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March 24, 2015
Its been over 7 years now and I don't know how life even goes on without you. I never knew you all too well, but that didn't make the pain of losing you any less real. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't remember your vibrant smile. I cant help but wonder what your life would be like now, and although I cant be certain, I do know that you'd be brightening up peoples lives, because that's what you always did. I love and miss you so much, ans I know your family does. We all wish you were still here with us. Rest in Peace Andy.. <3
December 29, 2009
Hi There - I didn't know Andy but my daughter recently found some items in Chandler, AZ and with those items was a handwritten letter mentioning your name and your death. Along with the letter were some baseball cards, a medal and a watch. Please contact me at 480-337-2983, my name is Kari Ziebell. I am sorry to hear of his unfortunate passing. May Peace be with you and your family.
Teri O'Hearn
February 1, 2008
Andy:Unfortunately I did not stay too intouch with You as you got older. I do miss you and always will. I am sure that you and my mom are up there watching over us all.
The Walters Family: My heart goes out to ever day of the week!
Sandie Bergeson
December 30, 2007
Dear Charlie, Rhonda, Tyler & Kristen, just tonight I learned of Andy's passing and am so very sad. I pray that you draw strength from God and from each other during this time. I will remember Andy with a smile because he was such a nice young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sandie Bergeson
Amanda Tastel
December 17, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that God will carry you through this awful time, and maintain you until the day you meet with Andy again.
Lindsay Samuell
November 22, 2007
On this day of thanks,
I am thankful for knowing Andy for the short time I did. I only met Andy in the summer but that small amount of time I did spend with him was great. We would always have a good time and no one felt left out, Andy wouldn’t let that happen. All the times singing in the car and jumping on the trampoline were the best. I know that he will no longer be able to help me up or balance me on the trampoline, but I know that one day I will see him again. Until then, I have a Guardian Angel to watch over me.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Charlie, Rhonda, Tyler and Kristen.
Lindsay
Pam Dorman
November 21, 2007
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Sue Hovis
November 19, 2007
Dear Charlie and Rhonda, I am so deeply sorry for your loss! How well I remember
Dan and Cheryl telling me when Andy was born; I know this is devastating and my thoughts and prayers are with you. With Love, Sue Clements Hovis (Dan's mother)
When we meet again, I'll let you win.
Kat Lucas
November 18, 2007
Dear Tum-Tum,
God I miss you. I feel my heart brake everytime the realization hits that your gone. You made me a better person. I don't think I ever told you how important you were to me, I love you Tum-Tum. You changed my life. I honestly had a crush on you since the first time we joked around about our health teacher, and it never went away.
Your laughter was contagious, and you always knew what to say to make me feel better. You left a handprint on my heart like I left a clay hand print on most of your shirts. You changed me into a better person, because by being around you I 'felt' that it was the right thing, that when I was around you the world was a better place. I dont think you realize how many lives you touched, but holy crap, I think all of Arizona mourns your death and celebrates your life. Sleep sweet, Pandy Bear. I know I'll see you again.
Love Always
Kat
Regina Shakespeare (Golleher)
November 15, 2007
A shooting star, a fleeting moment of a bright light that amazes us and then disappears into an unknown place. We are in awe of the shooting star and we make a wish upon it, knowing in our hearts it is heard by somebody or something. We gleefully tell others "I saw a shooting star, right there..." Andy appeared as a bright light and now has gone to place we can not see. But we know in our hearts its a grand place. We who are left are those who suffer, cry and ask why? the brightness of Andy will live on in our hearts and when we look up into the sky and see a shooting star, we know he is listening and watching over us. To honor him, we will share his light and laughter, we will tell his stories and our experiences with him and we will remember each and every day all of the blessings we have received and that life is a but a short gift. Thank you for bringing Andy into this world so he could touch so many lives just as your family has touched our life! We can not be with you in person but we will be with you in spirit tomorrow at 10am. With our deepest love and prayers, today, tomorrow and always! Love, Gina, Jeff(Golleher) and Kyle
Ashley Eide
November 15, 2007
I am so sorry for your family's loss. Surround yourselves with loving, caring people during this hard time. I will remember him always!
Mary and Sam Hansen
November 15, 2007
Charlie and Rhonda,
I am so very sad to hear about your your son. Please know that we are thinking about you and your family and will keep you in our prayers until we see you again.
All our love to you,
Arnie &Robin Helgerson Jr.
November 15, 2007
We are so very sorry for your loss.please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers
Monica McGinnis
November 15, 2007
Charlie & Rhonda, You have been on my mind ever since you called yesterday. I hope you are coping as well as can be expected at this difficult time. My deepest sympathy goes out to both of you and everyone affected by this loss.
Rachael Fuller
November 15, 2007
I have been privileged to know Andy through my friendship with Kristen, experiences and trips I've been able to take with your family, and working with him at Tott's. He was always kind to everyone and had a hilarious sense of humor, just like the rest of your family. I'm sorry that I cannot be in Arizona to grieve with you at Andy's services this Friday.
If there is anything at all I can do for you, let me know. But for right now know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginia & Mark Lucas
November 15, 2007
Today, my husband left a note on my desk, it said, "Take life one day at a time but live every minute of that day." He was trying to cheer me, but I thought how that statement is truly like Andy. He lived every minute with a smile and a bounce in his step (I remember that bounce the most) Every new thing he learned was like the best snippet of information ever, and he tucked them all away to be brought out at the right time. Smart and caring and joyful and funny! I celebrate his life! We love him as our own. He was such a huge part of our family, always draped over one of our sofas or in Kat's big Papasan chair. Our home seems empty without him, but his life is in every corner of it. I'm sure he is making God laugh with his quirky sense of humor. Do you think they have funny t-shirts in heaven?
all of our love
Ryan Laninga
November 15, 2007
Andy I will miss you so much. I don't think I will ever be able to express the things I'm feeling right now. You could always make me laugh and feel better when I felt bad. You were an inspiration to so many people and I really don't know how I can manage. But I will because I know that is what you would want. Don't forget to look down on me every once in a while and feel free to kick me back up when I fall.
