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Tanner "TJ" Osborn

Tanner Osborn Obituary

Tanner 'TJ' Osborn, age 22 of Scottsdale, died suddenly on June 7,
2005 in a fire along with two of his dearest friends in Chicago, Il. TJ grew up in Scottsdale and attended Village Vista Elementary, Mountainside Middle School and Desert Mountain High School. He was a graduate of the Conservatory for Recording Arts and Sciences in Tempe, AZ. TJ is the beloved son of Jim, (Mindi) Osborn and Kathleen (Dave) Moritz; loving brother of Melissa (Scott) Cederburg and Dillon Osborn; cherished Grandson of Ellen McCoy and beloved friend of many. TJ was buried earlier this week at Concordia Cemetery in Forest Park, Il. A Service of Celebration and Memorial will be held this Saturday, June 18, 2005 at La Casa De Cristo Lutheran Church 6300 East Bell Road in Scottsdale, AZ at 11:00 AM. A Foundation and Scholarship fund are currently in the planning, please contact 602-909-1908 for additional information.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Jun. 17, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Tanner Osborn

Sponsored by Sarah & Joy TJ's stepsisters.

74 Entries

Rebecca White

December 19, 2017

I heard of TJ's horrible death many years ago while I was away at school. I met TJ my freshmen year at DMHS. It's been 12 years or so and I am finally finding some answers. I have asked our mutual friends in the past, they had no specifics, I've GOOGLED a ton of times and repeatedly came up empty. I am so happy, that on this day, I was able to find something.

TJ was a very good friend to me as he was many others. I am so blessed to have been touched by his infectious smile and hearty laugh. He would drive all the way out to Fountain Hills to hang out with me (mostly by the pool), BBQ and enjoy young, free life.

I cherish many moments we shared and think of them often! Keep watch over us, see you soon
PS
Now that I've found this wonderful place to remember Tanner, I'll look for old pictures.

Kathleen Moritz

August 14, 2010

I miss you so much each and every day! I miss all the children who have come to me and gone. some more than once.

With the Governor Quinn of Illinois, July 27. Laws: All Greek Housing must have sprinklers. All Hardwired Smoke Alarms must have battery backup.

Kathleen Moritz

August 14, 2010

Yesterday in Chicago we burried a Firefighter, I could not help but to weep for him mom. I wrote to her and told her that it may not seem possible but one day she will be able to breath again. It's been 5 years and I can just again breath. Still many days it is racked with sobs but not every day now.
I just had my 50th birthday and Tanner found a way into my day in a big way! I spent part of the day standing with the Governor of Illinois as he signed into law very important legistature on Fire Safety. As he signed the Bill, he turned to me and said "Kathleen, I dedicate this law to the memory of your son." and he gave me the pen. I know it was you Tanner who made that happen for me on that day, I will always cherish the memory. We certainly saved a life that day, we certainly spared one mother this horrible grief. To all who may follow this Guest Book, keep Tanner alive in your heart and keep your self safe, LOOK UP, check for smoke alarms!! It's so simple.

GRAMMY

January 19, 2009

Bronwyn,
Such a grand tribute story to TJ's memory.
And I believe that what you said about Kathie visiting this site does truly set off a welcome reminder. It actually feels BETTER knowing we all SHARE the feelings that go with the loss...and at the same time, on the same site. It also brings consolation just knowing Tanner's SPirit is with us always..as is Jayson's. Just yesterday, I held a few of the juniper berries I took from the site of Jayson's body's resting place. I came across them in a small treasure chest I found in my storage locker and I passed them on to Jayson's dad for safe keeping. Perhaps he (Jay) will put them near the 'Jayson' photo shrine he has just transferred to his new home i Star Valley.

