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Kevin Cox Obituary
AGE: 59 • Naples, FL
Kevin P. Cox, 59 of Naples Florida, passed away suddenly on Saturday, Sept. 28, 2013, while vacationing in Paris, France. We take comfort knowing he was with his loving, supportive companion, Jane Kelly. Kevin was born on March 18, 1954 in Manhattan, NY and raised in Meier's Corners, Staten Island, NY. He later moved to the Jersey Shore residing in Bradley Beach, Belmar and Sea Girt. Kevin frequently returned to the Jersey Shore to be with family and friends.
Kevin was a graduate of Monsignor Farrell HS, Staten Island. Kevin attended Manhattan College and LIU College of Brooklyn while he pursued his nursing degree at St. Vincents Nursing School in SI, NY. Kevin's nursing career included Staten Island Hospital, Bayley Seton Hospital and St. Vincents Hospital where he eventually became an instructor at the "St. Vinny's" Nursing School. Kevin also followed in his father PJ's footsteps and joined the NYPD, assigned to the 68 pct. He later proudly retired at the rank of Sergeant.
Kevin was predeceased by his father, Patrick J. Cox and his mother, Marcella (nee Kitson). The oldest of 9 children, Kevin is survived by his eight brothers and sisters: brothers, Patrick Cox of El Segundo CA, Timothy & Lorraine Cox of Freehold, Richard Cox of NYC, James and Jill Cox of Neptune; sisters, Marcella and Jack Icovino of Brick, Therese and Lou Errichiello of Howell, Elizabeth Cox of Old Bridge, and Annemarie and Joseph Gulino of Middletown. He is also survived by 18 nieces and nephews; his companion, Jane Kelly and her son, Jack Kelly of Fort Meyers, Florida.
"KC" loved the Jersey Shore. He could always be spotted riding his bike along the beach and stopping at his favorite hangouts. Kevin loved to travel and as a longtime member of the Staten Island Ski Club, Kevin organized many memorable ski trips around the world. Kevin was a huge NY Yankee fan, traveling to spring training and many ballparks around the country. Kevin was loved by many and he will be sadly missed by all his family and friends.
Family and friends are invited to visit from 4 to 8 p.m. Friday, Oct. 11, 2013 at Ely Funeral Home in Neptune, NJ (*under the direction of Reilly Funeral Home of Belmar). A funeral mass will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday, Oct. 12 at Holy Innocents Church, Neptune. Donations to The Wounded Warrior Foundation in Kevin's memory would be greatly appreciated.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kevin Cox
Carol P
November 8, 2013
What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller
Kevin will always in my heart.
James Cox
November 6, 2013
Thank you to all KC's friends in the Naples Area who reached out to our family. Our loss is made easier knowing he had great friends and neighbors from NY,NJ, and FLA!
Anthony Barone
November 5, 2013
Still feel bad when I pass Kevin's house on the corner.Not the same in the pool too.
Ann & Allen Richards
October 11, 2013
Kevin's family, Jane and many friends---we are so sad & shocked at Kevin's leaving us. As a Carlton Lakes, Naples, Fl neighbor, we will miss seeing him--especially, our long talks on many subjects he knew. Recently (2 days before going on trip)we talked at length about favorite NJ shore places. Having also just returned from NJ and being at the shore area, we spoke of "Sandy" recovery and places never to be the same again. Also of his drive back to Fl and now packing for Paris trip and said we'd talk of Paris next time we spoke...ahhhhh. Kevin loved his life and family and has left us too soon. Peace be with you kind neighbor. Ann & Al Richards
Al Somma
October 10, 2013
To Kevin's partner, family. My sympathy I'm still in shock when I opened the Staten Island newspaper. Kevin& I talked about old time past ski trips we enjoyed around the world . At a N.J. Shore bar in Avon by the sea. This summer. Thanks for the memories Kevin will miss you pal.
October 10, 2013
There will quite a crowd of your cousins and friends to see you on your way,
Cousin Hank
Tom & Debbie Raposa
October 10, 2013
We had the opportunity to meet Kevin through Jane. He was a friendly, easy-going person...a tragic loss to all. We send our sincere condolences.
Deborah & Maxx
Deborah Johnson
October 10, 2013
To Kevin's partner, family, & friends:
Please know that you have my sympathy and loving support. I am one of Kevin's many Carlton Lakes-Naples, Florida neighbor & friend. He was such a kind and gentle man who will be deeply missed. ~Deborah Johnson
Andrea Barone
October 10, 2013
So sorry to hear about Kevin. We enjoyed his company by the pool in Carlton Lakes. My condolences to the family.
Andrea Barone
October 10, 2013
So sorry to hear about Kevin. We enjoyed his company at the pool. He will be missed.
Tom/Judy Sabin
October 10, 2013
We have just heard of the sudden loss of Kevin. His friends and neighbors from Carlton Lakes are so sad to learn of his death. We will miss him at our parties, at the pool, and watching him ride up and down the street on his bike. Such an interesting person with a varied career and large family, he will be missed.
Sincere condolences to all who loved him......
Jane Kelly
October 10, 2013
Leah....you were an angel that day in Paris....thank you for being with me....Kevin must have sent you....he will be greatly missed...Jane
James Cox
October 10, 2013
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Anthony Barone
October 10, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about Kevin. I knew Kevin for only a short time. We spent time in the pool in Naples talking about Brooklyn and many other subjects.I'm sure his other friends in Naples feel the same sadness too.
Liz Cox
October 9, 2013
My brother kevin,
Still a shock that you are gone. You were taken too soon. We didn't have enough time with you as a family To all Kevin's friends in Naples and Fort Meyers Fla.. Kevin was a great, kind brother. We will miss him immensly and he will be forever in our hearts. Our Big Brother, the oldest of the 9 Crazy Cox Kids, We will Miss you!
Until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of his hand. Give Mommy and Daddy a kiss in Heaven. I love you, your sister, #6 Liz. XOXO
Leah Walters
October 9, 2013
This is for Jane...my name is Leah and I was with you in the airport in Paris. I have been thinking about you and Kevin everyday since that day. I was hoping to find the obituary in the Naples paper. Prayers to you and all of Kevin's family. I was so sad to leave you that day alone in the airport. I hope they continued to take good care of you. God bless
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