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Sponsored by Adam's Mom & Dad.You will live on in our hearts forever, until we meet again in heaven!.
Pilar Quintana
May 29, 2025
~Forever would have never been long enough
~until then, blessings all family is reunited with Adam and Lord Jesus Forever~
Song : I Exalt Thee by Jesus Culture
For thou Oh Lord art high above all the earth.. thou art exalted far above all gods.. Tell Lord Jesus he is worthy tell him he is Holy. And this Love for You Lord Jesus, like Adam's Love is what we bring to You Lord Jesus.. like Adam made it so easy to Love him..Family Look To The Clouds for images from Adam like hearts, angels, images of special meaning, hearts punched out of clouds. Especially go to cementary when there's lots of clouds. The Love for Adam is Huge, so
Thank You Holy Spirit for Huge clouds of Love images from heaven
Your Mom, Jane
October 23, 2021
Dearest Adam, my beloved son. Another year without you. Missing you more than ever. 16 years. I keep praying for that Lazarus miracle.....somehow,I feel that God is going to answer my prayer. The world is so messed up right now, I think God is ready appear and start performing miracles, just to remind everyone HE is still with us. I LOVE YOU ADAM JOSEPH SMITH!
Your Mom
August 19, 2021
52 years ago tonight, I felt you kicking extra hard, I had a feeling you wanted to come early, and you did. 9 AM we were on our way to the hospital. After SEVENTEEN HOURS of labor, you arrived. I loved you " The first time ever I saw your face". I miss you so much Adam ~ I see your face every single day in my mind & long for one of your hugs. HAPPY 52 BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN ADAM. Love, Mom
Kirkus Maximus
August 25, 2020
Happy Birthday Old Friend!
Thanks for everything...
Jack Hackman
November 2, 2019
I didn't know it was your birthday. I ran across my old photo discs and there yo were. I lookthe same LOL
Jane Smith
August 17, 2017
As your 48th birthday approaches I am remembering all of the happy memories you left behind with your family & friends. This Saturday we will all be at Brophy to honor your memory with a balloon release at the JC Crew Fountain, in front of your beautiful tree. I miss you so very much my loving Son. Please spend some time with us soon. Love, Mom
Maddiie Giving Baxter Love
Mom Smith
August 22, 2015
Happy Birthday in Heaven my sweet son! 46 years! I miss you so very much Handsome! Tomorrow is your Balloon .Release. We'll all be there to honor your special day. Love you so much. I hope you met up with Baxter at the Rainbow Bridge ~ a very special gift for you I'm sure!!
Jonathan Hackman
February 14, 2015
It has been 10 years Adam and it could be a day. My best friend Mark and business partner died today. You now have more of the gang with you than exists here.
Victoria Soriano
August 22, 2011
Dear Adams family,
Yes we can imagine him joining Jesus celebrating and rejoicing. Each has a good memories to live by it is just a matter of choice. Philippians 1:21 "For me to live is Christ and to die is gain"
Mary Collins
January 27, 2010
Dear Dear Adam, how sad I am today. I looked for comfort and remembered this link. It would have been comforting for me, once again, to speak with you about my latest tragedy. But, as I'm sure you already know, my tragedy is that I lost my beautifiul husband Tim on Christmas Eve. I hope he has found you in heaven Adam, you were such a comfort to the both of us when we needed calm in our life. Somehow, knowing you are there with Tim would make me feel that much better.
We talked about you so many times over the past years Adam. You and your family made such an impression on the two of us. We've attended Catholic masses a number of times since your funeral mass and it always brought back the memory of a fine young man who left this earth much too soon.
Tim had a fatal heart attack, it came with no warning and took the love of my life away from me forever. I was devastated and thought I could not live on without him.
I came across your memorial picture folder about a week ago and it brought back the memories of your funeral services. The faith and love that your Mom and Dad exhibited has stayed with both Tim and I forever Adam. Strangely, all of this has given me the strength to go on and remember only the good memories - you being one of our very favorite memories over the past 4 years.
I hope and pray tht your family is doing well and that somehow they will understand what their strength during their darkest days has helped me to survive without my loving husband. I owe them and YOU so much.
Please tell Tim how much I love and miss him and tell him for me it's ok with me if he wants to dance with the angels, especially the pretty ones. I trust that if you have run into him already that he is dancing and even that makes me happy.
I look forward to the day when I can hug two very special men again.
Thank you Adam, and your family, for saving my life twice!
Mary Collins
August 21, 2009
We are thinking of you on your birthday and remember the little boy in Rosedale. Love, Eric & Gilda Hilton
Clare Reese
April 24, 2009
Adam & I were friends at the U. We both took Micro together & at times I had to depend on my "Bud" to help me make it through exams. All night study sessions & lots of java (Adam's pot never stopped)
I moved on to Cali and then to Australia where I have lived for the last 7 years.
A mutual friend gave me the devastating news of Adam's passing. I can't even begin to understand why someone like Adam would be taken from this world at such a young age. If I were asked to describe Adam I would begin with goodness, happiness, compassion and love.
The world is a sadder place without Adam in it and I would like to extend my sincere sympathies to his Mom and Dad. Their hearts must ache as mine will from this day on. He was a wonderful man, always willing to help anyone, yet never expecting anything in return. I'm sure God has rewarded Adam for all of his goodness, I will miss knowing he is among us.
Jack Hackman
November 8, 2007
Well buddy, I just looked at the pictures we took the last time we got together. You will always be young and happy in my memory. It'll be a few years but I'll see you again. Hope they have some good shopping up there. Jack
Leslie
October 2, 2007
To the Smith Family:
I know how you feel. I am so sorry for your lost too. As my best friend says, (she knows too) it doesn't get any easier it just gets different. My Adam is w/ your Adam. May God give you peace and strength. Remember you all will be together again. God Bless you
Anne Evans
August 19, 2007
Happy Birthday Adam I know you're having a good time in Heaven and you'll join in your families celebration at Brophy I wish I could be with everyone. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. Love Anne
Dottie Angel mom to Matthew Hagan ^i^
June 19, 2007
I never had the pleasure orf meeting Adam, My son Went home to heaven at 17 in April of 2003. May they watch over us all and God Bless you till we all meet again!
robert saenz
April 28, 2007
i met adam years ago ,would run into him often it was always nice to see him because his amazing smile would warm your heart,i think of him everytime i look at my linda carter wonder woman picture he gave me, im so very sorry about everyones loss, i just resently found out, God bless you adam...
Erin Secrest
October 3, 2006
I'll always remember being little and the three of us watching movies, tv, and playing. I wish we could have kept in touch better. It just reminds us of how precious time is and not to waste a single second of it!!
Jane Smith
May 5, 2006
Many of Adam's friends suggested that I post the address for Adam's memorial website here.
http://adam-smith.memory-of.com
The website was made with much love for Adam. I hope you find it a nice place to visit and maybe share a memory or two of times you may have shared with him.
Many have asked about Adam's dog, Baxter. Baxter is living with Rachel, Joe and the kids (Adam's sister's family) and is doing very well. Baxter knows he is a very lucky dog to be loved so much and cared for so tenderly.
We are all still taking it one day at a time. The absence of Adam in all of our lives has been very hard for us to deal with.
We, as his family will keep Adam's memory alive forever, he deserves at least that.
I hope you enjoy the Memorial Site.
Jane Smith
Adam's Mom
Sarah Powell
April 24, 2006
I am sorry for this loss.
Mom
January 10, 2006
Dearest Adam,
Not a very happy New Year without you. I hope where you are you are warm and safe, but most of all, happy and surrounded by people you love. Have you met my Grandparents yet? The sunsets are looking more and more beautiful each night, thank you for always reminding me that you are still with us. What I wouldn't do for a hug. Be happy my handsome son and watch over us until we meet again.
Mom
December 31, 2005
Dear Adam,
The saddest and most horrible year of my life is quickly coming to an end. I think there are still times that I am hoping someone will wake me from this nightmare and then reality sets in. I miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you, pray for you and talk to you. You left a huge void in my life my handsome son, BUT, your Mother still believes in miracles and I'm waiting patiently.
With All My Love,
Mom
Don Wasserman
December 29, 2005
"They" say that God puts certain people on this earth to do good deeds & never be recognized for a one. Last year, right before XMas I was "relieved" of my duties at the resort. It was right before Christmas, I had a brand new baby girl & a wife who counted on me. Losing my job was devastating & bad thoughts went through my mind. I knew Adam for just a few months, he was a "newbie" on the property. When he heard I lost my job he gave me a call and told me to keep my chin up. Easy for him to say. He told me "good things happen to good people" and that he was sure something would turn up that would prove to be better than the job I just left. He assured me life would go on and all would be well. A few days later he showed up at our house with a gift for our little girl (a box of socks & bibs) and a basket full of exotic soaps and teas for my wife. He gave me a friends name in San Diego and told me to give him a call. I did and I now manage a coffee house that does very well and my wife and I and Katie are very happy living in California. We came to Phoenix to visit family for the holidays and I stopped by the resort to say "Hi" .
