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Melanie Kubiak Obituary

Kubiak, Melanie Erin " Mel-O-Knee"
is now an angel in heaven watching over family and friends. Born December 13, 1975, passed away September 17, 2013 a native of Phoenix, AZ. Her contagious laugh and infectious smile will be cherished by all. Survived by: Son Jorden, Daughter Liane, Mother Anne, Stepfather Steve, Father Joe, Stepmother Diane, Brothers Brandon & Mychal, Sister Kristin, Nephew Taylor. A Memorial service will be held on September 21, 2013, 11:00am at Madison Baptist Church, 6202 North 12th Street, Phoenix.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Sep. 20, 2013.

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Stephen

May 31, 2024

Sorry so many years passed to say how much I enjoyed knowing you. See you soon.
Stephen Clark

Love you Sis!

Brandon Kubiak

September 30, 2013

No one could have filled your shoes as my sister. You had a way to make any time we spent together so much fun. No holiday, BBQ, birthday, special occasion or random day will be the same now that you are gone. I have felt your presence even though you are gone. Your time came way too soon, Sis! I have gone through all of this death crap constantly reminding myself of what we always told each other, Suck it up! I've sucked it up and fought the pain every day! I have so many memories of us growing up and for how many times we were mad at each other, you were always the coolest girl I've ever known! I love you Sis!

Jim Quick

September 27, 2013

Anne -
My best to you and your family during this difficult time. Melanie left tons of memories filled with laughter, and two amazing children - these will get you through.

"We laugh to Survive" says Bill Cosby.

Kristyn Kubiak

September 24, 2013

Mel was and always will be the best sister I could have asked for. When I was little and she would come to California, I wanted to do everything just like my big sister. From ponytails and t-shirts to Mickey Mouse watches I wanted to be just like her. She showed me my love for softball which ended up taking me all the way to college on a scholarship. Once I was in college, we reconnected and it was as if no time had passed. We shared so much love and laughter over the phone, I felt as though she was right there with me. I am so thankful for all of the love that we shared in visits, letters, and phone calls, and will always smile when I think of her. Mel had the brightest spirit of anyone I've ever known and she will make a wonderful guardian angel to all of her friends and family. I love you forever big sister.

Anne Fandrey

September 23, 2013

To my beautiful amazing daughter. I have been flooded with memories over the past week. Somehow you ended up being more stubborn about what you would and wouldn't wear, or when. Worse than your brother, which I would have thought wasn't possible. You used to refuse to get dressed in the morning to go to pre-school. We lived in Mesa and you must have been about 2 years old. I put you in the car in your jammies and had your clothes ready. You were throwing a fit that you wanted out of the car. So, I pulled into the parking lot at Fiesta Mall and let you out. I drove about 50 yards to watch you and some man drove up and tried to talk to you. I never did that again! You were such a driving force in my life. I will love you forever! Mom

September 22, 2013

Anne, Julie told me about Melanie and I wanted you to know how sorry I am. I will be praying for you and your family. She will be that bright angel looking over you. Love You Sue Graw Hedges

BFF

Abby Loza

September 22, 2013

Mel was my best friend for 31 years. No better word can describe this loss other than tragic. She was a wonderful woman and AI know I will never have another friend like her in my lifetime. Spending the last few days of her life and the days after her death with her family I hear her laugh in her mother, her sarcastic streak in her father, see her smile on her brother, her courage in her son and beauty in her daughter. The hole this loss has left in heart is unfillable. This should not have happened and I feel angry that it did. This pain will never be better but I suppose you just learn to function with it. I hope so, I squeezed lotion on my sandwich today instead of mustard my brain has gone numb so I can deal with this. I loved Mel and I know she loved me, I treasure the memories that are flooding through me and I will remain in her life through her family and children I can only hope to be the comfort to them that they have been to me.

abby loza

September 22, 2013

Mel was my best friend for 31 years of my life I will never have a relationship with anyone like I did with her again. this loss has left such a huge hole in my heart that I know i will never be able to fill I am so thankful for the memories I have with her and I know she loved me as much as I loved her. spending time with her family over the past few weeks has been Bitter sweet for me it makes me miss her so much when I hear her laugh through her mother, see her smile on her brother, her sarcastic streak from her Dad, her courage in her son and her liveliness in her beautiful daughter. I will always remember how wonderful she was through the family she has left behind. I truly AM thankful that they have allowed me to be such a big part of her memorial. there is no better word to describe this situation than tragic this should not have happened but it did and now we deal with it. my dearest friend I love you and I always will

Cindy Moreland

September 21, 2013

Anne, my heart is full of sorrow for you and the entire family at this time. We will not forget Melanie, but remember her everyday. Jorden and Liane are remarkable kids and I know Melanie was so proud of them. God Bless your terrific family!

Monica Loza-Calvin

September 20, 2013

Mel-o-knee this is in your memory- it was always fun to be in your presence such a sweet and caring heart you will be missed. My prayers go out to your family God bless and watch over them xoxo

Tracy Loper

September 20, 2013

Anne, so sorry for your loss. I know you have lots of happy memories of Melanie and I hope those sustain you, Jorden and Liane and the rest of your family through this tough time. You are all in my thoughts.

September 20, 2013

Anne, My thoughts and prayers as well as love are with you..........I know no words can ease the pain, just know that you and your family are in my heart and prayers.............love Julie Feeney Daniels

Heather Corey

September 20, 2013

Melanie was in my life for such a short period of time. She accepted me and my daughter (Hailey) within the moment we met! Her laughter and fun loving spirit were contagious! I see you in the flying butterflies and the sunsets where the fun generally began! I hear you in every song on the radio and this makes me laugh, cry and sing louder. I will miss you and I am so grateful that I was able to share this short time with you! I promise you I will always be here to love, support, encourage and laugh with Brandon, Anne, Steve, Liane, Jorden and Taylor! I also promise to laugh and enjoy life more - the way you did! Nothing will be the same without you!! You will be in my heart and memories forever - I love you Mel - Heather

Kym Jensen

September 20, 2013

I have known Melanie since grade school. I can't believe she is gone. So many of my funny memories of school and softball involve Melanie. My heart goes out to the loved ones she has left behind. Heaven has just received one of the funniest angels I have ever met. My thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.

Susan Huitron

September 20, 2013

Jordan and LiAnne my prayers are with you always. Justin Coleman's om Susie

Rene Dunay

September 20, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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