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Kenneth Lucas Obituary
62, died May 6, 2009. Beloved husband of Pat Kenny. A Kansas native who was a writer, a published author and a counselor, Ken was a compassionate man and a true friend. He was grateful for his 26 years of sobriety with AA and for the fellowship and love of all his friends and family. He will be remembered for his empathy, his sense of humor and for being a good listener. Preceded in death by his father Woodrow and brother Larry, and survived by his mother, Wilette of Wichita, KS. Also survived by devoted father- and mother-in law, sisters- and brothers-in-law, nieces and nephews, all of whom he loved as his own. Services 10:30 am Thursday, May 14, at St. Gregory Catholic Church, 3424 N. 18th Ave., followed by a luncheon in the parish hall. Arrangements by Rudé Family Northwest Mortuary. Memorials appreciated to The Crossroads, Inc., 1845 E. Ocotillo, Phoenix, 85016, or to St. Gregory Adopt a Student Program. Pat and her family thank all of you whose caring and sympathy sustain us as we mourn the loss of Ken's bright spirit.
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Jim Deem
May 24, 2009
My contact with Ken was limited - we had both run treatment programs. At a time of serious difficulty in my life, he gave me acceptance and love when few others did. For that I am grateful. May God Bless and direct us all.
Patty Dersam
May 19, 2009
We will see how our experience can benefit others. (from the Promises of AA). A tragedy in his passing; but he has left a living legacy for a life-time for all those he touched. Rest in peace and we will all see you again at the Big AA meeting. Patty D.
Concetta Antonelli
May 17, 2009
Dear Pat and all our extended family,
Though we have lost the 'gold' that is Ken, we have been moved by all the loving kindness and brightness of his spirit.
Pat I send you loving thoughts and wishes for grace and strength and healing.
Asinamaguun Ajibik
May 14, 2009
Gii-gawaubumin Niidj'zh.
Asinammagun, Halo, Mishikwud Rock Doo-tem
Barbar & Terry Wodrich/Gunn
May 14, 2009
Deepest sympathy on your loss, our hearts go out to you. May you find strength in your loving family and compassionate friends.
Geri Sosa
May 14, 2009
Pat and Family: I will miss Ken's warmth, loving heart, and generous spirit. May God give you the courage and strengh, Pat.
Nereida and Jose De Jesus -Melendez
May 14, 2009
Our thoughts and good vibrations for you dear Pat.
Duffy Gilliland
May 14, 2009
Ken was gentle and compassionate. He was of great service to all fellow alcoholics. We will miss his physical presence at meetings and functions, but his spirit will live on in the fellowship for many years to come. I was blessed to know Ken, and will be forever grateful for all that he shared with us. My thoughts and prayers are with Pat, Mrs. Lucas, all of his family and loved ones.
Courtney Penniman
May 13, 2009
Ken, You were such a kind, loving, and beautiful human being. Thank you for paving the way for me, and for being a true pioneer and advocate which meant so very much to me. May peace be with you, and my condolences to your wife and family.
Brough Stewart
May 13, 2009
Pat & and the whole family,
I will miss Ken and his gentleness. He was a good man! I had the great fortune to be around him professionally for the past 15 years and as a fellow recovering alcoholic appreciated his kindness and support.
Steve Harrison
May 13, 2009
Dear Pat & the Lucas Family,
Words alone cannot describe what a wonderful, kind person Ken Lucas was and is. My heart felt condolences on your loss. Pat, keep a smile on your face for all the fond memories and times shared with Ken. I certainly will. You are in my thoughts and prayers. With love,
Nancy Jenkins
May 12, 2009
Pat and Family,
My heart goes out to you all. I pray that God will give you his strength and peace at this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you,
Love,
Carol Gustafson
May 12, 2009
We will miss seeing your kind face, God bless you. Ken you will be missed by so many and loved for who and what you were. My heart goes out to your family, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
May 12, 2009
Ken was so thoughtful and caring. He honored my late grandfather at a farming/writing awards banquet last fall -- although Ken had worked for Granddad more than 30 years prior. His words were kind and touching. Blessings to Pat and all.
Louise Gacioch Chandler, Az
Father Sean O' Shea
May 12, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Pat and Lucas family at this time. May he be with the Lord.
Steve Tuttle
May 12, 2009
Smart and funny, serious and sensitive, Ken was a good friend and a good person. We will all miss him very much.
May 12, 2009
Rest in peace, my friend.
May 12, 2009
A huge unimaginable loss. There's our next session....jr
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