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Phyl
May 10, 2023
It's been 12 yrs since you left us, but it still feels like you left yesterday. I miss your phone calls so much. You have given me many signs of your presence & I want to thank you for those. I think of you every single day. I'm so thankful you were there for dad when he passed. It made me feel better knowing you and he are together in heaven. Take care of him for me and know that I miss and love you so much.
Nikki Wilkins
May 5, 2020
I still miss you so much and it hurts so much not to have you here. There are so many times I wish you were here and I need you here. I love you.
vickie johnston
May 10, 2012
hi Pat I am thinking about u. I just looked at our humingbird in the window. I feel like we have become friends since your passing. I am honored that u have chosen me to help u watch over the family. I love all of them Pat and I promise to you that I will always do my best for each and every one of them. I know your time is near to go to your next mission. You will always and forever be in everyone's heart. Take care and remember Pat "don't worry be happy"

ayd'en zappala
May 10, 2012
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Our Wedding October 15, 2011
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May 7, 2012
Nicole Wilkins
December 31, 2011
Well mom Christmas has come and gone, let me tell you I was not in the spirit. It is hard to celebrate a holiday when one of the most important people is not in my life, I hope you are around and keep those light flickering and I love you.
Phyllis Buda
November 26, 2011
Dear Pat,
As I sat here thinking of this Thanksgiving Holiday I thought,"What do I have to be thankful for, my sister is gone." But after some deep contemplation (and I'm sure a little guilt from you!) I really started thinking about what I DO have to be thankful for. First, I'm thankful for having had you in my life as my sister. I'm thankful for the wonderful memories, for the bond we had, for your friendship and your love. I think most importantly, I'm thankful that you are out of your pain and you are free.I'm thankful you gave me a wonderful brother-in-law, my neices, grandneices and grandnephews. They're all a part of you that will continue on.
I still miss you so very much, Pat. You know I talk to you EVERY day and I know that your spirit is with me and someday I will see you again, and like I saw you in my dream the other night, you will be beautiful, as you always were!
I love and miss you.Happy Thanksgiving!
Luv ya,
Phyl
Nikki Wilkins
October 31, 2011
Well mom its Oct. 31 and I wanted to say happy anniversary. I remember I would call you at 12 am and wish you a happy wedding anniversary. Well I love you and miss you

Anniversary 1991
Robin Propheter
October 28, 2011

BRANDI ZAPPALA
October 13, 2011
WELL AUNT PAT ITS 12:01 AT NITE AND I CAN NOT SLEEP. EVERY WHERE I WALK I FEEL THAT U ARE THER WITH ME TRYIN TO GET ME THREW THE HARD ROAD THAT I AM ON RIGHT KNOW. I MISS U SO MUCH I KNOW U ARE WITH ME AND MY SON U WHERE HERE WHEN WE HAD THAT PARTY 4 YOU AND U SAID THAT U LOVED IT, IT SURE WAS A HAPPY AND SAD TIME PUT TOGETHER BUT WE ALL GOT THROUGH IT. THANKS 4 BEING SUCH A GOOD AUNT TO ME AND I KNOW AS WE SPEAK U ARE WITH ME LOVE ALWAYS AUNT PAT U NIECE BRANDI AND U NEPHEW JOSE
Nikki Wilkins
October 11, 2011
Mom it's been about 7 months since u past and i've been thinking about you a lot. I wish it worked in Az but I guess my place is in NY. I love you and I miss you!

