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Nicole Anchondo Obituary

Anchondo, Nicole Monique
my beautiful daughter; was born March 21, 1985. She was our free spirit. After a valiant fight with leukemia, she joined our Heavenly Father on November 22, 2008. She will always be our shining star and will be missed by
many. Please join us in a celebration of Nicole's life on Sunday, December 7, 2008 from 2pm - 5pm at Lakeshore Mortuary, 1815 S. Dobson Road, Mesa.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Dec. 4, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Nicole Anchondo

Sponsored by The Mokry Family & All Who Write In Nicole's Book.

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Charlie's Aunt Gail

November 29, 2023

I remember.

-Julia

November 28, 2023

That BEAUTIFUL smile!

Julia

November 28, 2022

I remember you on your sickest days and your beautiful soul was all I could see. I am forever touched by your humor and courage! I wish I had a picture of you.
-Julia, RN

Gail Mokry Shoultes

November 28, 2022

I've never forgotten you Hirl, never will. Blue is best.

Patty suppa milner

November 28, 2022

Another year, come and gone. I can tell I'm getting older. Always in my heart forever! I still laugh out loud of your funnies. XXXOOO
TIA-TIA-TIA

Gemma Bird

November 29, 2021

Nicoleyyyyyy!
i miss you!
remember when you and Charlie moved into your first home and it was raining outside? we sat by the door with our socks getting wet sneaking a cigarette. also when we would watch ANTM and talk about going to NYC? i often think of you - what we would be up to? where life would take us.... you were a great friend; a breath of fresh air. remember- when we went to GCC and hung out w Lindsey at the coffee shop? I dont think I have seen her since you passed. I miss you- your smile- your sparkly eyes and those sweet eyelashes- and your dancing [ you were so goofy and could always make me laugh]. i am sorry we didnt get to be friends for longer. i still have your number in my phone. saudade sweet Nicoleyyyyy

Gail Mokry

November 28, 2021

I still think of you now and again. I remember you once wrote "blue is best" and I think so too.

Patty Milner

September 13, 2021

My precious niece Nicole❤❤I think of you always. Me and all your cousins will be together in November and we will toast your beautiful soul, beautiful memories, and all the laughter we all shared with you. You and your mom are probably dancing away all night long! I miss you both XXXOOO

TIA-TIA-TIA

Gemma Bird

July 3, 2020

i miss you so much. all these years i have been hanging onto you. i talk to u when i drive to CA and to work. i miss our friendship. i miss ur face and your amazing smile. i miss josephine popping out when we would be running around the city. i have been missing you longer than i knew you. which is insane. all of my memories are so vivid. your momma and g-ma... how close u guys were. ur g-ma's bright lipstick and your mom's vivid hair and her spirit of a hustler. i miss u so much homie. i am grateful u were in my life and i am bummed i didnt get more time w you. u are amazing and continue to live inside of me. "you're my boiiii Blue!'

Alisha Squyres

December 4, 2018

It's been 10 years since God took you home. You were on my mind like crazy yesterday so I called my twin, Nikki, and we talked about you and we miss you so much. I will always remember your beautiful smile. I remember when you came to Heritage Elementary in the 6th grade. You made friends with everybody, you weren't worried about what other people thought and you always had our backs. The second you thought something might be wrong you were right there and I thank you for that.You taught me so much. Thank you for being such a loyal friend and an amazing person. I love you Nicole!
P.S. I hope you have spaghetti night in heaven!

Lori Lunkin

April 19, 2018

Beautiful NicoleUncle Mike and I think of you often. You and your mom are back together and not suffering. Much love, Aunt Lori

Julia, RN

November 24, 2013

Nicole, Thinking of your beautiful smile.

