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Doris Schaffer Obituary

Schaffer, Doris Jane ("D.J."),
81, a resident of Scottsdale since 1960, passed away on October 18, 2009 after a long illness. D.J. was born to Merrill and Florence Manifold on January 13, 1928 in Coin, IA. She graduated from Papillion High School in Nebraska and attended the University of Nebraska. D.J. was a loving wife, mother, Grandma and friend. She was most proud of her family and we will all miss her so much. She had a special, fun-loving spirit about her and "never met a stranger". D.J. had a beautiful singing voice and began performing in early childhood. In addition to various musical theatre roles she was a featured soprano vocalist in The McConnell Singers, the ASU Chorale, the Phoenix Symphony Chorale, and Church Choir. Her appreciation for music and her talent was passed on to many family members. Her four siblings, Kenny, Max, Margie and Keith and her first husband Carroll (Carl) Swanson, preceded her in death. She is survived by her husband, Richard E. Schaffer, and her six children, Bob (Kerrie) Swanson of Lakeside, AZ, Rick (Shea) Swanson of Springfield, MO, Laurie (Dave) Krchmery of Phoenix, Jon Swanson of Gilbert, Nancy (Terry) Howard of Phoenix, and Peggy (Ron) Phillips of Peoria. She is also survived by four step-children, Linda, Debbie, Cindy, Jeff and their spouses. D.J. was Grandma to 10 grandchildren, 12 step-grandchild ren and 3 great-grandchildren. A Memorial Service celebrating her life will be held on Fri, October 30th at Paradise Sunset Chapel, 3934 E. Indian School Road, Phoenix (602) 955-1600 at 1:30 p.m. with a reception following. Flowers are welcome or donations to: Hospice of the Valley, 1510 E. Flower Street, Phoenix, AZ 85014 (602) 530-6992.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Oct. 23, 2009.

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Janet Jorgensen

October 29, 2009

I will always remember your mom as a lovely lady with a beautiful voice and ready smile. One of my fondest memories is Jon had just gotten a new water bed (before any of us knew what they were) and we were having a good old time playing with the blobby water and jumping up and down. We were all laughing and being extremely loud I'm sure. You're mom poked her head in and instead of being angry or mad she just laughed and said "you kids!" smiled and walked out. I know you all will miss her terribly but when that pain comes remember one of the "great" times, I know there were many.

George & Elaine Coggin

October 28, 2009

Dear Nancy, Laurie and Peggy,
Our prayers are with you , your siblings, and all the family who loved and cherished your beautiful Mother. Words cannot really convey the love that goes out to all of you but please know we understand .
Though we know the end of life must come to all of us, it's still difficult to say " Goodbye" to those we love.
Your Mom is probably, even now, a member of the Choir of Angels.
With sympathy,

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