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Robert Underhill Obituary
AGE: 58 • Wall
Robert S. Underhill, 58, of Wall, was born June 21, 1955 in Point Pleasant and passed at home on Saturday, Aug. 17, 2013 after a brave and stoic 2 year battle with cancer. Bob grew up in Brielle, NJ and attended Manasquan High School then went on to receive his Criminal Justice degree from Northeastern University in Boston. From there he earned his Law Degree from Temple University in Philadelphia and went on to practice law for thirty years, spending the last 17 with the firm Greenbaum, Rowe, Smith and Davis in Woodbridge, NJ. Bob had many interests, all of which he put his heart and soul into. He was an Eagle Scout, avid sailor on the Manasquan River where he was the Commodore of the Manasquan River Yacht Club. He loved soccer whether participating or officiating or coaching his boys. Anything his sons Bobby, John and Patrick did, he was there to support them wholeheartedly, be it wrestling, soccer or music. His Sunday afternoons were always spent at U.J.'s garage cheering on his beloved Jets with the "boys." As a member of the Pipes and Drums of the Jersey Shore he performed regularly as the bass drummer and was a proud member of the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh Club. Music and beer were his passion and he was glad to share his expertise with anyone and everyone!
Whether you knew him as Goob, Dad, Pop, Bob, Uncle Goober or even as a casual friend, no one will ever forget him and he will be sorely missed. He is predeceased by his father, Henry Melvin Underhill Jr. He is survived by his loving wife of 36 years, Mary Lou Ivins Underhill; his sons, Patrick, John, and Robert, his daughter-in-law, Maryanne Underhill who live in Brick with their children, Margaret and Charlotte; his mother, Matilda Robcke Underhill and mother-in-law, Joan Ivins; his brother and sister-in-law, Henry and Deborah Underhill; his sister, Nancy Richardson; his sister and brother-in-law, Sue and Jimmy Hindman, and his many nieces and nephews, cousins and his many friends.
Services will be held on Saturday, August 24th from 10am-2pm at Orender Family Home for Funerals, 2643 Old Bridge Road, Manasquan. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Carmie Brady Foundation, PO Box 91, Manasquan, NJ 08736, a charity close to the family's heart. To send condolences to the family or obtain directions to the funeral home please visit www.orenderfamilyhome.com.
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Janet Silver
September 16, 2013
I knew Bob professionally, we represented clients adverse to one another. He was a strong creative advocate, unfailingly prepared, knowledgeable and collegial; a pleasure to deal with. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.
Katie Winters
September 6, 2013
Lou Lou,I was shocked and saddened to learn of Goob's passing.Sorry I was unable to say my goodby in person. You guys have always been like family to me and all my love is with all of you. Please convey my love to Tillie,Joanie,Jimbo and Sue and especially all the kids. Goob will be deeply missed,but I will always remember the joy and laughter he always brought to the party!I truly loved him.My prayers are with you.
Gary Furey
August 26, 2013
The world has lost one of the good guys. It was an honor to have played and coached with Bob. We spent a lot of sunday mornings together with the Wall Mens Soccer Team. My prayers go out to his Wife and Family.
Gary F
August 23, 2013
Bob was the first person I met in the band. He was so warm and welcoming on that first night. He was a gentlemen and a scholar. I hope that all your fun memories will sustain you through this sad time. God Bless.
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August 23, 2013
I worked with Bob at GRS since the day he joined the firm back in 1996. He was very involved with my accounting dept. and I speak for all of the "girls" in there when I say that he will be terribly missed. He was always smiling, always a gentleman and by far one of our favorite attorneys.
August 22, 2013
We are so very sad to hear this terrible news. Bob was taken way before his time. We share your grief with heavy hearts. The Petruzels
August 22, 2013
So very sad hearing this terrible news. Bob was taken way before his time and we share your grief with heavy hearts. The Petruzels
August 21, 2013
our prayers and sorrows go out to the UNDERHILL family tillys friends from the van Lions Head North
August 21, 2013
Sorry to hear about Goob's passing. I'll never forget the summer of. '68 with Nancy and her wonderful family.
Lynda
August 21, 2013
To the entire Underhill Family - I am so sad to hear of Goob's passing. I have wonderful Shore memories of Nancy's little brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Barbara Jones Vaughan
Dianne Stanek
August 20, 2013
Marylou and boys. So about your loss. I remember your boys and u well. May god give u peace to get Thru this most difficult time!
