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Thomas Gilroy Obituary
AGE: 46 • Brick
Thomas "Gil" Gilroy, 46, of Brick, passed away Monday, Aug. 1, 2011, at Our Lady of Lourdes Medical Center, Camden, with his family by his side. Tom was born in Elizabeth and raised in Toms River. He graduated from Monsignor Donovan High School and St. Leo's College, FL, where he attained a B.S. Degree. Tom worked in construction his for over 20 years. He had a passion for working with his hands and building things. Tom was also a salesman for two construction supply companies, Liberty Supply and Mason Supply for 18 years. In his spare time, Tom loved coaching Little League Baseball and playing golf. The only thing in Tom's life that meant more to him than his Ford F150 was his family, and he thoroughly enjoyed spending time doing just about anything that involved his family.
Tom was predeceased by his father, James Gilroy, in 1981. He is survived by his wife of 18 years, Tracy Gilroy of Brick; his three sons, Austin, Gavin and Eian; his mother, Catherine Gilroy of Toms River; two brothers and a sister-in-law, Jim and Denise Gilroy of Pennington, and Ed Gilroy of North Carolina; and a sister and brother-in-law, Maryellen and Michael Flynn of Pemberton.
Relatives and friends are invited to call from 4 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 4 at Orender Family Home for Funerals, 2643 Old Bridge Road, Manasquan. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 9:30 a.m. Friday, Aug. 5 at The Church of the Visitation, Brick. At the request of the family, memorial donations may be made to The Gilroy Family, c/o The Orender Family Home for Funerals, 2643 Old Bridge Road, Manasquan, NJ 08736. To send condolences to the family or obtain directions to the funeral home, please visit www.orenderfamilyhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Gilroy
Steve Rudkin
August 21, 2011
I grew up down the street from the Gilroy's and was reacquainted with Tom in 1987. Always smiling! My regrets and warmest regards to The Gilroy Family.
Raymond O. & Patricia Ann Helm
August 10, 2011
Our sons went to MonDon (when it was St. Joseph High School) with many of the names who have written condolences here. Tommy is now in heaven with our Raymond; the rest of the Helm household, Steven, Maureen & Eileen, wish the blessing of peace for Tracy & their sons. We treasure those who have crossed our path & for their presence, we will never be the same. Much love.
August 5, 2011
Rest in peace Tom. My prayers go out to your family.
Maureen Gilsenan Millspaugh-MDHS 84
Vicki Conforti
August 5, 2011
TO THE GILROY BOYS, AUSTIN, GAVIN AND EIAN.... REMEMBER THESE WORDS I KNOW YOUR DAD WOULD SAY THESE EXACT THINGS TO ALL OF YOU....
I LOVED YOU ENOUGH.....Someday when you children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a parent, I would tell you:
I loved you enough to ask where you were going, with whom, & what time you would come home
I loved you enough to insist that you save your money to buy a bike for yourself even though we could afford to buy one for you
I loved you enough to be silent & let you discover that your new best friend was a creep
I loved you enough to make you take a Milkey Way back to the drugstore ( with a bite out os it )& tell the clerk " I stole this yesterday & want to pay for it"
I loved you enough to stand over you for 2 hours while you cleaned your room, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment & tears in my eyes. Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were harsh they almost broke my heart
But most of all. I loved you enough to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it. Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too
Terri Pisani
August 5, 2011
Dear Tracey and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My family and I will be praying for you . May Tom rest peacefully and no longer have to bear anymore suffering. Keep his memories close to your heart. He will be watching over all of you.
Terri Pisani (Marlton
Terri Pisani
August 5, 2011
Dear Tracey and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My family and I will be praying for you . May Tom rest peacefully and no longer have to bear anymore suffering. Keep his memories close to your heart. He will be watching over all of you.