I could not believe my ears when I was told Adam had died. Sara gave me this link and I felt I had to tell Adam's family & the world what a great guy Adam was and IS. We all lost a special person. My wife feels so bad she cried. When you get to meet someone as unique as Adam you begin to believe in those "higher powers" that some talk about. I'm not a man with much religion but my brief friendship with Adam is making me a believer. He called me to tell me everything would be ok the day that I was thinking about killing myself. He reminded me of all the good things in my life like my beautiful wife and my Katie. He assured me life would go on and it did. I'm so sorry that life did not go on for Adam. But I remember what he said "good things happen to good people" so I can just imagine where he is right now and who he is hanging out with. Rest in peace my friend and I promise you this, I will teach my Katie all about Adam Smith and let her know one day that he is the reason she still has her Daddy.
Don Katherine & Katie Wasserman
San Diego California
Mom
December 25, 2005
Your first Christmas in Heaven my Handsome Son. I miss you so very much Adam, but knowing you are with the Lord gives me peace. I will miss your Santa hat and that beautiful smile today ~ it just won't be Christmas without you.
Know that I love you more than ever and wish I could have just one more day with you. Merry Christmas, and remember Adam, you are still the love of my life.
All My Love,
Ernest Saunders
December 22, 2005
I'm a Winter visitor to Arizona. My wife and I have been coming here for the last 15 years. We just learned of Adam's passing from a mutual friend and we would like to offer our sympathy to his family. Adam was a fine young man, well liked and respected. No task was too difficult for Adam, no favor too big. His kindness was his greatest attribute and his family & friends his most valued possessions. We all mourn the loss of a truly good man, we will miss him. May he rest in peace as we know he went straight to heaven.
Ernie and Pat Saunders
Mom
December 11, 2005
Sunday, December 11, 2005
My Dearest Son Adam,
Today marks 10 weeks Handsome. Nothing has gotten better, I miss you more each day. I pray for you and too you Adam. I never thought you were going to die my sweet Son and I'm having a very hard time dealing with the loss. Please send down some of your love and help me smile again, I know you can.
I love you Adam and miss your smile so much. Rest in peace my love.
Love,
Mom
Rhonda & Joel Epstein
December 7, 2005
My husband and I have been regular guests at the Phoenician for many years. We were stunned to hear the news of Adam Smith's death. We got to know Adam quite well over the years and really do feel horrible right now. It just can't be, it should NOT be! A finer young man we have never met. He had such a big heart and an even bigger smile. 4 years ago in December it was Adam who broke the news of my daughter's accident and death to us. He carried an email to our suite and suggested that we allow him to read it to us. The news was of course devastating and I thought I would die on the spot. Adam was so kind and thoughtful and gave us this terrible news in the most gentle way. He stayed with us and dried my tears for a good part of the evening. He showed true concern and compassion to Joel and I.Adam was a wonderful man and deserved alot more out of life. It breaks my heart to think of his passing away. May his spirit shine on forever and I know that the Lord had a special place prepared for our Adam. We will miss him terribly and we offer our sympathy to his family. We feel like we must know you just from what Adam always told us about his family. We pray that the Lord will give you strength during these difficult days, weeks and months ahead. You shared a wonderful young man with the rest of the world, you can be very proud of him. Now the Lord has taken him to Paradise and we should all feel so happy for Adam, he's got it better than all of us right now. He deserves all that God bestows on him. God Bless you Adam Smith and rest in peace always.
Sadly,
Rhonda and Joel Epstein
Bob & Renee Sutter
November 30, 2005
"Gone Too Soon"
Like A Comet
Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky
Gone Too Soon
Like A Rainbow
Fading In The Twinkling Of An Eye
Gone Too Soon
Shiny And Sparkly
And Splendidly Bright
Here One Day
Gone One Night
Like The Loss Of Sunlight
On A Cloudy Afternoon
Gone Too Soon
Like A Castle
Built Upon A Sandy Beach
Gone Too Soon
Like A Perfect Flower
That Is Just Beyond Your Reach
Gone Too Soon
Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight
Here One Day
Gone One Night
Like A Sunset
Dying With The Rising Of The Moon
Gone Too Soon
Gone Too Soon
We are both very sorry about the loss of Adam.He was our friend and someone we always looked forward to spending time with. We will miss his loving heart.The world is a little darker and a little sadder now.Bless Adam's soul.
With Our Sincere Sympathy,
Bob & Renee
Carol Addison
November 29, 2005
Adam - you were one of a kind. You knew how to live life - you knew what was important and how to treat people. It didn't have to be fancy to make you happy, just as long as it was good, like a good cup of coffee. You, my dear friend, were the perfect example of a "good cup of coffee". You had it all Adam, and you shared it with everyone. A kinder more gentle man I have never known, it was a privilege to share just a small part of your life. I get on my knees each night now, praying to you my dear friend. I know where you are! It's glorious, isn't it? I will miss you always Adam, until we meet again. One more thing - you were so right! Sometimes.........life sucks.
Rest in peace my angel,
Carol
Mom
November 27, 2005
To My Handsome Son,
Today marks 8 weeks since you left us. These have been very hard days and weeks and I fear the coming weeks and months are only going to get worse. I miss you Adam. I miss your smile, your hugs, your "hello there". I've talked to the Lord over and over again, asking for a special favor, please send Adam back to us ~ that's all I want. I think He wants you too much though, so I'll have to accept His wishes. I talk to you every day, throughout the day, I know you hear me. I'm so sorry this happened to you Adam, I wish there had been something I could have done, it all happened so fast. I tried my best but I guess it wasn't enough. I know that you are with the Lord now and in such a wonderful, wonderful place, for that I am so thankful, but that does not stop the pain or the tears. You were my baby and I don't think I will ever get over losing you, not even a little bit. Be happy my love, keep painting those beautiful sunsets, we are all watching them every night. I hope some night you'll paint a special one and leave me a message, hint, hint. Your family and friends have left such beautiful messages here for you, I hope you are reading each one of them. You were loved by so many in life Adam, and we all still love you just as much, even though you've gone on to be with God and all his angels in heaven. Take care of us, please, and be watchful, we'll be joining you one by one in the years to come. I wonder about something, how beautiful was the reunion at the "Rainbow Bridge"?
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
I would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you back again
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No on will ever know
But know we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store
Since you’ll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you’ll always stay
All My Love,
Mom
Kathy Breen
November 25, 2005
Dear Jane, Fred, Rachel, Joe and Family,
I can't help but sit here and think of each of you and how sad you must feel. Having known Adam as a young child, it is quite obvious after reading the many messages, he continued to grow into a very special person. I picture him walking around the classroom helping children who needed help. He didn't even realize how smart he was....he just did what came natural to him...even at the young age of 6. You are one of the most loving families I have ever met. I am sure that love and support will help you through the many days ahead.
You are in my prayers and thoughts.
Love,
Kathy
(Adam's lucky first grade teacher.)
Jerry McDonald
November 25, 2005
With Thanksgiving, the time has come to try and put my feelings and thanks for all friendship, loyalty, integrity and love that you brought to my life. I continue and will always continue to feel a large void in my life, a void you filled and that no other could ever fill. You were a valued friend that word could never do justice. I just hope in some small way, you might know how deeply you effected my life and how thankful I am that you chose to be there. It is clear from this book that the amount of people that share the same feeling is considerable; I just wanted you to know I never look all that we shared for granite. You have and will continue to mean the world to me. On this Thanksgiving Holiday, I give thanks to you! May the love and friendship you gave to others comfort you forever!
Much love,
Jerry
Dana Trudeau
November 23, 2005
Too soon Adam, you left much too soon. You still had so many wonderful things to do. God looked down and said "he's too good for them, I want him back." Life is not fair! I hope the music is the best ever, that there are 99 cent stores where ever you look and that everyone is watching you dance your feet off. Adam, you were unique and I miss you every day. I saw your family - they loved you so much. Whenever I hear that song - Fragile - I will think of you- probably cry like a baby and remember how much I loved you . Tell my Mom I love her. Rest in peace Adam.
Carla West
November 22, 2005
The dearest man in the world has been gone for almost 2 months now. I miss him so much. I miss the kindness and fun and true caring that surrounded Adam - things that he always shared with his friends easily. Dana and I were both at Adam's funeral but we didn't know about this book until the other day. I just wanted to add that not only was Adam kind, gentle, loving and thoughtful but I thought he was one of the most handsome men I knew. He knew how to dress, he knew how to treat people with love and respect and he knew how to do his job, no matter what it was - he always gave 200% of himself to whatever the project was - whether it had to do with work or his personal life. Everyone always knew they could count on Adam. I no longer have that special person to count on. I miss you Adam - so much. I think of you often and can't help but think about how handsome you were, even in death. Thank you for sharing yourself with so many, I know you are in Paradise now so I should not feel bad for you, I guess it is myself that I feel sorry for. Thank you for being the music in my life Adam. Your funeral services were just beautiful, musical of course, but oh so beautiful in so many ways. I think that's why you had that little smile on your face. You approved! So did all of your family and friends, I'm sure. You got the send off of a King if you ask me and you thoroughly deserved it. See you in Paradise my love.