(Christmas of '86) Patsy Kline-top left, Mom, Phyllis Buda, Jackie Johnston (bottom left) Robin Propheter
Robin Propheter
August 30, 2011
Robin Propheter
August 9, 2011
Pat, your party went off great!!! We all know that you were there because of the picture you are in with dad. Thanks for the wonderful picture!! That is the most memorable part. The rain was your tears because you were so happy. You had balloons going off from one state to the other. Yep, John and Bill were doing it too. HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAT!!
The nights get a little easier because now I KNOW your are here with me. I talk to you all the time now. I am so glad that God blessed me with such a wonderful sister. They say "sisters are forever" I know that now. Thanks for showing me too what wonderful sisters I have here with me, Jackie and Phyllis. You have brought out a bond between us that we never knew we had. Again Pat, your always taking care of someone else. Thanks for opening my eyes to what I truly have with ALL my sisters.
VICKIE JOHNSON
August 6, 2011
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY PAT. YOUR PARTY WAS AWESOME AND YOU HAVE A GREAT FAMILY. I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR WATCHING OVER THEM, YES YOU ARE DOING A TERRIFIC JOB. YOU ARE TRULY AN ANGEL THAT IS MISSED DEARLY. MY ONLY REGRET PAT IS THAT I DIDN'T GET TO MEET YOU IN PERSON BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR KIND VOICE. I LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND I WILL CONTINUE TO DO MY PART HERE BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL DEEP IN MY HEART.
Jackie Johnston
August 6, 2011
Hi Pat, Im sorry Im a day late in wishing you Happy Birthday. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont think of you. But what gives me comfort, Is that your awesome spirt is with me always. It was a honor to celebrate your Birthday today. Thank You for being a GREAT sister. I LOVE & MISS YOU DEARLY!!!!
BRANDI ZAPPALA
August 6, 2011
WELL AUNT PAT I WOULD LOVE TO SAY HAPPY BDAY 2 U. EVEN THO U WHERE NOT HERE TO CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY WITH USE WE DID IT 4 U. I ENJOYED EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR BIRTHDAY WE LAUGH ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES AND WE CRYED ABOUT LOSSING U. I LOVED WATCHING ALL 60 BALLOONS GOING UP IN THE AIR AND I KNOW U SEEN THEM THEY WHERE JUST 4 U YOU AUNT PAT. I STILL AM IN SHOCK THAT I LOST MY DEAR AUNT U WHERE SUCH A GREAT PERSON WHEN ANYONE NEEDED ANYTHING U WHERE ALWAYS THERE TO GIVE A HAND. I CANT'T THINK U AND UNCLE BOO ENOUGH 4 HAVING ME OVER THERE FOR THOSE 2 WEEKS TO C U GUYS I SURE DID ENJOY MY TIME WITH THE FAMILY. WELL AUNT PAT HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I KNOW U ARE AROUND AND WITH USE. MY U REST AND PEACE AND PLEASE WATCH OVER THE FAMILY LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER LIL JOSE AND BRANDI (ME) :-{{{{

The Johnston Girls in 1986
August 6, 2011

Even "Spanky" got in on the fun.
August 6, 2011

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August 6, 2011

Up, Up and Away!! There they go, right to Pat, all 60 of them.
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August 6, 2011

Pat's 60th Birthday Party - Happy Birthday Pat!
August 6, 2011
Nicole Wilkins
August 6, 2011
Hi mom it's the day after your birthday and I miss you horribly and I wish you were here to enjoy the little party we are all throwing for you today. I remember when I would buy you some flowers for your birthday and you would yell at me for not saving the money and I would tell you enjoy the flowers because it is my money to spend! I love you mom and hope you come around once in awhile.
Phyllis Buda
August 5, 2011
Dear Pat,
Happy Birthday!!!! You know,I thought you and I would be two old ladies comparing aches and pains, complaining about hearing loss, gray hair, bad eyesight, etc. at least until we were well into our 80's, but it wasn't meant to be. You were taken from us too soon. Since you can't be here for your birthday, we're having a birthday party for you tomorrow with cake and ice cream, and we're letting 60 balloons go up just for you. I still can't believe that you're gone, I must say that to myself a dozen times a day! You were more than just my sister, you were my friend,you were my best friend. You are in my heart always. I love and miss you so much. Happy Birthday,Pat.
Phyl
Dennis Propheter
August 5, 2011
Bill i hope you get this i would like to talk to you you can contact me at 815-566-0646 that is my cell i have it with me all the time. Dennis