Gail Mokry

March 22, 2013

I still think of your beautiful daughter all the time. I always will. As a mother I know you will never be the same but I pray you find comfort anyway and everywhere. Happy birthday Nicole!

genia billups mom

March 20, 2013

happy birthhday ... I miss yon so.. I think of what you would be doing now, if you would have kids, or would you be traveling and visiting far away places.. I will let some balloons go tomorrow and I hope you catch them.. I love you always and forever... my beautiful little girl

mom mom

March 20, 2013

happy birthhday ... I miss yon so.. I think of what you would be doing now, if you would have kids, or would you be traveling and visiting far away places.. I will let some balloons go tomorrow and I hope you catch them.. I love you always and forever... my beautiful little girl

mom

March 20, 2013

happy birthhday ... I miss yon so.. I think of what you would be doing now, if you would have kids, or would you be traveling and visiting far away places.. I will let some balloons go tomorrow and I hope you catch them.. I love you always and forever... my beautiful little girl

JENN SAMORA

March 20, 2013

FOUR YEARS HAVE ALREADY PASSED BUT YOU STILL LIGHT UP OUR HEARTS AND MEMORIES...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR BEAUTIFUL GIRL, NIC!!!! *?*

March 23, 2012

wishing you a belated happy bithday nicole,your miss so much love christina

Lynn

March 21, 2012

I still think of you every day. Jennifer, Cynthia and I miss you SO much. I Love You, Nicole.

November 22, 2011

Thinking of you today.

March 24, 2011

Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.

I know you're doing cartwheels among the stars and watching over those who loved you. Happy (belated) birthday.

gilly hicks

December 22, 2010

i miss u sweet crazy gUrl.

Angela A

November 21, 2010

Im thinking of you so very much right now my beautiful Lil'Sis!! You are not forgotten.. I miss you every day and am so thankful for the blessing of having known you for the short time that I did.. I love you and know you are always around looking out for your family and friends..

Naomi Waynee

November 4, 2010

I didn't know about Nicole. I am so sorry to hear she had leukemia. I can still see that little bundle of enery that used to come in the lab and wait for you, Genia. We never understand why they are taken from us. Someone told me when Jack passed that GOD needs them more than we do.
My sympathy ...

March 22, 2010

On your birthday yesterday you were strong on my mind as health care reform was voted in. I pray that others don't have to endure what you had to, but even through all your suffering you were still the sun shining down on every person you met or touched. You will always be loved and remembered.

Cindy Rodriguez

March 20, 2010

I think about you all the time, Nicole. Especially, everytime I visit Dr. Zafar's office. It was there that I saw you for the first time outside the hospital. You were with your Mom and sporting your new wig. Always so beautiful! Peace my friend.

margie schlieter

March 19, 2010

I know your birthday is coming up, and I'm still thinking about you a lot. Today laura and I were talking about the across the universe song which was played during your slide show. We miss you so much. You really are a shining star.

momma

November 23, 2009

Life is not the same, even after a year has past I still wait to see if you"ll come through the door... not only today but every second, every minute of the day you are in my thoughts... sometimes I hear your voice.. laughing and being crazy loud.. I hold on to that ... and smile knowing you are with me always my little angel..

Gail Mokry

November 23, 2009

I will never forget how you were just bright as a new penny and I'll miss you until I see you again. I don't think heaven has been the same since you got there so don't forget to wait for us! Happy Thanksgiving too, girl and I pray God send many blessings to your mama and your family and friends!

November 22, 2009

It has been a year, and your memories are still so fresh in our my minds and in our hearts--we love you forever beautiful.
~jake~ben~sam~patty

Karen

November 22, 2009

Thinking of you today.

Ang

November 21, 2009

I love you Nic... I can't believe its been a year. You are missed so much everyday.. I miss you and love you lil'sis...

November 6, 2009

Hi lil'sis... I have been thinking of you so much lately and missing something aweful... I love you!

CAMY WHAMY

August 13, 2009

I'M THINKING OF YOU NIC! I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY. I FEEL YOU AND I KNOW YOU ARE WITH US...SOAR HIGH AND REMEMBER TO STOP BY AND VISIT FROM TIME TO TIME ;) LOVE YOU GIRL!