Sadly,
Carla
Audrey & Justin Pennington
November 17, 2005
Family & Friends of Adam,
Please accept our sympathy. We had dinner with the Rogets Sunday evening and they gave us this very sad news. We're staying with our daughter this year so we never heard anything mentioned at the Phoenician about our poor Adam. What a wonderful man he was, what a terrible loss this must be for all who knew and loved him. Justin and I were quite fond of Adam, he was always so kind and attentive to us and our needs. A memory just flashed back in my mind. I think it was 5 or 6 years ago when Adam explained how he and his family had to put his dog Max to sleep. I recall the name because our dog's name was Maxwell also). Adam was so sad about losing his 4-legged friend. Justin and I felt terribly for him and sat and had coffee with him one evening shortly after. The compassion he showed for his little dog defined Adam. He was a warm and compassionate young man, with a smile that made you feel good. The thought that just came into my mind is that he is now with his little friend once again, that must have been a beautiful reunion. I'm happy for Max that he has his Master back but sad for the rest of the world that we have lost such a good person. Adam's family had much to be proud of in this fine young man.
May God take him to a very high place in heaven and I look forward to meeting Adam once again someday, and we will meet again, of that I am sure! God bless you much Adam Smith.
Lovingly,
Audrey & Justin
Sean McKenny
November 16, 2005
My sincerest sympathy to Adam's family. This online memorial was just brought to my attention and I wanted to be sure to add my thoughts and feelings. Adam and I have been friends for about 3 years and I can tell the world that he was the best kind of friend to have.We may not have seen one another often but we both knew we had each other's backs for whatever/whenever. He was sensitive to people's feelings and I say that was Adam's standout quality. I am thankful that I was able to attend Adam's funeral Mass, it's one I won't forget. It was done with taste and sensitivity to the man we were honoring. I can't help but mention this right now. I could feel the pain, total anguish that Adam's Mom was experiencing that morning, it was all over her face. Yet, very much like her son, she was sensitive to other people's feelings and approached each of us one at a time to comfort us and tell us "she was ok so we had to be ok". We had never met until that morning but she is a lady I will never forget and I emphasize lady. How a Mother could handle herself like she did, under such extreme pressure and sadness amazed me and still does. I now know from where Adam came, he was a lucky man. The final piece of music that was done at the end of the Mass did not go unnoticed. After meeting Adam's Mom I knew that he truly was the love of her life. I ache for her loss. I hope she knows that she made Adam proud with all that she did to help us all celebrate the life of this super great guy. I would also like to mention here that I have not been very good about my faith or going to church for a number of years now. After seeing the way a person's faith could bring her through such a tragedy, the loss of her loving son, I have started back to church again and I feel wonderful about myself. Thank you for this "Adam's Mom". Bless you, as well as the rest of your loving family. Adam is smiling down on you now and forever.
With much thanks,
MaryAnn Bellows
November 15, 2005
Adam and I were friends from Tucson. When I moved to Phx. Adam helped me get settled, did the garage sale rounds with me for furniture, etc. and even helped me get a job with a friend of his. Adam seemed tireless when it came to helping his friends, I've heard that from many people. He was always so full of energy & life - it's hard to believe that his life has been cut short at such an early age. My Mother once told me that the good die young and usually with a smile on their faces. I was not able to attend Adams furneral services, but friends that did told me he definitely had a smile on his face and that the church was full of people there to celebrate his life. What a lucky man to be loved by so many, I heard how everyone kept standing up and saying the most beautiful things about Adam. Its taken me so long to write these few words about Adam online but if I had been in the church I would have said "Adam was the man I should have brought home to Mom, he was the whole package". "Adam, thank you for allowing me into your life and for making mine so much better.
I know that God must have taken you into His arms and told you what a special person you've been to so many, Adam. Rest in peace sweet friend, you brought such happiness into this world, you lived your life well and you've earned eternal rest and happiness with your Creator. Thank you for being my friend!" "I love you, always did."
MaryAnn
Hollis Printing/Maria & Tony's
Ellen Bigelow
November 14, 2005
I am Anne Bigelow's Mom. Last year my husband and I brought Anne to Arizona to be seen by doctors at the Mayo Clinic, she had been ill for awhile and we were getting no answers at home. During our stay in Arizona, Anne met Adam & the 3 of us were blessed by Adam's friendship. Adam had a way about him. He made people feel good. He certainly made Anne feel good about life again. Her father & I were so thankful to him. Upon hearing about Adam's passing, Anne & I could do nothing but cry --- for Adam as well as ourselves. We were so looking forward to spending time with him again this year, Anne especially. This really is a cruel world. I am so sorry for Adam's family. Let me assure you that Adam will always remain a very special person in my heart. He treated our daghter with kindness & respect & was always a complete gentleman. Adam knew Anne was sick but still gave her hope for the future. Little did we know that Adam would leave this world before our Annie. I am still in the state of shock. I hope he did not suffer. I am quite sure God's angels took this loving young man right to heaven. To his Mom I would like to say a personal "thank you" for bringing this gentle soul into the world. Adam helped this family more than you could know. I'm convinced it was God's plan for Annie to meet Adam. My deepest, deepest sympathy to Adam's family, know that he made you proud! You will all be in our prayers. Please remember our Annie in your prayers too.
Respectfully,
Ellen R. Bigelow
Anne Bigelow
November 14, 2005
It was just about a year ago that we met at the resort. I told you that I would see you in a year. On my arrival last Sat. I was shocked to hear the horrible news of Adam's death. It's always the nice guys it seems. For his family: Adam was just a good man, through & through. For Adam: I'm sorry you were cheated out of a full life. Pray for me please. My diagnosis is Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, I will probably see you soon anyway. Thank you for being the really nice guy I needed to meet last year. You made my time in Ariz. very special. God bless you Adam. I pray for you and TO you.
Christina Gomez-Weiss
November 9, 2005
Adam and I met years ago in a Microbiology class at the UofA. We got along very well, I think in part, because we had similar souls, and because we were both pretty bright. Micro was a challenge, but Adam turned it into a game, and we both did well. One young lady who will remain nameless, was not the brightest student, she just didn't get it! Adam felt sorry for her, and offered to tutor her. Long story short, she learned easily with Adam and in the end, did better than the both of us. I don't ever remember hearing her say "thank you", but then, Adam never expected anything from anyone. The sad part of this story is that she went on to be accepted into the College of Pharm, as was I. Adam was passed over. I could never understand that - he was the one who had it all together. She failed and I went on to attain the famous "Mrs" degree,and left school, in other words, 2 spots in the college were wasted and Adam was left out. Was he disappointed? Oh YES! Did he let it consume him? NO! Adam accepted life the way it was handed to him, the good and the bad. I don't think there was a soul he didn't like and everyone loved Adam. Is it right that we've lost him at such a young age? NO! Am I angry? NO, just JEALOUS! Heaven and all it's angels get to enjoy Adam for an eternity, he was just a blink in our lives, but a blink that I am sure we all think of with love and yes, some sadness. Adam was kind and gentle. He was a loyal friend, a loving son and brother and one of the best things that ever happened in many people's lives. Adam was a gift that we all got to share. God bless him always. I know he's very busy in heaven getting it in order for the rest of us. I haven't seen Adam in about 4 years, but have thought of him often with a smile and spoke to him while he was at the Phoenician, wowing them with his artistic abilities and his zest for life. You hold a special piece of my heart, Adam and I miss you, now more than ever. Show them how to do it up there with your special style and do me a favor, huh? Crash one or two of my dreams!
Missing your presence in this world,
Chris
Joan Marie Collins
November 7, 2005
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Smith
I just found out about this online book and wanted to say a few words. Adam was the best! We all looked up to him for his honesty and willingness to help. I spoke to you Saturday morning after the mass for Adam. With all the sadness that surrounded you, you still took the time to ask my name and thank me for coming to Adam's services. I knew Adam came from a good family but did not realize just how good until I met both you and your husband. Thank you for making us all feel better at a time when we should have been doing that for you. The 2 of you and Adam's sister certainly acted with grace & dignity at a very difficult time. I feel honored to have taken part in Adam's funeral services, they were handled in such a beautiful way, just as Adam was a beautiful person. I hope you are all doing better day by day. I think of you all often. God Bless.
