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Elaine May Obituary

Buckeye Councilwoman Elaine May, a community leader since 1986, died Nov. 2, 2011.
Published by The Arizona Republic from Nov. 2 to Dec. 3, 2011.

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November 22, 2011

May God, the "Father of tender mercies & the God of all comfort", give you & your family the strength to endure this difficult time. (2 Cor. 1:3, 4)

November 18, 2011

I am truly sorry for your lost. In your time of bereavement, know that God assures us that we will see our loved ones again. I'm sure that with the help of our loving Heavenly Father, your family, and friends you will be able to endure this trial. May your memories give you comfort.

Jessica Leslie Hill

November 15, 2011

Joe, Byron and family
Although its been 25 years since leaving Buckeye, the news of Elaine's passing takes me back to Pop Warner cheer squad and Elaine's presence. She left a lasting impression on me as a young girl and I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in all of your memories.

Lois (Rausch) McDonald

November 11, 2011

Elaine my friend I will miss you so much. 60 years of friendship and you will always be in my heart. My thoughts are with you Joe, Byron, Jacee, Clayton, Lisa, Wes and her loving mother, Martha.

Bob and Mary Lou Doster

November 11, 2011

Joe,Byron,Jacee,Clayton,
Our thoughts are with you. We know that your memories will grow more precious every year and will comfort you at this difficult time. We can remember when you two were just dating. It seems like yesterday.
With deepest sympathy,

AnnMarie Hagstedt

November 10, 2011

To The May Family, we have only known Elaine for a short while, 6 years, but enjoyed being neighbors. Elaine is an amazing woman. We recognized her strong spirit and humor. We will miss her and remember her fondly. Our thoughts and prayers go out to every family member. Love Mark, Annie,and the boys (Mark jr, Alex, Chance & Eric) Hagstedt

November 7, 2011

"As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoken at the right time for it." Proverbs 25:11. May the comfort from God's word bring you peace. Psalms 55:22. Sincerely, Marion,

Stephen & Linda Herring

November 5, 2011

We are sorry for your loss. We still have our memories that remind us what a wonderful person she was. God bless all of you.

Cassy Dickerson

November 4, 2011

Joe, Byron, clayton, may God be with you today and everyday. I have been very blessed by getthing to share in your lives for all these years. I love you all and I will miss Elaine very much. Even tho I have lived in Texas for over 25 years you are always in my thoughts. I love you guys. Hugs and Kisses to you all. Cassy Clopton Dickerson

Jack Janda

November 4, 2011

Joe, With great memories of our youth I remember Elaine always as a giver. I am glad I got a chance to come to the re-union and get to visit with her and others. Words cannot express how we all feel, but know that we all care. Jacky

David Gorrell

November 4, 2011

Joe & family,

It was so sad to hear about losing Elaine. She was a remarkable lady in so many ways. I will recall fondly the laughs we had together at the last High School gathering at Amabisca's. Thinking of you folks...

Sherry Rader

November 4, 2011

Joe, Byron, & Family, I consider it a special blessing to have known Elaine and Martha. Lots of fond memories with all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love,

November 3, 2011

Our hearts are heavy for your loss of an amazing person who loved her family, her town, and its people. May her memories soften your sadness and your tears turn to smiles as you remember her big heart and contagious grin. You are in our prayers.
Manuel, Lucinda, William, and Kristin

November 3, 2011

Joe, Byron & family,
Having known Elaine my entire life, growing up with her and having many happy experiences with her, I personally know your loss and feel it deeply myself along with you. She will be greatly missed by all of us. Rest peacefully my cousin. May God bless you and our girls watch over your soul.
Linda (Patterson) Davis

Susanne Hultgren Olson

November 3, 2011

To Elaine's family,
You do not know me, but I was a friend of your mother's in grade school before I left Buckeye. I always remembered how much energy she had as a kid and reading about all of her activities, it appears her energy and enthusiasm only increased during her life.

Her good friend Kathleen Grandy was kind enough to contact me about Elaine's passing.

My heart goes out to you, her family, and her community.

May God give you peace,

Dianne Harris

November 3, 2011

Joe & family, I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain of losing a loved one. You are all in my prayers.

Dave & Tami Cumback

November 3, 2011

Joe, Byron and family,
May God bless and keep you during this tryng time. Our hearts, prayers, and thoughts are with you.

