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ROBERT "BART" FLETCHER
AGE: 24 WHOSE UNCLE LIVES IN UNION
Robert "Bart" Fletcher, 24, of Jensen Beach, Fla., passed away Monday, Sept. 8, in Fort Hood, Texas, while serving his country honorably in the U.S. Army. Bart obtained the rank of first lieutenant. He had completed his first tour in Iraq, preparing for his second tour of duty. Bart was born May 16, 1984 in Elmira, N.Y. He attended Martin County High School, graduating in 2002. He was very active in the Martin County High School Band playing the saxophone. Bart attended Indian River Community College, graduating in 2004, then attending the University of Florida, graduating in 2006 with a degree in Political Science and Diplomatic Relations. Throughout his college career, Bart maintained a grade point average of 4.0.
Bart is survived by his mother, Ginny Luther and her husband Jack of Jensen Beach, Fla.; his father, James E. Fletcher and his wife Linda of Horsehead, N.Y.; a brother, Nicolaas Fletcher of Atlanta, Ga.; a stepsister, Kristy Martin of Elmira, N.Y.; a stepbrother, John Luther of Orlando, Fla.; four uncles, Gordon Hannah and his wife Linda of Stuart, Fla., John Hannah and his wife Linda of Union, Mark Hannah of Milford, Conn., and Tom Fletcher of Elmira, N.Y.; and three nephews, Brandon, Kameron, and Caden. Bart also leaves behind his loving fiancée, Katie Stitely of Palm City, Fla.
Calling hours will be from 2 to 2:45 p.m. Sunday at Aycock Funeral Home, 950 NE Jensen Beach Blvd., Jensen Beach, Fla., with memorial services to follow at 4 p.m. at First Baptist Church of Jensen Beach, 1400 NE Jensen Beach Blvd., Jensen Beach. Donations may be made in Bart's memory to Robert B. Fletcher Memorial Fund, Contact Karen Davis King for details, (772) 223-8249.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Fletcher
Chuck & Kim Pope
September 22, 2008
Our most sincere condolences . . .
Great friends
1LT Ross Mahne
September 17, 2008
I am truly going to miss you. It seemed like only yesterday we started our career together at Fort Sill and then at Knox. I was still looking forward to us going through Selection together and then open up the company we were talking about. You are a great friend and I am truly going to miss you, I just wish we had more time together.
lori kevin and keri geier
September 16, 2008
May God be your strength - Words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. Bart will always be special and never forgotten.
Bart at the Armor Officer Basic Course dinning-in before graduation
September 16, 2008
1LT Shane Quinty
September 16, 2008
Bart was an awesome friend and an incredible person. Thanks for all the help and joy you brought to my life man. Things will never be the same with out you. You still owe me that drink you promised and I miss you.
1LT Jeffrey Johnson
September 16, 2008
Tell Katie to keep her head up!
Get a hold of me if you need anything.
Marta, Cecilia, Adriana Moreno
September 15, 2008
Ginny, Jack and Nick,
The news of Bart's passing has saddened us so much. Bart was an example to all of living life to the fullest. Our love an prayers are with all of you.
April and Michael Lopuch
September 14, 2008
We had just seen Jim in Watkins Glen, New York, and asked how the boys were doing. Jim said Nick was doing well, and there were a couple places Bart may be deployed, and he was hoping for the safer of the two. Receiving the call was so unexpected after Bart had been in such a dangerous place to fall in the line of duty at home. Not unexpected that he was performing his job and doing the right thing. Bart, though young, is an example for how all of us should try to lead our lives. He was always smiling, and just such a joy to be around.
Bart’s friends and family are in our hearts and thoughts.
1LT Tyler Weightman
September 14, 2008
In memorium,
I attended the University of Florida with Bart and knew him through the Army ROTC program. I cannot say we were close friends or spent any time together outside of cadet functions. I cannot say I knew him well. I can say this: Bart was a good person. He invested time in other cadets and always wore a smile. I not surprised to hear he earned his commission despite his heart condition. This was his nature; steadfast and determined. The United States Army, and our world in general, is a colder place from his death. Though we never served together, I am sure Bart made a fine leader.
Please take comofort in Christ during this time of grieving. Matthew 5:4 says, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Why was such a promising life apparently cut short? Only God can answer this question. May He that can wipe away every tear clasp your family in the palm of His hand.
John and Celeste Li
September 13, 2008
Bart,
You have no idea how much you have helped parents all up and down the East Coast of FL and all around the US thru your parenting lessons you taught your mom....We salute you.
Ginny and Jack, We love you guys and are praying for you....
Carol McDonald
September 13, 2008
Ginny, Jack & family - We are so very saddened to learn of Bart's passing; a wonderful, bright, ambitious young man who loved his family and his country. Bart was like a second son to us; he spent many days in our home in Elmira. Bart, you will never be forgotten, you will shine in our hearts and minds forever. Please know that our deepest prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Carol, David, Anthony & Andrea
Lindy and Paul DiPietro
September 13, 2008
Ginny and Jack,
I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. Just know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful man he became!