Maureen Edenfield - Gravante
August 5, 2011
Dear Tracey and the Gilroy family~
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kathy Shiveler
August 4, 2011
Dear Tracey, Austin, Gavin and Ian, I'm so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great man who warmed every person with whom he made contact with at Lourdes. Despite his suffering, he would always manage a slight smile and never forgot to say thank you. He frequently boasted of each one of you ; likewise he shared some of your funny stories. It is my pleasure to care for your dad and I considered myself blessed to have known each one of you. When you feel lonely or in despair, picture Jesus in the Footprints Prayer where he promises to carry us through. Love Kathy Shiveler Rn CC1 OLOL
kathy shiveler
August 4, 2011
Dear Tracey, Austin, Gavin and Eian I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was a great man and an inspiration to all of the nurses at Lourdes. Even at his lowest times, he still managed to smile and say thanks. Personally, I thank the Lord for the opportunity to know your dad and each one of you. All my love Kathy and fellow nurses at Lourdes CC1
Bonnie Braxton
August 4, 2011
So sorry for your loss Tracey- prayers for comfort for you, your boys and the entire Gilroy family.
Artie Holst
August 4, 2011
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Tracey, you're in our thoughts. God bless & may Tom rest in peace.
Pam Moore
August 4, 2011
Dear Tracy & Family,
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always
Brian & Robin McDonough
August 4, 2011
Dear Tracey and Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers, our sincerest and deepest sympathy go out to you all.
Rob & Dina Bishop
August 4, 2011
Tracey and family-
Dina and I were so deeply saddened to hear about Tom. He was a good man. We went to school together for many years and I always considered him to be my good friend. He will be sorely missed. May God bless you and your children and guide you through these difficult times. Dina and I are there for you if you ever need us.
Carla,Wayne and Damian Germinario
August 4, 2011
Tom always had a smile on his face when came for haircuts. May God bless you in this most difficult of times. You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Colleen McQuilken
August 3, 2011
To all the Gilroy Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers, we are so sorry for your loss. Tracy, if you or the boys ever need anything please let us know. Sincerely, Colleen McQuilken and family
August 3, 2011
i remember riding the bus to st joes and mondon with tommy...always made me laugh morning and afternoon....god bless the family..
chris and andrea raimann
August 3, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
Maria Sammut-Mascaro MDHS '84
Michele (Hadley) Schweers
August 3, 2011
Dear Tracy and Family,
I was so saddened to learn of Tom's passing. May you find the strength in the love of your family and friends to know that he will always be with you and your boys forever...in your hearts and in everything you do. With the passing of time, may your memories provide you great comfort and always bring you peace.
Christine Collier
August 3, 2011
R.I.P. Tom. May God comfort your wife and children.
August 3, 2011
My thoughts and prayersf are with you and your family.
You can still hear that infectious laugh...
God Bless..
BAGS
August 3, 2011
My deepest condolences to all the Gilroys.
Cousin Brian
John McNamara
August 3, 2011
You will be missed, our prayers are with your family.
Nixon Family
August 3, 2011
Tracy, Austin, Gavin & Eian, We are heartfully sorry for your loss. He is in the best hands now. Always remember we are here as your friends in this time of need. With love, Guy, Kara, Macy & Anna Nixon
John Hagemann
August 3, 2011
A good man, Heaven has gained.
Blessings of peace and comfort to friends and family.
Frank Trenkle
August 3, 2011
Tom - you will be dearly missed down at the fields! I will always remember you telling me all the time to kick Gavin's butt around if he got out of hand or lazy while playing baseball! Don't you worry I will continue on doing that and maybe I will even throw in Eian into that mix. I thank God for allowing me to be your friend as well as your family in my life. May God bless you and your family!
pam massari
August 3, 2011
tom, you will be missed!!!! you didnt have a mean bone in your body.
Mary, Sal, RJ, & Marissa Polone
August 3, 2011
Tommy- You had that smile that would make others smile. I remember the good times we had in high school. I was so happy to become your neighbor and our children to become friends. My prayers go out to the Gilroy family. May peace be with you.
Russell & Jackie Fastnacht
August 3, 2011
Tommy,we will miss that beautiful smile. May you rest in peace. God bless your family.
Tara Davis
August 3, 2011
Tom was always so pleasant to talk with...he was like an old wash women...I can remember many times having tracy do my hair and Tom would be at the doorway listening to our conversations and jumping right in....Tom
Matt Gelczis
August 3, 2011
Rest in peace Gil. God bless his family, especially Tracy and the boys.
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