With Love,
Joan Marie
Dana Tramonte
November 7, 2005
I was very sorry to hear about Adam. He was a good person and I will miss him. I'm sorry I was not able to attend his services. My grandmother passed away just the day before Adam and I have been in Connecticut for the last month seeing to her estate. I've thought of Adam often during the time I've been away and pray that his family has been given the grace necessary to deal with this tragedy. I for one can tell you what a good man Adam was and I know God took him right to heaven. Now we all have someone special up there to help guide us through this crazy life. Heaven will become that much more beautiful because a true artist has moved in. My sympathy to Adam's family and loved ones.
Very sincerely,
Dana Tramonte
Daniel Crossan
November 6, 2005
Beautifully said! Adam has every reason to be proud of his Mom. He always said you were a special type of Mom, now I see why. You show so much grace with the way you handle all that has happened over the last month. Thank you for giving us the chance to celebrate the life of one hell of a great man!! We all miss him and I know he misses us, but he's got important "work" to tend to for the best Boss he's ever had!
You are to be complimented Mom. You made him proud right to the end.
Dan Crossan
(I worked with Adam )
Mom
November 5, 2005
To My Handsome Son Adam,
You know how much I love you and how very much I miss you. Words could not explain the empty feeling inside of me each day. These are such sad days, yet your memory keeps us smiling and remembering the good times. I could not have had a better or more loving Son and I know that the Lord knew that. He wanted you for something much more important and I know you will not disappoint Him. This Guest Book gives Dad and I much comfort and I thought it was time for me to begin adding my thoughts. For today, I want to share this with you and your family and many friends. I love you Adam, and always will. I know that you are still with me ~ I feel your presence and your sweet love.
The Broken Chain
We little knew that morning,
that God was going to call your name
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone;
For part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide
And though we cannot see you
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one
The Chain will link again.
I will always love you Adam,
Mom
Philip & Sally Rauch
November 4, 2005
My husband & I are part time residents of AZ. We met Adam at an estate sale a number of years ago. He was busy shopping for 50s era furniture as I remember. He told us about his historical house that he was so proud of and even gave us a tour. He highly recommended the phoenician resort for Sunday brunch and Phil & I began enjoying this affair on a regular basis. On many occasions we would have the pleasure of spending time with Adam and he always seemed to have the best suggestions as far as where to go, what to do and where to find some of the best estate sales. He was always a polite young man, very creative and just full of information. My husband and I arrived in town Saturday and just heard the sad news. A co-worker of Adam's informed us about this website. Please accept our most sincere sympathy. Adam was an exceptional young man and my husband and I mourn his death with his family. We're sure heaven is a little brighter because of his presence there and alot more colorful. Our prayers go out to his family. We are very much sorry for your loss. God bless Adam's soul. "Farewell Adam, until we meet again, and we will meet again!"
Respectfully,
Phil & Sally Rauch
Susan Weir
November 3, 2005
Dear Mr & Mrs Smith & Family
I worked with Adam and I did attend his funeral services. I did not approach you because I know what a private time this is. I was not aware of this book online until this morning & I wanted to add a few words. Let me start off by saying that Adam was one of a kind. I always used to joke with him that his Mommy & Daddy did a great job raising him to be a gentleman and and an all around fun person to be with. He helped me out so much when I was a new employee and always seemed to have time to explain even the simple things. When I was still new in town and "low on funds" he treated me to many nice lunches and even cooked the most wonderful Chinese meal for me at his home. We just had so much fun together no matter what we were doing. When I got the news Adam had passed away a piece of me died with him. How will so many of us do without Adam in our lives? I talk to him every day now and ask him to put in a few good words with the Man in charge. Adam's funeral services were like none I have ever seen. Respectful, yet there was a light atmosphere present in the church, something Adam was probably smiling down on, Adam liked things kept light and happy. His friends had so many beautiful things to say about him, unfortunately I was too embarrassed to stand up or I would have said something about this special man. A few of the things that impressed me so much about Adam's services were his friend reading a comic book to him,his sister's beautiful, heartfelt eulogy and the minister who did his services - he was crying, I think that is rare and my heart was aching for him. I knew I was not the only one who loved Adam, but the outpouring of love during his funeral proved to me that he was indeed a very special man and I feel so honored to have shared a friendship with him. I watched both you and your husband, who I know so much about from Adam, and thought you were both so composed yet I could see the aching sadness in your faces. You both made Adam proud, I promise you that. Adam's life was celebrated and that is exactly what he would have asked us all to do. The two of you did something so beautiful for Adam and you are to be congratulated. I know none of it could have been easy. Thank you for sharing the celebration of Adam's life with all of us. I say a prayer for you each day, asking the Lord to take a little bit of your pain away one day at a time. Adam may have left this world, but he is still with us on another level. I miss his presence and his caring ways but his memory stays with me always.
My Sympathy Goes Out to You All,
Sue Weir
Rafe Watts
November 2, 2005
Adam,
Gone too soon man! The world got cheated! One of the most talented guys I've ever known and a good dude through & through. You are missed but will always be remembered as one heck of a nice guy. Enjoy eternal rest, you always worked too hard, now it's your turn to put your feet up and "manage".
Rock On Adam,
Rafe
Pamela Pearson
November 1, 2005
To The Smith Family,
I met Adam about 5 years ago. We hit it off immediately and became good friends. Adam was my "go to guy", the one I went to when I wanted to feel good about life & people in general. I don't think there was a soul on this earth that Adam didn't like and he tried making me into that kind of person. He succeeded in many ways and because of that, his memory will always stay with me. When I think of Adam, I think of smiles, dimples, music, dancing and kindness. There was a genuine kindness about Adam that made me love him so much. If I were to go to the dictionary to look him up, I would have to look under "gentle man" to find Adam Smith. A friend just moved here from Phoenix last week and she gave me the sad news of Adam's death. She also gave me this website and I knew I had to leave an entry for my guy. I know there is a world full of people out there who still don't know we lost Adam, and for all of them I would like to say I am sorry for the family, for his friends and the world in general. We lost a gem. Rest in peace Adam, I know I will see you again some day. I'm sorry your time was so short, but I guess God had bigger and better plans for you. Love you always.
Pam
michael trueson
November 1, 2005
Adam ~ Its almost time that we close this book. We have poured our hearts out one by one. I dreamed of Baxter last night and your mom and dad too. You were nowhere in sight and I guess now I realize it is true. My heart is still empty from the space left by you. But you showed me that the world is truly a happly place. You kindness toward humanity in the face of evil; your genuine spirit always seeing the best. You even helped me find me when I was totally lost. There are very few people in my life that I am able to see in them the face of God. You being one of the few. I am beginning to guess that just maybe this being the reason he took you.
Fred Jane & Rachel .. I have left my email address below for you. Please stay in touch. I will do the same. With love to you all
MJT
Michael Jacob Trueson
Brad Harrison
October 31, 2005
Adam was a great guy. I'm sorry I was not able to attend his services, but please accept my sympathy. He was a hard worker, a good friend to many and probably the most creative person I have ever met. He will be missed. Know that Adam did not leave this world without leaving his mark - a piece of him will always be seen in every sunrise and sunset, and in the eyes of Mattie, Regan and Aiden - he never stopped talking about his beloved nieces and nephew. I feel sad for their loss more than anyone's. Dance on Adam, we will be watching for your presence in our lives.
With Much Sadness,
Brad Harrison
Long Real Estate
Bob Sandler
October 29, 2005
I've been a guest at the Biltmore a number of times since Feb of this year. Adam Smith was an employee at the time and I just learned that he passed away. Adam was a fine, hard working young man who did all he could to make someone's stay comfortable. He helped me out in so many ways during my stays, and always with a smile. I was saddened to hear of his passing. I wanted his family to know what a fine young gentleman I thought he was. I would have been proud to call him my son. One of the girls told me about this guest list online and I am proud and honored to add my name and thoughts to it. The world should know Adam was special, we need more people like Adam gracing our lives. I'm an old man, I've see alot, heard alot and met alot of people in my lifetime, I'm thankful that I got to meet Adam, even if just on a business level. God bless his soul and my sympathy to his family.
Robert Sandler
Chicago
Leticia Bradford
October 28, 2005
Dear Smith Family
I have to agree with Liza, never have there been more beautiful services for someone who has passed on. Considering the man, the services were perfect! No more 14 hour days Adam. Now you've got all the time in the world to shop the 99 cent stores and I'll bet they are something else up in heaven. Shop on handsome man and never lose that beat, keep on dancing and dancing and dancing..........
All Love
Leticia
Liza Garcia
October 28, 2005
Dear Mr & Mrs Smith & Family
I don't think I've ever met a kinder man than Adam Smith.He was so much to so many. For me he was the friend I needed when I felt down or worried. He had solutions for everything and everybody. I was blessed by his friendship and love.
