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Jane Bernstein Obituary

Jane S. Bernstein; 71 years young, of Gilbert, AZ sailed away March 25, 2006 to be with her beloved, our dad, Richard. Born in San Francisco, CA with itchy feet, Mom traveled to all of the continents, but declined Antarctica (too cold). Mom raised 5 children and ran 'Bernstein's Fish Grotto' in San Francisco after Dad passed away. Mom was completely worshipped by her children, Scott, Greg, Lia, Kate, Amy; her niece Pammie; and her 'sons by another mother', Grant and Lee Owens. Grandma was idolized by her grandchildren; Erika, Megan, Leland, Joseph, Kiera, Sarah, and Zachary. Mom enjoyed membership with the Heard Museum, Phoenix Zoo, Botanical Gardens, and her greatest joy was every minute spent with her friends in the 'Matinee Madames'. Mom had a thousand watt smile, optimism, and sweet charm that enchanted all who met her. Mom passed from our presence to the loving arms of those who preceded her, our father Richard, her father Paul, mother Alice, and brother Leland. A farewell service will be held at Home of Peace Cemetery in Colma, CA at 1:00 on Friday, March 31. Arrangements by Messinger Indian School Mortuary.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Mar. 29, 2006.

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Amy Valle

March 23, 2023

I still miss you every day. The ache never goes away. I know I´ll see you again some day. I love you so much.

Steve Zelinsky

April 4, 2006

I also send my sincerest condolences. Like my brother, I remember my Grandfather Harold, always look forward to a visit from Jane. I remember her lively energy and her zest for life. She will always remain as a special memory in my heart.

Sincerely,

Schary Coward

April 1, 2006

Jane and Leland were my brother Ken's and my only cousins. We still miss Lee and even though I didn't see much of Jane in our adult years, I always thought of her with love and affection. My heartfelt condolences to her family.

Matt Zelinsky

March 31, 2006

We are truly sorry for your loss. Jane would come up and visit with us and my grandparents,Harold and Mildred Zelinsky in Sonora. We would always be happily surprised by her visits. Leland was my dad's hero also and was an inspiration for him to join the Marines. I remember my grandparents always having a picture of Leland on their dresser. As I get older, I am finally realizing the relationships between families. I wish I would have gotten to know her better. With sincere regards, Matt.

Karen Byrnes

March 30, 2006

Jane was my inspiration--and gave me strength when I too became a young widow with children. She was my late husband's aunt. We had our rehearsal dinner at The Grotto and our wedding reception at Dick & Jane's in 1972...they were very much in love. We will miss her!

Kenneth Zelinsky

March 30, 2006

The momory of this wonderful person

will always remain with me.

My condolences to the family.



Cousin Ken

Mike Zelinsky

March 30, 2006

I worked with Paul at D. Zelinsky and Sons for many years and looked up to him as a gentleman, a devoted family member and a true friend. Jane's brother Leland was the inspiration that led me to my Marine Corps career. Sincere condolences to Jane's family and friends, from our Zelinsky family to yours.



With love and affection,



Mike Zelinsky and family and Mike's mother, Barbara L. Zelinsky.

James Broderick

March 30, 2006

I was a classmate of Lia's in 1972 when your Dad passed away. I remember Mrs. Duncan making the announcement to our class. Now that I'm 42 and have 3 kids of my own, I can better understand the challenges your Mom faced in raising such a tight, and wonderful family. Our condolences, and best wishes to you all.

Amy Valle

March 30, 2006

My shining star, the universe will be a little bit less bright without you to guide me. I miss you. XOXO

Amy Valle

March 30, 2006

She was a shining star that always shone on the path towards home. I will miss you forever. XOXOXO

Greg Bernstein

March 30, 2006

Always in our heats

Alan Bernstein

March 30, 2006

As a child I remember eating at the Fish Grotto and listening to my father, Sylvain Bernstein, talk about the family. It was all so confusing with the numerous aunts and uncles and their family members. His mother, Rose Bernstein, I believe, was Richard's aunt (?). On behalf of my brother, Mark Bernstein and his family, and my family, please accept our sincerest condolences at your loss. Alan Bernstein

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