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Neil Dowling Obituary

Neil F. Dowling

AGE: 45 • Wilmington, DE

Neil F. Dowling, 45, of Wilmington, Delaware passed away on Saturday, March 19, 2011 at home with family members by his side. Born and raised in NJ, Neil was a graduate of Brookdale Community College with a BS in Computer Science. He was most recently employed by JP Morgan Chase & Co. and held various positions in Information Technology during his career. He was a loyal N.Y. Giant and Yankee fan and enjoyed music, movies and trivia games. Neil was a devoted son, brother and uncle and will be greatly missed. Neil is survived by his mother, Maureen J. Dowling of Avon, NJ; his sister, Delia and her husband Thomas M. Basil, Jr. of Galloway, NJ; his brothers, William R. of Ocean, NJ, Lawrence F. of Wilmington, De. and James E. and his wife Claudia of Keller, Tx. Neil is also survived by his beloved nephews, Reagan and Christian Basil; his nieces, Anna and Rose Dowling and Amanda Dowling. He was preceded in death by his loving father, William R. Dowling.

Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial in honor of Neil on Friday, March 25th from 11am to 12:30pm in Buckley Funeral Home, 509 Second Ave., Asbury Park, NJ. Interment to follow at Saint Catharine's Cemetery, Sea Girt, NJ. In lieu of flowers, donations on Neil's behalf can be made to the Avon First Aid Squad in honor of the town he loved.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Mar. 23, 2011.

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April 20, 2011

In loving memory of Neil F. Dowling, a devoted son, loving brother and uncle.We will love and miss you always. Neil will never be forgotten but will live on in our hearts so that we can go on. We love you Neil, we always have and we always will.I miss you more than words can say. Love,Dedee

April 5, 2011

Dear Maureen and family,
My Uncle Bobby Murphy just sent me the notice of your son's death. I am so very sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Marie (quinlan) Marzolla

Susan Clark

March 28, 2011

Dear Aunt Maureen, Billy, Delia, Larry, Jay and families,

I really wish we could have been there with you all this week. You and Neil have been on our minds and in our hearts these past months.

Thank you for posting the FB photos -- They are great! I especially like the prom shot. I remember Neil that way!

Sending you much love from your cousins in Tanzania.

xox Susan and family

March 28, 2011

our deepest condolences
francis hennessey and family(gts)

Jay Dowling

March 27, 2011

I love & miss you Neil, you always have been a great man, brother & friend. I am so proud of you and how you handled adversity...you are the very best.

Jay

Diane Dowling

March 24, 2011

A kind, loving, gentle soul in the arms of the angels now & forever. I believe Neil is at peace and with us always. Amanda's Uncle & my baby Brother,

Felix McNamara

March 23, 2011

Mrs Dowling and Family,

So sorry for your great loss you our
in our prayers.
Felix,Mom and Dad

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