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Steven Jay Barnes

1948 - 2022

Steven Jay Barnes obituary, 1948-2022, Yuba City, CA

BORN

1948

DIED

2022

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Steven Barnes Obituary


Steven Jay Barnes, 73 years old, of Yuba City, CA, entered into eternal rest on February 9, 2022, at 1:39 PM, at Adventist Health/Rideout Memorial Hospital in Marysville, CA. His passing was a result of a long battle of multiple ongoing health issues. His last few months were spent in the hospital showered by his wife's love each day and who was close by when he drifted off to be with the Lord.

Steven was born on October 3, 1948, in Oakland, CA, at Jackson Lake Hospital. He was born to Boyd Leonard Barnes and Faye Arnetta Lee who resided in Richmond, CA, at the time of his birth. He attended De Anza High School, Richmond, CA, and graduated with the Class of 1966.

Steve has one sister who he loved very much, Sharon Hackbarth (Vaughn Hackbarth) who lives in Valley Springs, CA. He had three sons; Jason, Daniel and David, with a football team of grandchildren; Tia, Nicholas, Thomas, Noah, Zoey, Savannah, Brandon, Ramanda, Brynt, Bryania, Aireyan, Bunny, Alithia, Andrew, and Lillian and 10 great-grandchildren as well. He loved his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren with all his heart.

A proud Vietnam Veteran, he showed honor, courage and commitment to his country by serving active duty in the US Navy (E4) on the USS Hancock (CVA-19) as an electrical repairman from January 11, 1966, to April 16, 1969, as well as serving in the US Navy Reserves from April 16, 1969 to January 10, 1972.

Steve had a 38 year career he loved with Pacific Gas & Electric as a LSO: Operations Supervisor from July 29, 1969, until he happily retired on October 1, 2007. PG&E was quick to snatch him up prior to his discharge from the military, he was that good and exactly what that company needed at that time.

On August 9, 2020, he married Lyla who was a lifelong friend since 1973. They rekindled their friendship during a time that Steve was going through a tough time with the passing of his nephew, Lenn (Rokk) Johnson, who he loved very much. Through this tragedy he leaned on Lyla for comfort, strength and support which ultimately guided them into love. Steve's love is what Lyla waited a lifetime for and will be forever grateful for the time they spent together.

Steve was a motorcycle enthusiast; he enjoyed riding quads and other recreational vehicles. His passion was fishing, any day any time he was ready to roll with a fishing pole. He loved rock and roll music and loved to dance. He enjoyed watching hours of WWE Wrestling and sports.

He had a love affair with good food, his favorites were; Diet Pepsi, tacos, cheesecake, peanut butter, ice cream, strawberries, and an occasional big helping of spaghetti, or a bowl of screaming hot Seafood Cioppino with garlic toast.

Steve was a warrior throughout his life. The way he died is just like he lived, he wrote his own rules, he fought and paved his own way. He had a great sense of humor, stunning green eyes and hair like a rock star, which his wife loved most. Steve will be missed by many and loved by all for eternity.

Steven Jay Barnes leaves behind his wife, Lyla L. Barnes; his sister, Sharon Hackbarth (Vaughn Hackbarth); his children; grandchildren; and great-grandchildren.

Cremation Services are provided by Ullrey Memorial Chapel in Yuba City, CA. Final resting place in the near future will be San Joaquin National Cemetery 32053 McCabe Rd., Gustine, CA.
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Published by Appeal Democrat on Feb. 15, 2022.

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Tara Hunter

February 8, 2023

Happy 1 yr heavenly anniversary Steve! You have been missed by all. I just wanted to let you know that I have indeed changed my hair since the last time you have seen me

Sharon Hackbarth

February 8, 2023

Well it has been one year and I miss you as much today as I did the day you left me.
Lyla and I have grown very close and share our memories. We have taught her how to play a few card games, she has gotten good.
She was with us on new years to share Lennys passing only to share the last flood of 2022 and then the 1st flood of 2023 came
and the entire house, every room, flooded. Now we are living g elsewhere waiting for them to rebuild. I could really use you about now.
Oh I could go on and on how much I miss my big brother but I guess you can see that.
Steven my prayers for you are suffer no more pain and rest in peace.
I pray you are with Lenny, mom, and dad and those you loved that went before you.
Your little sister

Lyla Barnes Your Loving Wife

February 7, 2023

Steven, I Miss You Every Single Day!!! I Can´t Believe it´s Almost been a yearaI can´t Believe How Much I Miss You!!! I talk to you all the time!!! I continue to follow The wrestling circuit like we always did togetherIt always Reminds me Of Our time together!!! NXT will be on at 8:00 I always talk to you thru the show like you´re sitting here with meit makes me feel like you´re sitting here with me!!! I Love and MISS YOU SO BAD I CAN´T even believe it has happened!!! All Of The z family Misses You also!!! Little KENZIE talks about you to me all the time!!!She hasn´t forgotten you at all!!!
Baby We All Miss You Very Very Much!!!
Sending You LOVE, HUGS AND KISSES UNTIL I SEE YOU AGAIN IN HEAVENand Kisses FOREVER AND EVER AMEN 777333