August 20, 2013
We were so sorry to hear of Goober's paasing. The entire Underhill Family (Mel, Tilly, Nancy, Henry and Bobbie) have always been a big part of our family's Shore life.
Ginny, Rich and Sharon Wiedmann
Goob, Nancy and Henry
August 20, 2013
Uncle Bob, Bobby and Kelle :)
Kelle Richardson
August 20, 2013
Uncle Bob's passing is a devastating loss. My heart breaks for the entire Underhill family, friends, and people whose lives were touched by Goob. There was never anyone as cool as my Uncle Bob. He was the one that orchestrated family get-togethers and took all the amazing photos to document it.
I can remember many nights of watching in awe as he interacted with his sons, by playing music, by joining whatever it was they were into, or by coaching and supporting them. He was the ultimate definition of a devoted dad. He was a truly a shining example to all that knew him.
I know that this loss will be undefinable to his boys and family- but I feel confident that his legacy will continue to shine through all the amazing things and people he has touched over the years. Boys, remember, your dad gave you the best tools that a father could give- his love for you was extraordinary.
Aunt Lou, my heart breaks for you. Please lean on the people that love you. You will always be in someone's prayers. You are surrounded by love.
To my mom (Nancy) and Uncle Henry- remember the good, funny and adventurous times with your little brother. Let the memories overtake the void. I love you both and have you in my heart always.
I love you Uncle Bob. Thank you for being someone that I always looked up to (and will continue to). Thank you for embracing courage and love. You will be missed more than words will convey. We love you.
Your niece Kelle
Janet Durborow
August 20, 2013
Please know that you and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers every day for the past two years. We are so sorry.
morgan underhill
August 20, 2013
We lost a great man, a wonderful husband, father, brother, uncle and friend. We love you and everyday will think of you and the good times we had. Love you uncle Goob xoxo
Marian
August 20, 2013
Tillie,
Our deepest sympathy to you and the family during this very difficult time. How heartbreaking for a mother to loose a son...one so vibrant and full of life has gone on but, I'm sure will not be forgotten by so many. Stay well and call on us if you need to...We will be there.
Your Friends At Lions Head North
Eddie Griffin
August 20, 2013
My heart and prayers go out to the Underhill family. I marched with Bob from in the pipe band. Great man that cared about his fellow man ! Thank you Bob and keep the beat up in Heaven. :) Eddie Griffin
Tom Frinzi
August 20, 2013
Mary Lou and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Goob fought the good fight, may he know RIP. The pain of your loss will never go away but in time will dull and you will be left with all the good memories you have shared thru Bob's full but way too short life. All our love Tom and Karen.
August 20, 2013
Mary Lou and boys,
We were so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Haven't seen you since our boys were young but remember Bob fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Joe & Kathy Martone & sons
August 20, 2013
Bob was a great person! I always enjoyed playing soccer with him, having him ref my boys travel soccer games and just having a beer with him. He will be truly missed!! Condolences to Mary Lou and their sons!
Craig Reid. Wall, NJ
Mark Schwartz
August 20, 2013
He one of the nicest persons I've ever known. When I fist joined the band, he made me made me feel very welcome and comfortable. For this I shall always be grateful. I'll truly miss his sense of humor, quick wit, and that he was a fellow Jets fan.
Nora & Peter Sykes
August 20, 2013
Mary Lou and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. You were blessed to have Bob in your lives and may his memory sustain you.
Sincerely,
Nora and Peter
August 20, 2013
Richard and I are so sorry for your loss. We have fond memories of him coaching our son, Chris. A truly generous and kind man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Patricia and Richard Campbell
ray spengler
August 20, 2013
Loved the Goob and he will be missed. Prayers to all of you.
Ed Hickey
August 20, 2013
Great man! He will be dearly missed. Condolences to the Mary Lou and the family.
Ray Spengler
August 20, 2013
Loved the Goob and will miss him. So sorry and you are all in my prayers
August 20, 2013
Simply a truly good guy. What better tribute can pay a man. He will be missed by all his Brother Shillelaghs and anyone who was lucky enough to cross his path.
Junior Lyden
judy wilson-russell
August 19, 2013
Mary Lou and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Please know that I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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