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Gerald Hildebrandt Obituary
GERALD THOMAS
HILDEBRANDT
AGE: 41 BRADLEY BEACH
Gerald Thomas Hildebrandt, 41, of New York City and Bradley Beach, died on Wednesday, April 15, 2009, at Jersey Shore University Medical Center. Formerly of Glen Ridge and Normandy Beach, he graduated Glen Ridge High School, New Hampton Prep and Boston University. He was an actor and member of the Screen Actors Guild and attended William Espers School of Acting in New York City. He was also a member of The LA Fathomiers Hunting & Diving Club.
Surviving are his parents, Robert and Constance Hildebrandt of Bernardsville and Normandy Beach; his sister, Virginia Hildebrandt of New York City and Brick; three brothers, Robert and his wife Jennifer of Verona, David and his wife Toni Ann of Warrenville, Ronald and his wife Patricia of Bernardsville; and seven nieces and nephews, Nicholas, Robert, Jett, Cole, Allison, Katelyn and Brian.
Visitation will be on Friday, April 17 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at the Reilly Funeral Home, 801 D St., Belmar. Family and friends will gather at the funeral home on Saturday at 11 a.m. followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at the Church of the Ascension on Brinley Avenue in Bradley Beach at noon. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Surfrider Foundation Jersey Shore Chapter P.O. Box 760, Belmar N.J. 07719 (surfriderjsc.org) would be appreciated.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gerald Hildebrandt
Chip Wobeser
May 30, 2021
I don’t know what to say. In the, apparently, tens of thousands that went to Boston University, Gerry stood out to me immediately as someone I just had to be friends with. And we did just that. From the first weeks in school until the end we were buddies. My goodness, he was an absolute riot, and one of a kind. He also got me dialed in to life at the “shore,” in our first couple of summers which were unforgettable. We had so much fun there are stories and can’t even speak of. I guess you just had to be there, and you most likely weren’t. He was simply one of a kind. That’s it. I lost touch with Gerry, Fletch , Fran, Dominic and a few others from that core group of friends once we graduated. I tried to find him at the onset of social media with zero luck. Now here I am living in the middle of the pacific in 2021 and I try one last time. Not good. My heart feels heavy as I mound someone who has been gone for so long and I haven’t seen forever. Maybe that speaks volumes, or at least, I hope it does. He was a special person.
Mahalo, Chip Wobeser BU 1990
PS. How he passed a math class when he was told by the professor that he stood no chance, is a story for the ages. In fact, it could be a movie in it’s self. I love you Gerry. Your secret is safe with me!
April 2, 2010
Almost a year has past since Gerry died and I miss him just the same...My heart since his death has never felt quite the same..I look at his picture and feel profound joy annd would do anything to c him alive one more time...I hope where ever he is there is so much love and joy for this kind handsome angel ..love always michelle
Andrew Charas
September 26, 2009
To the Hildebrandt family:
I met Gerry through mutual friends in the film business about 15 years ago. Gerry was the only actor that I ever reached out a hand to help. This was because he was pure and genuine and he possessed a truly dignified character. He did not go through life thinking of what others could do for him, he was too busy being himself and doing for others. All of you should be extremely proud to have had a son and brother like Gerry. The gift that he gives us now and forever is his memory, and this is a truly great gift to bestow.
Nicole Cippoletti
September 4, 2009
To the Hildebrandt family, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Gerry. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry in NYC at Onieal's. His kindness, joviality and true freedom of spirit will always be with me.
Jimmy Drago
April 30, 2009
My prayers are with you during this time. I could never fully express all that your Gerry has meant to me. His impact and presence in my life will forever be ingrained and celebrated. And although I will miss him more than I can express, my head will NEVER hang for him. I will always look to the skies in my moments of recollection.
