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Paul Ruderman Obituary
Paul Ruderman, 54, of Scottsdale, Arizona passed away on August 2nd, 2012. Born and raised in New York with his late, loving sister Joan, by Elaine Rose and the late Sidney Ruderman, Paul went on to graduate Cum Laude from Wesleyan University in Middletown, CT in 1979. After earning the Ethics Award at Wesleyan, he continued his education at Indiana University School of Law. A tireless worker, Paul earned and enjoyed his partnership with Mariscal, Weeks, McIntyre & Friedlander Law Firm. His greatest joy in life was his family; he is survived by his adoring wife Dianne, his son Michael, daughter Elizabeth and mother Elaine Rose Ruderman. His unparalleled wit and sarcastic humor will be missed. Funeral services will be held 10am, Monday August 6th at Sinai Mortuary Chapel, 4538 North 16th Street, Phoenix, AZ 85016. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Wesleyan University: Financial Aid (in Paul Ruderman's name), 45 Wyllys Avenue, Middletown, CT 06457; Indiana University Maurer School of Law, 211 South Indiana Avenue, Bloomington, IN 47405; or NAMI Arizona (The Northern Alliance of Mental Illness), 5025 E. Washington Street, Suite # 112, Phoenix, AZ 85034. Arrangements by Sinai Mortuary.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Ruderman
sam
July 30, 2022
still thinking of you Paul
August 31, 2012
Dear Dianne,
I was your first next door neighbor on Mountain View Road and will always remember the kindness that you and Paul brought into my life, when I was struggling. I will always be grateful for that and am thinking about you, now.
love,
Anne Lynch Hearter
Jeff & Cheryl Padden
August 18, 2012
Diane, thinking about you everyday. Jeff enjoyed working with Paul and thought so highly of him! He really appreciated Paul helping out with his clients. Jeff told me that Paul had invited us to dinner with you and we were looking forward to making that happen after summer travels. You have always been an inspiration, and would love to have dinner, or coffee or hike with you if you would be up for that. Sending friendship, and so much love.
Stasy Click
August 13, 2012
To The Ruderman Family - I practiced law with Paul and we served on the State Bar Communications Committee for years together. Paul was the shining light to every meeting we attended, month after month! He bragged about all of you all of the time, and I saw picture after picture of football games, kids and college tours. I am devastated to hear of his loss, and I regret I was out of town at the time of his funeral. I know words cannot heal the pain of your loss, but I hope you will find comfort knowing that he really did make the world a better place to live and work in, and that he truly loved each and every one of you.
My prayers are with all of you.
Stasy Click and Family
John Papa
August 12, 2012
My memories of Rudy are all very positive, especially remembering our younger days. Meeting Rudy freshman year at Wes as a hallmate, writing a song with Rudy and Bill Conley which is still sung today, "I Left my Baloney in the Chinese Laundry" (Rudy's title of course), and having him make me look silly using vocabulary that I did not understand in normal conversation. His wit will stay with me forever.
God Bless to all the Ruderman family
sara becker
August 12, 2012
Dianne, Michael and Elizabeth, I just arrived back in town and heard the tragic news. I don't even know where to begin to tell you how sorry I am for you and the kids. Although I probably haven't seen you since Dana and Michael graduated, you are in my thoughts. Please take care of yourselves. Fondly, Sara Becker
Irene & Barry Ruderman Bull
August 10, 2012
Diane, Elaine, Michael and Elizabeth,
Please accept our deepest sympathies at this time. If there is any way we can be of help, please do not hesitate to ask.
Barry and Irene Ruderman Bull
Jennifer Stacy
August 10, 2012
Dianne,
I am so so very sorry for you and your kids! You have been on my mind this week! Would love to hear from you when you feel up to it.
George Smalanskas
August 8, 2012
Rudy,
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
George
Laurie & Benjamin Steen
August 8, 2012
Dianne - I was out of the city and was unable to be at the service Monday, but was with you in spirit. I so remember the times we had with you and Paul as couples, and with Michael, Elizabeth and Benjamin. I can see us standing in your kitchen - you making dinner accompanied by Paul's quick wit. Knowing how difficult things have been, I hope it is these moments that bring you comfort.