Mom and me on the first day of school
John P
July 5, 2011
Mom,
Thank you for all you did for me and I miss you yelling at me, keeping me and dad in line and I think mom should win the "Best Mom" award. I think of you often and I know you are around me. You are the best Mom. Now you are an angel, you always were to me.
I love you and miss you Mom,
John
Alex Propheter
June 15, 2011
Uncle Bu,
Sorry to hear about Aunt Pat. If you need to talk, my mom has my number. Contact her. I love ya Uncle Bu and miss ya.
Uncle Mike and Aunt Bibby
May 30, 2011
Dear Bill and Johnathan, Uncle Mike and I are so sorry to hear of the loss of our Patsy. Uncle Mike used to call her his "little dago", she looked so Italian. She was so sweet as a little girl, always smiling and happy. You both will always be in our prayers. We will miss her.
Summer (Johnston) Partington
May 24, 2011
Uncle Bill and Aunt Patsy~
I have always remembered my trip with my father (Jimmy) to NY to see Grandpa for his surgery just before going into the Air Force. I met Uncle Bill for the first time and was amazed at how he treated Aunt Patsy. He called her 'love' and what I left there with was a tatoo, curtesy of Uncle Bill :-), respect for this man covered in tatoos who so sweetly addressed my Aunt, a saying from Aunt Patsy, "Tatoos are like having kids. You forget the pain you went through and have another one," and a clearer understanding of a loving relationship. I grew up in a loving, respectful household and learned so many things from my parents, but this instance added to them as well. I have strived to maintain this type of loving relationship in my own marriage. Thank you Aunt Patsy and Uncle Bill for showing the world your love for each other.
Robin Propheter
May 18, 2011
Patsy,
I am missing you everyday. They say "With time it gets easy". I am finding it very hard. I want so much to talk to you. I continuously pick up the phone to call when I realize your not here. I can not stand it!! Pat you are TRULY, TRULY missed by me.
Bo and Cindy Radley
May 14, 2011
Bill,
I've been trying to find the right words to tell you how sorry I am about loosing Patsy. As soon as I found out I kept in touch with Nicki. I truly prayed for her to not be in pain and to be at peace. Bo and I send our sincere sympathy to you and the family. May your memories and love give you peace.
May 13, 2011
Patsy, I remember the summers that yall came south. Wanda and I couldn't wait to see yall. We would begged uncle Doyle to let you and Phyl stay with us and go to school here.He always said no.
Back then we couldn't understand why.Now that I am a mother and grand mother,I understand that we were asking for to much. I will always remember the great summers we had.
Mother has taken this very hard, the one confort we have is knowing that Daddy was there waiting on you.Keep him company until Wanda and I get there.
Love you Patsy
Sissy
Ron Johnston
May 13, 2011
Bill,John,Tonya,Karri and Nicki I'm so sorry and shocked to hear of Patsy's passing.May the good lord hold you's all in his arms and confort you's at this time of sorrow.I'll always cherish the time Alice and I took our week vacation at yer place.especialy when we had Alice arrested at that Resort.What a great time.My heart felt sympathy goes out to you all.Patsy was a wonderfull person.She will be missed by many friends and family.My God confert you all at this time of sorrow.
Phyllis Buda
May 13, 2011
Tonya, Karrie, & Nikki:
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, she loved you guys so much and was so very proud of you. In our talks she always bragged about how "her girls could take care of themselves". She did a great job of raising you, she traveled a hard road, she might have faltered along the way, but she always had you guys as her first priority and put herself second. She loved you as no mother could and would have given her life for you. Just know that I am here for you in anyway that I can be and that I love you.
