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David Gower Obituary
October 23, 1955 - January 26, 2025
SKANEATELES - David John Gower, 69, of Skaneateles, passed away at his home on January 26, 2025. David was born on October 23, 1955 to Leonard and Sally Netti Gower in Auburn, NY.
After graduating from Auburn High School, he went on to be a Hair Stylist before starting a long career with the NYS Canal Corp. as a Marine Engineer. David was proud of his 34 years with the Canal, and found great fulfillment in being one of the last "Canalers" to witness the transition from barge traffic to recreational waterway. Once retired, he spent his time outdoors enjoying the sun, horse racing, and the occasional game of golf.
Being an avid Raiders fan and an all around lover of sports, he made his biggest imprint with his annual summer basketball leagues where he not only organized, but refereed for over 40 years. Anyone who knew David can attest to two things for certain: his sense of humor and his need to ensure everyone had enough to eat.
David was predeceased by his father, Leonard Gower. He is survived by his mother, Sally Gower; and daughter, Kaitlin Avery (Chase); as well as his brother, Tony Gower.
Visitation will be held at Farrell's Funeral Service, Inc 84 South Street Auburn, NY on Friday, February 7, 2025 between 4 to 7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, please remember David with donations to the ASPCA , 41 York street Auburn NY 13021.
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Memories and Condolences
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Stevo
March 7, 2025
To the Family, I'm so sorry about you lose, he was a great friend. Hey Brother, you are now at peace! You're now among some friends.
CHUCK MEDORO
February 8, 2025
"MY CONDOLENCES TO DAVID'S FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND LOVED ONES. YOU ARE MISSED, DAVID. GONNA MISS YOUR SMILE AND OUR CHATTER! REMEMBER OUR YOUTH WHEN SPORTS WERE KING AND PAIN DIDN'T EXIST! WELL, YOU'VE MADE IT HOME. GOD BLESS YOU! HI, TO ALL OF OUR LITTLE BUDDIES!!! LOVE YOU... CHUCKIE
john l. allen
February 7, 2025
My condolences to the family. We have shared some very entertaining moments and a lot of laughs. He was truly social guru. You will be missed Dave. RIP
Ron Dushatinski
February 7, 2025
Met Dave many many years ago while hanging out at The Neighborhood House on Wall Street. We continue to see each other via city league sports. And we shared a passion with Da Raiders. RIP Dave
Edward Charles (Spike)
February 7, 2025
Sally and family I am very sorry for your loss David. My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Bob Fedigan
February 7, 2025
Condolences to the Gower family. RIP Dave.
David and Mary Beth Haswell
February 6, 2025
Dave was a vital part of our neighborhood. We spent many afternoons talking about everything under the sun(while he was catching some sun).
He always had a smile. We´re going to miss him.
Bob Dillabough aka Bubbles
February 6, 2025
Sorry to hear of Daves passing,way to soon my friend.You will forever be missed my fellow canaler.RIP
Michael DeAngelis
February 6, 2025
Rest in peace my GOOD FRIEND. YOU BE SADLY MISSED!!!!
Sarah Taylor
February 5, 2025
R.I.P David.
Kristin Ratliff
February 5, 2025
My thoughts, Prayers and hugs to all of David's family and friends, on your huge loss. David was a great person and friend. All who knew him, liked him. Gone way too soon! Rest peacefully, David. You will be so very much missed!
RoseAnn AlfIeri
February 5, 2025
My deepest sympathy to David´s family. We all grew up in the same area. Prayers for the family.
Jim Churchill
February 5, 2025
An old Irish prayer: May the road rise to mere you, may the wind be always at your back and may you be in Heaven a half hour before the devil knows your gone! I'm pretty sure you made it, Dave. RIP
Jim Churchill '73.
David M Feneck
February 4, 2025
Rip Mr gower remember Dave reffing in Auburn City league football.played many yrs as a player having him and Robin doing the games.A big NFL fan indeed
Kihm Winship
February 4, 2025
"Uncle Dave" was a great friend to our dog, Ivy, and he never missed a chance to give her treats when she was walking around his block. She knew him and loved him, and we are going to miss him sitting out on the porch and shouting, "Ivy!" when she came charging up his walk. He fed the birds and squirrels as well, and had such a good heart.
Larry Quill
February 4, 2025
Condolences to the family.
RIP Dave
Mike Italiano
February 4, 2025
Great guy, loved playing city league touch football back in the day. Great humor and fun to be around. Dave will be missed.
Mike DiMatteo
February 4, 2025
Prayers to the Gower family
Marilyn Castiglione
February 4, 2025
Haven't seen you in a long time dave...so sad to hear of your passing but we share many years of memories
Lorna
February 4, 2025
So sorry for your familys loss. I worked with Dave for many years on the canal. I can still here him yelling over to the other boats and them yelling back across....lol, He was a good guy to work with. thoughts & Prayers are with you all, sorry I will not be able to make it. Fly high Dave until we meet again. R.I.P
Ed Pines
February 4, 2025
RIP David. Going to miss our conversations we had about the great Roberto Clemente, and rooting for the Pirates. Really enjoyed our talks about our similar political views. Again, David enjoy the heavenly journey, and again , thanks for being a friend.
Bill connors
February 4, 2025
Dave was a great guy will also remember his smile and his wonderful personality RIP Dave
PJ Iaria
February 4, 2025
Friend since preschool, neighbor and great guy. We had some times. So sad.
Brian Hester
February 4, 2025
Sorry to hear about David passing. Did lots of stuff with David back in the days. God bless him.
Dale Gamba
February 4, 2025
Rest in Peace my friend
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