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William R. Gruver, Journalist and Educator, of Phoenix, AZ passed away on March 10, 2008 at age 82. He was William R. Gruver II, noted Phoenix broadcast journalist-commentator at KFYI Radio and Metro Systems Broadcasting as well as a lecturer in communications at Arizona State University, Rio Solado College and many Community Centers around the Valley, a tireless, soft-spoken man whose talent, hard work and capacity for loyal friendship won him the first-name confidence of many of the nation's most powerful political, business and academic leaders. Mr. Gruver died after a brief illness. Only family members and close friends, who knew the full sweep of his long life, knew also that he was Billy Gruver, child movie actor, and later, Lt William Gruver, US Navy language translator. A graduate of Columbia University, he plunged into a lifelong career of research and writing. He is the author of a respected history of the nation's Democratic Party. By the 1960's, he had pursued his craft in the East, then moved West to California where he joined the State Democratic Committee staff to become an advisor and confidante to the late Gov. Edmund G. (Pat) Brown. Still later, he was a key staff member for Robert F Kennedy in the senator's brief and tragic presidential campaign of 1968. Returning to journalism, Mr. Gruver drew upon his friendships with Pierre Salinger, press secretary to President John F. Kennedy and became a political "advance man" for three U.S. Presidential Candidates including John F. Kennedy, Lyndon B. Johnson, and Robert F. (Bobby) Kennedy. During the latter campaign he was standing nearby when Bobby Kennedy was shot by Sirhan Sirhan.
Mr. Gruver's accomplishments include: Political news editor for Jack Anderson, the widely syndicated newspaper columnist, Talk Show host for an ABC station in NYC as well as NJ Cable TV Network, White House National political conventions, Political news editor for CBS News in NY and Washington DC covering Congress, Editor for Beverly Hill Times and at the esteemed New York public relations firm, Carl Byoir & Associates, Inc., his clients included the American Revolution BiCentennial Commission (ARBA) appointed by President Richard M. Nixon to celebrate the 200th Anniversary of the United States in 1976. For the BiCentennial Commission he directed a national campaign including the production of a weekly newspaper column, bylined by John Warner, which was carried by more than 900 U.S. newspapers, and a weekly 5-minute radio show, also featuring Senator Warner, which was broadcast by 300 U.S. radio stations. His intense interest in the workings of politics and government and his energetic style would not embrace the distractions of formal retirement. He continued reporting, writing and broadcasting nationally into today's turbulent electoral season. Bill Gruver was born June 18, 1925 to Anna Gruver, one of the famed "Ziegfeld Girls," who headlined the Ziegfeld Follies, one of the most successful and long-running "spectaculars" on New York City's 20th Century Broadway. His father Henry was successful business man in New York City. His mother encouraged Bill's early education at the Professional Children's School in New York City. Success there led to dramatic parts in movies that brought the young actor enduring Hollywood friendships, among the warmest with celebrated singer and film actress, Jeannette MacDonald, and her husband, the actor Gene Raymond. While living in New Jersey in 1981 Bill met his future wife Barbara while interviewing her for a story he was writing regarding her winning Mother of the Year as a result of a nomination submitted by her daughter. It was love at first sight; they were married 2 years later. Mr. Gruver is survived by his wife of 25 years, Barbara Anne; 3 daughters and 6 grandchildren. Services will be held Saturday March 22, 2008 at 10:00 am at Phoenix Memorial Park and Mortuary in Phoenix, AZ.

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Published by The Arizona Republic on Mar. 19, 2008.

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RICHARD KILTY

June 5, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Kurt Biederman

June 3, 2008

I did not know William Gruver on a personal basis, but I was lucky enough to be the recipient of many of his books, rich in American and world history, much like his own life, and I have been enlightened by his wife Barbara on his value in both the arenas of politics, and journalism, the latter of which holds only second to his devotion and love for his wife and family. Not meeting him was an opportunity missed.

celina avila

June 3, 2008

I had the honor to meet nill only a few times....and what a pleasure those few times were. I work with his wife barbara I am her unofficial granddaughter...and to meet her other half was really getting to know her as a whole...and now that she is without is to say she is not herself. I still remember bill ....you like your steak rare...and trust me that one day we will share it like i told you we would. i am grateful to have met you and may your soul rest in peace...and as long as i am able to I will look after Barb and see that she remains well....