I attended Adam's services on Friday Oct 7 and Saturday Oct 8 and I just wanted to tell you what a beautiful tribute those 2 days were to Adam. I have never been to a funeral that I would call beautiful until I walked into the Church where Adam's body lay. The respect and dignity that you afforded Adam, the celebration of his life, rather than the mourning for his death, the beautiful words that were spoken by friends and family about this wonderful guy we called Adam, the music which was such an important part of his life, right down to his marbles sitting in a place of honor - there was nothing that you left out. I'm sure that Adam was smiling down and saying "thank you Mom and Dad for making my passing somthing that was more than just alot of tears" I know Adam was proud of his parents in life, in death I'm sure he was glowing. You could not have done it any better. The Father who celebrated Adam's mass obviously knew Adam and loved him - that was nice. Most of the time the clergy barely know the person who has passed away. This man loved Adam, I could tell. His sister, how beautiful she looked and how eloquently she spoke of her relationship and love for her brother. His friend, I could not get over this, reading to Adam as he rested in peace. The love that was felt in the church Friday night and Saturday morning said who Adam was and what he was about. He was a lucky man to have such wonderful family and good friends, yet most of us never realized what a very special person we had in Adam. He was everything to everyone and even Adam did not realize that. I know he is in heaven. I know he's caught the lord's ear already and I can't help but wonder if he's convinced the lord to "dance like no one is watching" yet. How lucky those angels are for they've got Adam all to themselves now. I will miss him more than I can say and I know that this is a very difficult time for all of you right now. I pray that the lord gives you some peace and that someday soon you will be able to smile again when you think of this beautiful man.
Thank you for 2 beautiful, spiritual, meaningful days. You made Adam so proud!
With lots of love,
Liza
Carol Keys (Lambert)
October 27, 2005
My sympathy to Adam's family. I could not believe the news I heard today. I was in Adam's Micro class along with Ginny Powers. We both thought he was a genius!! Nothing was too difficult for Adam to grasp and he was always willing to help any of us when we were completely lost and desperate. I would never have made it through the class without Adam's help. He was the most patient guy & never made me feel stupid. I always felt that he was cheated out of a spot in the College of Pharmacy and felt so badly for him. I know it changed the way he looked at the world in general, but obviously, from reading all of these postings, it doesn't sound like it changed the man. Adam was kind, considerate of others, gentle, loving, always fair - I could go on and on. He was a very special guy who many of us will miss. I feel honored to have known him as well as I did and I pray that he is dancing up a storm in heaven, enjoying the eternity that he so well deserves. My heart aches for his loss.
Sincerely,
Carol Keys
Tucson
Joe, Jinny & Kristen Perron
October 27, 2005
October 26, 2005
Dearest Fred, Jane, Rachel and
family:
How very saddened we were to read your e-mail, today, Janie, of
Adam's untimely passing. Our hearts
are breaking for you as so many
memories are being resurrected of our years together @ St. Joan of Arc Church, working on the Festival and on the Parish's 10th Anniversary.
Adam was just barely a teen-ager
then and was so very busy with his
friends that we didn't get to see
him too often, other than when he
came to see you on the Church
premises. What a handsome boy, he
was!
Remember how we laughed and joked in our long telephone conversations
about, maybe, becoming related, if
your Adam and our Kristen ever got together?
We have so many cherished memories of sharing "restaurant" meals with you and Fr. Fausto conversing
about the "kids".
We remember how you much you loved
and adored your Adam and Rachel
and what loving and respectful
children they both were.
On October 2, at about the same
time as Adam left this world to be
with our Heavenly Father, over
6000 of us were attending Rosary
Sunday, unbeknown, at that time as
we prayed the Holy Rosary for all
those in desperate need of prayer,
this would include Adam and his precious & loving family. May this be of some comfort to you in your sorrow.
All our love and prayers,
Joe, Jinny & Kristen
Sheryl Horgeshimer-Lovell
October 25, 2005
Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Rachel and Family,
Rachel called this evening to tell me about Adam. I am so saddened by his passing.
I have so many wonderful memories of him from high school. I remember the parties, the friends, the bowling, God & Marriage class, but most especially, from Brophy's Senior Prom. Of all the dances I ever went to, that evening was, by far, the best dance I had ever been to! We danced and danced and danced. I remember that it was Adam & I that started the dancing under that ridiculous tent in the Brophy Gym. That was the first dance I'd ever gone to in a limousine. And we ended the night having ice cream sundaes at your house.
Adam was a great friend. We lost contact with each other when he moved to Tucson to attend the UofA and I moved to Flagstaff to NAU. However, our Prom picture remained on the wall of my dorm room until I graduated. It still hangs on the wall in my parents' home.
After reading all of the wonderful messages written by people who knew Adam, I am most thankful to know that he remained that sincere, thoughtful man that he was at Brophy. Adam's death truly is a loss to all who ever knew him.
Too often it is the young, vivacious in our lives that are taken too soon. Always know that your son, your brother, your uncle, your cousin, and your friend lived life to its fullest. Now, it is his time to rest and our time to pick up where he left off. He set an example of selflessness, humor and sincere friendship that we cannot let die with him.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Most sincerely,
Sheryl
Kirk Callaghan
October 25, 2005
Adamsan,
Kirkus Maximus here.
I was always last to sign your yearbooks, so I guess it’s just appropriate to be late here too.
Sorry I had not been in closer touch with you lately, but as Rachael said, whenever we all did get together it was as if time had never passed.
Remember the long bus rides and switching buses to/from Brophy? Thanks for the comics that helped me pass the time.
Too many good times & good thoughts to list here ol’ buddy, you will be missed.
But one special thing that came to my mind when reflecting upon our friendship is this (and I’ve never told anyone):
Kraftwerk’s song, ‘Autobahn’ is 22 minutes & 43 seconds long. It was the exact amount of time it took me to drive from 24th st & Cactus to Brophy when I started to drive the Hornet to school. I would put the song into my tape player-only car stereo as I left my driveway and the song would finish as I pulled into the parking lot for Early Bird class. This was my morning routine for a long time. The only thing that ever interrupted this ritual was when I realized that you were still using the bus and were waiting at the bus stop on Central & Dunlap. Then, I started to pick you up and give you (and sometimes Rachel) a lift to school. We would listen to pop music or my rap songs that you guys had never heard before and would laugh & have a good time on the remainder of the drive. Then, I would drop you guys off by the fountain as I headed to Early Bird class. Sometimes the bus would get to you guys before I did, or I couldn’t stop because I had a test, etc.; but, generally speaking, picking you guys up became my new routine that I looked forward to each morning. Then, when you began to drive yourself to school or got rides, etc. my mornings became a little less exciting and interesting without you there.
I think that is how many of us are feeling right now; we are going back to our old routines, but our world is a little less bright, exciting & interesting without you here.
If I had known that I would have had such a limited amount of time to spend with you, I would have left early and/or not worried about my tests and I would have picked you up every morning.
All of us from the Brophy ‘JC Crew’ miss you more than we can say. I imagine you are still with us and watching over us.
I picture you in heaven and much like the comic book characters you enjoyed reading about, you likely have new powers & abilities. So, like those characters, you now have the responsibility to use these powers to watch over those people who need your help; namely your family & friends. Watch out for us and we’ll keep your memory alive with all our crazy tales & fun stories and we will see you again soon.
Love,
-Kirk
Bob Sheffield
October 25, 2005
To Adam's Family
I just learned of our terrible loss. Adam was a co worker, a friend and a decent, loving soul.
Adam was too good for this world and the Lord looked down and realized He needed him. Will miss your quick sense of humor and your caring ways. Adam was a unique man and one I'm proud to have known. The world mourns the loss of a true Gentle Man. My sympathy to his family, my heart cries with you.
Fondly,
Bob Sheffield
Wayne And Karen Day
October 23, 2005
Fred,Jane
It is hard to express the feelings we shared with Adam,Rachel,Brian,and Susan back in the 70's when our kids played together, Shared Cub Scouts and many parties together. Adam was a very bright happy boy. Our kids always seem to get along so well, I can't even imagine the loss you feel. I am thankful that our children had the opportunity to know each other and I am glad to see they signed Adam's Book. Although we have not seen each other for years I think once a true friendship is established you never really lose it. Adam will always be in our hearts and mind as the young cub scout that he was. He always excelled in everything he did. Our prayers are with him and you.
Love Karen and Wayne Day
Shane & Marti McCarty
October 21, 2005
Shane & I lived on 13 Street at the same time Adam did. One of our neighbors just let us know about Adam's passing. We don't know what to say except that we are so sorry for all of his family & friends. Adam was a genuine guy with a huge heart. He did something to our block when he moved into his house, I guess you could say he made the block a neighborhood, kind of like the Beaver's neighborhood. Shane and I would join Adam for coffee or one of his famous cups of flavored tea early on a Sat. or late evening. Simple things made Adam happy, something many people noticed about him. I brought him a little gadget to squeeze the tea bags with and you would have thought I brought him gold. Adam loved life and the people in his life. He loved his dog Baxter with a passion, where ever Baxter is now, we are sure his heart is broken. We hope he is being taken care of, Adam would want that. We are so sorry that Adam's life has been cut short at such an early age, even more we are sorry for ourselves and all of Adam's friends and family who will be deprived of this great guys presence in their lives. The world is a sadder place since Adam left. Keep him in your heart - everyone - for he will be looking down on us and guiding us each day. Adam is still with us only in a different way now. Love you always Adam.