Love always,
Aunt Phyllis
Anne Marie "Annie"
May 13, 2011
Bill,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss with Patsy's passing. I remember well the dancing and partying, York PA, "on the telephone again" and the Halloween anniversary calls. I am sorry that I lost contact with all the moving. Patsy was a special lady and you both were good friends and part of the fun memories of life. You are in my thoughts.
Phyllis Buda
May 13, 2011
Bailey, Jocelyn & Dylan,
I'm so sorry that you won't get to really know what a wonderful gramma you had. She would tell Aunt Phyllis all the time how her arms ached to hold you and hug you. She loved it when Jocelyn would say to her, "Sing to me Gamma Kine". She loved you so much and I'm so sorry you will never be able to sing with her again, or fly a kite with her, or pick flowers, or throw a ball with her, but please know that she loved you with all her heart and she's with you in spirit.
Love always,
Aunt Phyllis
Phyllis Buda
May 13, 2011
Tonya, Karri, & Nicki:
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. My heart breaks for you, but please know that she loved you so very much. She would talk about how proud she was of all three of you all the time. She worked hard to raise you guys by herself, she faltered sometimes, but her first priority was always you three girls. I'm here if you need me, please know I love you and will help you anyway I can.
Love,
Aunt Phyllis
Edward Peck
May 12, 2011
I remember Patsy from when I first started working at the brewery. She was warm, likable, and was pleasant to be with. Her dedication and perseverance helped her be an excellent steward and EMT. She was well liked and will be missed by one and all.
Ron Johnston
May 12, 2011
Pat,I was shocked to hear of yer passing.I wish we could of talked before this happened.I feel really bad about that.I guess the good lord has other plans for you.Your with him now out of pain and in perfect shape.Gods taken another Angel home.I Love you Pat,may you rest in peace,
May 12, 2011
Bill I'm very sorry to hear about Patsy. You are always in our thoughts
Gary and Jane
Amy French
May 12, 2011
So sorry for your loss Karrie. I didnt know your mom, but She had to be one remarkable mother because you are an exceptional person. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...
betty haag
May 12, 2011
hi u had a great daughteer that is married to my son and have my granddaughter and grandson u miss out alot god bless them and wish them well as i love them
Doyle johnston
May 12, 2011
Dear Patsy,
As I sit & think of the Time you were brought into this world. Your Bright smile & eyes would win any bodys Heart. You did that very thing to me. But you know God loves you to, But he let us try to spare you of so much pain. But he knew we couldnt, So he took you in his arms to love & remove all your pain. He seemed to say, Let me take you home patsy. Your love feeled everyone while you were here. I love you & will miss your smile and laughter always. You chose the right road to go.
With love always,
Your Father
Karrie Bouissey
May 12, 2011
Mom,
You were always there for me when I needed you for advice or someone to cry to when things were rough. I will miss you, but I take solace in knowing that you aren't suffering anymore and I know I have an angel looking down on my children. I love you
Tonya
May 12, 2011
I love you
Mattydale Fire Department
May 12, 2011
The Officers and Members
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Mattydale Fire Department
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Heartfelt Sympathy
to you and your family at this
Time of Sorrow.