Karen

June 18, 2009

Out of the blue I saw your face this morning when I was getting ready for work. It was so random I was left with no choice other than to believe you were visiting. You are missed hunnybunny.

Margaret Smith

April 12, 2009

HAPPY EASTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "PEDRO" Luv ya lots!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 26, 2009

HI NICOLE
YOUR MOM DID SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING ,FOR YOU ,CELEBRATING YOUR BIRTHDAY ,WHAT BEAUTIFUL PICTURES SHE TOOK ,WISH I COULD OF SEEN THOSE BALLOONS GO ,I LOVE AND MISS YOU SENDING LOTS OF PRAYERS AND HAPPINESS FOR YOUR MOM AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU

Gail Mokry

March 25, 2009

Oh sweet girl, what a wonderful way for your Mommie to celebrate your birthday...and all in blue....blue is best you know. I pray God grant your family and friends peace. I think of them often. I miss you girlie, don't forget me.

mom

March 24, 2009

hi my angel.
i completely forgot to come on here and wish you a happy birthday.
we did let balloons fly on saturday at south mountain for you. they were beautiful .. all in blue . i miss you so much, life is so hard here without you..
last night i had a dream that you were lying in bed and i bent over to give you a hug and you kissed my face over and over again.. it seemed so real, i woke up and started crying.
thank you for coming in my dream..
love mom

Angela Amaya

March 21, 2009

Happy Birthday beautiful.. I miss you so much lil'sis... You know this. I hope that you have an amazing time celebrating in heaven..... I know you will be laughing and dancing singing and everything else.. I love you mucho mucho muchoooooo grande...

Gail Mokry

February 8, 2009

Hey girlie,
Now I think of you every time I think of Mary and that is every day you know. I may cry a little each day when I remember you but I can't help but think of the two of you scampering around heaven just waiting for the rest of us to get there. I still ask God to bless and heal your mom and your family. I'll miss you til I see you!!

mom

February 7, 2009

Hi my sunshine~
you are on my mind from the time I wake to the time I close my eyes... life is so very dull without you. I talk to you when I drive in the car... I feel you are next to me.. blast the radio loud like we use too, and sing words to songs and laugh because we really didn't know the right words.. miss you so much my little bird...
til we are together..
love momma

Momma

December 31, 2008

hi my angel,
well I'll have to start this New Year without you..at times I feel so lost.. all I do are just motions, I feel like an empty shell. life can be so cruel.. I just can't wait to see you again.. I know you have no worries where your at and I know you got to see New Years in all the places you love ..
till later!
i love you!

Angela A

December 31, 2008

Nicole, well the year is coming to an end.... I miss you so much, but am so thankful and blessed to have known you and had you in my life. You get to celebrate everywhere if you go to NYC let me know how crazy it is there... I think of you always. I love you lil'sis...

Dianne Wisniewsky

December 30, 2008

Dear Nicole,

I think about you so much. When we go with Mandy to the 12th floor my eyes always go to your room. You had the sweetest smile. I thought you and Mandy could be great friends. I wish you could have had more time. You will not be forgotten.

Dianne

connie pedersen

December 30, 2008

hello from no. dak. i am connie mother of julia a nurse in
az who loved nicole and took care of her in hospital . i am proud of your brave daughter and mine for caring for her with her heart and soul. god brought their spirits together for ever. hugs
from a mother also.

momma

December 25, 2008

Hi my angel.. well this Christmas day is coming to an end.. and i have to tell you that it sure is the most loneliest day with out you as every day has been. I miss the laughs and giggles over uncle mikes sausage gifts, grandmas jacket full of dog hair and her fusha lipstick, Ronnie's grumpy self and my puffy bangs and just your love of life and your energy you would spread through out a room...
Merry Christmas i know you are in a safe and wonderful place!
i sure do miss you :{
momma loves you!