Much Love,
Shane & Marti
Bob & Katie Benton
October 21, 2005
To Adam's Family,
Katie & I just heard the sad news. Adam helped plan our wedding at the Phoenician & we became fast friends. He was so professional yet warm and helpful. He taught our entire wedding party how to line dance & helped Katie and I write our vows. He kindly offered to design our programs & did such a beautiful job on them - Adam was amazing. He kept us all together on our wedding day - no matter what catastrophe developed and did it all with a smile. We've stayed in touch over the last 3 years & he designed our baby girl's birth announcement. Adam, you were the whole package! We are so sorry for Adam's family and friends, his great presence will leave a void in this crazy world of today. Wish there were something we could say to take your pain away. The knowledge that he is in heaven planning the biggest banquet ever should give us all a little peace. We can only hope for an invite to this party - the party to beat all parties. God bless your soul Adam and rest in peace always.
Bob & Katie
Sally & Milo Braich
October 20, 2005
I didn't know Adam, but to hear his
parents Jane and Fred talked about
him....he was a real nice person. I just went to the photo gallery and see that he was very good looking too! He was the same age as my daughter....and liked to do the same things...so in a way I felt I knew him. May God be with the Smith family during this time
of sorrow. Love Sally and Milo Braich
Kathy Winograd
October 20, 2005
Adam was a good friend. A kind and gentle man and someone I was proud to call friend. If you needed him - he was there in a second. Nothing was too much to ask of him. I will miss him desperately and I said my most sincere condolences to his family. I have never met you, but I know you each by name, Jane, Fred, Rachel, Joe, Madison, Aiden, Reagan, Grandma and Grandpa - know that he loved you all and never stopped talking about his family. He was a lucky guy and anyone who had him for a friend was luckier.
God Bless you dear Adam and have a blast in heaven, you deserve it. God I wish I could see you one more time.
Kathy
Deena Walsh
October 19, 2005
To Adam's Family,
I used to cut Adam's hair. He was a guy who walked in happy, had nothing but good things to say about people in general, was obviously happy with life and always treated me well. He was always open to suggestions re: change of style, color, etc. and allowed me to use my imagination when it came to his hair. Even if he didn't like what I did I know he never admitted it. He was a handsome man and a loving man. I will miss him so much. I am sorry I did not know about his passing or I would have attended his service. Another customer informed me yesterday and told me about this site. Adam loved life, was so talented in so many areas, but the thing I respected most about him was his intelligence and his caring attitude and gentle ways. He will be missed by many and my prayers go out to you his family. Heaven is a better place today because Adam moved in.
Respectfully,
Deena Walsh
Carol [Finnerty] Simpson
October 19, 2005
To the Smith Family:
I remember the beautiful, cherubic baby, first grandchild on either side. I remember how much Dr. Handler, the pediatrician, loved him. Jane and I lived on the same block and often met up walking our babies. I remember the tow-headed blonde little boy, always smiling and full of joy.
My heart goes out to all of you, especially Fred, Jane and Rachel. May all the good memories and happy recollections on these pages ease the pain for Adam's family.
David Lindsay
October 19, 2005
There comes a time when even someone like me has not words to express his feelings. To lose a child has to be the most horrible experience that anyone could suffer. When the parents are the wonderfully warm and loving Fred and Jane it staggers my mind to find what to say. I think it is important to remember that God does not cause the inhumanity that man has made paramount in his society, rather, man causes it. To believe it is "His will" means to me that God is the problem ... and God is not the problem, He is the solution. God waited until he could take Adam by the hand and say, "Welcome Home!" And we will all meet there again. To Adam's wonderful family I can only say that you do not cry alone.
Peter Smith
October 18, 2005
Adam,
Thanks for being the first. Thanks for making the ears look good. For picking me up, showing me around, dropping me off. For the smiles. For Fat Tires and Punches. For showing me someone doing it his way and making it look good. For telling me it's ok to do it my way. Thanks for bringing the family together. For making so many great memories in other people's minds. For being the Uncle you are, because it shows in your Nieces' and Nephew's faces. For being the Brother, Son, Cousin and Grandson you are. Thanks for being you. And helping me be me.
Allene Strassle
October 18, 2005
Dear Janie, Freddie, Rachel.
I wasn't priviledged to know Adam only through hearing Janie talk about him and Rachel.. but I
know he was very special..and after reading all these wonderful things about him, I'm only sorry we didn't get to meet..I know he has such wonderful parents.. I have known Janie for quite sometime now..and from this friendship, have come to know her family.. no wonder Adam was so special... My heart goes out to you and know that Adam is up there watching over you...Love n Hugs, Allene & George
Ginny Taylor
October 18, 2005
Dear Jane
I could not believe the post about your son Adam. You & I met so many years ago on a Grandmother's Board and I can recall your talking about Adam on so many occasions. If I'm not mistaken, Adam was the artist and I remember a story about you dedicating a song to him when you couldn't be with him for his birthday. It was a touching story and I thought what a wonderful relationship you had with your adult son. I am so very sorry and sad for you. You know Jane, they say the Lord hand picks the best, paying no attention to age, just who He thinks is worthy to join him. You are a special lady. You've always been so kind to all of your online friends. someone who listens and actually hears others. I just wanted to let you know that I am here to listen anytime. I have a big shoulder. Because of the lady that I know you are I know you and your husband and family will accept God's will and celebrate the life you had with Adam when he was on this earth, but I also know that you will keep his spirit alive in your daily life. Reata posted Adam's obit and I can tell you he was a very handsome young man and from looking at his smile I know he was just full of fun. Reading what people have written about Adam should make you feel so proud, you raised a very special man one the Lord wanted to reward early in his life. God bless you and your family. Stay close to your faith and remember Adam is beside you each day, just waiting to hear from you. I wish you peace Jane.
Fondly,
Ginny Taylor
Sharon Brown
October 17, 2005
Dearest Janie,Freddie, Rachel and Family~
My heart is aching for you, but our Dear Lord is carrying you every step of the way. Your Adam has been an exceptional young man and son and brother and uncle and friend. I have been so touched by reading the guest book from so many who knew and loved Adam. He touched so many hearts and lives in his own short life and you will always have him in your heart and soul for the rest of your days, until you meet again. God's love and comfort will strengthen you all and please know how much we have been praying for you each and everyday and will continue to. To have made such a mark on the world in such a short time, is a tribute to the man Adam is and the family who loved and nurtured his incredible spirit as he was a gift to the world and to everyone who knew him. God be with you always, dear friends. Love, Sharon and Larry Brown
Patricia (Tricia) Higgins
October 17, 2005
To Where You Are
Who can say for certain
Maybe you're still here
I feel you all around me
Your memory's so clear
Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You'r still an inspiration
Can it be
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above
Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
to know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dreams
And isn't faith believing
All powers can't be seen
As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me
Everyday
Cause you are mine
Forever love
Watching me from up above
And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave
Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
I know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are.
Rest in peace, Adam.
Love,
Tricia
Sara Hughes
October 15, 2005
Hey, Sweet Prince,
I miss you. You left a huge void in the world. The heavens must be celebrating.So sorry for your family. I can picture the line dance now!! Enjoy Adam and make it nice for the rest of us.
Love,
Sara
Pam ela & Thomas Roget
October 14, 2005
It was about 7 years ago that we first met Adam Smith. It seems funny now, but he served us ice cream and cookies at the resort. He was a young man who my husband and I took a liking to immediately. Polite, happy, helpful & efficient. We visit the Phoenician often and got to know this young man very well over the years. We watched him move up in his position at the resort, and somehow felt a sense of pride. No matter where he was on the grounds, when we arrived he made sure he came to greet us with that winning smile of his. I want to share a memory at this point with his family. One Sunday, at brunch, Adam and I actually shared a dance. My husband had broken his foot and Adam knew how I loved to dance. As I remember, it was a latin beat and for a young man he certainly proved himself to be an accomplished dancer. Adam was fun, good natured, and loving. We always looked forward to seeing him.
Last year we had a personal tragedy in our family and did not travel to Az We arrived here in Az on Tuesday and when we asked about Adam we were told the horrible news.We could not believe what we were hearing. What a terrible loss of a beautiful life.They always say that God takes the best, in this case, this is so true. We were just "friends" - we can't imagine the heartache his family is feeling right now. God bless you Adam for the good man you were. Tom & I both know you are in heaven already drawing all the beautiful sights you see and of course dancing with the prettiest angels. Your memory will live on in all who knew and loved you. We will miss you greatly.