Bronwyn Streich

January 18, 2009

Dear Kathy, family, and friends, I may know why you went to Tanner's Memorial site today . . . so that those of us connected would receive an e-mail that there was a new entry. I went to the site immediately and read some of the entries. I realized that I have not entered a note since a year and a half ago. Please know that this does not mean that I don't think about Tanner alot. I think of Tanner everytime I look at his pictures in my home: one special picture in a frame of shells from Rocky Point, adorned with a small, wooden cross. I think of Tanner every Christmas when I unwrap the ornament he gave me: a glass frame shaped like a football with his cute little boy picture smiling from within. I think of TJ everytime a fire truck rushes by with sirens screaming and lights flashing. I think of Tanner when I pick up my children from Village Vista Elementary. I think of Tanner when I wear my "Look Up" visor, or my Memorial T-shirt, or the black Stanley's shirt that Kathy let me jack from his closet just days after he died. It smelled like him. I think of Tanner when I see tall, handsome, strong, young men. None of them compares to him. Tanner was a beautiful child from the day of birth on . . .
I think of Tanner everytime I go on Sweetwater road to Paradise Valley Mall. I was so lost trying to get to the mall with Tanner and he said "Aunt Bronwyn, just listen to me, this is my old stomping grounds". Sadly, I think of Tanner when I think of my son, Jayson, best buds and cousins. Jayson was so little and sick with cancer. Kathy and Jim literally held me up, literally. I remember when Jayson was so sick one day getting chemotherapy. the nurses worked to control the nausea and vomiting, I was an exhausted wreck, Kathy was holding me up . . . and then Tanner, that little bugger, pistol, cutie pie pants. He climbed in the hospital bed with Jayson!! What could have been a pain filled little jail cell with it's tubes and needles, the hospital bed was transformed into a playpen. With the addition of that precious little tow head, the hospital bed became an okay place to be. We turned around and there he was! In that bed, Jayson calmed, the nausea subsided. Tanner was putting on a show for Jayson with his Ninja Turtles and Leggos. Jayson was smiling and giggled a little.
I absolutely love Tanner Joshua as much today as I did then, if not more. What a wonderful guy; non-judgemental, caring, sensitive, the real deal. Even though that story makes me cry, any story that makes me cry, I will continue to remember, to tell others my stories, to share. In this way we can all find healing, hope, and faith. I see those two sweethearts, cousins, friends, one with blue eyes and the other with green, together again in the place we know to be called Heaven. Resting safe and sound in the arms of our Lord until such a day that we will meet again in the glory of the promise. Please remember how much you are loved, all of you, fear not,
Sincerely and with the greatest respect, Bronwyn Elaine

January 16, 2009

I don't know what made me go to this site again today but I just come here sometimes to read all that has been said over the last three years, all the wonderful words that express what my son meant to all of you. I hope for all a Happy New Year. God Bless you Tanner, I miss you each and every day. Love Mom.

Grammy Ellen McCoy

June 17, 2007

I'm here to increase the 'group' of sad days that fall in the month of June. Today is TJ's unknown Grandfather's birthday (on his mother's side.) Add to that the shocking fact that the same Grandfather is another part of Kathie's losses around this same date. Artherial sclerosis (which they can now FIX) took him from this earth very suddenly, and at the young age of 43. Kathie was almost 10. Every so many years, his (Jack FitzGibbon's) birthday would fall on Father's Day. This is one of those years and surely a sad day in the life of TJ's Dad, as well.
I'm a firm believer in the value of 'positive energy' so I am using the internet to send some to my daughter to help her deal with the days that remind her so heavily of her losses. If their were any words,(my speciality) to strengthen her, I would include them here also, but there are none. 'Beyond words' is all I think of. I can only remind her that TJ is watching over her and the wonderful job she is doing with the LOOK UP campaign. And I KNOW he is equally pleased with the progress she is trying to make through the 'grief process, painfully slow at best. It would distress him GREATLY to know that in any way he had forever broken her heart. I wish there were a bigger, better, less mis-used word for the kind of love that tragedy kindles. Again that too is 'BEYOND WORDS'.

Torrey Hein

June 15, 2007

What a sad and lonely group days in the year this is...the days before, the day of, the after math. It feels somewhat like a hurricane. You try and prepare yourself to be completely knocked over and destroyed only to rebuild and do it all over again. I miss TJ, I miss him a lot... I would give anything to hear him say the Homer Simpson doh! or talk in that silly little boy voice. The one where he lowers his head and looks out from under his big beautiful eyes and you know your going to agree to give him whatever he wants. I miss the smell of Aqua De Gio and Cigarettes that followed him everywhere. I miss his bright yellow Nautica visor. I miss him a lot. He was my secret hope, my wishing star. I love you babe, and I miss you.

Bronwyn Streich

June 15, 2007

Yes, another year went by without Tanner. His pictures are all over my house and it feels like he's here somewhere. I guess he is in a way. I know that Tanner is safe in Heaven. It is just surreal, I see little tow heads and I want to touch their hair, they remind me of TJ. When I stop to think about it, there are many things that Tanner could be doing for me. He could go with us to the Beeline Highway and pick up trash in tribute to my son, Jayson. He could hang out with his cousin, Lindsey, and walk on the right path side by side. He could throw Bradley up over his shoulders and lug him around. Wishful thinking ... If you are reading this right now, stop and think about the ones you care about. Tell them that you care for them and show them by your actions that they mean the world to you. Oh, and LOOK UP! Love, Bronwyn (Tanner's aunt)