Love to you!
Bob & Nancy, MaryAnn, and John Lopuch
September 13, 2008
Henry & Linda and Family-
We are so, so sorry to hear of your son's untimely passing. It was quite a shock when MaryAnn told us of Linda's call to her. We send you our sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathies. We're sure Bart was a wonderful young man. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
With love from-
Michael & Jennifer Lackey
September 13, 2008
We are shocked and saddened about this unfortunate loss. Fletcher was a great guy and a great Soldier. He always strived for perfection and he always succeeded. He had a huge heart and was not afraid to show it. His big heart was easily noticed when he was around Katie. It was obvious to all that he truly loved her. Fletcher, not only did you set the standard as a Soldier, you also set the standard as a person. We will pray for Bart, Katie and his family.
brian Laux & Michael Wurtzman
September 13, 2008
Ginny and family - Henry and family.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your son.
Brian Laux
Michael Wurtzman
Bart and his family March 2008
September 13, 2008
Amy Jansson
September 13, 2008
How does one put into words how sorry I am for the loss your family has suffered. Bart was such a wonderful young man and will be greatly missed. I am so glad that we all had a chance to see each other, even if only for a few short hours, while I was in the states in March. I miss you all and wish I could be with you in person, but know that I am with you in spirit and prayers.
Love to you all,
Amy and family
Cindy Fellabom
September 13, 2008
Ginny and family,
I am holding you in my heart and wishing you well. I will attend in spirit tomorrow, as I must be home with my boys. Our country is blessed to have had the honor of Bart's service. God Bless you and comfort you.
Love,
Cindy and Boys
Brian and Debbie Schmidt & family
September 13, 2008
Dear Family of Bart,
We are so saddened by the news of Bart's passing. Even though we didn't know him personally, we know how blessed he was to have had such a loving family. When we ran into Ginny this past Spring at the Stuart art show, it was like the 12+ years since preschool at J.B. Elementary had completely disolved and we were right back there again. We know the impact you had on my daughter and family back then and the huge heart you have for others. He was blessed to have experienced true love. Heartfelt Sympathy,
DEBBIE PEQUIGNOT
September 13, 2008
I DON'T KNOW ANY OF YOU,I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. THANK YOU SO MUCH MUCH FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR ALL OF US THAY DON'T KNOW YOU. THANKS!!!!!!!! KEEP GOD CLOSE TO YOUR HEART..
Sidney S. Graubard
September 13, 2008
To the family of Bart.
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Although, I did not have the privilege & honor of knowing Bart, when I looked at his photograph in the (Elmira) Star-Gazette & having served from 1954 to 1955 at Fort Hood, Texas with the 4th Armored Division, I immediately felt a connection with him. He made the ultimate sacrifice for his country. Thank you for bringing such a fine young man into the world.
Gary Steinhilper
September 12, 2008
Ginny and Jack
So very about your loss dont worrie about Bart Iam sure mom is looking out for him and helping if needed.Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Gary and Barb Steinhilper and family Pine City N.Y.
Ann Crary
September 12, 2008
Like so many, I want to be able to say something that will be helpful and supportive. What I do know is that without Bart we wouldn't have had Ginny helping us understand what conscious parenting is all about. Her support and influence has changed my life and my families life in an extraordinary way. I remember Ginny saying " if you had easy children, you wouldn't be here" Bart was a beautiful example of someone who didn't 'fit the mold' but someone who accomplished great things in life. The fact that his life was taken at the age of 24 doesn't change what he accomplished or the impact he had on all of us. God Bless
John & Kathy Mustico
September 12, 2008
Henry, I was shocked to hear of Bart's untimely passing. I know how proud you were of Bart and his accomplishments. I believe his light will continue to shine in your life. Time will help, grieve for him and share the joy of his life.
L.D.S.
September 12, 2008
Broken Dreams
As children bring their broken toys with tears to us to mend,
I brought my broken dreams to God because He was my friend.
But instead of leaving him in peace to work alone,
I hung around and tried to help with ways that were my own.
At last I snatched them back and cried "How could be so slow!!"
"My child", he said "What could I do, you never did let go!!!"
Kate Baker (Epstein)
September 12, 2008
Ginny and family, Henry and family,
I am so very sorry, shocked and saddened to read about Bart. I am sad for your loss and the circumstances. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you find comfort and peace
Kurt & Marcia Bischoff
September 12, 2008
Dearest Jinny and Jack,
We were just devistated when we read about Bart's death in the newspaper, and can't imagine how this tragedy is affecting you. We know how much he wanted to serve his country and his death in such a manner is so hard to understand. Our prayers are with you.
