Name: Visitation for Stefano "Tommy" DeSeno
Start: 2020-08-27T20:00:00.000Z
End: 2020-08-28T00:00:00.000Z
Location: CLOSED-Buckley Funeral Home - Asbury Park

Stefano "Tommy" DeSeno

Stefano "Tommy" DeSeno age 80 passed away peacefully Saturday August 22, 2020 at Monmouth Medical Center Long Branch. He was born in Asbury Park and lived at the Shore all his life.

Tommy was the owner of Asbury Fuel Co. & the former Danny's Ice & Fuel. Tommy loved working, spending time with his grandchildren, and gathering with friends at Franks Deli several times a day. He was a communicant of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church. (Mother of Mercy Parish ).

He is survived by two sons, Daniel De Seno of Brick, Steven ( Maria) De Seno of Ocean, one daughter, Jeana ( John) Wolfson of Ocean, One brother, Rosario De Seno, (Lakewood) Two sisters; Denisea Phelps (John) of Long Branch, Anna Heisman of West Palm Beach, FL. Five grandchildren; Olivia, Julian, Kayla, Helena, and Reese.

A Visitation will be held Thursday, August 27, 2020, 4:00-8:00 pm. Buckley Funeral Home 509 Second Ave Asbury Park. A Mass of Christian burial Friday 10:30 am at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church Asbury Park. Interment immediately following Mt. Calvary Cemetery Neptune. Due to COVID- 19 restrictions, fifty visitors will be allowed at one time wearing masks and social distancing.

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Published by Asbury Park Press from Aug. 24 to Aug. 25, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Stefano DeSeno

Sponsored by CLOSED-Buckley Funeral Home - Asbury Park.

27 Entries

Catherine Luthin

September 22, 2020

He was one of a kind , My husband and I loved talking to Tommy at the counter at Franks and enjoyed immensely Joey's attempts to ban him on an almost daily basis . He loved life and was a lot of fun to be around . A conservative thinker that respected my differing opinions . We will miss you and your love .

Dr. Deirdre Foreman

September 2, 2020

I remember Mr. DeSeno from when I was a child. I am a former neighbor and childhood friend of his daughter, Jeana. After a busy day at work, he would come home and great us with a smile as we played in his yard. He always made me feel welcome. My sincere condolences to the family. May you rest in peace, Mr. DeSeno!

George Murphy

August 31, 2020

There isn't room here to say it all. I am very disappointed that I missed the viewing and service for Tommy.
We had great chats at Franks and he always reminded me of the escape from Manor By the Sea. He was a hard-working conservative thinker and I will always love and respect his legacy. Tommy's love of his country is legendary and I was fully aware of his dismay at the current situation.
I wish his entire family sincere condolences. If there is anything I can do to make up for lost time, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Many blessings.

Guy Vetrano

August 28, 2020

RIP Tommy...I'm glad I had the chance to speak with you when I was home recently.

Dawn Lagnese

August 28, 2020

Jeana Steven and Danny my prayers are with your family I'm so sorry for your loss and feel your pain. Your dad was like a father to me as well . Many years ago I practically lived in the house on Logan. Awesome father , huge heart.... best times in my life were your family..

Stephanie Woolley

August 28, 2020

Will miss your smile Tommy, my sincere condolences to you All. God Bless

Carol Torre

August 28, 2020

Tommy was a character but tops in his business. For over 40 years, he took care of things and it was quite an interesting experience working with him. My condolences to the DeSeno family.

Kim Smith

August 27, 2020

Condolences and Prayers to the Family, Loved “Uncle Tommy” for so many years, praying for peace and comfort moving forward

Evelinn Nieb

August 27, 2020

My deepest sympathies to the family during this difficult time. May he be at peace, and know that he was loved by so many.

Patricia Amicosante-Shepard

August 26, 2020

One of my all time favorites from 'home'! So many great memories of Tommy at Franks, but especially at Mt. Carmel. Every Sunday he would tell us "it doesn't matter what you do all week, as long as you are here every Sunday!" Sympathy to his family, too young to go. May he rest in peace.

Jack Betini

August 26, 2020

Sorry to hear about Tommy passing. R. I. P.

Evelyn Pilecki

August 25, 2020

My condolences to the family especially his sister who he lived with for years. Eternal rest grant to him O Lord and letmpetpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed rest in.peace.Amen

Tony Pallagrosi

August 25, 2020

My deepest condolences and blessings to Marianne and the entire DeSeno family. I am so sorry for your loss and my Tommy rest in peace.

Jeffrey Berman

August 25, 2020

Sending Our heartfelt sympathy to the entire family. From Jeff, BJ, Zach & Bonnie

John Mazza

August 25, 2020

I’m sorry for your loss. Tommy will be in our hearts and memories forever.

Frank & Nancy Ten Broeck

August 25, 2020

To The DeSeno Family
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Tommy. We met Tommy during our High School Days at APHS in the 50's. He always had that
wonderful smile and always had time to sit and talk no matter how busy
he was. He will be missed and may he rest in peace.
Frank and Nancy Ten Broeck, Neptune, NJ

Dee

August 25, 2020

Tommy was truly one of a kind. I will miss him coming into Midway and saying, "Hey girl, what's going on?." He was always quick with a joke and always tried to make you smile no matter what was going on in your life. Tommy, it is your turn to fly high with the angels, I will miss you! Prayers to your family.

matthew marcinkiewicz

August 25, 2020

Steven, Jeana, deepest sympathy, and condolences to the entire family on the passing of your father. Best wishes to you all. -Matthew Marcinkiewicz and Family

Jamie Mohamad

August 25, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together. Sending love and condolences to all of you. xo

Frances Mitchell

August 25, 2020

My deepest sympathy goes out to all the family. I knew Tommy from Bradley School and APHS!! He was always smiling and seemed to love life! A fun and outing man! The last time I saw him was at our 50th High School Reunion!! May our sweet Lord wrap his loving arms around those that are left, and give them peace! Much Love, Frances Salerno Mitchell

Stacie Raglione

August 24, 2020

All our love and prayers to Jeanna, Danny & Stephan. May your dad now join your mom and RIP. He will be greatly missed but the amazing memories of shared times with our parents together remains forever. All our love- Tom & Stacie (Siliato) Raglione.

Carolyn Curtin

August 24, 2020

Wonderful warm kind man

BRETT HOLLOWAY

August 24, 2020

We will miss Tommy greatly, wonderful man

Vivian Fortunato

August 24, 2020

Uncle Tommy, you were always a wonderful, giving and understanding man. Thank you for standing by our side as our Best Man, and offering your lovely home for our celebration. Although we are no longer together as a married couple, I still have the upmost respect for you, and still consider you as Uncle Tommy. Rest In Peace !

Cindy Watdlow

August 24, 2020

We all made a lot of memories didn’t we? So much fun, such crazy times; the years went by, the kids grew up and we got old. Your definitely going to be missed but I know Richie and Ralph we’re waiting to greet you so your not alone; Rest In Peace Tommy.

Garrett Giberson

August 23, 2020

Tommy, I always enjoyed our conversations at the counter at Frank's Deli. The best tank removal guy around. Rest peacefully.

John Amato

August 23, 2020

Tommy was a good man. I've known Tommy for over 50 years. I would see him in church at Mt Carmel every Sunday. We lived around the corner from each other. He was our oilman in the beginning. Later in life our paths crossed again as the iceman. Finally, we would meet each other as he looked for buried oil tanks on property for my clients. In every instance, Tommy was helpful. He will be missed. He will now walk in the shadow of our lord. May he rest in peace.

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