Risa, Shea and Ryan. Brian was so proud of his children and always talking about them!
Barbara White
December 8, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the family. Brian was a great man and will be missed. God bless.
December 8, 2011
A true brother to me. Bill McGeachen
Wayne Mulligan
December 8, 2011
May the Lord be with you in your spirit
December 8, 2011
Deepest sympathy to the O'Neill family.
Brian will be missed.
Sincerly, Mr.& Mrs. Walter Kovacofsky
Class of '69
December 8, 2011
Prayers, thoughts and heartfelt sympathy to the O'Neill family. Brian was a great person and friend to many. He will truly be missed. God Bless. Luanne Wilson McCarthy (Harrod, OH)
Robert Ussmann
December 8, 2011
The song is ended, but the melody lingers on...
Irving Berlin
God Bless you Brian!
Denise Fredette
December 8, 2011
My deepest condolences to the O'Neill family. Brian was one of a kind and I will miss him dearly.
Dianne Lage
December 8, 2011
My heart bleeds for you and your family's sorrow:
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." (From a tombstone in Ireland)
God bless,
Dianne Lage
Bernie Meyer
December 8, 2011
To the O'Neill family, Iam very sorry for your loss. Brian was a good man and father. My prayers to him and the family.God Bless!
Diane Silvestri
December 8, 2011
My Deepest sympathy goes out to the entire O'Neill family. Brian will be missed.
Lydia Serafini
December 8, 2011
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow...So sorry for your loss Brian and all your brothers have been a joy in everyone that knew them thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need...God Bless...<3 Lydia Shayne Serafini
Donna Phillips Marini Citro
December 8, 2011
I'm so sorry for loss. Time will never let anyone of us forget Brian. He was a special man...
God Bless :-) :-)
SuzAnne Warner-Johnson
December 8, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the family. Brian was much admired, loved and will surely be missed by all who knew him.
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