Deuce & Liz Hunter

February 6, 2023

It´s almost been a year without you in our lives. Lyla tries to move on but you are her every thought throughout the day. She often talks to you as if you are right beside her. We miss your humor & being at our functions. I hope you are dancing with the Angels! Until we meet again. Liz & Deuce Hunter

arlan presley

March 3, 2022

I first met Steve at PG&E Newark Substation, 1969, we worked together for several years there,then we went our different ways in the company, but staying in touch,spending many weekends with my children & His rafting-playing dice games for hours on end. I miss that smile & that competitive streak he had ! We stayed in touch thru out the years. I last saw him about 2019 for a quick catch up-always planning to get together when he visited his sister in Valley Springs-but sadly life got in the way . He was truly a special friend-willing to listen to any of your problems-he will be dearly missed-"Barnacles" I Love You Dude-- Will Miss You. Catch up to you on the flip side- In The Wind Brother---Arlan Presley

Karen Lee Alander

February 24, 2022

Steven was my maternal cousin. My mother, (Linda), was spoke favorably of him. I, only recently, had made contact with him, which I feel honored to have.

Sharon Hackbarth

February 20, 2022

Steven was my big brother and I did not expect him to die. I think I assumed he would be there whenever I needed him because he always has been. I watched for several months as Steven, along with his wife Lyla, fought to survive the many health issues that were in his
way. In the end he could no longer fight. His wife Lyla will miss him every minute of every day.
I want to thank Lyla´s family for loving my brother.
I want to say to Stevens sons Jason and Daniel and his many grandchildren I am so sorry for the loss of your father/grandfather.
Jason and Daniel I love you
Rest In Peace Steven
Love you your little sis

Vicki Stevenson

February 17, 2022

So sorry to hear of Steven passing...My husband Roy Stevenson who has since deceased also worked many yours with Steve...Many of nites Steve would call him out on Overtime. They both had their own way of letting people know how they thought of things. May you RIP Steve and hope you and Roy and have some time now to talk...We are losing to many lately and hard to see. Thoughts and Prayers to the family. Vicki

Carolyn Polione Milheim

February 17, 2022

I met Steve & Lyla around 1974 1975. We were young and doing our own thing. As life went on we all grew and moved on, and had different relationships and so
on. We managed to keep in touch through the years.
I´ve never heard Lyla so happy as when she was with Steve. They completed each other. They became one. He was funny. He was kind. Love is the greatest thing this world has to offer. And that´s all we should ever want for our friends. He made her happy. He tamed the lion. So thank you Steve for being her best friend the love of her life and thank you for being the man that you were. Fly with the angels in heaven. God bless you & Rest In Peace.

Carolyn Polione Milheim

February 17, 2022

I met Steve & Lyla about 1974, 1975. We were all young and doing our own things. As years went by we grew apart had different relationships and just moved on. But Lyla & I managed to keep in touch. In all these years I never heard Lyla so happy as she was with Steve. He was a good man. He was kind and funny. He completed Lyla & They became one. This is all a friend wants for another friend. So I say thank you to Steve for being that guy, that man that tamed that lion. He was special. There´s no greater thing in life then to be loved. You left us too soon. But now your with the other angels in heaven. Thanks again Steve and may you Rest In Peace.

Lyla Barnes

February 16, 2022

Steven I can´t Believe This has Happened !!!! I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!!! You Are Forever & Always In My Heart!!! I Still Talk to You All The Time Baby You Will Always Be With Me For The Rest Of My Life!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEART WITH ME!!! Our Time Was To Short But It Will Carry Me Through My Lifetime until I See You Again In Heaven!!!
REST IN PEACE MY LOVEI Will Always Remember Our Amazing Love Story & How You LOVED ME FROM SO LONG AGO !!! Baby You Are My Forever Love!!! 777333 YOUR LOVE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME!!! Yesterday, Today, & All The Tomorrows
I Love Youuuuuuuuu,
Lyla & Kissey777333

Tara Hunter

February 15, 2022

Rest in Paradise Steve! Thank you for making our grandma so happy and showing her what true love was. I will always remember the fact that you swore I colored my hair a different color everytime you saw me. We would always share a good laugh at the end of each conversation. You will be truly missed by all.

Nick Hunter

February 15, 2022

Although our time was short with you Steve, we will miss you dearly. Thank you for loving our Grandma with all of your heart. She knew it and felt it. We all saw it first hand. We will miss you at all of our family gatherings but your memory will live on through Grandma. We know you are resting in piece and health. Thank you for being a part of our family. We will miss you. REST IN PIECE. Love you Steve. RIDE ON AND FISH ON.

Sheryl Kuhn

February 15, 2022

Lyla and family,

My father and Steven worked together at PGE and ironically enough retired the same year! My dad recently spoke of Steven and shared he was in the hospital...dad always kept up on his former co workers, one way or another. As I read Steve's obituary he sounded alot like my dad, they wrote their own rules, and rocked to the beat of their own drum!! We recently lost our dad January 31, and it's still unreal that a man who threatened Us to live forever was taken suddenly. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all and I bet dad, Steven, Leonard and many others from PG&E are up there laughing and sharing many stories!!! Sheryl Kuhn

Cindy Thomas

February 15, 2022

RIP Steve: The years we got to know you were short, but you quickly became part of the family. My deepest condolences to your wife, Lyla and all the family. Rest In Peace.

Liz Hunter

February 15, 2022

RIP Steve, we wish our time with you was longer here in earth. . Thank you for sharing your love with our mother, you made her the happiest we ever had seen her. Rest in eternal peace!

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