Karen Aubert

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas my little Chiquita! I love you and miss you.

christina verruso

December 24, 2008

hi team nic
wishing you a merry christmas in heaven and give strenth so your mom and family will get through this time ,i miss you and you will never be forgotton i love you christina

Gail Mokry-Shoultes

December 23, 2008

Merry Christmas, Little Miss Sunshine!! I, too, pray for healing, strength and peace for your mommie and all your family. My heart still aches for all you went through but victory was yours as you took Jesus' hand. Don't forget me!!
XO

ANGELA Suell

December 23, 2008

i miss you love

Korinne Ashlock

December 23, 2008

Nicole,
I cant believe that your battle is finally over.. You fought soooo hard and you never lost hope or that beautiful smile! I love you and you have blessed my life and I am soo honored to have been able to take care of you. I started as your nurse and you my patient but I got soo much more in the end! I got an amazing friend! You have changed me and made my life better. I loved every moment with you and I know that someday you still have to get me back for all those shots I gave you... maybe in heaven :) I know I will see you again and I am praying for peace and comfort for your whole family! To Nicoles mom, thank you for allowing me to take care of Nicole and I am sending hugs! Love always, Korinne

Beverly Mokry-White

December 23, 2008

Hey Nicole,
Christmas is almost here,the day our Savior was born. As we celebrate his birth we will find comfort in knowing you will be spending it with him.

Melissa Meyer

December 22, 2008

Nicole- I never got to meet you but we talked through myspace. I truly wish I could have met you, you seemed like an amazing woman. I miss our little random conversations we had telling you about boys=P You always wanted to know about a new one when they came along. You touched my life in so many ways. I love you and Rest in Peace. Your in an awesomely better place now!
Love you oh so much!!!

Teresa Sanchez

December 22, 2008

Nicole- sweet Nicole, I met you once at a barbeque, you were so beautiful even though you weren't feeling well that day, you still smiled. I was so touched by you that I mentioned you to my son, he was very saddened by your illness, and that tells me you did touch many people's lives without even knowing. Rest in Peace Honey, your mom will be okay, you are in a better place.
Peace and Love,

Anna Tovar

December 16, 2008

Nicole--We met once at the hospital and that time that i talked to you and your mom you filled the room with joy and happiness.

My deepest and sincere condolences for Genia and your family.

Rudie Silas

December 14, 2008

Hey Nic!!! I have been thinkin of you oh!! SOOOO much!! I miss your face!! Your laughter..And those times when I would stay with you at the hospital and play Othello!! OHHH!! The memeries! we had way too much in common girl, we even liked the same guys!!! Ha! ha! but most importantly you tought me not to sweat the small stuff...To be proud of who I am and where I come from...to be brave and use the potential that I have to be somebody some day....Thankyou for everything...our freindship,our laughter,and the fun times that we did share together. you mean more than life itself ans you have tought me sooo much...I cant wait till we meet again one day...And when we do.....I have the hugest hug waiting for you. I love you infinity and beyond!!!
LOVE ALWAYS, Rudie

Kelly

December 12, 2008

Nicole you always could make everyone laugh. Everytine I think of you I will smile but it will be a sad smile because the world lost you to soon. But God has one funny angel now! Me and my dad and my mom miss you terribly!

mom

December 12, 2008

Everywhere I look I see you... every moment you are on my mind...
Today it's cloudy outside and I think of the enter you wrote of how you loved the rain and the clouds that covered your mountain range from the hospital window.
I see you walking through that old bookstore in Sedona.. how you wanted to see every book... and you loved the smell of old books..
i love you!

patty suppa

December 11, 2008

Nicole you are such an inspiration to me and my boys, just know how much you are missed and loved by us. we are so glad to have spent our time with you when you were younger. camping with you and megan. i will never forget how cold we were that night and how we all giggled together, taking the emphasis off the bad situation. and that funny night in the hospital when you belt out laughing because sam was sitting in the corner in his hoodie all wrapped up in a upright fetal position, showing me what "EMO" was. i have so many good memories of us going to our scary movies. we scared ourselves so bad we couldn't sleep. i miss you so much mija. god has you now and you can go anywhere now without all the pain. know that you are so loved and will never be forgotten. your tia patty.

