Name: Visitation for Lillian Nancy Valenti
Start: 2016-03-21T00:00:00.000Z
End: 2016-03-21T03:00:00.000Z
Location: Doughty Calhoun O'Meara Funeral Home - Bakersfield

Lillian Nancy Valenti, 92, passed away peacefully with family at her side March 14, 2016. She was born and raised in Bakersfield to beloved Giuseppe and Albertina Ghilarducci, Italian immigrants on July 20, 1923. Lil was first generation Italian-American and proud of her heritage. Lil resided in Bakersfield her entire life, and graduated from East Bakersfield High School in 1941. She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend to many. Nothing was more important to her than her faith, her family, friendships and work at Colombo Construction. She has left an indelible positive imprint on all of our lives.

She proudly served as office manager at Colombo Construction Company for 46 years prior to her retirement in 1994. The personal and professional contacts she made during that tenure were the most rewarding and appreciated friendships of her life. She also was an active and devoted member of the Italian Catholic Federation and Women in Construction.

Lovingly known as "Nini" by family and close friends, "Lili" by her parents. When her first nephew, Jim Fanucchi couldn't pronounce it correctly as a young toddler, but voiced "Nini" instead; the name stuck for good. It was so dear to her to be called "Nini".

Married and devoted to Gino Angelo Valenti on June 15, 1947, in Bakersfield. Some of their most treasured pleasures were dancing together, music, trips to the CA coast, sporting events and spending time with their family.

Lillian is now joined with her beloved sister and best friend Alma Fanucchi (Porter) who never lived over a block away from each other for over 60 years.

Lillian is preceded in death by her parents Albertina and Giuseppe Ghilarducci, husband; Gino and sister; Alma. She is survived by her sons; Ron (Mary) and Michael (Tina). Grandchildren; Tony, Jon, Gianna, Leigha, and Victoria. Great-grandchildren; Kaitlin, Mickaela, Alexandra, Brandon, Chase, and Karson. Nephews; Jim Fanucchi (Mary) and Paul Fanucchi (Jeannie); their children; Diane, Justin and Zachary. And many loving cousins and extended family.

Rosary will be held on Monday, March 21 at 8:30 am, at St. Francis Church 900 'H' St., Bakersfield, CA 93304. Mass will follow at 9:00 am with a reception in the Church Rectory directly after mass.

Visitation is scheduled on Sunday, March 20, from 5:00 - 8:00pm, at Doughty-Calhoun-O'Meara. 1100 Truxtun Ave., Bakersfield, CA 93301.

In lieu of flowers, the family wishes donations to be made to St. Francis Church in Lillian's name.

DOUGHTY-CALHOUN-O'MEARA FUNERAL DIRECTORS

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Mar. 18 to Mar. 19, 2016.

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Donna Tucker

March 12, 2021

Still missing you, Lil. I think of you often and wish I could have made that one last trip to see you.

Nancy Cheeseman

March 21, 2016

I worked with Lillian for 9 years at Colombo Construction. She was a very caring and thoughtful person who loved people. She was someone you could turn to for advice and/or support in both your personal and business life. She always had a good story or laugh to share. She would always remind me that her middle name was Nancy.

My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends. She will be missed.

Loretta and Lou Becherucci

March 20, 2016

We are the "Italian" friends of Lil from Brookdale. Although we have known her for such a short time we became very close to her and considered her part of our family. She is gone but not forgotten. Even with her many health problems she was always smiling.
May she rest in peace.

Frank & Jackie Fabbri

March 18, 2016

Valenti Family,
Though there are no words to ease your pain, remember that she is now in heaven, in Gods loving arms where she is now at peace. Our prayers and sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time.

March 18, 2016

I extend to you my heartfelt sympathy on your loss. May Jeremiah 29:11,12 bring your family comfort.
~ M. Loyd

Gary Johnson

March 18, 2016

She was always very gracious and over the top friendly to me. She never uttered a negative word in my presence and was always a joy to be around.
My thoughts and sympathies go out to the family.

Donna Tucker

March 18, 2016

In loving memory ~ you will truly be missed. Thank you for your love and support.

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