Kathleen Moritz

June 14, 2007

God bless you all as we pass the second anniversary of my beloved Tanner. I miss him everyday, words cannot ever say how much.
I continue to try to be strong.
With Love, Kathleen, Tanner's mom

Bronwyn Streich

May 12, 2006

I have learned that the anticipation of a sad Mother's Day is far worse than the day itself. We expect to feel awful on Sunday, but when it gets here . . . the sun rises, the wind blows, birds sing, and we will smile. Kathy, I've been working on this grief for 19 years and it gets easier to bear with each Mother's Day that comes and goes. There will always be birthdays, deathdays, and holidays, but I have chosen not to give them any sad power over me. We can hold our heads high (and see Heaven better)and we can look for blessings that are all around us. Our children are safe, in fact they rest together with the Lord. Two precious cousins. We are, and always will be, their mothers. Let's do something kind for ourselves because we are special and we are hurting. Remember little handprints and flower pots from Village Vista, kisses, hugs, and holding hands. Never forgotten, always missed. Respectfully and with much love and sorrow, Bronwyn

Grammy

May 9, 2006

T. J. I have written 2 long messages asking you to comfort your Mother this first Mother's day since you have been called to do God's business. Both times the computer wiped them out. So this time, I'll keep it short. Please find a way, a sign beyond the shadow of a doubt to let her know you are with her now and always.

Jill Nelson McCombs

March 1, 2006

wow.... i just learned of this today- when i asked an old friend how T.j was and if he ever spoke to him anymore. T.J was the kindest person ever, i'm so sorry to his family- he will be always remembered with only the best thoughts.... i rememnber the summer when we hung out with our "group" every night - Tori was my best friend- i had the biggest crush on T.J... we got along great- he loved Tori... but even with that- he still was the greatest friend to me- he'll always have a special place in my heart.

Kathleen Moritz

December 14, 2005

As we enter this holiday season,

I want to thank everyone for all the thoughts and prayers that have come our way over the last 6 months, it is unbelievable that it has been a half a year.

As most of you know over the last several months I have been working with the City of Chicago to address the hole in our system that consumed my son's life. I am excited to say that I have a meeting with both the Building Commissioner and the Fire Commissioner of Chicago this Friday 12/16 to discuss the launching of my LOOK UP campaign that addresses smoke detector awareness for tenants and especially students that depend on rental property owners to comply with the law and provide these life saving devices. We will also discuss the lack of enforcement in Chicago as well as some proactive outreach to try to save lives!! The City of Chicago has committed to me to launch this campaign full force with the same energy that they addressed porch safety several years ago. I am currently working with Campus Fire Safety Organization who is attempting to get Kidde (the main manufacturer of smoke detectors ) to back me in rolling out several billboards with the LOOK UP message.

If anyone has not seen my campaign poster and would like to please e-mail me.

I will begin soon to document the hundreds of songs, flows, poems that Tanner left with messages behond belief, I beleive I will entitle the book LISTEN UP, Speak Easy the words of TJ Osborn

Happy Holidays to all of you and again thank you for your continued thoughts and prayers.

Love, Kathleen

Nornee Ecolono Smith

December 10, 2005

DerKathy,

I have thought of you and Tanner often over the years and hoped you were well and happy.

Laurie called and told me of the devasting tragedy of your precious son. Please accept my heartfelt

sympathy and offer my condolences.

With love, Nornee

Bronwyn Streich

September 26, 2005

Illinois was a trip, to say the least. We went to Concordia Cemetery and saw Tanner's beautiful headstone, went to Jimmy's Place for traditional chicken parmagiana, spent the day in downtown Chicago with Kathleen, Dave, Jim, Mindy, Dylan, Melissa, Scott, Addison, and Alex. It was awesome (what's up with all the honking?). We had the best lunch ever at the Grand Lux Cafe. And then . . . oh my gosh, we had a fantastic memorial for Tanner at Kathleen and Dave's (aka Franklin Park) with many friends, family members, and neighbors. There was food, cake, a thunderstorm, balloons, music, the new maple tree, laughing, and crying. A perfect tribute to precious Tanner Joshua Osborn. May you all find a peaceful spot today to reflect on your memories of TJ. Love, Bronwyn

Grammy Ellen

September 23, 2005

I missed your tree planting, T.J. but I got a first hand description of the event from your Auntie Bronwyn. It is much bigger than I had imagined. But then, so were you. I am glad there is a living breathing 'Red Maple' example of your Eternal Existence here on the planet. Those of us still Earth Bound will enjoy its presence. And I, for one cherish the thought of a beautiful TREE reminder. I feel that now, you will have boughs of beautiful leaves with which to tranmit sweet messages of comfort to your Mother, as well as great spiritual energy with which to power her LOOK UP campaign. You two are a dynamic pair!!!!!!

