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Zelda Malachowsky Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

ZELDA MALACHOWSKY
AGE: 81 OAKHURST
Zelda Malachowsky, 81, of Oakhurst NJ passed away on Sunday, Jan. 31, 2010 in the home where she raised her children. Mrs. Malachowsky was born in Brooklyn and loved New York City. Mrs. Malachowsky graduated from Brooklyn College and received her master's degree in occupational therapy from Columbia University, of which she was very proud. She was an active volunteer with the American Cancer Society and was a lifelong member of Temple Beth Miriam in Elberon, NJ, where she was a member of the Sisterhood and had served on the Board of Trustees. Mrs. Malachowsky lived at the center of a large and ever-expanding network of family and friends, and she was devoted to each and every one.
She is survived by two sons, Chris and his wife Melody of Los Altos Hills, CA, and Jeff and his wife Cynthia Guyer of Portland, OR; her brother, Martin Rutenberg and his wife Lynne of Newton, NJ; and two sisters, Ellen Cohen of Venice Beach, CA, and Judy Wunsch and her husband Robert of Los Angeles, CA. She is also survived by her five beloved grandchildren, Sarah, Michael, Ryan, Spencer and Parker, and an unbounded number of nieces, nephews, friends and family. Mrs. Malachowsky was preceded in death, in 1996, by her husband of 45½years, Dr. Martin Malachowsky.
Services will be held at 11am Thursday at Temple Beth Miriam in Elberon NJ. Interment will follow at Temple Beth Miriam Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Zelda Malachowsky's name to Helen's Room of the American Cancer Society, Jersey Shore Region, or to the Alzheimer's Association, California Southland Chapter (Los Angeles). Bloomfield-Cooper Jewish Chapels, Ocean NJ, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Feb. 2, 2010.

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ruth and gene lowy

February 4, 2010

jeff and chris our condolences to you on your moms passing, her laughter and wonderful sense of humor would light up a room....She will be missed....ruth and gene lowy

February 4, 2010

Jeff and Chris,
Adele, Ginger, Aly and I wish to extend our sincerest condolences to both of you. We will always remember Aunt Zelda as part of our huge extended family that we were all very fortunate to have growing up. She may be gone but her strong spirit will always live on..Woody and Ginger

Jason Lippe

February 3, 2010

Jeff and Chris, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families in this tough time. Aunt Zelda will be forever in our hearts and always remembered for her thoughtfulness ,kindness, and as an incredible and strong woman. Most of all we will remember all of the great times at the house for holidays and other family and friend gatherings.

Lots of love
Jason,Leslie,Madison and Grace Lippe

February 3, 2010

Jeff and Chris

I still have vivid dreams of the Jersey shore and Zelda will always be a part of them. I loved listening to her vibrant conversation and wonderful laughter. Debra Rubin (Toronto, Ontario)

Barbara Engel-Swartzberg

February 2, 2010

Jeff and Chris

My deepest sympathies on the passing of your mom. I was a neighbor of yours on greenbrier till the mid 80's. I have such fond memories of her and your Dad.

Your mom will be missed by all.

Barbara Engel Swartzberg

February 2, 2010

Aunt Zelda will forever be remembered and remain as part of us- we love you with all our being.

Jen, Jon, Sam, Max and Emma Lahn

February 2, 2010

Jeff and Chris, I am deeply saddened by Zelda's passing. She was a wonderful person, I always loved to talk with her. She will always be a part of my memories of carefree summers at the Jersey shore. Your mom will be missed by all who knew her.
Alison (Rubin)Horvitz

Mickey Brewster

February 2, 2010

Dear Chris,
My deepest sympathies on the passing of your Mom. Zelda was a great Lady who made my day everytime she came to see me for her travels to California. I will miss her.

Mike Walker

February 2, 2010

Dear Jeff- My deepest sympathies. May she continue to watch out for you. Steve Gable let me know. I hope you and your family are otherwise well. Mike Walker

Gregory J Bova

February 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes to the Malachowsky Family, although you are far away , we will never forget the great times we had with Wayne and Jinny Al,Helen, your Dad and Mom in their backyard Playing Tennis , swimming, and of course eating.We send those Great times to you, as our love for your Moother and Father. God Bless you all. Marge & Greg Bova(THE BACKYARD GANG.

John Lord

February 2, 2010

Dear Jeff and Chris, I read this sad news about your mother this morning. I have sort of kept up with you both through Larry Rosenkranz, and I wanted to extend my sympathies to both of you. I remember you both well from high school so many years ago! Retirement is good, and we are spending the cold months in the geritol land of sunny Florida. Helen McDonnell is down here year-round. Take care.

steve harvey

February 2, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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