Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

AK Macagna Funeral Home

495 Anderson Ave.

Cliffside Park, New Jersey

Robert Aslanian Obituary

Robert M. Aslanian ("Bobby Lane")

October 4, 1942 - April 20, 2020

Beloved son, brother, cousin, devoted friend and mentor to many, passed away April 20, 2020. Robert was a warm and loving presence to all that knew and loved him and his absence will be deeply felt forever.

Robert M. Aslanian, professionally known as Bobby Lane, was born with music in his soul and enjoyed a long and successful career as a musician, performing individually, with the Bobby Lane Trio and other talented musicians. His childhood love of the guitar remained his passion throughout his lifetime. Bob was also an accomplished music teacher and taught many people the art of playing the guitar with many of his students achieving substantial success in the music profession as the result of his talent, teachings and mentoring. In addition to his love of the guitar, recording, and entertaining the public, Bob greatly enjoyed hosting pool and other parties at his residence in Forked River, New Jersey so friends and family could enjoy each other and he could share with us his love of laughter, fun, music, food and people. Robert was proud of his Armenian heritage and a man of faith with a deep devotion to the Armenian Church and its guiding principles. During his lifetime, he helped many people in their pursuit of a better life and his love of people and animals was a reflection of his dedication to a life guided by the spirit of God and the heart. To know Bob was to love him. His profound kindness, caring, generosity and gentle spirit will always be remembered in the hearts of all the people he touched.

Survived by beloved brother Antranig Aslanian, Jr. (Andy), cousins Raymond Berberian, Wayne Van Eyk, Paul Van Eyk, (whom Bob loved as brothers) significant other Iris Syvarth, and his cherished German Shepherd Robbie.

Due to the current restrictions, a memorial service will be held at a later date. Internment shall be private and presided by A.K. Macagna Funeral Home on April 28, 2020.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press from Apr. 27 to Apr. 28, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Aslanian

Sponsored by AK Macagna Funeral Home.

Not sure what to say?





Ralph Kerr

August 17, 2023

I was a student of Bob's in 1969-1970 period when I was a teenager and we were both living in northern New Jersey. I went to his place numerous times for lessons and got to know him well. I especially remember an exchange we had about Eric Clapton's playing.
I have not seen him in decades and recently found the notebook that he used to record song chords and melodies by hand. This led me to discover that he had passed away. He was a wonderful musician and teacher and set me on a path of love for the guitar and jazz music that I still have today. Thank you, Bob for being such a great teacher.

Bert Wesler

February 26, 2022

It saddens me to learn of passing of this unsung giant of a musician.
I feel blessed that he was my teacher.
One of his famed students, Al Di Meola was kind enough to introduce me to Bob when Al could no longer teach me due to being signed to "Return to Forever.
That you Bob for taking me on.
It is a blessing I will never forget.
Rest in peace, dear soul.

George Hicswa

November 28, 2020

Bob, you were one of my favorite fellow musicians that I enjoyed playing gigs with. We are sad to hear of your passing. My wife and I danced to your music at the shore and had a great time listening and talking to you. Rest in Peace, my brother.

K.Dildine

October 16, 2020

Bob was a forever friend.
I am heartbroken to read of his passing.
He always had such a great smile and good advice.
His music made everyone happy.
Always in my heart Bob.

Charlie Palmerin

October 6, 2020

Such a great person and friend.
We shared the same birthday & Bob got a kick from calling me at midnight or later... When he didn’t call I had a bad feeling.
Bob, Rest In Peace & I’ll see you again in heaven.

Beth Bonomo

April 28, 2020

Rest in Peace, Bobby Lane. Your performances gave so much pleasure for so many years to so many. A tough act to follow.

Jacqueline Harms

April 28, 2020

So, so many wonderful memories of Bobby, spent every weekend at the Quality Inn with my significant other, dancing to his wonderful voice and music. Also the Sundays spent at his pool, with great food, friends and him at the mic entertaining us. RIP my dear fried, we have been left with wonderful memories.

BettyAnn Bleakley

April 28, 2020

I am sorry to see this sad news. I heard Bobby perform at several events and had him entertain us for my husband's 40th birthday party. We all loved him. May they be singing together in heaven now. Thanks for the memories.

Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results

Make a Donation
in Robert Aslanian's name

Memorial Events
for Robert Aslanian

Apr

28

Funeral services provided by:

AK Macagna Funeral Home

495 Anderson Ave., Cliffside Park, NJ 07010

How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Robert Aslanian's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more