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Thomas Westhoven Obituary
AGE: 75 • Highlands
Thomas P. Westhoven, 75, of Highlands, NJ, passed away on Monday, May 9, 2016 at his residence. He was born in Paterson, NJ and resided in Cranford, NJ before moving to Highlands in 2000. Mr. Westhoven was a chemical engineer for Norton/Chemplast in Wayne, NJ and Thermoplastics in Sterling, NJ for many years retiring in 2000. After retirement he then began working as a tax preparer for H & R Block in Long Branch, NJ where he worked for the past 15 years.
Mr. Westhoven was pre-deceased by his parents, Paul and Jenny Westhoven and brother Paul. He is survived by his daughter, Jennifer Westhoven of Decatur, GA, 2 sons, David Westhoven of Doylestown, PA and Stephen Westhoven of Mt. Laurel, NJ and a sister Dolly Opper of Monson, Mass. He is also survived by his former wife and special friend, Karen Buccino Heinen of The Villages, Fla. and 4 grandchildren, Jackson, Fiona, Jamie and Jessamine.
Relatives & friends are invited to attend a Memorial Gathering and time of remembrance on Friday, from 1 - 2 PM at Posten's Funeral Home, (www.Postensfuneralhome.com) 59 E. Lincoln Ave. at Central & E. Garfield Ave. Atlantic Highlands, NJ. Messages of condolences may be e-mailed to [email protected] and will be received by the family.
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Bob Welgos
February 14, 2018
Tom and I go back 60 plus years. We were best friends at NCE. While we had drifted apart over the years, we still spoke once a year or so and reminisced about the days of our youth. We became very close at school, travelled to Europe together right after graduation, were in each other's wedding parties, and shared many memorable times. My condolences for your loss. Mine too.
Robert Zebrowski
March 14, 2017
I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. I only knew Tom the last 3 years or so and only from doing my taxes in Long Branch. Tom was a super nice guy and always helpful with a calming demeanor which is very important at tax time. My best wishes go to anyone that knew him and especially his family.
Sue
November 21, 2016
I'm deeply sorry to hear about Tom. He was a terrific guy. I will miss him. He helped me with my taxes for many years and it was always nice to catch up with him each year. He was so proud of his children and grandchildren. He spoke of them with great love and fondness.
September 24, 2016
Belatedly, my thoughts go to the many days spent with Tom. His family was his priority; my condolences to them. Tom's mind and sense of humor are particularly memorable to me.
Wes Wheeler
Sandy Volansky
May 16, 2016
I only had the pleasure of working with Tom for one season at HRB but I will always remember his helpful and kind nature. My deepest sympathy to the Westhoven family.
Michael Andrews
May 15, 2016
To Steve, Dave & Family: My deepest condolences for your loss.
Anne Knupp
May 15, 2016
RIP dear cousin Tom.
I will always remember your kind heart and wonderful sense of humor.
Much love,
Cousin Anne
Raul Sepulveda
May 14, 2016
Karen, Jennifer, David, Steve.
Thanks Karen for sending the email yesterday. I did not read it until last night.
My condolences . What a beautiful, intelligent, friendly, giving and capable person Tom was all of his life.
His central thinking always was his family. He will be missed very much. Rest in peace Tom ; and there is nothing that I could say to lessen your pain
May 14, 2016
So very sorry to hear of your loss Jenn. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Tymeka Juniors
Chanese A.
May 13, 2016
Prayers of strength for you and your family.
Vanessa Nwafor
May 13, 2016
My deepest condolences to the family - at a time like this it is hard to find words to say, but please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your loved one.
May 13, 2016
Tom was one of my favorite brothers in law. He will be missed by all who knew him,
Millie Caswell
May 13, 2016
Very sorry for your loss Jen. A big hug from Arizona.
Heather Murphy
May 13, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Westhoven's passing. Peace to all who loved him. Thinking of you, Jen.
Kathleen Dotoli
May 13, 2016
We will miss Tom's gentle nature and sense of humor. Our hearts and prayers go out to the Westhoven family, especially his grandchildren about whom he spoke of so often.
Mark Kwiatkowski
May 12, 2016
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and with you and your family.
Janet and Gene Ballone
May 12, 2016
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. I remember Tom well, his wonderful sense of humor and kind heart. May he rest in peace.
Janet and Gene Ballone
May 12, 2016
RIP cousin Tommy. I always loved our time together.
Karen x0x0x0
Robin M
May 12, 2016
Thinking of the entire westhoven family....
Sincerely,
Robin m
Marianne Gilmete
May 12, 2016
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Naglaa Elsherbeiny
May 12, 2016
I am so sorry my friend you will be missed after all this years working together. Rip
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