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Robert Tabieros Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Bakersfield Californian.
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Lisa Lopez
May 9, 2008
Hi Bobby,
It's your sis. I've been thinking about you for a while, so I thought it would be a good time to write you. I miss you so much STILL! Now that I've retired, I have more time to think about you. My family has grown--I have a new grandson whose name is Jon Phillip Lopez-Mattheus. Be an angel and watch over him and Christian. Hug and kiss Mom for me, as Mother's Day is this Sunday. Hugs and kisses to you, too, my dear brother. I love you both. Until next time, peace be with you.
Darrell Moon
May 17, 2007
Hi, Bob Just wanted to say Hi!If you ever get out Vegas's way stop in say hi.
Frank Barajas
May 11, 2007
Hey Basketball Head!!!
Its me Football Head!! Your Cousin Frank Barajas. I remember when ever we would see you that is what you would call me is Football head I sure do miss it. Just wanted to drop bye and Say Hi and tell you We all miss you dearly. Love Frank
Cathy Cuadra
March 28, 2007
Hey Bob
Well as of today its been a year since you left us. It's been a hard year for Tina but we are taking care of her. Marissa is getting so big now. Oh my gosh bobby is taking driving lessons. Sorry I haven't been to visit you it's just to hard. But I do think of you and wonder how you are up there. I also have your picture on the wall.
Love ya and miss ya
your adopted daughter
Cathy
Robert Tabieros
March 18, 2007
Hey Dad,
Well Happy Late Birthday Dad, from me (Bubba) Mom, Tina, Marissa, & Elmo. Were really sorry its late, but the computer hasnt been working because of them rebuilding the backroom. But it was really hard having your birthday without you this year. Its going to be really hard in a week because its going to be a year since you went to be in heaven. Well I hope you are doing fine with your mom and dad. Tell them all of us said hello.
But Im starting to drive now. I hope you can see me do a great job. Well I'll write back soon dad, I promise.
I love u!
We all do.
Love, Bubba, Mom, Tina, Marissa, & Elmo.
cathy cuadra
March 7, 2007
Well Happy Birthday Bob. I've been trying to keep tina in a good spirits since its March. She been doing good. Working and of course taking care of your baby girl marissa.
I miss you BOB
Cathy
Terri Olague
March 7, 2007
Happy Birthday Bob,
I bet you are having the biggest birthday celebration ever-I can only imagine how wonderful it must be.
Love you lots,
Terri
Lisa Lopez
March 7, 2007
Happy Heavenly Birthday Bobby,
Yesterday you would have turned the big 5-0. I am so saddened you aren't here with us to give you the biggest hugs and kisses to show you how much you are loved, not to mention a bad rendition of Happy Birthday that would make Elmo run and hide:)
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Tina gave me a copy of the last picture you took and I keep it close--you took a good picture bro! Keep watch over Gloria, Bobby, Tina, Marissa, and of course, Elmo. And,keep the rest of us under your watch, too.
Tell Mom I miss and love her so much. This month is so hard for everyone--March is the month of your birthday, Mom's birthday, and the day the Lord took you. Forever in my heart and thoughts--I miss and love you both.
Lisa
Jane Tabieros
March 7, 2007
Happy Birthday Kuya Bobby
I miss you.
Jane
Robert Tabieros Jr.
January 25, 2007
Hey Dad, I can't believe its almost a year when all of this happened. When March comes, its gonna be really hard for us.
I hope your doing good with your mom and dad. Hey dad, there fixing the backroom and moms bedroom. It really looks nice, but its not finished yet. It was really sad to see your backroom where you used to hang out, get knocked down to a million pieces. But its gonna look like how you used to have it.
I want you to know that I really miss you a lot, so does everyone else. But were just trying to stay strong. Please dad if I ever need any help, can u help me get through it. Just like school, I wasnt doing that good, but now Im trying to do better. I wish you could of seen me during our high school homecoming game. I did the sophomore float and it looked tight. I spent Monday-Thursday working on it 5:00-9:00. We ended up getting 2nd place. I found out yesterday I have another cousin that goes to B.H.S and he's a sophomore too, I never met him before so I guess soon I will. Maybe you can help me to see who he is.
Well Im gonna go now dad, but I'll be back to right to you. I'll never forget you, nobody will.
P.S= Oh we are still taking care of Elmo, and I take naps with him now.
But he will always remember you.
Love you dad.
Love Your Son,
Bobby a.k.a Bubba
Terri Olague
November 30, 2006
Hi Big Brother,
It's me, Terri. I am so sorry that it has taken this long for me to write to you but I am not very good at this kind of thing. This is not to say that I haven't thought about you quite often. Every time I hear a certain song or a funny joke you immediately come to mind.
