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Wayne McAfee Obituary
AGE: 89 • Bridgewater
89, died May 19, 2017.
Wayne was born in Akron, Ohio and lived in Brazil before moving to Somerville where he resided in for 34 years before moving to Bridgewater in 1997. Wayne earned a Bachelor's degree in English from Maryville College and further received a Doctorate degree from Columbia University. He was employed as an English teacher at the Bridgewater-Raritan School District for over 35 years, retiring in 1988. After his retirement, Wayne worked as a adjunct professor at Kean University in Elizabeth. He was a member of the United Reformed Church in Somerville and was very active while living at Arbor Glen in Bridgewater. He enjoyed listening to classical music, traveling and writing poetry. Wayne will be sadly missed by his family and friends.
Surviving are his wife of 66 years, Charlotte, 3 daughters, Deborah Bayer and husband Jack, Annagrace Kasten and Pamela McAfee, a brother Caleb McAfee, three grandchildren Avery, Laura, and Martin and great-granddaughter Jessa.
No Memorial Services are planned. Arrangements by Bruce C. VanArsdale Funeral Home, 111 N. Gaston Ave, Somerville.
Donations can be made to the Friend-to-Friend Fund at Arbor Glen, 100 Monroe St. Bridgewater, NJ 08876.To send condolences to the family, visit www.brucecvanarsdalefuneralhome.com.
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John n. Thomas s Belardo
July 7, 2017
To the family of wayne Mcfee. We are sorry to hear of your loss of such a brilliant man and wonderful person. The Belardo family John n belardo Tom belardo
Marilyn Crisci
May 25, 2017
Mike and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family, Charlotte. Wayne was held in such high regard by all who knew him, and we always admired him. We are so sorry for your loss.
Dianne Buchanan
May 25, 2017
Charlotte, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. We go back a long way. Wayne was always such a soft spoken and kind man. My best to you and much love,
Diny
James W. Brown
May 25, 2017
Dear Charlotte and family:
Judy and I send our deepest condolences to you and your families.
Wayne and Charlotte have been caring and loving friends for many years. Wayne and Charlotte guided Judy, our young sons and me during our first years living in New Jersey.
I had the great honor and fortune to have been one of the young English teachers in Wayne's English Department when Bridgewater-Raritan High School East opened in 1966. As our Department Chairman, Wayne guided and mentored us until his retirement in 1988. Wayne taught me and other teachers in the department most everything about teaching, learning, compassion and integrity, not only valuable to us in the classroom, but also in our lives. Will will all sorely miss Wayne, but his friendship, teaching and his presence with be with us forever. We send our love to Charlotte and the McAfee family.
Linda Hayes
May 25, 2017
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. McAfee was so special to our church and will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. Linda and Patrick Hayes
Jim DeCicco
May 25, 2017
Dear Charlotte and the McAfee family: Shirley and extend or heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.Wayne enriched us personally as well as the legions of students who were fortunate to have him as their mentor. Wayne was a man of impeccable integrity and superb intelligence who enriched the lives of all who were privileged to know him. The community is a better place because Wayne lived amongst us. Charlotte, during this difficult time take solace in knowing how many people share in your loss. Rest in Peace my dear friend, God has just gained a true renaissance man.
Johnny Perna
May 25, 2017
I'm so very sorry for your loss, you will be in my thoughts, and prayers. I was a custodian at Bridgewater/ Raritan High School from 1983- 2009 and knew Wayne very well, we talked often after moving from nights to day shift, he told me he missed a friend who called him Doc, so I asked him if I could call him that and he told me he would like that very much. He's a very smart man and I enjoyed talking to about his experiences, and what he was interested in.
Carol Magliochetti
May 24, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, Charlotte. Wayne was such a wonderful gentleman who was so interested in everything happening around him. Vince, Scott and I still laugh about our accidental meeting with Wayne,you and his h.s. Students in London. God bless you and those who love you.
Cline and Sondra Gore
May 24, 2017
Aunt Charlotte and family, sorry to hear of Uncle Wayne's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Have some fond memories of both of you.
Cline and Sondra Gore
May 24, 2017
Sorry to hear of Uncle Wayne's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Aunt Charlotte and the family.
Samuel Mendelson
May 24, 2017
Charlotte and Debbie, Our sympathy at this sad time. We treasure the times we spent together at URC on consistory, committees, and dinners with Wayne and with the two of you at Arbor Glen. It was indeed an honor to have known Wayne. With our love and sympathy, Sam and Cindy Mendelson
Sylvia Anderson
May 24, 2017
Sad to hear of Wayne's passing. He will be greatly missed. Holding Charlotte and family in our thoughts and prayers. Sylvia & Bill Anderson
ELAINE K DAVIS
May 24, 2017
Wayne was a very special friend. He was always a gentleman in every situation and could give a levelheaded view in all discussions. I send my sincerest sympathy to Charlotte and all his family.
Paul Dobbins
May 23, 2017
Charlotte so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. Hadn't seen my cousin Wayne for years but my mother Rose loved to hear from him. I remember he would call her every year on my Dad's birthday. I believe they shared the same birthday March 5th. Paul & June Dobbins
Paul Dobbins
May 23, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Hadn't seen Wayne for years but my mother Rose loved to hear from him. But I remember he would call her every year on my Dad's birthday. I believe they shared the same birthday March 5th. Paul & June Dobbins
Lea Hewett
May 23, 2017
Uncle Wayne always focused his attention on you in such a way you thought you were the most special and important person in that moment. I always think of him and his ice cream treks at the beach with all of us young Hewett's with fondness. He will certainly be missed. Lea Hewett
May 23, 2017
Wayne was a delight to talk with and he always had something interesting to say. He had an inquisitive mind and shared his thoughts so softly and smoothly. He was at all times a gentle man. My prayers for him and condolences to Charlotte and the family. Theresa Ward
Ruth Reader
May 23, 2017
My sincere condolences to you Charlotte and your family. It was a privilege to have known this dear gentle humble man whose conversations were always informative and stimulating. God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead.
Joe Sebes
May 23, 2017
My sincerest condolences to the family. Wayne was a gentleman who you knew was a class act from the moment you met him. His warmth and friendly demeanor made a conversation with him a memorable and enjoyable encounter. Surly a loss for all who knew him.
May 20, 2017
Love and prayers to Charlotte and family.
LaVerne Miner
May 20, 2017
While missing the strength, grace and love of a good friend, I will remember Wayne's humor; insight; disposition; skill with words; ability to discuss with civility literature, music, politics, religion, family and any subject; appreciation for silence; faith to see each day as a gift and willingness to try to make the world better.
LaVerne Miner
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