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AGE: 46 • Rumson
Tom Toth, 46, of Rumson, passed away on Sunday, Aug 30, 2015, in Neptune. Tom was born in Syosset, New York and lived most of his life in New Jersey. He was a graduate of Penn State and was an Investment Banker with State Street Bank in Princeton.
Tom's real joy in life were his two young sons Ryan and Tyler. He spent most of his free time enjoying watching the boys play a variety of sports. He loved camping at night with them in scouting. He taught them how to ski and loved being in the ocean and going on roller coaster rides with them. He was an amazing Dad to his boys and a loving husband and son. Tom will be so missed by his family and everyone who loved him.
He was predeceased by his father, George Toth. Tom is survived by his wife of 15 years, Diane Dougherty Toth; his sons, Tyler and Ryan Toth; his brother, Jim Toth; his sister, Maureen Aronow and his mother, Frances Toth.
Visitation will be from 6 to 9 p.m. Wednesday, Sept. 2 at the Thompson Memorial Home, 310 Broad St., Red Bank. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Thursday, Sept. 3 at the Church of the Nativity, 180 Ridge Rd., Fair Haven. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Ryan and Tyler's College Fund, PO Box 8097, Red Bank, NJ 07701.
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Memories and Condolences
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HARSHIT DHAWAN
September 9, 2015
Really a saddening news. I've known Tom through the State Street Toastmasters Club. May his soul rest in peace.
Linda Chang
September 9, 2015
Dear Toth family,
Tom was a member of the State Street Princeton Toastmaster. His first speech was about meeting his wife. We came away feeling how much he loved his wife and what a wonderful life he has with his family. My deepest condolences. He is a big loss to our little group, so I can only imagine the gigantic loss to your family. I will pray that you will continue to get the support you need to help you with the loss.
Kim Morin
September 4, 2015
Tom was a great guy, and we all enjoyed working with him at Caxton. He will truly be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Dave Dalfonzo
September 3, 2015
I'll miss the 3 o'clock coffee breaks Tom.
Nancy and Bob Durie
September 2, 2015
Diane, Ryan, Tyler, we send our condolences. We have fond memories of cub scout time together with Tom. He was a very special man, always looking at the bright side, positive. You are in our prayers.
Artie Schlesinger
September 2, 2015
It was my pleasure to have worked with Tom not once while at Caxton but again at State Street. An individual of Toms character is not easily found. He is a friend that I will truly miss dearly.
September 2, 2015
Ryan and Family: extremely sorry for your loss..offering my heartfelt condolences and support. Mrs. Leutz
Karl Janetzko
September 2, 2015
Godspeed, Tom. It was a pleasure to have worked with you all those years at Caxton. You are a good man, and will be most certainly missed by many.
Beth Oswald
September 2, 2015
So many memories of Tom at Caxton.
Prayers to his family, may you find peace.
September 2, 2015
My condolences are offered to Mr. Toth's family and friends, as you bring to mind the activities and experiences he enjoyed best. May the perfect guidance from "the Father of compassion, and the God of all encouragement" console you each day forward.
Rom. 15:4
Tom Ridgway
September 1, 2015
Class act all around. Loved being with his family and it showed. He will be missed.
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