Lindsey FitzGibbons

September 22, 2005

Happy Birthday Tanner! My mom is on the way to Chicago to stay with Kathy for a few days. I wish I could be there! You will all be in my thoughts.

Bronwyn Streich

August 31, 2005

We have been blessed to have Kathleen in Phoenix these last two weeks. Although she is here on a mission of mercy and love, she's taken time out to be with us. We got to lay by the pool, visit the bunnies, have family dinners, hang out with Sarah, and Lindsey had lunch with her Aunt Kathy. Her three nephews love her and seem to feel as if she's here to stay. She will always be in our hearts, no matter where we are. Perhaps by the time she gets home, I'll be right behind her, flying into Chicago on the 22nd for Tanner's birthday. Something special will happen. This experience has drawn us closer to the will of God than we ever thought we wanted to be. Bless us all as we struggle day by day. I don't sleep as well, sometimes I'm scared, I think I see Tanner out of the corner of my eye, I stutter at times. Take care of those you love and love those who take care of you.

ps - Lindsay, please call back.

Sincerely, Bronwyn

Grammy Ellen

August 29, 2005

T.J. Thinking of you today and most days for that matter. I'm promoting your philosphy (your flow) every chance I get, every time I counsel young (or old) people looking for a set of values. Oh! HOw I wish I had been able to know you better. I have opened my 'ears' better to rock music and certainly my sense of appreciation and relativity has changed, thanks to your example. Say 'hi' to Jayson for me. Love, Grammy

Bronwyn Streich

August 5, 2005

I remember a day when Tanner and I were driving to Paradise Valley Mall. I don't have a good sense of direction so I left it up to Tanner to get us there. After what seemed to be "driving in circles" I asked Tanner if we were driving in circles. He said,"Yes Aunt Bronwyn, the streets run in circles. This is my old stomping grounds, trust me". We made it to the store. There was never a time that I didn't trust Tanner. I trust now that he is safe and I miss him dearly. Love to all, Bronwyn

Lindsey FitzGibbons

August 4, 2005

Thank you so much Aunt Kathy! I love the photos. I had never seen two of them. What a handsome young man. Take care and remember all the wonderful moments that we had with T.J.

Kathleen Moritz

August 2, 2005

Hello All,

I have added some photo's to the photo gallery. enjoy.

Love to all

Kathleen

LOOK UP !! know where your smoke detectors are !!

August 2, 2005

Livin and makin music in Scottsdale

August 2, 2005

A little knicked up in Vegas !!

August 2, 2005

Tanner and his sister, Melissa

August 2, 2005

Tanner Osborn, Recording Engineer. 2004

August 2, 2005

Jackie Hill

August 1, 2005

Dear Kathleen, I have been thinking of you often I hope your doing well or as well as can be expected. I ran into Brownyn last week and she told me about the web site I think it's beautiful, so many heart felt letters. I hope the memories of Tanner in the letters are helping you through the days. If there is anything I can do for you in Phoenix please let me know. I wish I could see you my heart aches, Tanner left us way to soon. I love you and think you are a wonderful MOM.

Kathleen Moritz

July 19, 2005

Last Thursday I was able to meet with the firefighter who found Tanner, I wrote for him the following "thank you" note and gave it to him.

Love to all,

Kathleen

Thank You

Thank You for every time you enter a burning building with nothing in your heart but saving lives; for the emotion you must go through when you are called upon to look for those of us who may be inside, for how your emotions must soar as you risk your life to search and rescue, to diligently check every space, to look for our loved ones, to try to breath life into us. Thank You for your sheer determination, your unwavering commitment and the heartfelt passion I can imagine each of you feels when you round the corner and find someone’s son or daughter, wife or husband, mother or father, brother or sister, friend…each time you put your heart and soul into a rescue, each time you try to breath your life into another, for every time your heart breaks when you lose one. Most personally, when you turned the corner and found my son, Tanner Osborn along with his friends Justin McDonald and Chris Ross at 1442 Berry in Chicago Illinois, on the morning of June 7, 2005. I try to imagine your pain as you try to imagine mine. My heart goes to you as does my heart felt gratitude. Thank You and God bless you every day and keep you safe as you try to keep us safe.

With warmest regards,

Kathleen Moritz, the mom

Grammy Ellen

July 7, 2005

FOR THE FAMILY

A TRIBUTE TO 'TJ'

There was a young man who fell asleep

His dream? A powerful kind!

Sweet slumber took him to a depth

We cannot yet define.

Farewells are not his to recall.

