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BetteRuth Simmons-Peyton Obituary

BetteRuth (Reeder) Simmons-Peyton was born in 1926 at her parents farm
home about 7 miles northeast of Hennessey, OK. She attended Hennessey High School and graduated valedictorian of her senior class. She next completed her Bachelor of Science degree in Secondary Education at Oklahoma Baptist University. She taught 2 years in high school at Hitchcock, OK. She then went to Oklahoma City to work as a full-time church secretary. While in that position she met and married Donald George Simmons. They had 2 sons, Timothy Donald and Stephen Earl. Don's work required him to be transferred often. They were first transferred to Roswell, NM. Several transfers later they were transferred to Phoenix, AZ. BetteRuth went back to school and earned her Master's degree in Education after which she began teaching at Phoenix College, one of the schools in the Maricopa Community College system. BetteRuth taught in this system for 31 years until retirement. Don died of a massive heart attack in 1993. BetteRuth continued to teach until 1997 when she fully retired. In 2004, BetteRuth went on a church mission trip to China where she met Jack Peyton. On April 23, 2005, BetteRuth and Jack were married. They were fortunate to have each other for several years even though they weren't the kind of years that they had envisioned when they wed, but God blessed them with this; His Holy Spirit and drawn them ever closer to Him and each other. BetteRuth is survived by her husband, Jack; 2 sons, Tim and Steve; daughter-in-law, Jean; 3 grandsons, Christian, Jacob and Matthew; 4 step daughter-in-laws, Renee, Denise, Jacki and Vanessa, 2 step son-in-laws; Todd and Andrew; 5 step grandsons, Daniel, Andrew, Jonny, Jacob and Joseph, 1 step granddaughter, Ashley and her husband, Joshua and a great granddaughter, Peyton. Services will be held at Apollo Baptist Church at 11611 N. 51st Avenue, Phoenix, on Tuesday, November 27, 2007 at 10AM. Interment will follow at National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Nov. 25, 2007.

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Stephen Simmons

August 14, 2025

I am Bette Ruth Simmons son. As sad as I feel about losing my mother, she was and is one of the strongest Christian I've ever known. She lived the life of a Christian in every facet of her life and planned her trip to heaven. As much as I miss her, I'm glad to know where she is and I will be united with her again. I wasnt easy for her to deal with and was probably her greatest test in life. Ultimately, she trusted God to watch over me and He has. No one is promised tomorrow so prepare yourself for today.

Rhonda Baxter

November 29, 2007

I am so very sorry for your loss. Times like this can seem endless but know that God and time will heal your wounds. You will heal but you will never forget your Mother, Grandmother or Wife. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to call.

Candice LaPrade

November 27, 2007

Mrs. Simmons was my machine shorthand teacher at Phoenix College back in the late 1970's. I was saddened to read of her passing.

Kathy Moore

November 27, 2007

BetteRuth was a friend and inspiring member of our Alpha Delta chapter of the Delta Kappa Gamma society. She will be missed by all of us.

Amos Reed

November 27, 2007

For the Family; You are in our prayers. In this time of bereavement may God strentghen you. As always if you need a ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on, or a hand to help wipe your tears you have my number. Remember, "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord."

Dorothy Cummings

November 27, 2007

BetteRuth was a blessing to me and I thank God that I had the privilege of knowing her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

God Bless,
Dorothy Cummings
Apollo Baptist Church

Debbie Hamblen

November 26, 2007

Mrs. Simmons was my shorthand instructor at PC. I remember her speaking about her copper collection and I have amassed quite the collection in my kitchen. I also remember her allowing me to dictate to the class so they would have a different dictation style. I can still read and write shorthand (although I don't use it much) to this day.

Wanda Elie

November 26, 2007

Bette Ruth was a true professional when we worked together at Phoenix College. What a role model she was in every way. God bless the family.

Donna Talley

November 25, 2007

I was in the '95 Golden Gift Leadership Seminar with Betty Ruth. She was such a lovely, Christian lady. I feel lucky to have known her and to have had the opportunity to hear her speak. I know she will be missed, but we can see her again. Donna Talley, OK

Jo Davis

November 25, 2007

Dear Jack and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy and know that I am holding you close in my thoughts and prayers. Bette Ruth was a dear Delta Kappa Gamma sister and "that spunky little redhead" to all of us in her 1995 Golden Gift class. Like you, we will always cherish the special memories. God bless you all. Sincerely, Jo

Maureen Watt

November 25, 2007

To Bette Ruthh's Fmaily,
Please accept my sympathy.
Your Golden Gift Sister class of 95 of the Delta Kappa Gamma Society.

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