friend friend

December 11, 2008

She was Beautiful. May God rest her soul.

christina verruso

December 11, 2008

i miss you nicole,wish i could of got to know you more,i cherriest all the memories you gave us,you have a great mom,what beautiful pictures of you .i know you are at peace now and with the angels ,you are your moms guardian angel now i love you christina

Ana Lujan

December 11, 2008

Nicole I love you

nicolette arthur

December 11, 2008

nicole, i am so lucky to have known you and will treasure the memories forever!! xoxoxo!

Angela A

December 11, 2008

Lil'Sis, I am thinking of you always.. I miss you so very much, I am so lucky and thankful that you were in my life, it was short but it was so amazing. I love you mucho mucho grande always

Maddie Brown

December 10, 2008

Nicole - You are missed so much by your Myspace cancer sisters. I think of you often but I know that you are CANCER and PAIN free. Fly, sweet ANGEL, Fly!

Pam

December 10, 2008

This is an awesome way to remember Nicole! She brought nothing but positive things to everybody, this is a great positive way to think of her! She is missed desperately!

Genia Billups

December 10, 2008

Thank you to the Mokry family for keeping Nicole's guest book open forever so that her friends and family can sign in here always... Nicole loved your family and she loved Mary and saw her as her hero. I can't thank you enough.
God bles you,
Ilove you..

Cindy Rodriguez

December 9, 2008

I met you a year ago in the hospital after I had been diagnoised with cancer. I thought what an amazing and beautiful young lady you were. So bubbly and happy. You inspired me to keep my chin up and fight the fight. I am deeply saddened that you are no longer with us. But, I know you in a wonderful place in heaven. God bless you and all the hearts you touched.

Sara Moreno

December 9, 2008

Nicole,
Although we never met, my heart aches knowing that you are no longer here. You made my cousin Angela laugh and smile. She had so many beautiful things to say about you and your family. I have great joy that you are now with Our Lord and Savior and that you are looking down on everyone that loved you. Your family will will always be in my prayers. God Bless You,
Sara Moreno, El Paso, TX.

Gail Mokry

December 7, 2008

Hey Nicole,
What a wonderful celebration of your earthy life we had today. We are all going to miss your perky, bubbly, silly self. The room was very full so it was evident how many people you touched. Your guest book will now be available for a lifetime so I hope and pray that it somehow brings comfort and healing to all who read and write in it. Say hi to Mary for me. Ha, I bet you two are all over the place!! Stay sweet and we'll meet again, one fine day!!

Ray Atniel

December 6, 2008

Hey Angel, I miss you so much. I know in my heart though that you are in a much better place and are finally at peace. You have no idea how much of an impact you had on me. The day I met you was the day I knew that I wasnt in this fight alone. That there were other people like me fighting to just have some extra time here on earth. You were responsible for giving me my strength to keep fighting. I will always cherish the memories of time we spent fighting cancer together at estrella. One of the best was when we both went down for LPs at the same time and we had the nurses passing messages back and forth. That made even the worst part of treatment alittle bit fun. I love you angel. Always have, Always will. I will see you again. I know that for sure.

christina verruso

December 6, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.i never had the honor of meeting nicole but i talked with her on myspace, she was our sister never will be forgotton i will miss her talks and her beautiful smile that lights up a room