August 7, 2012
Dianne, We are so sorry to hear about Paul. We will always remember Seth and him singing at our wedding 20 years ago. You are a courageous woman to do what you did for your wonderful husband and we given so much credit. Thank you for sharing at the service, and we give our love to you and your family. Always, Jeff and Mandy Welsheimer
Ron Caton
August 6, 2012
I'm sorry that I could not attend the service today but our family was well represented by Vickie and Aaron. To say that Paul was known for his wit and humor is certainly an accurate depiction. Beyond the sometimes grufff exterior, Paul was also a very caring individual. Whenever we spoke, he always asked about the family and how each member was doing. He would also ask about the dog! Paul would light up each time he would recount how our daughter put a rubber band around the dog's leg requiring a visit to the Vet when the dog started limping. That was one of a number of humorous stories that Paul liked to tell.
Catman 1 will miss Rudy.
With deepest sympathy,
Ron Caton
Jim Csontos
August 6, 2012
Dianne: I was as shocked as many to hear of Paul's passing. You were very courageous to tell us all about how hard you and Paul fought his illness. It helped me understand what your family was up against, and how vicious of a disease depression can be. I am sorry it took Paul from his family so soon. As you could tell by the number of people who came to be with your family at today's services, Paul touched a lot of lives and will be greatly missed.
Steve Pisarcik
August 6, 2012
Therese and I wish to convey our deepest sympathy to the family of Paul Ruderman. Paul helped us with legal advise in construction at Kitchell Contractors years ago and I remember him to be very dedicated and a kind person.
Lauren A. Berg
August 6, 2012
Dear Diane, Michael and Elizabeth, I will remember my cousin for four things: The fun we had together at I.U., his dark humor, how he fell in love with you Diane, and the love he always expressed for his wife and kids.
My deepest sympathies, Lauren Berg
Marilyn Wright
August 6, 2012
Dianne, Elizabeth and Michael - it was a pleasure getting to know you while training Romeo. Paul loved that dog and we always laughed about his antics. I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was a genuinely sincere person with a fantastic wit and sense of humor.
Sincerely,
Marilyn
Clare & Inez Bugman
August 6, 2012
To Paul's dear mother, Elaine, and family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son,husband,and father,Paul.
His spirit will live in your hearts,always.
Evelyn Cornick
August 6, 2012
Dear Diane and Family,
I was so terribly sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Unless you've been there you don't know the feeling and it is certainly one you don't want to know. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.
Holly Underwood
August 5, 2012
Dianne,
I am stunned and deeply saddened to learn of Paul's passing. He will always be remembered as a wonderful lawyer and an excellent family man. My deepest condolences to you, Michael, Elizabeth and Paul's mother. May God bless you and give you the strength to overcome the pain of your loss.
August 5, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your beautiful family. From the bottom of our hearts we are so sorry for the loss of such a special husband, father and son..
Jill, Jeff and Jason Kramer
Sheila Luber
August 5, 2012
Dianne,
There are no words to adequately express how sorry Jay and I are for the loss of a wonderful man you loved dearly. May you move forward with grace and strength knowing that he has found peace.
Much love,
Sheila Ross Luber
Peggy Schott
August 5, 2012
Dianne, Elaine and family. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts are with you.
Sharon Ravenscroft
August 5, 2012
Paul was an intelligent, thoughtful lawyer who cared deeply for providing excellent legal services for his clients. I was honored to practice with him early in both of our careers. His devotion to his family was always evident. He has left a positive mark on this earth and I know he will be welcomed by the angels.
Cathy Massimi
August 5, 2012
Dianne,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Massimi
Leroy Hofmann
August 5, 2012
Paul was a dear friend and we will all miss him terribly. He was a fine lawyer,and a great son, husband and father.My heart breaks for his family.
August 5, 2012
We will miss Paul and never forget him. A devoted and loving fater and husband.
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