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Lucile Jean Smith "Nonnie" Betts

Lucile Jean Smith "Nonnie" Betts obituary

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Lucile Betts Obituary

Betts, Lucile Jean Smith "Nonnie"
Lucile Jean Smith Betts "Nonnie" died on August 15, 2011 in Phoenix, AZ at age 92 after a long and courageous struggle with multiple illnesses. She was born on December 14, 1918 at Salina, Kansas to Lester Lloyd and Kathryn Combs Smith. After a brief residence at Baxter Springs, Kansas, she moved with her parents to Chanute, Kansas, where she lived until joining her family in their move to Glendale, Arizona in 1934. She enrolled with the junior class at Glendale Union High School that fall and there she met the love of her life, Max Betts, whom she married in 1940. Meanwhile, she had graduated from high school in 1936, attended Arizona State Teachers College at Tempe, now ASU, and served as secretary to the principal of the Glendale Elementary school. Her husband was stationed in the Army Air Corps at San Antonio, Texas during much of World War II, and Lucile joined him there. They returned to Arizona after Max was discharged and joined his father-in-law and brother-in-law in the management of L.L. Smith Hardware and Sporting Goods Store, which served Phoenix customers for some forty years. After Max died of a heart attack in 1972, Lucile continued to live in Phoenix until her death. Her grace and wit became her trademark. Chief among the many passions in her life were her family, her host of friends, world travel, the PEO sisterhood, and sports, especially the Diamondbacks, the Suns, and all ASU teams. Lucile was a bright, cheerful, loving little lady who lightened up a room whenever she entered it. She is survived by here son Larry and his wife Anne, daughters Cyndi Gosnell and Judi Ciliento and her husband Nick. She is also survived by her brother Dean and his wife Jean, and sisters-in-law Jean Smith and Norma Walsh. She was predeceased by her husband Max, her son Marty, and brother Don. She is also survived by her eight grandchildren Ryan Betts, Senta Collins, Robert Adams and his wife Jen, Griffin and Greer Gosnell, and Justin, Kyle and Niki Ciliento. In addition she also has four great-grandchildren, Seven Collins and Hunter, Ashlyn and Rylan Adams. A visitation will be held on Friday, August 19, 2011, between the hours of 6:00 and 8:00 PM. Services will be on Saturday morning, August 20, at 11:00 AM. Both will be held at A.L. Moore Grimshaw Mortuary, 710 W Bethany Home Road, Phoenix. Burial will be at Greenwood Memory Lawn Cemetery, 2300 W Van Buren St, Phoenix on Monday, August 22, at 9:00 AM. This is a celebration of Lucille's life. Please wear your bright happy summer colors.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Aug. 18 to Aug. 19, 2011.

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Suzanne Bisch Stephens

August 19, 2011

I love you Nonnie!!

Karen Behee

August 19, 2011

Larry, Cyndy and Judi, your mom--our Aunt Lucile--was the best, and we were all happier for having her in our lives. She always had a smile and gracious words. She was unfailingly helpful and kind. She was strong and independent; someone her family could lean on. I know you loved her and enjoyed her so much, and you'll miss her, as we all will. We have so many good memories of family times together.

Love, Karen

John Ellis

August 19, 2011

There is a mysterious serendipity to the way people’s live intersect in this world and that is certainly true of the Betts Family and the Ellis Family. Larry and I probably crossed paths in a baseball game at Clarendon or Grandview when we were 10 or 11, but I first remember meeting him when we played frosh basketball at West Phoenix High. For some strange reason (that we’re both still trying to figure out) we became very close and have remained so for the next 52 years. Now that I think of it, maybe it wasn’t Larry that I felt close to but Max and Lucile! When I would go over to Larry’s house to hang out, Max and Lucile always greeted me with affection; asked me about my family; while Cyndi and Judi would be there just being cute and adorable. All of them made you feel like you were just part of the family—probably in a vain hope that I would be a good influence on Larry. I came to love Larry’s family and I know my mom and dad loved Larry and his family as well, probably for the same reason—maybe they would save me from reform school. Our parents always attended every game we would ever play at West High and they would often sit together—Lucile and my mom encouraging us and our dad’s questioning the official’s parentage.

As the years passed, we graduated but Larry and I have always kept in touch. Whenever I would plan on coming to Phoenix to visit my family, Larry and I would get together for golf or dinner and we would often go by to visit Lucile. Every visit with her transported me back to those early days. Lucile was so genuinely happy to see me and I felt the same way. She would laugh as Larry and I would have a battle of wits and when Larry ran out of ammunition, Lucille would be there to stir us up again with her own wit and sense of humor. You could see the joy she felt and you sensed that she was remembering us as young boys. I will always remember that distinctive smile and that laugh. Lucile was a truly good soul, who lived life long and fully. She endured much loss with Max, Marty and Don but it never broke her spirit—she finished life as she lived it, with strength and character.

Lucile will always be a great presence in my life as long as I live. I feel very fortunate that my life path intersected this wonderful family. Larry, Cyndi, Judi and all of the Betts Family have all my love. Know that Lucile has passed onto you her strength, character and love of your family.

D Zimmerman

August 18, 2011

To the entire Betts family, we offer our sincere condolences to you on the loss of Lucille. We remember the family occasions that we shared with you where she was present. She was such a fun loving and obviously much loved mom and grandmother. May you all be comforted by wonderful memories of how your lives were enriched by her. Sorry we will be out of town and cannot be with you to celebrate her life. Blessings to you all. Love, Dale and Kurt Zimmerman

Barry Shemer

August 18, 2011

I got to know Lucille when I was at the Convention & Visitor's Bureau. Asside from her professionalism and value to the Bureau, she constantly kept me informed of what my high school buddy Larry was up to. What a 1st class genuine person she was and those same attributes describe Larry. I feel very fortunate to be a friend to both.

Very Best Regards, Barry Shemer

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