Pamela & Tom Roget
Ruth Calvin
October 14, 2005
A message I know Adam would have wanted his family to receive!
"I Am Always With You"
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do,
You mustn't tie yourself to me with too many tears,
But be thankful we had so many good years.
I gave you my love, and you can only guess
How much you've given me in happiness.
I thank you for the love that you have shown,
But now it is time I traveled on alone.
So grieve for me a while, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
That it is only for a while that we must part,
So treasure the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away for life goes on.
And if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear
All my love around you soft and clear
And then, when you come this way alone,
I'll greet you with a smile and a "Welcome Home".
Ruth
A friend of Adam's from college days. He was the best and still is. My heart aches for his family.
michael trueson
October 13, 2005
Dear, Jane, Fred, Rachel & family, and Baxter,
A week now passed and it is getting a little bit easier, day by day. Only a little bit though. I would like to be sad for a while longer. You see, I do not care that Adam is in a better place. I want him here, with us. I am selfish that way.
I promised I would stay in touch and I will. Forgive my absence since I saw you last.
This book is incredible. Confirmation after confirmation of a wonderful life. Adam lived his life to the fullest, as documented on these pages.
I am proud, as each of us are, to be part of Adams life. Rest assured, he will always be a part of our lives too.
Respectfully,
MJT
PS Dorito feet? God rest his soul, as he is lucky that I just heard about this nickname. For sure he would never have heard the end of it!
Linda J Amato
October 13, 2005
Dear Janie & Fred.....
Sometimes words are not enough and it hurts us to see you two hurting so very much.....please know that we care and love you.....and so does Adam....he will always be with you because love is eternal....
The Amato's
Linda, Chris & Christopher
Sue Kinnan
October 13, 2005
To Adam's Family, My sincere condolences after your great loss. I have been an "email friend" of Jane's for several years, and one thing I know for sure... this family is brimming with love and caring for one another. Adam was a beloved son, brother and uncle. Please know that prayers continue to be said for each of you and you are in my heart. It has been a privilege to read these entries and get to know Adam a little better. God bless, Sue
Dewayne & Barbara Jane Wood
October 12, 2005
"Heavenly Father, so many events take place in our lives we have no way of ever understanding ... Adam's Homecoming is one. Lord, Adam's family needs you more than they have ever needed you. Please reach out to them with love and mercy caressing them closely. The family was so proud of their son and brother and uncle .. Adam was definitely the apple of their eye. Oh, Lord, we cant find the words to bring comfort and soothing to the unspeakable pain felt by Janie and Freddie... but You know how Lord, please, let them know you are there with them now and in the endless days and especially nights to come. In Jesus' precious name, Amen" Janie, I love you and am so very sorry you have had to undergo such a tradegy that should never have been.
Kim Kelley
October 12, 2005
Dear Mr and Mrs Smith & Family
I met Adam about 3 years ago at a dance club. He was there with some friends after work I asked him to dance and for the rest of the night we were a pair and the best dancers on the floor. Adam was a dancing machine. We became friends and then I moved to Rhode Island for my job.
We've stayed in touch through the years. A mutual friend called on Tues to tell me that Adam had passed away. We've all lost a wonderful man and a man with the biggest heart in the world. I mourn his passing and will ask him each day to help me in my daily works. He's in heaven that I know. I feel so badly for you, his family. There are no words I can find. I will always remember Adam with a soft smile on his face, big dimples and dancing, dancing, dancing. I'm sure heaven is alive with music and I don't mean harps. Dance on Adam, love you always.
Kim Kelley
David Wolnik
October 11, 2005
The Adam I remeber was from when we went to school at Arrowhead Elementery. He was the greatest friend in the world. The thing I remember most about Adam was his love for all things Star Wars, we would play with all the Star Wars figures for hours and hours, we even wrote a script and filmed a movie, I still have that script and will always keep it with me. Goodbye Friend you will always be with me.
Rob Fuller
October 11, 2005
To the family of Adam Smith
I've been out of the country for the past month. Could not believe it when I heard Adam had died. I'm sorry for you, sorry for his friends, sorry for the world.We lost a good man. We've been friends for about a year and during that time I was awed by the character of this man I called friend. What stands out in my mind was his honesty and then his love for his family. For an artist you would expect his walls to be covered with artwork, maybe even creations of his own, instead his walls were plastered with pictures of his family, even down to wedding pictures of his Grandparents. At times I would envy him for his walls. Sound funny? It's the truth though. Adam was a magical man full of wonderful ideas and always willing to share his talents (he had many). My wife and I both mourn his passing from this life and wish there were something we could do to fill your void but we know that would be impossible. No one will ever be able to replace Adam for any of us. God speed Adam. Smile down on us with your love and be at peace.
Rob & Jenna
Carol & Bob Rollingswood
October 10, 2005
To the Family of Adam,
Bob and I met Adam 5 years ago. We had been given Adam's name to paint our baby's nursery. He came with many recommendations. He met us at our home and we showed him what we wanted painted on our future son's walls. It took him about 3 weeks and he did a beautiful job. We were amazed and pleased. The evening Adam finished painting all of the Sesame Street characters on the walls my baby died. He was stillborn. Bob had paid Adam in advance by check a week or so before. When I got home from the hospital we found our check on the baby's dresser. Adam would not accept the money for a job well done. Well, Adam, all I can say is "job well done once again" the Lord saw what kind of a man you were and decided he needed you at His right hand. Enjoy Paradise Adam, you earned it here on earth. I'm sorry your life was so short, but we are better for knowing you Adam Smith. I'll bet you'll be doing alot of painting up in heaven!
I'm expecting once again, and my baby girl is going to enjoy all of Adam's paintings, they are just that much more special to us now. Sleep in peace dear friend. You are loved and missed.
Bob and Carol Rollingswood
Robyn Goldberg
October 10, 2005
Mr & Mrs Smith
Adam & I worked at the Phoenician together for 2 years and during that time had lots of fun. We had a mutual respect for one another & a love. We used to love to dance and whenever we got the chance we would let down our hair and dance.
Adam was a wonderful man. I even took him home to meet Mom & Dad. They loved him so. Adam made me into a coffee drinker and taught me to love mushrooms of all sorts. I could count on him for anything, no favor was too big. His heart was larger than any I have known before.
The last time we saw one another was on August 18, the day before his birthday. He seemed fine, just had a miserable sinus headache and what sounded like a chest cold. He was drinking lots of tea and of course telling me not to worry about him. I am so very saddened by his death, the world lost a good, good man - 100% real at all times.
I am sorry for the family as well as myself. God Bless you all.
Robyn
Melissa Kelly
October 10, 2005
To the Smith family:
I had the pleasure of working with Adam at the Cafe & Ice Cream Parlor at the Phoenician for many years. I was shocked when I read of his passing and my deepest sympathies go out to his family and all of the close friends that I know are mourning such a great loss.
I fondly recall all the great times Adam and I had working together. We would make the best of a hard day by singing our favorite songs from the early 90s and after our shift we would go out dancing. Adam was such a hard worker and we all knew we could count on him to brighten our days. I have not had contact with Adam in a few years, but I always thought he would be someone I would be delighted to bump into.
God Bless you Adam, you will be misssed!
Tim & Mary Collins
October 10, 2005
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Smith
First let me say that it was a shock to learn of Adam's death. My wife & I stay at the Phoenician a few months out of each year. It is there that we first met Adam. A harder worker I have never met! He helped my wife & I get settled in the first time we met him and then, helped us through a tragic loss. Adam was kind. That is the word that jumps into my mind when I think of him. Kind! A good man, a gentle man and a man with a wonderful sense of humor. We were notified of Adam's passing last Wednesday and knew right away that we would attend any services for him. We were there this past Friday night and could not believe what a joy it was to us both to see Adam's life celebrated the way it was! You, as his Mom & Dad got it right, absolutely right! This needed to be a "Happy" time if it were at all possible, Adam would not have wanted it any other way. As his friends stood to honor him, Mary & I learned more and more about this young man who we admired so much. What a tribute to his life and we know you both were responsible for this lovely service. We are not Catholics but we stayed for the rosary and the gentleman who recited the rosary seemed so sincere about the Faith and his sadness for Adam & his family. Mary & I knew we had to return Saturday morning to see this celebration continued. We are not sorry we witnessed Adam's mass. We had never seen anything like this before. It was done with beauty and love from beginning to end. The priest who conducted the ceremony, we could tell there was a special attachment, usually the clergy does not cry. His sister spoke beautifully as well as the Minister. Someone told us his friend who spoke had also stood at his casket and read Adam his last comic book - what a tribute to friendship that was. Mary & I just wanted to tell you how beautifully everything was done, from the lovely church, the flowers, the incredible music and the beautiful voices. We were touched beyond belief and you are both to be complimented for sending your son off in such style. Thank you both and God Bless.