In fact, he won't miss us at all…

A STAR was on his mind!

Oh! The wonder of those 'shooting' stars

That 'streak' across our sky

Sad beauty in the speed with which

They bid us fond 'good-bye'.

Yes! Young Jayson has his rainbow.

Young 'TJ' has his star.

And our family has the heavens

To remind us where they are.

Lindsey FitzGibbons

July 7, 2005

I am glad people are still writing in to share their thoughts and memories. Thank you to Sarah and Joy for maintaining this site. That is very wonderful of you two. Uncle Jim, Mindi, Dillon, and Melissa- I am glad to see your entry. It was very touching. Aunt Kathy- I am so glad you wrote also. I know it has been so hard for everyone and you are all still in my thoughts and prayers.

Jim Osborn

July 7, 2005

Mindi, Dillon, Melissa and I would like to thank you all from the bottom of our hearts for all the support, prayers and help you have shown us during our time of pain and sorrow. It has been 30 days since our beloved "TJ" was taken from this earth. Our troubled hearts have received an enormous amonut of comfort knowing wonderful caring and loving people surround us. The pieces of our lives have been re-arranged and breaking free of the sadness is the hardest thing to do when everything you've dreamed of has changed. A preciious gift to the World and a well-lived life is left to legacy, lasting memories and grateful hearts for the time we shared. We can't help remembering how fragile life really is. So we find a little courage in each day and continue to remember the warm thoughts and prayers of our friends are with us always.

We stay very focused knowing our mission and crusade must be met each hour of everyday with thoughts of "TJ" and to do everything we possibly can to see that this horrible tragedy never strikes another family. Fire awareness and prevention is all our responsibilities. We continue to ask you to please inspect your homes and work places for proper smoke and CO detectors. Make sure you have and exit stategy plan in place and practice it with every family member.

Tanner is my forever love and I miss him more than anything.

God bless you all.

Jim, Mindi,Dillon and Melissa

Bronwyn Streich

July 5, 2005

The 4th of July has come and gone, the wildfires in Arizona are being contained, and I am sad to say that the Earth was still spinning these last 4 weeks. While we have been groping through the shock, agony, and pain of Tanner's death, strangers and passersby didn't know our grief. I hear people laugh and I don't chime in. I see people living yet I am just breathing and trying to get back to what it was I was doing before June 7, 2005. There is a pretty, black ribbon on my door, the driveway is decorated with colorful chalk inscripting Tanner's birth and death, hot tears run down my cheeks. This is an awful thing for us to go through. Wouldn't Tanner have been a comfort to us in our sadness? I look at his picture in his Nike visor and it always makes me smile. There it is, "his lovely memories as solace for your grief". Please continue to leave a portion of your pain in this guest book. Thank you, Bronwyn

Bronwyn Streich

June 29, 2005

I had a memory today. When my little boy, Jayson, was in a hospital crib at Good Sam, Tanner was on my hip. When my son struggled with chemotherapy, Tanner understood. When Jayson cried in pain, and we were all freaking out, Tanner just wiggled off my hip and into Jayson's crib. There, in the midst of tubes, needles, and fear, Tanner brought peace to his little cousin. He charmed the nurses, turned on the oxygen, and made Jayson smile. Precious, precious Tanner. Precious memory. May the Lord give us peace and comfort.

Kathleen Moritz

June 28, 2005

I can't thank you all enough for the outpouring of support, prayers and love I have felt in the last 3 weeks. I weep as I read your words and tributes to my son, Thank You, Kathleen Moritz.

Gunnar Burgeson

June 27, 2005

What can i say, TJ was very unique. It wasn't till early 2004 that i became good friends with TJ. He was going to school at the conservatory and he asked if he could record my band (MISDOUT). I was floored. I worked closely with TJ in the studio several times, and the drive in his eyes is something i will never forget. We completed a 4 song demo thanks to him. He will be missed. From all of the former members of MISDOUT, we love you TJ. :)

Marc&Tina Picard

June 27, 2005

, Dear Kathleen, It,s been Quite awhile since we met but you have our deepest sympathy over the loss of your son Tanner, he will be in our thoughts and prayers at church. God Bless you and your family. Marc&Tina Picard

Grammy Ellen

June 24, 2005

I, like Bronwyn and Lindsey am using this wonderful website for 'Grief Relief'. Bronwyn, your poem so very much expresses the way I feel. I only wish we could divide up the pain and sorrow in such a way that it would be less for each of us, INCLUDING AND ESPECIALLY MY PRECIOUS DAUGHTER's. They say 'there's no substitute for time'. It's my first day to go back to guiding others in a novel exploration of the realm of their possibilities. I really don't know how, under such a cloud of "loss", grief and sorrow, I will be able to tap into any positive Spiritual energy. Tanner, in just this second of typing, gave me the answer: "Choose to create a state of mind with your thinking tools."

