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Robert E. Nicholas Jr.

1965 - 2011

Robert E. Nicholas Jr. obituary, 1965-2011

BORN

1965

DIED

2011

Robert Nicholas Obituary

Robert E. Nicholas, Jr. March 13, 1965 - January 28, 2011 Robert Edward Nicholas, Jr. was born on March 13, 1965, in Oxnard, CA. He graduated from Oxnard High School in 1983. Robert passed away in the early morning on Friday, January 28, 2011, in Bakersfield, CA. He is survived by his wife, Belindalee, of 22 years; his daughter, Alexis; his son, Joel; his father and mother of Arizona; grandmother of Oxnard; brothers and sisters; future son-in-law; nephew and nieces; uncles; aunts; cousins; and many friends. Robert's passion was to make his family happy. He loved playing softball with his friends (Mongoose) and many other sporting events. He loved playing with his nephew and nieces and never said no to the chance of babysitting. He moved to Bakersfield to be close to his family. He worked for United States Post Office for 17 years. He is and always will be very loved and missed by all. Chapel service will be held on Thursday, February 3, 2011, at 6:30 p.m.; and burial will be on Friday, February 4, 2011, at 1:00 p.m. at Greenlawn Southwest Memorial Park, 2739 Panama Lane. In lieu of flowers, the family will be accepting donations towards a gravesite bench in memory of Robert. Contact Alexis at: [email protected]. Greenlawn Southwest Mortuary www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Feb. 2, 2011.

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Glenn Wood

August 27, 2021

I was talking to a former Postal colleague and Robert's name came up. She had no idea he died and, when I told her he indeed did, she was very saddened. We were in agreement that we appreciated his laid back management style which never interfered with him being a genuinely decent and kind person. My best to his family even as the years have rolled on.

Kim Biehl

February 8, 2011

Robert,

I remember all the times we used to laugh and talk about our kids. The office was a much brighter place to work in when your were their. You will be missed.

February 7, 2011

Hey Buddy,

Today my heart is broken. I have lost a dear friend. I'm going to miss sharing jokes, talking about Allen Conners at the meetings-Well actually talking about everybody, all the good Gossip. I'm going to miss your laid back style, your love of life, your love for your postal family and specially your love for your family. You will always be in my heart and prayers.

Until we can gossip again, God Bless and may God watch over your family.

Mary Ronquillo

Susan Carroll

February 7, 2011

Robert was my neighbor and good friend during our Fremont and OHS days. Unfortunately we lost contact after high school. I just read of his passing ... it's a very sad day. My condolences to his family. He touched a lot of lives and will be missed by many.

February 5, 2011

I knew Robert as a down to earth great supervisor, and My condolences are with him and his family he was great man, God Bless !!

Gloria De Los Santos

February 4, 2011

My condolences to my cousin
Gloria, Nick and family in this difficult time.My Love to his wife and kids

Diane Ryder

February 4, 2011

Robert...my dear friend...I said "good-bye" to you today and it was one of the worst days of my life. I have many wonderful memories of you and I will think of you every day. You always made me laugh. You always had a good story or one of your many one-liners. It's just not going to be the same without you. I am so glad I got to know you. You were a great family man, great co-worker and a great friend. We're all going to miss you, Robert!

Doug Claunch

February 4, 2011

My condolances to the Nicholas family, Friday night poker will never be the same, Robert you will be missed!

Genie Bernacchi

February 3, 2011

I also went to school with Robert, he (as so many have conveyed)....was a kind hearted guy and it is very clear from all the entries here and on FB, that he will be dearly missed!! Sending warm thoughts and prayers to the family.

Barbara Bell

February 3, 2011

Robert you were a great Manager with a good heart. We hit it off the first time we worked together at Brundage P.O. You had my back and I yours. I'm sorry I did'nt keep in touch with you when I left.I know you will be missed. My deepest sympathy goes out to Roberts family.

February 3, 2011

My deepest sympathies. I worked with Robert at the Santa Clarita Post Office. We were all saddend when we learned he had passed away.

February 3, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Nicholas family and many friends. My prayers for you and your family.

Teresa Atler, Santa Clarita

Megan Wilkerson

February 3, 2011

My thoughts and prayers to the Nicholas family in this time of heartache! Robert was such a great guy and I have so many funny memories that I will never forget. Everytime I saw him he was always smiling and laughing and happy to be with his family. He will be deeply missed by the Wilkerson family!!