Funny though, that I do not feel that you are gone, just absent. That is the same way I feel about mom. I am not sure if that makes any sense to you but it is the only way that I can explain it. It is sort of like when one of my students is absent from class. I know that I will see that student again the next day when they are feeling better. In that same way, I know that I will see you, Mom, Joey, Adrian and everyone else who went before me again. So in that sense, you are not gone, just absent.
Bobby, I saw Gloria, Tina, Alfredo, Bobby & Marissa for Thanksgiving. It was so very good to see them. They all look very good and healthy but they carry with them a sadness in their eyes. Brother, pray for them and allow them to feel your presence so that they may continue on with their lives with a lighter heart. They will never forget you nor stop loving you, but I pray that they will suffer and hurt less. I had the opportunity to talk to Bobby for a little while. It sounds like he is doing very good in school. He told us all about his academy and a few of the field trips he has had or is going to take. It is so hard to believe that he and Alex are already sophomores. Amazing! I am sure that you would be so very proud of him. He is quite the young man-a true example of a great upbringing. Tina, Alfredo & Marissa seem to all be doing great. They look very happy together. I missed Marissa in the Fall Festival this year but I got to see her ballet recital at school. As usual, she was as beautiful and graceful as a gazelle.
Bobby, I just felt that I should let you know that I feel so happy and priviledged to be blessed with such a warm and loving family. Thank you, Big Brother, for all the laughs, love, support, and help that you gave to me and my family throughout the years.
I love you very much, brother.
P.S: If I can only ask you for one last favor. Please give Mom and great big hug for me and the kids! Tell her that I love her and I know that she can hear me everyday when I talk to her. Tell her that I feel her all the time and thank her for always being there for me-especially when I feel I need her the most. Also, please let her know that my dad is driving me crazy! But she raised such a loving family that everyone is really pulling through to try to help him. She would be very proud.
P.S.S : I guess I am pretty good at this kind of thing after all :)
Robert Tabieros
November 23, 2006
Hey Dad,
Hey Dad its me Bobby a.k.a Bubba. Im just telling you Happy Thanksgiving from Me, Mom, Tina, Marissa, and Elmo. Today is really hard because its our first Thanksgiving without you. I wish you could be here eating turkey with us. Its gonna be really hard when Christmas comes, because thats a big holiday we celebrate. It was really hard not doing anything for Holloween, you would always dress up and celebrate it. I hope your doing good with grandma and grandpa. I will always love you Dad. Elmo really misses you too.
Love Your Son,
Bobby
Gloria Tabieros
November 20, 2006
Hey Babe,
Babe its been 7 months you left to be with the Angels. Its been so hard for me to write anything all I do is cry and remember the night you left. That night you had family and friends here you were not alone. You left with love surrounding you, we all miss you.
The Holidays are coming. The next couple of months are going to be the hardest. I know that you and God will help us get through the Holidays.
I miss you so much. I miss listening to music with you and buying new movies everytime new releases come out. There's so much I miss all I have is memories and pictures of you.
I remember everytime I saw an elderly couple together, I would tell you, thats us when we get old. Now its not going to happen, we will not grow old together.
I love you and miss you. Pray for us, help us to go on with life. You will always be in my heart.
Love, Gloria
Lisa Lopez
November 11, 2006
Hi Bob,
Gloria gave me, or rather, I asked for some of your shirts so I could still feel close to you. I kept one (the tequila muscle shirt) and gave the other two to Dave. Meri and I saw him with the black one with the zipper in front and he looks so much like you, it's uncanny. As the Thanksgiving holiday approaches, a sadness comes over me, because I miss you so much. As we celebrate the holidays to come, you will be there in our hearts and minds. Watch over mom and please watch over the rest of your family still here. Ask Mom to say a special prayer for Melecio--he really misses her. I love you dear brother. Lisa
Velia Calban
November 10, 2006
Bobby,
Just wanted to say that Bill and I miss you very much.
Love you,
Bill & Velia
Lisa Lopez
July 31, 2006
Hi Brother,
I miss you so much; a part of me is empty. I especially miss your gentleness and humor. When I think of you, it's like I feel your presence and it's comforting. I bet you and Mom are swapping stories about the family and laughing your heads off about all the crazy things we did and said. That's cool, laughter beats pain any day. I love you both and always will. Be our Guardian Angels and watch over the family. Love your sis.