Caitlin LIllard
November 15, 2007
I remember when we were little and it was me and Kristen and Andy playing every time we had a sleep over. Though we didn't get as close as i would have liked, he was still an amazing person. So talented and such a funny person. He will be missed so much. Charlie, Rhonda, Tyler & Kristen my heart and prayers go out to you. you have raised amazing kids, Andy was simply adored by everyone he knew.
they will both be greatly missed.
Brian and Linda Showers
November 14, 2007
Charlie and Rhonda and family:
We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss and can not imagine what you are going through. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Words can not express...
Laura Laninga
November 14, 2007
Andy and Hope were two amazing people. They spent many nights at our home with our son Ryan. We never had the privilege of meeting their families but I want you to know that both kids were very well liked and very nice to be around. They both had a great sense of humor and they were always having a great time. Our son Ryan has lost two of his best friends and I know we can not take away his pain but be there for support when it is needed. They cared a lot about their friends and respected their family a great deal. We have all been blessed by the time God has given us with them; we were all very lucky to be apart of their life. Our prayers and thoughts are with u always.
Gina Maxwell
November 14, 2007
My heart and prayers go out to both Andy and Hope's family. I have never had the pleasure of meeting either family, but have had the pleasure of knowing and adoring both kids. Andy and Hope were absolutely the best kids and a pleasure to have known. I am truly sorry for your loss and I want you to know that we feel the loss of these two wonderful people. Nothing can ever make the pain go away but I hope knowing how much they were loved will ease some of that pain. Please accept my prayers and know that my thoughts are with you.
Christifulli Family
November 14, 2007
May your loss be comforted in knowing that Andy is in a place more beautiful than we can imagine. Memories can never be taken away. I'm sorry for the pain you are going through from one parent to another. My son was just getting to know this wonderful young man and great group of friends. May God bless you and your family, lean on Him for support and comfort.
Jackie Zangara
November 14, 2007
To Charlie and Rhonda and family,
My prayers go out to you and to Andy for eternal rest. There are no words to express the pain you are feeling, I know, I've been there. If you would like to talk and pray please get in touch.
Debbie Bluff
November 14, 2007
It will be the little things
that you will remember,
the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem
hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push
away the pain
and bring the smiles
back again.
You are in our hearts,
The Bluff Family
Christy Williams
November 14, 2007
I used to work with Andy at Rositas, and he was always one of my favorite people to work with because he made work fun. He always had something humerous to say and made people laugh and smile. He will be dearly missed by everyone who knew him and never be forgotten.
Lucy Anaya-Mitchell
November 14, 2007
Andrews Family: Our family was devastated to hear of your loss. I fondly remember Andy as a child riding his bike on our street and later as a cheerful face at one of my favorite restaurants. He will be greatly missed.
Brittany Kominska
November 14, 2007
Andy was truely and amazing person. We are all so glad to have been blessed with his presence in our lives. He will be missed dearly.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dianne Wagner
November 14, 2007
Even though I am a stranger to both families, my heart goes out to all who are affected by these circumstances. My connection to these families is through the mother of one of the boys who is part of the group. As she explained to me how the events of that tragic night occured my heart ached for Andy's and Hope's parents and friends. I realize there are no words that could bring consolation at times like this. But may you come to know and understand that even though they are no longer with you in their mortal tabernacles their spirits have gone on to an aspect of reality that provides a new beginning. Memories of the things they did and the time you had to spend with them is something that is yours and can never be taken from you. From what I understand of the kind of people they were growing into, their lives can and will be celebrated for the joy and happiness they brought to those around them. And by perpetuating the zeal they showed in their lives within your own lives, you honor them in a most profound way, which I’m sure, will bring them happiness as they embark on their new journey. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that this separation is only temporary and there are many who you know, and many you don’t know, who share your grief and who delight in the joy you find in your favorite memories of your children.
debbi brown
November 14, 2007
I am so sorry to hear about the death of Andy and Hope. It is so hard to believe they are gone. I send blessings of love and light to your hearts. May you be comforted. May you know peace.
Debbi Brown
Becky Bible
November 14, 2007
What a wonderful tribute written for a wonderful person. Thoughts of Andy will warm my heart forever. I will always remember his fun-loving nature and light-hearted outlook on life. I mourn his passing, but more importantly I celebrate his life.
Kathy Jean
November 14, 2007
Andrews Family: I was truly saddened to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
Bob and Deb Guffin
November 14, 2007
Andy when you walked in a room it was like the sun came out. you are so loved by so many. You'll be in our hearts forever. We love you. Bob and Deb Guffin
Ellie & Emma Guffin
November 14, 2007
Andy and Hope were two amazing people. they could light up a room by there sense of humor and always having a great time. they cared a lot about their friends and family. the people that knew them were very lucky. our prayers and thoughts are with u always.
Sandra Shepherd
November 14, 2007
We will miss you dearly, i give my sincere wishes to your family.
Brad & Jeannine Hutchinson
November 14, 2007
Charlie, Rhonda, Tyler & Kristen, May you find strength in knowing how much your friends love and support you.
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