Amy McGaw Hogue

February 3, 2011

I went to Freemont and OHS with Robert. What a great guy. He always had such a wonderful outlook, always was nice to everyone and you looked forward to seeing him at school.
My sympathy goes to his family in this difficult time.

Patty Schoelen

February 3, 2011

I too had the opportunity to work with Robert and always found him so easy to work with. I also enjoyed that every conversation I had with him always included a reason to laugh. I will miss him alot. My deepest sympathy goes to his family.

David Vance

February 3, 2011

Always a smile, a handshake, and something nice to say. A really good guy. We'll miss you Robert

February 3, 2011

This is a poem I dedicate to you Robert.
You will be missed, my friend.

In Our Hearts

We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories.
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake.
With which we’ll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in our heart.

Love The Spiller-Mayes Family

Lynn Turner

February 3, 2011

I'll miss seeing Robert on the softball field. It'll be different without him there. My condolences to the Nichols family and all of Robert's friends.

Dawn Kizzar

February 3, 2011

My condolences to the Nicholas family, I'm so sorry for your loss. It isn't going to be the same out there on the ball field without our "Mongoose". Robert, you were a great pitcher, a great hitter, and a great friend! I'm so thankful that Glenn brought all of us together to play ball. I admired you so much for putting up with Nik and Austin. You were always able to rise above their sarcasm and drop that ball on the plate! And I always appreciated how much you cared about my little girl, always asking how she's doing. It showed what a caring, thoughtful, and compassionate man you were. We're going to miss you Robert! God bless you and your family.

Dawn Rimmer

February 3, 2011

Robert, I was so lucky to have had the opportunity to work with you. You started out being my boss, and ended up being my friend. I knew you had my back no matter what, and that I could count on you always. We all miss you so much. I will especially miss your sarcastic sense of humor,(even when it was directed at me!)You had such an impact on the lives of those around you. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God Bless.

Serina Ornelaz

February 3, 2011

My sincere condolences to the Nicholas family. I had the pleasure of meeting Robert a couple of years ago and found him easy to get to know and talk to. We worked together on a "charter team" and I found out what a great sense of humor he had. He will be greatly missed and I am truly sorry for the loss of your wonderful person.

February 3, 2011

My thoughts go out to the Nicholas family. Words can not express the loss of Robert and far too early. My God give put his arms around the family and walk with them in this time of adjustments and uncertainty.

Ray Tallie Rosamond Ca.

Louise & Jesse Zuniga

February 3, 2011

Belinda & Family Our thoughs and prayers for you and your family through this hard time. We have many memories of enjoyment in our hearts of Robert. God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Aunt Louise & Uncle Jesse

Frank Guzman

February 3, 2011

My most sincere condolences to the Nicholas family. Although I only met him once, Robert Sr. mentioned him a lot to me back in the day. Nick and Gloria send me an e-mail, I would like to re-establish contact with you guys again.

Teresa Espinoza

February 3, 2011

Robert, I feel as though I have lost a "Brother" and John a "Son". Our hearts now have an emptiness that cannot be filled. We loved you not only as a co-worker, but as "Familia". Your energy was a force that noone else could match. Not even me! John will miss one of his "Partners in crime". You will never be forgotten, and as long as both John and I are in the Postal Service, employees will know what a great Manager and person you were. You leave a strong legacy of what the word "Loyalty" means....

Jamie Gonzales

February 3, 2011

My condolences go out to Robert's family. May God comfort you during this time of sorrow. GOD BLESS YOU

Kristen Zaragoza

February 3, 2011

I had the opportunity several years ago to transfer back to Bakersfield after commuting for several years. Fortunatly, I was assigned to the Brundage station where Robert was the manager. His good natured attitude made my transition a breeze. Not only was it a pleasure to work for him, it was easy working with him. I have to give him a lot of credit for helping me build a solid career foundation.

He never gave up on trying to recruit me and my husband to play softball. He truly was the office cheerleader. He changed the work environment that surrounded him with a big grin and never missed an opportunity to crack a joke, even when those joke were at my expense. I will miss that.

As I write this, his presence is missed by every employee here and they have all been sharing their own personal experiences over the past several days.