Robert Henkel

May 3, 2008

Bill Gruver and I met when he joined Carl Byoir & Associates, the New York public relations firm back in the mid-1970's when his client was the American Revolution Bicentennial Commission appointed by the President of the U.S. to commemorate and celebrate the 200th Anniversary of the U.S. Now U.S. Senator John Warner was the Chairman of the commemoration. This assignment fit well with Bill's American History major at Columbia University. Among other things, Bill organized a nationwide news media tour by John Warner to the top 35-50 major markets. Bill also organized and Byoir specialists produced a weekly radio program featuring Warner that was carried by about 900 radio stations, and similar material in a weekly newspaper column which was run by more than 250 U.S. newspapers. At the time there was a lot of disillusion about the U.S. politically, and Bill directed the effort right into the hot bed of criticism, which at the first happened to be Buffalo, NY and Bill and especially John Warner charmed the editors to the point where they lauded and applauded the BiCentennial effort. This result was repeated in city after city across the country. The one thing that impressed me about Bill, and which I miss greatly even today, is my belief that he had an unusal, large brain! I have never met anyone who the mental capacity and capability to absorb information and translate it into action. I miss Bill particularly today because for the past 10 years or so, we engaged in daily telephone calls, sometimes 3 or 5 calls, depending on what was happening.
On Sept.11, 2001, I was nursing along an aging TV set and only running it briefly in the morning newscasts. About 10 a.m. that morning, the phone rang and Bill was most disappointed that I didn't have the TV on. "We are at war!" he screamed into the phone, and then he went on with the details while I rushed to turn on the TV. I think he was mightily disappointed that I had turned it off that morning. Lately during these endless Presidential Primaries, several times a day I reach for the telephone to call Bill to get his "fix" about what is taking place, but of course he is not there.
My loss is personal and great, but not as great as it is for his wonderful wife Barbara, the rest of the family and his day-to-day friends in Phoenix. Bill and I, all our adult professional lives dealt with important and self-important people who were making great impressions on us and others. But none of them came across to me as Bill Gruver did.
God Bless his Soul, God Rest his Soul, God Care and Keep his Soul!

James Soto

April 30, 2008

I only met Bill Gruver one time and he was such a nice man. I’ve known his wife Barb and have been friends with her for many years. I was always amazed on Bill’s life history and wished I knew him better. I loved to here all that he accomplished through out his lifetime. I know his family and especially Barb who took care of him for many years miss Bill dearly.

James McManus

April 24, 2008

So rich a life, so well lived. That was my
friend, Bill Gruver. We met as Sen RobertF Kennedy's press advance men in Indiana and stayed with the campaign all the way to Arlington National Cemetery. In the many years that followed, we remained close friends, a friendship that soon included his wife, Barbara, who was his rock and his great love. William R Gruver II was an original and I am lucky
beyond measure to have known him.

Mike Forbes

April 16, 2008

Bill...
Heaven has gained a true friend. Your mentorship and guidance early in my broadcasting career meant a great deal. Your loyal and loving friendship in the years that followed meant even more. God bless, my pal.
Mike Forbes

Carol McNulty

April 15, 2008

Earth shall miss such a wise, intellectual soul. A man who has accomplished so much will truly be missed by all those whom had the privilege to know Bill. Our heart goes out to his wife Barb and family.

Rachel Eggum Cinader

March 22, 2008

I had the honor of meeting Bill who was the husband of Barb, whom I've known for many years. Bill gave me an autographed copy of his book and I told him, "When I get my book published I'll give you a copy." Unfortunately Bill was very sick when my book was published so I never had the honor of presenting it to him. I admire all that he has accomplished in his lifetime and know he was loved by many.
I salute you Bill and will catch up with you in heaven one day.

Senator Mary Hartley

March 20, 2008

I met Bill while moving into my office in the Arizona State Senate Building, in Jan. 1995, on my first day. Though I am a "newbie" in terms of the many long and endearing friendships he made, I did considered him just that, a friend. One of a special group of people he took under his wing to guide, swap stories with and to sit out the late-night Senate Sessions, all the while gleaning what I could from him about politics. Maybe it was because we were fellow "NYC Transplants", but we quickly settled into a great relationship, where he was the first with a compliment or a loving slap on the back. He was there with kindness and concern in personal matters as well; he was there when I lost my husband and grandson, and covered the press conference announcing my retirement from public service. The most touching thing to me was his phone call to me on the evening of Sept. 11, 2001...when he was one of the few people who knew I was to be at the World Trade Center that fateful morning to buy theater tickets for a broadway show. We had talked about it just before I left for my trip back home to New York...he already had all the information he needed through the Senate Office for a story, but he was sincerely worried about me, and we shared our grief as native New Yorkers. He will be missed by all that knew him.

George Buttell

March 20, 2008

Bill, I will miss your political insight and the frequent discussions we shared at dialysis. Thank you for the loan of so many great books.
You will now have the opportunity to ask questions of Jefferson, Washington and Lincoln. I could only hope that you leave a seat at the table for me.
PEACE

Dana Hock

March 19, 2008

To William Gruver, who I didn't have the honor to meet, I am sorry. I know your wife Barbara, and her love for you, was always evident. Your life will always be remembered by those whose lives you have touched so deeply.

Mike Casey

March 19, 2008

Mr. Gruver,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the USN during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

Dave Hampton

March 19, 2008

I shall miss Bill and his enlightened conversation very much. We worked side by side for a number of years at the capitol and I would often answer the newsroom phone and Ed Meese or Pierre Salinger would be on the line wishing to talk to Bill...At first, I thought, "Yeah, sure, Ed Meese." Bill was always a kind man whose knowledge and life experiences often remained unknown to those who met him. God speed, Bill.

From an erstwhile journalist and your friend.

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