Carolyn Oberholtzer

November 3, 2011

Elaine was such an asset to the Buckeye community and will be sorely missed. I enjoyed the pleasure of working with her and my heart goes out to her husband and family.

charlie & Sharon Clayborn

November 3, 2011

Joe and family, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you guys during this very difficult time. We know from experience that Elaine was a very thoughtful and caring person and she will be greatly missed.

Mary Long

November 3, 2011

Joe and Byron, I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Elaine. She was a WONDERFUL person and will surely be missed. The pain will ease in time. Take care and God Bless.

Kathleen Grandy Towner

November 3, 2011

Joe, Byron, Martha, Jaycee, Clayton and Family, Elaine's deepest committment was first to you, her family, to her lifelong friends and to our town. She fought the good fight, not only for herself, but for many of us from time to time over the years. Although she often appeared tough, we were all most blessed by her big, generous, good heart. Having had Elaine as my lifelong, loyal friend for 60 years, I will miss her just always being around town. She was always there for us as we are here for you. My sympathy to you and all of us for her loss. My love and blessings to each of you. Kathleen

Bob & Diane McCreery Superior Medical Transportation

November 3, 2011

Joel,
We are so sorry to hear about Elaine's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sabra Thompson

November 3, 2011

Joe & Family
So very sorry to hear of your loss, my deepest sympathy to your family. May God Bless you during your time of need.

November 3, 2011

Joe, Byron and family
Please know during these difficult times our thoughts and prayers have been with you constantly. So sad to hear of Elaine's passing.
Randy and Karen Goins

November 3, 2011

Joe & Family
So sad to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy.
David & Kathy Lambert

Dick & Carol Kempiak

November 3, 2011

At this hour of sadness, please accept our heartfelt condolences. As her soul rests in peace in the feet of Almighty, He will give you courage to face her loss to you and the community. We are all with you in sharing your irreparable loss, which no words can fill.
We all pray to God for strength and redemption.

Mary Long

November 3, 2011

Joe and Byron. I am so very sad to hear about Elaine. Please take care. She will surely be missed. "No More Let Life Divide, What Death Can Bring Together".

Lance Knight

November 3, 2011

Joe, I was shocked to hear the new's of Elaine, with knowing her all my life I felt that the spring in her step, the spark in her eye's and the laughter in her heart would always be there. Elaine was a very caring, wonderful, and remarkable woman. I know that a great number of people from many walks of life will miss her deeply, as I.

Shannon Holden

November 3, 2011

We're so sorry to hear this news Joe & Byron. I can remember her from my early childhood.
Shannon Holden & Family

November 3, 2011

Joe, I'm so sorry. I have been thinking of you guys alot since I retired. Elaine sure kept us in line.
Ron=Frito Lay

November 3, 2011

So saddened by the news and we send our deepest sympathy to Joe and Family. We will miss her smile, her genuine kindness and her presence around town. Carl and Karen Fiori

November 3, 2011

She will be missed. She was one of a kind. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Nathan, Tara, Lexie, Parker and Lakyn

David Compton

November 2, 2011

Having been a neighbor in my early childhood to this feisty woman, I feel a strong sense of loss as I know that the community of Buckeye feels. Elaine is in my prayers as is her family.

Duane and Kathy Beamis

November 2, 2011

Our hearts are heavy following the news of her passing. You all are in our prayers. May the good Lord bring you comfort and strength.

Kerr Family

November 2, 2011

Buckeye has lost a great woman in Elaine. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family.

Joanne Osborne

November 2, 2011

Thank you Elaine for your commitment to Buckeye and all of the West Valley. To her family, may the Lord be with you always, give you strength, and smile with your fond memories.

November 2, 2011

My deepest sympathy and cndolencess to the May family.She was a stong woman and she raised an amazing family. I know she,ll be sorely missed. My Prayers will be with you all.

Jim & Lyn (Davis) Williams

November 2, 2011

Joe & family, we are deeply saddened by Elaine's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of growing up with her and also of the winter visits Jim & spent with both of you. Love & prayers.

November 2, 2011

Joe, Byron, Jacie & Family
Very saddened for your loss - May the Lord give you comfort and peace. Derek, Tracy, Addy & Colt.

November 2, 2011

To the May family,
I am deeply saddened for your loss, may God grant you peace and strength during this difficult time.
God Bless

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