I extend my deepest sympathies to all of you.
maria martinez
April 27, 2009
I didn't know him but I've heard so many great things about him from friends who did - may he rest in peace and take the love he had while living -
Lydia Okaforagilo
April 26, 2009
Dear Hildebrandts-
My family and I send our deepest condolences to all of you at this difficult time. Gerry lit up a room with his warmth and laughter when he entered, and has always held a special place in our hearts throughout the years. Although it is most difficult for loved ones left behind, Gerry he has gone ahead to our Lord who has prepared a special place for him. He is sharing God's eternal promise at the side of Jesus Christ. We will continue to keep all of you in our thoughts & prayers.
With Love- The Sherry Family
Michelle/Corinne Frankie
April 23, 2009
Dearest Hildebrandts,
My sister Corinne and myself met Gerri @ Market in Middle fall 2006. Remebering upon first introduction, wanting to touch his hand, ironically he asked me to thumb wrestle and touching him forever opened my heart, as his wass so so so big.
Never in my life had I met such a beautiful beautiful man, he was kind to people, all people, to animals, and I hope in heaven he meets Sam his cat with the bell on his collar he treated like a child.
Gerri gave gave gave so much to everyone so selflessly. Connie it was so nice meeting u at Langosta i saw and felt in u so much of him, u are so kind just like he was.
Im going to miss that beautiful angel so so very much. All our love and prayers
Michelle and Corinne Frankie
April 23, 2009
To the Hildebrandt Family ,
I am so sorry about the loss of Gerry , I have great memories of him from HS, and will keep you all in my prayers. Beth Callahan Class of 85 GRHS
Amy Fitton
April 22, 2009
To David, Ronnie and Family, Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. This is a very difficult time, and Gerry will be sorely missed by so many. Please find comfort and support within your family members, and know that I am wishing for peace to find you. With love and support, Amy (Williams)Fitton
Renee (Stivale) Brandt
April 22, 2009
To The Hildebrandt Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
The Stivale's
Steve Schroeder
April 22, 2009
So sorry to hear about this. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Todd & Michelle Snyder
April 20, 2009
To the Hildebrandt family, we are so saddened by the loss of Gerry. He will always be remembered as a great friend who smiled all the time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
richard eckel
April 20, 2009
To the Hildebrandt family,
We are deeply saddened at Gerry's passing . We so enjoyed his wonderful company when he spent a vacation here with us in Trinidad with his friends and our son Gregory. We have him and your family in our thoughts and prayers . With love-- Richard and Juliet Eckel-- Port of Spain , Trinidad
Cain Dimon
April 19, 2009
The Hildebrandt Family,
I just heard this evening of Gerry's passing. I am sorry for your loss. I will always remember him at the Jersey Shore and Normandy Beach. He will be missed.
Vicki Cutlip
April 19, 2009
Dear Connie, Bob and Family,
I cannot express how sorry we were to learn today (Sunday, 4/20) that Gerry had passed. I always smiled when I thought of Gerry. He and your entire family were always full of life and laughter. He made our lives better just knowing him. We'll always think of him driving his Buick from Illinois!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I know you have wonderful memories to cherish.
Love, The Cutlip family
Trish and Jim Clark
April 19, 2009
Ron and Patty and family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Gerry. As you know we know exactly what you are going through. Please, if there is anything we can do let us know. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lauren O'Keefe (Babcock)
April 19, 2009
To David & Family,
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Gerry. My mom just told me this afternoon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you all.
Rob Manley
April 19, 2009
To the Hildebrandt Family -
All my memories of Gerry at 162 Ridgewood Ave. are very fond and will always be in my heart. May god bless Gerry and the rest of you.
Love, Rob Manley
PATRICE NOYES
April 18, 2009
TO THE HILDEBRANDT FAMILY---
WE ARE DEEPLY SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF GERRY.
CARL AND I WERE HONERED TO ATTEND THE CELEBRATIONS OF GERRY'S LIFE. THE WAKE--FUNERAL--AND REPASS WERE TRUE EXAMPLES OF A LIFE WELL LIVED AND LOVED.