Jose Honesto

December 6, 2008

My Little Sister Nikki,
I just want you to know that you were, you are, and always will be my reason for living. You have taught me more than you will ever know. I found trust friendship and sisterly love in you and I am grateful for that. I am honored and privileged to have been a part of your life. Peoples lives were change by simply meeting you, imagine what you did to mine in 3 years. I cannot even choose the right words to describe what I am feeling right now that you are no longer here, but I understand you are only gone for a little while. The day will come when I see you again. We have been through so much, together we have caused so much trouble and yet, did it all while smiling and laughing. Your mind brought laughter and joy to so many, and now your spirit is bringing all of them together. I loved so much and you knew that because I reminded you everyday. I just want to tell you that I had some of my greatest moments beside you and your love of your life and I will never forget that. People think about all those great memory they have of you and yet you were in their lives only several hours of the day only scratching the surface, and I had you in my life every minute of every hour for 3 years straight and I cannot help but feel selfish for monopolizing on you‘re friendship!!! Please know that even when you had the slightest doubt, me and your special someone loved you very very much, even if you did not believe him when he told you. You changed his life 100 times over for the good and did the same to mine. I am saddened that you had to go before I could return the favor. Thank you for being by my side in my best of time and being there to hug me in my worst. Know that I tried my very best to be a good friend to you and I did my best to be there for you in return. I end this message my “loverly” little sister by asking you to watch over me while I face the pain of mortality and count with me the remaining second in my life, as together we count down to the day we meet again! I miss you already and love you more. Your best friend and big brother... Jose.

Dear Genia,
Thank you for allowing me to befriend one of the greatest girls to ever cross my path. You and your family have brought me so much joy and great memories that I will cherish for a lifetime. Know that I and everyone else who have been affect by her passing are here for you and we love you all very much. It breaks my heart to think about what you are going through and I hurt more to know that there was not much more I could have done. I love you, Ronnie and grandma very much and I offer you my sincere condolences. I love you all! Yours Truly.

Katie Calamari

December 5, 2008

Nic, you are missed greatly by all who crossed your path.You gave faith to Joe and I with his fight. You fought with your heart and soul. You fought with a smile and never complained. You will never be forgotten. We love you. When the night sprinkles stars through out the sky, we will know you will be the brightest one. Love you babe.

Nicole (and Julie) Munson (sisters to Michelle Blandino)

December 5, 2008

I didn't know Nicole well, but I got the privilege of meeting her when I went to visit my sister for a week.. During that time spent with her, there wasn't a moment where she was always trying to make us smile or laugh.. Hope you enjoying your new wings, Nicole.. You will be missed! I send my love and out to the family.. God Bless.

Kelly Crow

December 5, 2008

Nicole I met you when you were just a little girl and I haven't seen you since then but even then you were beautiful and full of life. I ache inside for you Genia but I know how much God loves Nicole...more than you or I ever could. She is smiling and loving Him just as she did with us. I love you...Your friend Kelly

STEVE LOPEZ

December 5, 2008

NICOLE WAS AND IS AN ANGEL TO MANY OF US. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS AND MINDS FOR EVER TO COME. RIP NICOLE. WE LOVE YOU.
BEAV AND RAE

margie schlieter

December 5, 2008

genia, you did a wonderful job on this. i'm sorry about all this, and will see you this weekend.

Jennifer Lehman

December 5, 2008

Nicole, i never met you, I don't know what your favorite foods were. I don't know what made you smile or what dreams you had for yourself.
Rest assured, I feel a deep kinship with you. To be young and sick sucks big time. I feel that a beautiful ray of light left the living world and is now shining brightly in the heavens.

You are loved, even if I don't know you.

CONNIE

December 5, 2008

Fly high my sister ~^~ I LOVE YOU!
CONNIE XOXO

Lucia A. Ortiz

December 5, 2008

Mrs. Anchondo, Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolence. I met your beautiful angel thru my daughter Angela (her big sis) From day I Nicole was always in my prayers and so were you. For the short time that I knew of Nicole, I loved her and her beautiful spirit. She will always live on in our hearts, may our good LORD smile upon you and grant you peace of heart, comfort knowing that she suffers no more and is in the house of our Creator waiting until we all share that joy. GOD bless you always.