Debbie Crowder
September 12, 2008
Ginny,
My heart is heavy for you & your family. As the mother of two grown sons, I find it hard to even imagine the pain you must be feeling. It's been a long time since we worked together doing pre-k evals, but I do remember you speaking proudly about Bart. Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers.
Dale Kostakos
September 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Bart Fletcher. My sincere thanks for his loyal service to our country. May God wrap his arms around Bart and hold him in his comfort and peace. He will be missed.
Dawn and Captain Lance Ware
September 12, 2008
Family of Lt. Fletcher, My husband is in Lt Fletcher's Unit. He said he was a good man. You all have our deepest sympathies during this difficult time. This by far, is the most difficult thing in life for a child to go before your parents and for Katie to loose her life partner. We also lost our daughter- she was almost 15 years old and hit by an 18 wheeler truck while running cross country practice. This was March 5, 2007. If it is any comfort to you- know that things will get better as you go thru your grief journey. Even though your Bart is in heaven, he will always be with you. Love never dies. Grief is like the weather. While some days are very stormy, others may have brief rain showers. Know that the sun continues its promise to shine.
Our deepest sympathies,
Dawn and Captain Lance Ware, 2/8 CAV
Emily Ingraham
September 12, 2008
I knew Bart in high school, and even though we didn't keep in contact after, I will always remember him as the great guy that he was! My condolences to Family and Friends of Bart, he will be missed by many... RIP
Dan Mc Donald
September 12, 2008
To Bart's entire family, Bart's loss is felt by all who knew him and you, may your grief be lessen by knowing he is looking down on you now.
Mattydale Fire Department
September 12, 2008
The Officers and Members
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Mattydale Fire Department
join in extending
Heartfelt Sympathy
to you and your family at this
Time of Sorrow.
Thank You for your service to our Country.
September 12, 2008
So very sorry for your loss~ May God bless you and your family, for having raised such an unselfish son! He is a true American Hero!
Beth Taft
September 12, 2008
To the Family of Bart
I'm so sorry for your loss, your son, brother, nephew, friend is a HERO and will always be remebered. Thank you for your sacrafice and thank you Bart for fighting for our freedom. God Bless all of you
Chris and Mina Hamilton
September 11, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Bart's and Katie's family and friends. There are no words that we can say that will do him justice. Bart was a genuine, honest and just all around great man. He will be greatly missed.
Michael Coleman, Bart Fletcher, James Darlson - June 13, 2008
Charlyn Coleman
September 11, 2008
Ginny, Jack and family,
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I last saw Bart at Michael's assignment night in June at Vance AFB. He came up to me, gave me a big hug and said, "How's it going, Mom?" I have pictures of him on my photo frame at work from that night. I still remember all the times the boys were playing in the Stuart Middle School jazz band and going to their performances. I am so sorry for your loss.
Allison McKenna
September 11, 2008
My prayers go to Lt Fletcher's family. I heard of this tradegy shortly after it happened Monday from a former fellow soldier. I, too served in Fort Hood in 1st CAV and will be attending the memorial, Sunday, out of respect for a fellow 1st CAV Soldier. God Bless you all and know he is watching and smiling upon you from above.
Don Fillingim
September 11, 2008
All of us in the Fort Hood area are deeply saddened about losing such a great patriot. My prayers and prayers of thousands of other people go to God for you. May God through Jesus give you comfort and strength.
Elizabeth Seaman
September 11, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Bart. He was a great friend from sixth grade until we went our seperate ways at IRCC. I wish I could be there in person on Sunday. But I will be thinking of his entire family.
A M
September 11, 2008
Thank you Robert Fletcher for serving this country. May God's love heal the hearts of your family & bring joy back to them.
Dave Fletcher
September 11, 2008
Such a tragic loss.
Our prayers are with Bart's entire family during this time.
Having seen him last at his Grandfather's funeral in March 2007, it was obvious then he was a special, special person.
Dave and Louise Fletcher,
cousins
Kristin & Peter Sides
September 11, 2008
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Bart. He was an amazing young man and it is truly a great loss. Your family is in our prayers.
C P Family
September 11, 2008
My heart goes out to the family of Bart. He was a true hero. May God bless his family and keep you safe in His hands. Bart is with God and watching over you all. Peace be with you.
Jan and Greg scirrotto
September 11, 2008
As members of the Concious Discipline family we feel we have had the great privalege of knowing Bart. Ginny has shared with all of us Barts' accomplishments, especially relating to the decision to serve his country. We all could hope to have the kind of relationship Bart had with his Mom. What a legacy Ginny, you have so much to be proud of. Our deepest most heartfelt sympathies go out to your entire family. You have the amazing gift to heal families, we hope we can do the same for you.
With all our love,
Jan and Greg Scirrotto
Derek Thomas
September 11, 2008
It's important that we live every day like it's our last; live the dream. Lt Fletcher lived his lifetime dream. He left us early, but he left with his dreams fulfilled and that's important. He IS a hero.
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