I think I'll have to work hard on that. Tanner, if you can rock a church, I guess I can take a shot at my first day back in the real world. Bronwyn and Lindsay have had a whole week of it. Dear God, Bless us all with a little less sorrow each day. Grammy

Heather & Clayton Reed

June 22, 2005

Dearest Kathleen:

We are surprised and very saddened to hear of your loss. We learned of your loss just today and would have attended the memorial service to support you in person, but we want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Please feel free to contact us should you need anything, or just let us know how you're doing.

Bronwyn Streich

June 22, 2005

Dear Lindsey and Tanner, Two fine cousins you be, no greater cousins I see, in death as in life, in harmony and in strife, it was a perfect thing to live the way you had, to try to live this way now is so freaking sad. Precious Lindsey needed her cousin Tanner so badly, his dying has left us madly, madly, searching, crying, dying in our own way, trying to pray, we are so sorry. I can not fix this. Please, loved ones, write your thoughts here, draw yourselves near. Damn this hurts.

Bronwyn

Ursula Cholewa

June 21, 2005

I never met TJ. I always asked his mom how he was doing. Somehow, I deeply knew he was a perfect young guy. And somehow, I cannot adjust to the fact that he is gone.

Kathleen, I want you to know I am with you. Although I cannot possibly know what and how you feel, I am with you. Just call my name.

TJ is safe now, it's us who struggle until we are safe too. God, help us all in that daily struggle to fulfill your will.

Lindsey FitzGibbons

June 21, 2005

I just wanted to write again to let everyone know how nice it is to have this guest book. I look forward to reading new entries everyday. Grammy- your interpretation of Tanners song was wonderful! And the 'mom from Phoenix' added such a beautiful poem for Aunt Kathy. I loved the memorial service and will never forget rocking out in the church. T.J. wouldn't have it any other way. Thank you to Chronic Future for preforming for us. It was great. I miss you my dear cousin and I know you are smiling down on us all and holding on to our hands as we continue to miss you and celebrate the wonderful life you had. I love you!

Bronwyn Streich

June 20, 2005

Beloved ones, It's been thirteen days since my precious nephew left this Earth. I've been to Chicago and back, I'm attempting to work again, there is an incessant ringing in my ear, the shock is wearing off. Dear God, we don't want to go through this, the finality is deafening. Tanner was part of our team, an integral part of our team. What will we do without Tanner? My heart calls out to the ones who knew and loved him. Thank God we have his song, my new creed for life. God bless our hearts as to ease this pain. I have been blessed to have met many of Tanner's friends and they are awesome, fine people. I've heard rock-n-roll in a Lutheran church, and someone was hanging around my car until I told him, "Tanner,I'm sorry honey, so sorry. Please go on now, go on to God, thank you for saying goodbye in a way that only could have been you." You will be remembered everyday of every week of every month, until I die. Then I will see you again, that's a promise from God. Love, Aunt Bronwyn

Melissa McDonald

June 20, 2005

T.J.'s electric smile charged every room he entered. Ambitious and talented he was impossible to ignore. This loss is hard. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends.

John Pientka

June 20, 2005

TJ. I remember when I was going through a difficult time in my life and you were one of my true friends that took me in and helped me out without even knowing me all that long. I guess that's how big your heart is and that's what I'll always remember about you. You had a genuine personality and left me with some great memories. Instead of asking "why" you are gone, I'm just glad and honored I got to know you at all.

Diana & Sunny Seger

June 18, 2005

Even though we met and got to know Tanner only briefly, it was obvious to both of us what a bright, talented and all around beautiful young man he was. We send our deepest sympathy to Tanner's family and hope they will take comfort in knowing we consider ourselves lucky to have had him pass through our lives.

Grammy Ellen

June 17, 2005

The following is TJ's "Flow" which for those who have not studied it as I have,and as a tribute to his profound performance on this stage we know as LIFE, I will attempt to interpret. It carries a message I don't think he would want even us 'old folks' to miss.