Jennifer Garcia

December 4, 2008

Fly with the angels, you are at peace now.
Jennifer

Renee Panton

December 4, 2008

N!cole I miss you and think about you everyday. I know you are up there soaring through the sky watching over all of us. You are such a beautiful person and I will forever love you!

Pam mcleod

December 4, 2008

In just a few years Nicole had the spunk and vibe that just attracted people! She is truely an angel and everybody who has gotten to know her has been blessed with such an amazing friend. It was so hard to not smile around Nicole even when she wasnt feeling well. That will be desperately missed! I have had a great time meeting you babe! Cause some ruckus up there for me! Scare me every once in a while to keep me on my toes! *hugs n kisses*

MaryEllen Smith

December 4, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen Aubert

December 4, 2008

Oh my captain!! You changed my life in so many ways that you'll never know. All I have to do is think of you and that gazillion watt smile and how contagious it was (and always will be) and things just seem so much better. Thank you for letting me be a small part of your big life.
And Genia...you will forever be Momma to so many people because Nicole brought us all together. I loves me some you. xoxo

Chris&Beth Allen

December 4, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Maddie Brown

December 4, 2008

Nicole - You and I never got to meet in person, but I knew you as one of my cancer sisters on Myspace. I forever will be grateful that you came into my life even though we weren't friends for long - you touched me in a way that I will FOREVER remember. I know you are an ANGEL in Heaven watching over all of us. You are now pain and CANCER free. Fly, Sweet Angel, Fly and Soar! You will be greatly missed by many.

Jesus & Stacey Andrade

December 4, 2008

Nicole is an inspiration to many. She taught us how to be strong,smile and that a mothers love is stronger than any bond in the world. She was a very beautiful person both heart and soul and we thank you and her for allowing us to be a part of her life.

Jessica Goldstein

December 4, 2008

Nicole, I never had the pleasure of physically meeting you, though I feel like we have met in spirit. You were too young to leave us, but please know, YOU will be my light, and all of our reasons to FIGHT for an end to Cancer. You are blessed to have such an awesome mom and firends who loved you so very much. Fly with the Angels N!C! XOXO

Sheri Dimodica

December 4, 2008

I offer my deepest condolences. Please, if you ever need anything, let me know.

-Sheri

Gail Srebnik

December 4, 2008

To Nicole's mom, family and friends, I offer my sympathy at the loss of a lovely young woman and my hope is she can help guide others down here to find cures and stop wars. Blessings,Gail

Karen Aubert

December 4, 2008

Oh mon capitaine --
vous avez changé ma vie davantage que vous savez, mais je sais que vous êtes ici quand une pensée de vous fait mon jour! Je t'aime

And to Genia -- you will always and forever be Momma to so many people because Nicole brought everyone together. I love you.

cristy blandino

December 4, 2008

Nicole--so brave, so strong--there is only one Nicole. With her big, bright smile & her sense of humor--she will be missed by all of us, who now must live in a world without our Nicole in it. She inspired me so much & the thoughts of her will continue to inspire me always. I am grateful to have known her & spend time with her--I will see her & that big smile again. Goodbye Nicole-rest peacefully now & know that you will never be forgotton.

And if I go while you're still here...

Know that I still live on,
Vibrating to a different measure
Behind a thin veil you cannot see through.

You will not see me,
So you must have faith.

I wait for the time when we can be together again,
Both aware of each other.

Until then, live your life to the fullest,
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
.........I will be there.

Tobi

December 4, 2008

I will miss our talks together on myspace !!! Fly with the angels my beautiful cancer sister !!! Love you lots and lots !!!!

Jana Purvis

December 4, 2008

Nicole, even though the amount of time I spent with you was short, you became very special to me. I will never forget you.

Jennifer Goldman

December 4, 2008

I will always remember Nicole as a strong remarkable young lady. She will be missed and I'm glad I had the chance to know her.

Elizabeth Earle

December 4, 2008

Nicole your beautiful spirit awaits us in a place where there is no suffering. You live on in our hearts

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