Tim and Mary Collins
Gay Colanino
October 9, 2005
Janie and Freddie and family... my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss! Wish I could be there to give you a hug! Love, Gay
Lisa Schaefer
October 9, 2005
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Smith
I attended Adam's services both Friday night and Saturday morning. I don't know what to say, I can't find the proper words. Friday night was so wonderful, I wish Adam could have been there but I know he was smiling down from heaven enjoying every bit of the ceremony and fun, yes, fun. You are both to be complimented for the way you CELEBRATED Adam's beautiful life. I did feel like it was a celebration and I know that would be the way Adam would want it. I was amazed by the number of people who stood up and spoke about this amazing man, this man called Adam, this man who was your Son. I had so much to share about Adam, but I just froze, I just don't stand up and speak that freely in public. Instead, what I did was put my thoughts down and placed it with Adam, I hope you don't mind. The mass yesterday was incredible. How you and his family honored Adam! I've never seen a funeral done this way and I have to tell you it made me cry but it made me feel good at the same time. Mrs. Smith, that song at the end of the mass, I know the meaning of it. Adam shared it with me. I was with him when he bought you the CD for you and he explained what it meant. That was beautiful! A beautiful sendoff for the greatest guy. They say the Lord only takes the best, well he sure did go to the top of his list this time, he did take the BEST, and I will be watching the sky as you suggested, just to see the beautiful sunsets he'll paint for us each day. Know that he was loved and that he loved you all. You were a lucky family and I know his presence will stay with you all. I hope I get just a piece of his presence from time to time too.
Much love,
Lisa
Jean Kendall
October 9, 2005
Dear Mr & Mrs Smith
I was one of Adam's neighbors on 13 St. I can't begin to tell you how much I loved Adam. He made our block turn into a family. I was the first "pancake Princess" as Adam called us. We used to have pancakes and coffee on Adam's porch every Sat. morning. He did all. We grew to be a group of 5 and Adam did all the cooking (we girls cleaned up). He was so thrilled when he got the griddle for either his birthday or Christmas. Adam always offered a different flavored coffee each Saturday and of course tea for me, the anti coffee one of the group. He was always trying to correct that flaw in me. I always told him that when he tried Gefilte Fish I would switch over to coffee. It never happened. Adam courldn't get over that "gag reflex" each time he looked in the jar. This morning I toasted a handsome man named Adam with a huge cup of coffee and I will every day from now on. Adam always knew what was right, in all aspects of life, even down to "coffee or tea"
I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for the both of you and his sister Rachael. This has to be so very hard on you all. His nieces and his nephew - I feel so bad for them - they lost probably the worlds greatest Uncle. Please give my sympathy to his Grandparents I am sure they were devastated as well. He told me the story about that big jar of marbles one day and I though that was so neat that he shared those marbles with his GrandDad. I heard about his Grandmothers love for tea and he was always excited when he found a new flavor for her. Rachael - I was always jealous of you - he spoke of his sister Rachael always saying shes my best friend. I don't even know where my sister lives. You have to be a special lady. He loved you as a sister but loved you for being his best friend even more so.
Mr & Mrs Smith he used to say "my Mom & Dad are there for me before I know I need them" - what more can I say? He was a great, gentle man whose heart was so big. There was room in it for anyone. The angels in heaven are smiling, happy with their new friend I am sure because I know Adam did not just die and go to heaven, he became an angel on the journey there. He was an angel in life I would not expect anything less for him in heaven. I look forward to eternity because Adam is there now and I know he is whipping up pancakes for every lucky soul there. He was a man I loved unconditionally (like his love for everyone) and respected for his goodness. I ache for his loss and feel so badly for his family.
With sympathy,
Jeannie
Damon Farrar
October 8, 2005
Dear Adam,
though i haven't seen you in a while, other than the hospital, you will be missed. before i got the call from Rachel regarding your illness i was just telling someone about your house near 13th and Virginia, guess i didn't know you had moved. i still tell people the story of how you got out of jury duty because of the fact that i had been the arresting deputy. good story. those were good times, i relive them frequently when i am daydreaming. hope you did too. now that you are free, not bounded by the constraint of time, i will see you "soon."
damon
Tom Powell
October 8, 2005
Dear Uncle Fred, Aunt Janie, and Rachel,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can’t believe how long it’s been since I’ve seen any of you but all of a sudden the memories started streaming back. Adam was a wonderful person who will always hold a place in all of our hearts and memories. I’ll always remember the summer we spent together at your house. What could have been a difficult situation since we were away from home was turned into a wonderful summer that we will always remember. I remember when we took our trip in to Mexico how adamant he was trying to keep us all from getting Montezuma’s revenge but then we wound up all getting it from a Mexican restaurant in Phoenix. Adam’s easy humor and good nature are what made him special to all of us. I love you all so much and we all grieve for your loss.
Ellie Barston
October 8, 2005
Rest in peace, sweet man. Please make me a special place in heaven ~ I know the Lord took you to help prepare Paradise for all those you love. He needed an artist, a gentle man, and He looked down and took the best. I'll be watching for your beautiful sunsets and sun risers ~ I know you'll be painting them. Rest in peace and remember "the world loves a caring man" and you were that always.
Love,
Ellie
My sympathy to the Smith family. He was the best there was!!
Karen Bolton
October 8, 2005
Dearest Adam
Sleep well sweet Prince.
Love
Karen
MJT
October 7, 2005
Adam dear friend,
The wise woman told me
You are in a better place
Numb, I barely heard her
Tears running down my face
"Celebrate his life" she said
As she walked me to your place
Proud she was, she bore you
Her face lighting up the way
How proud, I know, you are of her
With dignity and grace
She kept us all together
As we last looked at your face
Her heart was really broken
Like the rest of us who came
I wanted her to truly know
There was no one we could blame
The man who looked
Just like you do
Is having a hard time
Putting this together
Finding no reason
Or rhyme
I’m sure he'll find the answer
Given just a little time
He wants you back here on this earth
So does the girl you used to hold
The last thing that I said to her
"Adam will never get old".
While you are up there
Waiting for us
To enter the Pearly Gates
We will think of you most fondly
While your smile lights our days.
Now if God would only tell us
Why he took you
I'm convinced
There was room enough in heaven
For our loved and earthly prince
Your light will be in our hearts forever Adam
Your friend,
Michael
Jack Hackman
October 7, 2005
Adam, We will miss hearing about your latest shopping find. Miss the late night haircuts and the computer help. We know you're up there and the only one in boots.
Love Jack and Mark
Rosa Marie Benton
October 7, 2005
To My Adam
My God how I regret not seeing you for the past few months. Life gets so busy and we forget the people we love the most and the people who matter the most. I will never forget the wonderful times we had together. Those pictures, picture afte picture of those beautiful little nieces and your nephew, God how you loved them. I always loved to see "new" pictures when you would whip them out. You know what Adam my love, the world loved you, you just didn't realize it. You made people smile and laugh and YES, DANCE LIKE NO ONE WAS WATCHING.
Some of the best times of my life were spent with you. You taught me so much and gave so much of yourself. Now the Lord has decided that He needs someone just like you to lighten His load and you will surprise even the Heavenly Father. Once you tackle a job, it's done and DONE RIGHT!! I wish we could have "been", we just didn't have the time. And yes, Adam, I do believe as you did, "Sometimes the world sucks" but then sometimes someone like you walks into someone's life and you make it all better. You were and always will be the best. I love you Adam! We'll stay in touch, I know we will. I won't even wait for you to make the first contact cause I have so much to say to you.
Rest in peace my love. Heaven is a better place because you are there and I KNOW you are there.
Love,
Rosa Marie
Sami Lyn
October 7, 2005
It has been a privilege and an honor to know your family over the years. My thoughts are with and of you during this complicated and trying time. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Thinking of you...
Arthur Richwine
October 7, 2005
Mr.& Mrs. Smith and Rachel, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Adam was a a very giving and loving person that would always go that extra mile for those he cared for. We have all become better people for having him in our lives. Even though his light has been take out of this world, I think we all feel some peace in the knowledge that he will be watching over us from above.
Andrea Levin - Rosenberg
October 7, 2005
Mr. and Mrs. Smith and Rachel. I am so sorry to hear of Adam's passing. I can't think of Phrateres without thinking of him. I taught him how to play Shanghai and he shared his love of comics with me. He will always have a special place in my heart. And I will always have a smile on my face when I think about him.
Cindy Reiser
October 7, 2005
I am so very sorry for your loss Mr. and Mrs. Smith. What a terrible loss of a beautiful, loving, gentle man. Adam was a friend like no other and I am proud to have known him for so long. He was such a giving person and now he receives his rewards from the Lord. God Bless his soul ~ I know for sure he is in heaven dancing and everyone is watching!! I will miss him but will think of him always with a smile.
Cindy Reiser
Ellen Miller
October 6, 2005
This was a complete shock to me. I haven't seen Adam since College but I know that he is dancing his butt off up there.
Ellen
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