HI AUNT PAT LOVE USE
BRANDI ZAPPALA
May 12, 2011
I JUST WANT 2 SAY THANK U 2MY UNCLE BOO 4 COMING INTO MY AUNTS LIFE WHEN SHE NEED YOU THE MOST YOUVE ALWAYS BEEN AGREAT HUSBAND AND A KOOL UNCLE THANKS UNCLE BOO!!!! I ALSO WANTED TO SAY AUNT PAT I WILL REMEBER THE GOOD TIMES I HAD WHEN I WENT 2 C U AND UNCLE BOO I HAD SO MUCH FUN AND EVEN THO YOU WHERE IN LOTS OF PAIN U STILL GAVE YOUR BEST 2 MAKE SURE I HAD A GOOD TIME. EVEN THO U WHERE HUNDREDS OF MILES AWAY FROM ME I NEVER 4 GOT THAT YOU WHERE MY AUNT. I KNOW U ARE IN A BETTER PLACE IN THE LORDS HANDS AND U ARE NOT IN ANY MORE PAIN. DONT WORRY AUNT PAT I ALWAYS REMEBER WHAT U TOLD ME U WANTED ME TO DO WHEN U LEAVE THIS WORLD (WELL BRANDI U HAVE A PARTY WHEN I CAME IN THIS WORL SO HAVE A PARTY WHEN I GO OUT) WELL AUNT PAT IT WAS NOT THAT EASY U R STILL MY AUNT AND SEEING U IN ALL THE PAIN MADE ME HURT. WELL AUNT PAT I KNOW U R WATCHING OVER EACH AND EVERYONE OF USE. I WILL ALWAYS MISS U AUNTIE. WE WILL C U WHEN ITS ARE TIME MY U REST IN PEACE. YOUVE ALWAYS BEEN A GOOD MOM AND A KOOL AUNT LOVE U AUNTIE LOVE ALWAYS BRANDI AND JOSE ALEXAVIER
donna butera
May 12, 2011
you will be greatly missed, all my prayers for bill
Kathryn O'Neil
May 12, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
vickie johnson
May 12, 2011
Pat, even though we only talked in conversation. I have to thank you for accepting me into your sister's life. you were a very special person. I hear that through your family, they love you and miss you very much. I realize God has special plans for you. You were an earth angel and now i beleive you are on a much bigger assignement. I have such a peaceful feeling Pat when i happen to see a hummingbird you see I saw one the other day, and I do enjoy the sunshine as you always did. so Pat always know you were and still loved very much and you will be missed dearly by your friends and family and i only hope Pat when they think of you they will smile and remember the good times. Rest in Peace Pat you earned it!
Kathryn O'neil
May 12, 2011
Pat May you rest in peace
Nicole Wilkins
May 11, 2011
Again mom I love you. To Bill and johnathon, you two were mom's world and she loved you too with her heart and soul. I will be seeing you two soon and I love you guys!
Jimmy Johnston
May 11, 2011
Patsy,
You always had a way to make things look differently in our conversations. Many times we talked and your kind words, encouragement and concern for things in my life were always positive and helpful. You always showed me something that I might be overlooking in certain situations in my life. I will miss those times of conversation. I am blessed that your pain is no longer a burden to you and that you can rest in peace. God has made a wonderful you and we are blessed to have had a time to have you in our lives. Memories run deep and will always be cherished.
I love you Patsy, God Bless You.
scott smith
May 11, 2011
aunt pat
im not one for words but i will say that you will be missed. rest in peace.
scotty
Robin Propheter
May 11, 2011
Pat
Bill was right. A million dollar smile. You also are a million dollar person. You ALWAYS gave from your heart, wanting nothing in return. You brought so much happiness to everyone around you. I always looked up to you. I was blessed and honored to say "That's my sister". I know God needs you up there to continue what you did down here. Pat I truly, truly do miss you. The nights that I could call you at 2 in the morning and you would say "It's only Robin she can't sleep." Thanks so much for the memories and the time you gave me. I will cherish them forever.
Jackie Johnston
May 11, 2011
To My Sister
You never judged me. You always listened to me and you always accepted my choices. You were one of a kind and I will miss you dearly, please know I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU terribly but I am at peace knowing you are no longer in pain or suffering. It was an Honor being your sister, So untill we meet again I will look in the sky at night and know that when i see the stars, That the 1 that in sparkling is You!!!!

Mama and me when I was a chunky lil baby
Nicole Wilkins
May 11, 2011
Mom you left us too soon, way to soon. I will miss our talks for hours. Mom you have encouraged me to be who I wanted to be and don't take BS from those who might stand in my way. I love you mama and I always will, just pop in once awhile and let me know you are ok. You will always be in my heart and my thoughts. Will always be deeply missed.
I love you mama,
Nikki
Phyllis Buda
May 11, 2011
Dear Bill & John,
Pat couldn't have had a better family to take care of her like you and John. Thanks for being there for my sister, guys. I know she was in good hands and I know you loved her deeply. She will be missed so terribly, but I guess we just have to hang onto our memories of her and know that her pain is gone. Please know that I am here for you. I can't take your pain away, but maybe we can help to ease each other's pain.
Love you guys,
Phyl - Aunt Phyllis
Phyllis Buda
May 11, 2011
To my beloved sister,...I miss you so much it hurts; I don't know if this pain will ever go away. Our 3 hr conversations we had at night will always mean the world to me because we shared so much: laughs, tears, memories. I know you're not in pain now, so rest in peace dear sister and know that I will always love you and miss you.
Luv ya,
Phyl
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