Our deepest sympathy is extended to his wife and children, and I hope they know how much he was loved and appreciated by all of us.

Jessica De Los Santos

February 3, 2011

My thoughts and prayers to Belinda, Alexis, Joel, Uncle Nick and Aunt Gloria. Bobby was a great cousin. When we were younger I idolized him and wished he was my brother. I will miss you Bobby...rest in peace cousin.

Alexis Nicholas

February 3, 2011

I am and forever will be your little girl!!! I miss you very much but I know that you are in a better place!!! It is so nice to see all of your old friends, you have so many!!! Later today will be the beginning of your celebration of life...may you be by moms side. I love you always daddy may you rip...your Alexis baby!!!

Glenn Ryder

February 2, 2011

Roberto, I can't believe you are gone. You were my good friend and I will miss you so much. It's hard for me to picture playing softball with no "Mongoose" on the mound. You were such a big part of my life. You've left a huge hole that I can't possibly fill. I pray that you are with God and I pray golf courses in heaven all play to a huge slice. Goodbye my dear friend.

Alonso Carrasco

February 2, 2011

Sending love and Sympathy to the Nicholas family during this difficult time.

Jim Brouillard

February 2, 2011

For those of you who did not know the business side of Robert I can tell you a few things as I was his boss. In the few years that I worked with Robert I had the opportunity to promote him twice. He worked hard to achieve these promotions. Robert had the desire to be the best and while he pushed his units to new levels of achievement he never did so at the expense of those that worked with or for him.

Aside from being a good manager, Robert was the office cheerleader, a bit of a gossip, and our activity coordinator. Robert was always trying to get us out to play softball, football and various other activities that lead to more than one injury.

I will miss him. I know that those that worked with him will miss him as well. He was a part of our postal family and we all share in the grieving. While we do not know why Robert was called home so soon, you can be assured that he is already organizing his next softball tournament.

JB

February 2, 2011

Robert had the kind of personality that seemed to coinside with everybody. I enjoyed working for him when he was my sipervisor. My sympathy to his wife and kids, friends, and coworkers.
David Rener

David Magallanes

February 2, 2011

My condolences to the Nicholas Family during this most difficult time. I was sadden with the news that Robert had passed way before his time. I remember coaching Robert during All-Stars at Northside Little League. Robert was an outstanding ball player who always gave more than 100% of himself on the playing field. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family members and friends during this most painful time.

Laura Davis

February 2, 2011

I remember you were a really nice guy when i went to carry a swing at your station. you had a smile on your face and seemed like a really cool guy to work with. i will keep you and your family in my prayers; i know you will be protecting and watching over them from heaven. take care and may God carry your family through this painful time.

Carl Moreno

February 2, 2011

My sincere condolences to Robert's familia. I remember Robert from back in the high school days. He made everyone around him....feel good to be around. On the same token, I remember he was very competitive and wouldn't stand down for a valiant reason. God speed Robert!

Jose De Jesus Gonzalez

February 2, 2011

Our condolances to Robert's family. Thank you for placing his high school picture. I was able to pick him out right away. I had the pleaure of meeting him in Fremont Jr High. He was very outstanding and competative athlete. As a teenager, I had the pleasure of playing baseball, basketball with him. These were nice memories. You will be missed. Our prayers will be with you and your family.

Allen Conner

February 2, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to Robert's family. He was a great friend, co worker, ball player & card player.I will miss you deeply...........God Speed.

GINA MEJIA

February 2, 2011

our thoughts and prayers are with you belinda its been a long time but we want to express our condolences to you and your children may peace embrace you during this time. our deepest sympathy, Greg and Gina Mejia

Juanathan and Michele Reyes

February 2, 2011

Our condolances go out to the Nicholas family through this hard time. You will be in our prayers.

Necole De Los Santos

February 2, 2011

I have many childhood memories of you cousin. Its been many years seen Ive seen you, I will miss you. I'll always remember how cool you were in that black trans-am and watching you play football for Oxnard. love you nik

Cherie McKee

February 2, 2011

My condolances to Robert's family. You are in my prayers. He's gonna be missed in so many places.

Ronni Parres

February 2, 2011

Robert I am going to miss you. Thank you for always making me feel like part of the family. I have so many wonderful memories with you and the family, days at the pool, going to Sonic... and just hanging out. I love you, and you are in my thoughts- never to be forgotten.

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