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Donald R. Abraham

1935 - 2017

Donald R. Abraham obituary, 1935-2017, Norman, OK

Donald Abraham Obituary

Donald R. Abraham

Donald Ray Abraham of Elk Point, SD died January 28, 2017 in Norman, OK while visiting family members. A memorial service will be held February 4, 2017 at 10:30 am at Brule Creek Lutheran Church of rural Elk Point with Pastor Steve Martens officiating. The family will be present one hour before the service.

Donald was born September 20, 1935 to Roy and Sarah (Sommervold) Abraham near Spink in rural Union County South Dakota. All four of Don's grandparents were born in Norway. He was the second child of the family with an older sister Shirley (now deceased) and younger brother Robert (Marilyn) of Alcester, SD. His youth was spent on his parent's farm and his education began in a one-room school house called Pleasant Hill. He graduated from Alcester High School in 1954, was honorably discharged from the US Army after 3 years in 1959, graduated from Augustana College (BS) in Sioux Falls 1961, University of Wyoming (MS) 1963, Kansas State University (PhD) 1972.

He married Mary J. Urbigkit in August 1963 in Riverton, WY. The couple have two sons David (Cindy) of Wauchula, FL and Elk Point, SD, and Eric (Jane) of Norman, OK, and three grandchildren Ryan, Ethan, and Emily.

Don and Mary Abraham enjoyed extensive travel visiting every state in the US and 36 countries worldwide. Included in these travels Dr. Abraham was employed by Indiana University in Malaysia for 2 ½ years, and by Waldorf College in Tanzania, Africa. He was a professor of physics at the University of South Dakota for 17 years where he served as chair and retired in 1997. He pursued research in his field of nuclear physics at three National Laboratories: Los Alamos, NM, Oak Ridge, TN, and Argonne, IL as well as Kansas State University. He was the first president of the Elk Point Jefferson Educational Foundation organized to provide scholarships for EPJ students. He was a member and past president of the Lions Club in Elk Point. He has served on boards of Thrivent Financial, Bethesda of Beresford, The American Farm Bureau, Union County Irrigators, and SD Corn Producers. Don was a past council member for Brule Creek Lutheran Church, Elk Point, SD and Grace Lutheran Church, Springfield, IL.

Donald's favorite pastime on the farm which he and Mary owned and operated in Union County was training saddle and driving horses. They used them for many pack trips into the Rocky Mountains, Black Hills, and other national forests. More recently he has pursued the less rigorous pastimes of playing bridge with his wife and chess with his grandchildren.

He is survived by his wife, sons, brother, grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.

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Published by Argus Leader on Jan. 31, 2017.

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Duane Ludwig

January 25, 2023

Hi Mary,
I can't believe it has been 6 years since Don died. I have many fond memories of Don and his Mom, Dad, and siblings. As you may know, I enlisted in the Army with his brother Robert and we spent 3 years together in boot camp and at Fort Eustis, VA. What you may not know is that I credit Don with inspiring me to quit farming, go back to college and change my career, which ultimately meant I spent the bulk of my life in CA where I still live. I lost my wife Joyce the day after Christmas so am now like you, without a spouse after nearly 66 years. Our anniversary date was 12/29.
Hope you are wellk.

Salome

July 3, 2020

Mary, I just saw this today and remember Don teaching me how to ride a horse and how to drive. He was a remarkable man and a great father figure to me from Waldorf Tanzania to SD. He will be greatly missed. My condolences to you and your family.

January 28, 2019

Mary,
Hard to believe 2 years have already passed. While we didn't often keep in touch as adults, I have many fond memories from our high school days. I was the fortunate fourth member riding in the car with Don driving and Shirley and Robert being the other passengers.

Duane Ludwig

D Iverson

March 14, 2017

Dr. Abraham helped me to become a teacher of Physics and I have enjoyed a huge amount of success in my career thanks to this generous man. He was a mentor and an inspirational teacher and I wish I would have had time to say this to him in person.

Daniel Thompson

February 27, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss. I was very fortunate to get the opportunity to play bridge against Don at tournaments and believe me when I tell you that a person's true heart often becomes visible in those events.
Don had a heart of gold and my condolences go out to Mary and family.

David Armstrong

February 15, 2017

Don converted me to physics my very first class, and entertained me with puzzles, like i^i=?, when I visited his office.He was a good neighbor, delightful conversationalist, sincere friend, and the most complete educator I have ever known.

Arlen Viste

February 9, 2017

Condolences and blessings to Mary and family.

February 4, 2017

Please be comforted by all your family and friends who love you so much. I have such fond memories of Don when he and my dad got together and went horse back riding on Boots, And all the great discourse on farming and other subjects; I only wish I had a tape recording of those conversations.
Just know I am praying for y'all today
Psalm 119:28

Love,
Le Ann Klemme Barnes

February 3, 2017

Very nice man. Comfort prayed to family for his loss.

February 1, 2017

"Happy are those who mourn, since they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4

February 1, 2017

Sorry for your loss, you have my deepest sympathy. I know how it feels to lose a loved one. May the God of all comfort be with you in your time of grief.

Janell Beck

January 31, 2017

You have my sympathy in the loss of your special loved one. What an accomplished scholar.
Love and Prayers.

Ann

January 31, 2017

I'm very sorry for your loss during this difficult time. May prayer comforts and strengthen you and the family. 1 Thess. 5:17

Duane Ludwig

January 31, 2017

So sorry to hear of Don's passing. He was my first chauffer as I rode with him to Alcester High School my freshman (his sophomore) year. His brother Robert and I entered the Army together. A lifelong friend. He will be missed.
Duane Ludwig (and Joyce)

January 31, 2017

My condolences to all in the family. I hope you all find comfort in the lord at this very difficult time in your lives. John 11:22

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