YOU, FALLING OUT... IT'S ALL ABOUT THE WORDS THAT WE BEND (Attention! those of you who might be talking, rapping, B.S.'ing, about giving up, dropping out, quitting, letting go of your dreams,) I'M CALLING OUT (Hear me! I know of what I speak)IT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT WE'RE DRIVING IN, (or the trappings with which we may try to impress ourselves) CAUSE WE DON'T NEED NO MERCEDES BENZ JUST TO PROVE THAT WE ARE MEN. (Don't get caught in that trap of trying to impress others with material things. Maybe even our bodies are not necessary to make our point.)YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE, DESIGN YOUR OWN REPUTATION (Be the captain of your own ship, Don't be swayed from your goal by critics who don't understand you.)YOU THINK THAT THIS IS FUN ( This growing up, figuring life out, what's right, what's wrong, who to trust, who to believe)BUT I USE MY MIND AS MY VOCATION (I don't forget that I have a fine mind. It's a gift and it is mine to control)WHILE MY LINES ARE A PORTRAYAL OF THE HATE THAT WE'RE DISPLACING (My mind, my words, help me figure things out and I have come to realize that I DO have mental control over the fear based hatred and anger that tend to frustrate and control us) AND NOW, YOU'RE FACEIN' THE TIME TO CHOOSE, (as I have come to face the time to choose and I now want to share with you)ARE YOU GONNA STAND TALL AND BE TRUE, (hang on to your dreams, diligently pursue your goals doing what must be done to stay on the path, focus) OR CONTINUE ON THE PATH OF DUES (Give in to the frustration, social demands, the 'expected' by peers as well as society) OR CHOOSE TO CREATE A STATE OF MIND WITH YOUR THINKING TOOLS. (Use your head, make up your mind, discipline yourself and convince yourself you are enjoying what you know you have to do to get where you want to go.)

TJ, I too use words to explain man's Earth School measure; to try to touch that far beyond the Spirits treasure. This I know, your wisdom came to exceed mine Thank God you left your 'flows' behind. Your genious scared me,left me frightened. Now, Sweet Child, Strong Man, I've been enlightened. If tears count, you will know how I feel. Even 'love' words don't quite do it this time, Kiddo.

A Mom from

June 17, 2005

My mom is a survivor, Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying when all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night and go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her to help her understand.
But like the sands upon the beach
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...a smile of disguise.
But through heaven's open door
I see tears flowing from her eyes.
My mom tries to cope with my death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her
Knows it's her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mom
Through heaven's open door...
I try to tell her angels protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, talk to her
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says; no matter what she feels.
My surviving mom has a broken heart
That time won't ever heal.
-- Kaye Des'Ormeaux,AUTHOR

Jayson Khademi

June 17, 2005

My deepest sympathies for you and your family. Tanner will be missed greatly. He was a joy to have on campus and will always be remembered for his dedication, work ethic, and outgoing personality.

Bronwyn Streich

June 17, 2005

Precious Tanner is safe. I pray you find comfort and peace in knowing that Tanner is safe. It's hard to even believe this happened, that Tanner is gone. Day by day reality comes back to us all. Know that we are all strong enough to bear this, we will see Tanner again. With love and respect, Tanner's Aunt Bronwyn

"Choose to Create a State of Mind with Your Thinking Tools"..............T.J. Osborn 2005

June 16, 2005

Torrey Hein

June 16, 2005

TJ and I became friends when I was 17 and he was 16. From the very start, we were more than close. I used to sneek in his window and watch movies in his room. Hershy Bar was always the alarm that told Jim I was there. I remember the first time I ever snuck in there he and I watched Titanic and he cried. He said it was the first time he cried in front of a girl. I miss his smile and his silly laugh. The way he wanted to take the world on. I met his mom for the first time when she came to visit him and we went to Jalepeno's on Tatum and Thunderbird for Margarita's. We stayed the whole night. I remember Dillon giving me candy necklaces when I would come over. I remember "The Cowboy's" voicemail. I remember the best summer of my life where we walked around for an entire night and swore no matter what, we would always love each other. I will keep that promise. I miss you Tanner, TJ, Junior (to his friends). I wish I could see your smile on more time. I will always love you. I will always miss you, I will never forget you.

Traci

June 15, 2005

Kathy, you raised an awesome and very gifted son and I know he loved you very much. I hadn't talked to TJ since he moved, but I am blessed to have crossed paths with him. As hard as this time is, stay strong for there is a bigger plan for TJ. TJ, we had alot of fun together, you will be missed and never forgotten.

felicia rattler/neurosource

June 13, 2005

Kathleen may god be with you and your family in this time of pain. god bless

latanya and jeff taylor

June 13, 2005

May God Bless you and your family. Our condolences are with you always.

Sincerely,

The Taylor Family and The Women's Group of Northwestern.

Tiffany Gomm

June 12, 2005

Everyone in Scottsdale has lost a good friend. We will miss you TJ and we'll always be thinking of you. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and friends.

