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Thomas Andrew "Tad" Day

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Thomas Day Obituary

Thomas Andrew "Tad" Day, also known as Tom, died in Phoenix, AZ on O c t o b e r 30, 2003. Born July 6, 1960, to Richard and Patricia Day of Paradise Valley, AZ. Tad was born in Scottsdale, AZ and grew up in Lincoln, NE. He graduated from Lincoln Southwest High School and attended the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. In 1981, Tad returned to Arizona working in the hospitality industry. Tad was also the past owner of Benchmark Events & Meetings. He was a contract administrator for Value Option in Phoenix, AZ. Tad will be forever remembered by his parents Dick and Pat, his brother Chip, his wife Cathy and their daughters Meghan and Amanda of Lincoln, NE, brother Steve, his wife Cindy and children Stephen and Alyssa of Des Moines, IA, brother Bo, his wife Leslie and their sons Corey and Andy of Lincoln, NE, sister Keli (Fitzekam) her husband Phil and their daughters, Cady, Elizabeth and Abbi of Scottsdale, AZ, sisters, Muffi of Scottsdale, AZ and Emily of San Antonio, TX, brother Ward, his wife Michelle and their son, Logan of Carlinville, IL, his Aunt Rosemary O'Conner of Tempe, AZ, and six cousins, Richard Quelle of
Lakeville, MA. Tad was preceded in death by his grandparents Andy and Millie Brady, Godfrey and Sheila Day, Uncle Pat O'Conner and cousin Tim O'Connor. A Memorial Rosary will be held Monday, November 3, 2003, 5:00 pm at Messinger Indian School Mortuary, 7601 E. Indian School Road, Scottsdale, AZ with a Memorial Funeral Mass to be held Tuesday, November 4. 2003, 2 pm at the Franciscan Renewal Center, 5802 E. Lincoln Drive, Scottsdale, AZ. Memorials in lieu of flowers to the American Lung Association, 102 W. McDowell Road, Phoenix, AZ 85003 or The Arizona Kidney Foundation, 4203 S. Indian School Road, Phoenix, AZ 85018.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Nov. 3, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Day

21 Entries

Carole Tucak

July 6, 2025

Happy Birthday, my friend.

Carole Tucak

July 6, 2021

Happy Birthday, Tad. I'm grateful I knew you in this life, and that I can still recall your voice and signature laugh. You're forever in my heart.

Keli Fitzekam

April 26, 2017

Hi Tad, I have been having lots of moments lately, more then usual. I feel you around me and know you are watching out for me. As you know, Elizabeth will grad in May, more honors then she knows what to do with. Steve has stepped in for you, just through emotional support. Not sure this will post or be printed, don't care. You aren't here physically. Emotionally, in spirit, in the dark and light, everyday work, I feel you. You are our "Tadgy Wadge" and always will be, more soon, maybe just me talking and you rolling your eyes. I love you, one more thing, I want to hear your laugh. Keli

David Robinson

July 21, 2016

I only recently learned of Tad's death, but he and I were neighbors and best friends in the late 60s and early 70s. My condolences to his family. Tad was a great kid and surely a great adult as well and I'm sure he is sorely missed.

David Smith and Sheila Shapiro

November 13, 2003

We never knew Tom as Tad, but the Tom we knew was a kind soul who was a joy to be around. While he may not have always known it, he had some terrific people who always have, and always will, think of him as a dear friend. He was loved and shall be missed. Our sincere sympathies to his family, both immediate and extended. We are proud to have known him and know that you are, too.

Michelle Purrington

November 13, 2003

Our deepest sympathies to Tom's family whom he spoke of with great fondness. Thank you for helping him be the person he was and sharing him with all of us. God bless.

Tara McBride

November 10, 2003

To the Day family:

Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your wonderful son. Tom was one of the first friends I made when I moved to Phoenix, and he will always hold special memories for Rob and me.

Lorrie Oosting-Klein (Linda's Sister)

November 7, 2003

I would like to extend my deepest sympathies. I know there are just no words that can provide comfort. Tad was a wonderful, funny man who always went out of his way to make people smile. The world is a better place just having him here, even if it was for such a short time. May peace and love be with you during this difficult time.

Steve O'Dell

November 7, 2003

For the Day Family,

It was a great shock to hear of Tom's illness and passing. I came to know him through his work at AIDS Project Arizona and I will always remember his caring spirit and easy smile.

Linda (Oosting)Foster

November 5, 2003

to the Day family, tad has always held a special place in my heart, thanks for sharing him with me and his other friends. Tad was such a special person and we all will miss him deeply, i will cherish every moment i shared with him and all of you...may god continue to watch over you and keep tad close to his heart...with my deepest sympathy and love... linda

Pat Smith

November 5, 2003

Dick, Pat, Chip, Steve, Bo, and the rest of the "kids" as well as your families. I'm shocked and saddened to hear of your loss; my heartfelt sympathies go to you. Memories of the trampoline, Irving, Southeast, a Suzuki 90, and 27th street came flooding back...Thank you Tad for bringing me a smile one last time. You will be missed.

Dave Kirby

November 5, 2003

Tad,

You are forever young and beautiful. I'm very proud to have known you. Love, Dave.

Kelly Stallworth (Lahners)

November 5, 2003

Tad was greatly loved by all of those of us who had the pleasure of being his friend. He was a great part of my life during High School. My condolences to his family and to all those with whom he shared his life.

Mike McKee

November 5, 2003

To the Day Family,

My heart felt thoughts and prayers are with you.

God bless you all and thanks be to God for the life of Tad Day.

Sincerely,

Mike Mckee

Jim Cooper

November 4, 2003

Tad,

You will be missed dearly, as you were always there when I needed a smile and a good laugh. Knowing you for the last 23 years, has given me many wonderful memories. The years we were roomates (also with Mark and Marsha from Nebraska) are times that I will never forget.

My condolences to your family and Chris. You were loved by everyone who came into your life and you will be missed deeply but you will always be in our hearts and our prayers.

Mike & Diane Cooper

November 4, 2003

Our deepest condolences to the entire Day family. We were so stunned and saddened by the news of his passing. God bless.

Mike & Diane Cooper & family

Jan Berniklau Boyd

November 4, 2003

Dick and Pat and Family,

Tad is and will always be a bright and shining star in many lives. I will be looking to the sky as I know he will continue to shine.

All my love,

Jan

Cori Morrill (Scheidt)

November 4, 2003

My sincerest condolences to the family. I went to high school with Tad, and he was a great guy. He was always kind, and fun to be with. He will be missed. Psalm 23:6 ...And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. God be with you.

Robert Patriquin

November 3, 2003

Tom,

You are a great person that I have developed a relationship with over time and I will truely miss you.

Donna Dermann

November 3, 2003

So sorry to hear about the loss of your son...Prayers are with you and your family..

LaTonya Davis

November 3, 2003

Hi, it's cupcake, I will miss you soooo much. I am very proud to have known you, and you will always have a place in my heart. Smooches.

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