Darrell Moon
July 29, 2006
Hey Bob A thought came to me tonight. The last time we hung out was also the last day and thing I did in Bakersfield. My point being beaware of time, and most important those you choose to spend that with. I'm glad I was there, And most importantly that It was time well spent. I strongly believe that the most important thing to life is the moments. take care bob ,your missed
Cathy Cuadra
June 18, 2006
Bob I just wanted to wish you a Happy Fathers Day.
cathryn cuadra
May 30, 2006
I was just at your house the other having a bbq with everyone except you even though It felt like you were there. We couldnt get Madisyn out of the house. She just kept saying dada and having a conversation with you. They say babies can feel a presence. Well anyways I still think of you everyday and miss you. Oh yeah Marissa and Dominic sat and told stories about the different things they did with you.
Robert Tabieros Jr.
May 28, 2006
Hey dad its me Bobby. I still can't believe your still gone. Its been 2 months without you and its been hard. Sometimes I think it was all a dream because I still think you're here. I hope grandma and grandpa are taking care of you now. I will always love you.
Darrell Moon
May 16, 2006
In the little time I knew Bob we became good friends. And in that little time I feel blessed to have known such a great spirited person. One thing I always liked about Bob is the way he would do things for people not for anything in return, but from the goodness within himself. He was one of honest and real friends I have ever had and he will truely be missed. And to all of he's friends and family I wish you all the best , and God Bless.
Lisa Lopez
April 28, 2006
Bobby, I can't believe it's been a month since your passing. I think about you every day, and I miss you terribly. How lucky I am to have had such a wonderful loving brother in my life. My wish for you and Mom is that you are both healthy in body, mind, and soul in God's Garden. Please ask each family member's Guardian Angel to watch over us and to keep us safe until we meet with you in Heaven. Until then, Love and Hugs to you and Mom.
William Calban
April 6, 2006
From your brother Billy I have so many wonderful memories of us growing up together as brothers. One of my special memories is seeing you losing yourself in music. You once told me that we have something in common which was music. Another memory that I have of you is playing sports that's what made me get involved in sports. Thank you for making my kids feel welcome in time of need. You opened your home to us and I will never forget that. I was glad to see you and your wife Gloria living together so happy. That made me realize that I had another chance in marriage. I was also impressed that in your time of need your friends and family were there for you and spoke on your behalf. By seeing the expressions on there faces I knew that they had love for you in their hearts and even though I did not speak out loud my words were in my heart. I will always miss you.
Your big bother Billy
Mandi
April 6, 2006
Tio Nino Uncle Bob,
It's me, Panda Bear;I miss you so much. I will always remember always tagging along where ever you went. You were more than just a tio and a nino, you were like a father to me. I am so honored and blessed to have had you in my life and share in my life decisions, such as getting married. Having you at my wedding was truely an honor.
I know that Jesusito is keeping you safe and that the both of you are watching over us.
'till the day we see eachother again in Heaven, love you bunches,
Panda Bear
Alina Padilla
April 5, 2006
Hi Bobby,
We miss you very much, but we know you're in a better place now. Even though you're not physically here, you're in our hearts and the wonderful memories of you will always be this us. We miss you deeply.
See you in heaven,
Alina
Meri Lopez
April 5, 2006
Uncle Bobby,
My best memory of you was Tina's costume party when we were both 12. I had such a fun time and I still think I, as the princess, should have won the trophy instead of your Raider. :P You were a good man and you treated people with respect which is why you have so many people that love and care about you.
Thank you for answering my question Monday. Your funeral was beauty and I love and miss you!
Lisa Lopez
April 5, 2006
Bobby, I miss you so much. I miss your smile, your kindness, your unselfishness, and your brotherly love. I say a prayer for you and Mom every day; it helps ease the pain of losing both of you. I will always cherish the memories of you to keep you close to my heart. Being your older sister is a blessing and an honor. When I see a hummingbird, I think of Mom. I'm waiting for a sign of your presence. I will forever love you. Tell Mom I love her, and God bless you both.
Beverly Moland
April 4, 2006
I am truly blessed to have met Robert through my good friend Gloria. I will truly miss his great smile and wonderful sense of humor. May God continue to bless his family with Love and contentment. Much Love to his entire Family!
Jerry Menendez
April 2, 2006
Hey Bob I have so many great memories, for so long we were like brothers, we use to battle on the basketball and tennis courts, and when it was over we were back to being friends. So many family barb'ecues, the Halloween costume parties and just kicking back listening to music. I will never forget, thank you Bro.
cathy cuadra
April 2, 2006
Bob I loved you like a father. I know you are in a better place now. Rest in Peace.
Cathy
Ida Bascon
April 1, 2006
We love you brother. Miss you!
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