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Mary Maffeo Obituary

Maffeo, Mary
Mary Maffeo died in her Phoenix home on Tuesday, July 10, with her family by her side. Mary June Reed was born on January 6, 1921 in Casper, Wyoming. Her happy childhood with parents Royal and Kathleen and sister Margaret (Miggs) was filled with love and support for her passionate interest in the dramatic arts. After a year at the University of Wyoming and with many roles in stage plays under her belt, she married John Maffeo, an Army lieutenant stationed in Cheyenne. Through sixty years of marriage and the raising of seven children, Mary maintained her love of the arts and her passionate commitment to social justice. From support for the U.S. civil rights movement to protests against the injustice of war, Mary was a concerned and motivated activist. She was a dedicated supporter of the Tempe Peace Center, United Farm Workers, Libraries Limited and reading programs for children of migrant workers and the Arizona Democratic Party. In 2005 she was inducted into the Arizona Democratic Party Hall of Fame by Governor Janet Napolitano. Mary was also a writer who penned a long-running column on family life for The Arizona Catholic Register. Throughout her long life, Mary inspired her many friends, family, and community with the courage of her convictions and her steadfast belief that peace is possible. Mary's family is grateful to her loving caregivers and the exceptional team from Hospice of the Valley that provided gentle comfort and family support. Mary is survived by her sister Margaret Laybourn (Bob), children Kathleen Tovar (Leroy), Mimi Cordalis (Jim), John Reed Maffeo (Joan), Robert Maffeo, Martha Mriss (Carl), Mariane Maffeo, Lois Maffeo (Eric), grandchildren Danielle McCausland (Matt), Carrie Tovar, Kelly Cordalis, Selena Larson Maffeo, Devon Larson Maffeo, Emma Muriel and four great-grandchildren. Private arrangements by Whitney & Murphy. A memorial will be held at a later date.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Jul. 17, 2012.

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July 23, 2012

Dear Maffeo family, going through our high school years with some of you I got to know Mary's graciousness and hospitality. She always made all of us feel so welcome and she was always happy to see us. Her humility and dignity was a gift to everyone. Our world needs more people like her and she will be missed. My prayers are for you all to receive God's healing spirit and the love and comfort of His Holy Mother Mary. love, Patty O.

Terri "Mishanec" Thomas

July 21, 2012

I went to North High with Bob, Martha & Marianne Maffeo. My sister & I were at the house after the services. What a beautiful family the Maffeo's are. My compliments go out to the author & artist of the Mary June "Moon" book and for sharing inspirational stones. My deepest sympathy & prayers are for all who have aching hearts.

Marsie Habib

July 19, 2012

Mary was such an inspiration to our Libraries, Ltd. members! Her enthusiasm for literacy and our many projects was infectious! We will miss her wonderful smile, her gentle guidance and encouragement!

Priscilla Fox

July 18, 2012

Dear Maffeo Family,
Joyous and happy spreading good feelings to those around her. Her love of books and literacy is now shared by many. I will miss the twinkle in her eyes and know that she made everyone better! Thank you all for sharing her with us...

Mike Warren

July 18, 2012

Ihave always felt like part of the family because "Mrs. Maffeo" always remembered who I was although there were times I didn't see her for a long period of time. We didn't see eye to eye on things but everyone had to respect her passion and beliefs. I'm sure she touched many lives with her kindness. My condolences to all the faimly and friends

Dan Garland

July 18, 2012

Dear Maffeo Family, Dan Garland from Sedona wishing to say that the whole Garland family loved your Mom so much. Your parents were the closest of my parents friends. We will remember her always. Best wishes from Sedona!

With her beloved.

July 17, 2012

On one of her many trips to Olympia, WA.

July 17, 2012

Lannie

July 17, 2012

Aunt Mary, I thank you for helping me dig
into the family history. What fun we had!
I will miss you.

Ginni Lionberger

July 17, 2012

Dearest Maffeo Cousins,

A wonderful light has gone out of all of our lives with Aunt Mary's passing. She will always be one of life's best memories for me......what a welcoming, loving, accepting being she was. Eternally grateful for her presence in my life.

Love,
Ginni

Eileen Mahoney

July 17, 2012

Dear Maffeo Family,
Sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful Mother. Mary was a devoted friend--our Mother adored her--and a truly joyful, wise and giving person. In her extraordinary openmindedness, she was ever adventurous, imaginative and insightful...May she rest in peace. Blessings to the family! Love from all the Mahoneys...

Diane Bliss Pavlovich

July 17, 2012

Ms Tovar & Ms Cordalis,
Sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. What an interesting life she had!
From a long ago student from OLPH

July 17, 2012

There was a light in Mary that inspired others -- and each time she would meet a friend, she gave her undivided attention, wonderful cheer, inspiration, and support. It was a privilege to know her, a Wyoming (and Arizona) "gal" in every way. Kindest thoughts to her family. Marcia Melton

July 17, 2012

I am very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Toby Smitt

Stephen Ahearn

July 17, 2012

What a wonderful and gracious person. Mary, you will be missed. All good wishes to the family

July 17, 2012

Mary you were truly a wonderful person and will be missed dearly.
Our Love, Cynthia & Jay Trego

Sam Morozan

July 17, 2012

I knew the John Maffeo family from Bisbee, AZ.
Mary helped many college students from the 3
State Universities, when she was a Member of the
Dougherty Foundation.
Mary was a kind gentle person & was deeply interested
and involved with helping needy College students
obtain scholarship funds from the Dougherty Foundation.
I recall when Mary retired, she was missed by those who
worked with her!
R-I-P-

July 17, 2012

So good to have known her! Jeanette Daane

Ray and Jo Ann Muench

July 17, 2012

Mary Maffeo will always be my Cub Scout Den Mother and a shining example of a person dedicated to peace and justice among all people. Our sympathies to the family on the loss of this wonderful woman.

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