LOVE
THE NOYES FAMILY
Bobby Banks
April 18, 2009
Ronnie & Family,
I am so saddened to hear about the loss of Gerry. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you ride in peace Gerry.
"Betsy" / Beth Moser
April 17, 2009
Being a typical Moser, I am sad-end and yet knowing Gerry and all his faith, he truly is in a better place. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Only fond memories : )
Dana Williams
April 17, 2009
I wish to give all of you the same love and support you gave me during my loss. I know that Gerry was a very important part of Tommy's life, a sudo younger brother. Now they can be together again in a place where there is no pain, just peace. I can't put into words how sorry I am that you are all experiencing this loss. Time will ease the pain, anger, hurt, and emptiness. I feel better knowing that we will all have two wonderful guardian angels looking out for all of us. You are all in my thoughts. Much love always.
Maria DeVito
April 17, 2009
To the Hildebrant Family,
I was so saddened to hear about your son Gerald. God bless all of you.
Maria DeVito, Oro Hair Studio
Tara Pallante
April 17, 2009
Bob, Jenn & Family,
"To everything there is a season." (Eccl 3:1)
My heart is truly saddened for your loss. I pray God's peace, comfort, and strength upon all of your lives during this difficult time. Call upon Him and He will answer. "They that sow in tears Shall Reap in Joy." (Psalm 126:5)
Alexander Laverde
April 17, 2009
God bless you on your new journey you were always a stand up Man...You will be missed
The Cerbo Family
April 17, 2009
Ronnie, Patty, Connie, Bob & the rest of the Hildebrandt family,
Our heartfelt condolences to all of you for your loss. May the happy memories that you have of Gerry help you through this very difficult time.
Bob, Amy, Brooke, and Matt
April 17, 2009
I have fond memories growing up with Gerry and all the holidays we spent with the family. Gerry was full of energy and everyday was an adventure. Our deepest sympathies to the entire Hildebrandt family.
Theresa Tapke
April 17, 2009
Even though its been years since ive seen Geri ill always remember that amazing personality he had and the cuteness and smile that would make u melt inside. He also had an amazing frienship between him n his buddy dave that i hope lasted throughout all these years they were like brothers to each other . May god bless u Geri and give ur family the strength to get through this most difficult time and cherish all the memories u gave them to live on each and every day of their lives . My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
April 17, 2009
To the entire Hildebrandt family-
My deepest condolences. You are, and always will be amongst our closest of friends. Gerry was a genuine person. I will never forget the times we had growing up in Glen Ridge.
Marc Stuzynski and family.
Paul Volpe
April 17, 2009
My sincerest condolences & sympathies to the Hildebrandt Family
Maura ("Little McGlock")
April 17, 2009
My family had the good fortune to know Gerry and his family growing up in Glen Ridge and down at the shore. My warmest thoughts and prayers are with all of the Hildebrandts and Gerry's friends during this very difficult time. Fond and very funny memories of Gerry will live on for all of us whose lives he touched. He will be greatly missed by many.
Kathleen Gaffney
April 17, 2009
Dear Connie, Bob & family,
I send you my condolences at this most difficult time. I remember Gerry as a Middle School student sitting in the General Music class. I was so very sad to hear of his passing.
Connie, you and I have shared before and I know your faith will carry you through. "The Lord is our strength and an ever present help in time of trouble."
I send my love and prayers to each member of your family.
Kathleen Gaffney (Benyo)
Heather and Andrew
April 17, 2009
Geri's friendship with my brother in law and sister, Fletcher and Fran, warms my heart. May God bless Geri's family and friends with wonderful memories of his life. Our deepest sympathy to all.
Brennan 6 Nurses
April 17, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Stephen Miller
April 17, 2009
To the entire Hildebrandt family, my sincerest condolences on your loss, may the Lord take Gerald into his loving hands, and comfort the family. Gerald , rest in peace.
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