Rose Broghamer

June 12, 2005

Dear Kathleen,

It was such a pleasure to meet Tanner and to spend time with him in Las Vegas and Chicago.You have to be so proud of what a good job you did raising such a nice boy.I can only guess that God had bigger plans for him by his side.

We will miss him very very much.

We love you,

Billy,Rose Chelsea and Cody

Bill Whitlow

June 11, 2005

Jim and family.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss.

Kim Johnson

June 11, 2005

Kathy,

I want to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family please be strong and remember god will not let us go through situations that he knows we cannot handle

Love kim (The womens group)

Bronwyn Streich

June 11, 2005

Dear loved ones, Let this be a calling to the ones that are heavy on my heart: Melissa, Dylan, Kathy, Dave, Jim, Mindy, Grammie Ellen, Joy, Sarah, and my heartbroken children, Lindsey and Brent, my bewildered grandchildren, Bradley and Derek, my husband Paul. How can we deal with the loss? How can we even begin to say goodbye to precious Tanner? Hold on tight to each other. Surround yourselves with love. May God hold you close within the center of His will. Bronwyn Elaine Streich

Bronwyn Streich

June 10, 2005

I can't believe my precious nephew is gone. I love Tanner so much. My heart aches for Kathy and our whole family. We are forever bonded by Tanner's love. Sincerely, Aunt Bronwyn

NeuroSource Family

June 10, 2005

The Comfort of Memories

To Comfort You "How fortunate we are that in our hearts we keep forever the memories of those we love...and the time we shared together."

May you feel the warm embrace of loving memories, and hear happy echoes of the good times you shared together.

With Deepest Sympathy, Bridget Gibbons, Erci Stotlar, Woolfork Sidney, Keating Steaking, Felicia Rattler, Zoila Siguencia, Your friends at CINN.

Our thoughs and prayers are with all of Tanner's family and friends.

Lindsey FitzGibbons

June 10, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone whose lives have been touched by my dear cousin. Tanner was not only my cousin, but one of my best friends. I can recall hundreds of special times and happy memories and I will focus on those to get me through this hard time. He is such a wonderful young man and I love him with all my heart.

Stacy Keating

June 10, 2005

With deepest sympathies to all of Tanner's family and friends.

Stacy Keating

NeuroSource/collector

zoila siguencia

June 10, 2005

My thoughs and prayers are with all of Tanner's family and friends. With deepest sympathies,

Zoila Siguencia

NeuroSource/poster

Mary Lynn Young

June 10, 2005

Kathleen,

Dr.Milam and I were so sorry to hear the news about Tanner. We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Vickie Austin

June 10, 2005

We join you in your sorrow at the loss of our beloved T.J. Please know all of you are in our hearts and prayers during this very difficult time. T.J. was dear to us in so many ways and we were blessed to have Widge and T.J. reunited as friends in Illinois. Words cannot express our sympathy on the loss of your precious son. With love, Vickie, Bill, Kitty and William Austin

Deborah Poteet

June 10, 2005

My first memory of Tanner is of a little boy sitting in my back seat playing with a silver dollar. Fast forward to the energetic boy,now comfortable with his extended family riding the cement gutters of the wash by the side of our house. He would show Sarah and Jennifer how brave he was, crashing and scaring

us all. Kathy you were a good nurse! The girls often talk of him and they certainly will miss him. We will remember him fondly, forever grateful that you both touched our lives. With Great Sympathy,

Deb Poteet

Ursula Cholewa

June 10, 2005

Kathleen,

I love you very, very much. I am with you all the time with my thoughts and prayers. I do not understand why God took TJ away from you but I know we must accept his will. I pray for him and for you and your family.

Love, Ursula

Sharlene Moshi

June 10, 2005

Tanner was a wonderful guy and for the times he came to the office he always was a gentleman and so helpful. I will never forget him, we had fun goofing. My heart goes out to you Kathleen and may god give you comfort.

Jim and Astrid Mc Dermott

June 10, 2005

Dearest Kathleen,

Our deepest simpathy to you and your family.

We know what you are going through, hang in there.

Our love always

Jim and Astrid

Kathy Skach

June 10, 2005

Our thoughs and prayers are with all of Tanner's family and friends.IF there is anything we can do please let us know. With deepest sympathies, Kathy Skach and Mike Spinelle

Jennifer Joy Welcome

June 10, 2005

TJ I still think of you as a little guy in a white sports uniform knelt down on one knee with the cutest little grin. I know you were grown with so much more to do, but God had something bigger planned for you. While we are here wondering why you had to go, your playing your heart out in the largest stadium you and I will ever know. You're a star! Welcome to the big time. Can’t wait to hear you play reserve some backstage passes for me VIP please! We love you to the moon. In our hearts and thoughts, Joy

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