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for John Burke
Debbie Meekins
October 14, 2005
... These 3 years have passed so painfully. It still seems impossible that you are not here, that I won’t see you again. Though, sometimes I do see you – in a dream or a memory or the times when Kevin looks and acts so much like you. Those moments lift my spirits. You may be gone physically, but you are still a central part of my life and always in my thoughts. I think about you every minute of the day, just as I did when you were here, just as I do Bridget and Kevin. That’s what a mother does. I will always be Jake’s mom. No one can take that away, and no one can take away how much you loved me too. Every day, I read the picture you once gave me about being important in the life of a child, and I think to myself - does it still count if that child dies? In my weaker moments, I doubt myself and I cry. In my stronger moments, I like to think love lives on forever and still I cry. ...
Debbie Meekins
October 14, 2005
...There was so much love, joy, and happiness, mixed in with the deep sadness of your loss. Bridget was surrounded by every single person she loves and every single person in her life who loves her. All those who played a part in helping her get to this point were there to celebrate and rejoice in this wonderful day. The fact that we could find such happiness through the dark shrouds of grief is only because of the deep love we have shared as a family and our belief that you are just as happy for us. That Bridget could find such a good man who respects and loves her is a testament to the deep and lasting bond that she has had with her brothers...
Debbie Meekins
October 14, 2005
...There was a moment, when we were waiting to walk down the aisle. Phil had gone to check on something, and it was just Bridget, Kevin, and me, standing together. As I watched everyone else walk down the aisle, I was suddenly overwhelmed by the strength of your presence. I could feel you there and it felt exactly like when it was the 4 of us together - us against the world, struggling, and somehow surviving against insurmountable odds. No one can ever really know what it took to get to this day - the sacrifices made, the pain suffered, the unwavering perseverance, the truly almost superhuman strength. I felt you there with us, and I started to cry. Kevin made a joke to get me to stop. You would have been so proud of him. Your little brother stood in for you so well. As he and Bridget started to walk down the aisle, he squeezed her hand and said “I love you, Ber.” She cried the whole way down, but never lost her smile...
Debbie Meekins
October 14, 2005
Jake, we missed you so much at Bridget’s wedding. You were there in our hearts, though. Bridget was stunningly beautiful. She could have been in a magazine. It was not just the gorgeous dress and veil and hair – it was that she was simply glowing. She radiated happiness and joy. She and Frank are so obviously in love and perfect for each other. He went to such lengths to make sure everything was just right for her. You would like him so much...
Bridget Kinnier
October 13, 2005
... I will never stop missing you. I miss talking to you on the phone. I miss having you come visit me, for the weekend or just for a day. I miss pulling in to Lincoln Woods looking to see if your car was there. I miss begging you to turn the music down when we went for rides. I miss hopping in the car and going to the mall, just because. I miss going to the movies or getting food from Casa Mia’s when we got home from Rita’s. I miss hearing your stories and gossip. I miss the boy who I would drag to the mall with me to help me decide which outfit to buy. I miss seeing your face when you saw the jacket that I wanted so badly. And you offered to buy it for me just because. I just miss you more than most people can even imagine.
I love you so much. And I am always thinking about you. Keep watching over us. I love you!
Love, Bridget
Bridget Kinnier
October 13, 2005
... We had it pretty rough there for a while. But Mom, you, Kevin, and me were always there for each other. I have never seen another family half as close as ours. Most families don’t have to go through what we did. They don’t have to constantly live in fear. But you were the protector. From “protecting” me from boys at Penn State, to going outside with a baseball bat or lacrosse stick when there was someone trying to break into the apartment, as was a common occurrence. That’s what made us so close. Phil put it best when he said that the 4 of us were a team. That’s why it meant so much to me to have Kevin walk me down the aisle. You would be so proud of him. He has grown up to be so much like you. ...
Bridget Kinnier
October 12, 2005
Kevin walked me down the aisle and gave me away. Jake, you would be so proud of him. He has grown up so much. He is so handsome and so strong. He has been through so much, but is still sweet and kind. He reminds of you in so many ways. Right before we walked down the aisle, Kevin squeezed my hand and said, “I love you Ber.” He didn’t let go the entire walk down the aisle. I know you were there with us.
Teri Howard
October 12, 2005
It's been three years yesterday since you've been gone. I must say there hasn't been a day that went by that I don't think about you. You were always like my big brother. Always there when the people you cared about needed you, and I know you still are. I will never forget about all the great memories we shared. I miss you.. You will always be in our hearts..
Bridget Kinnier
October 12, 2005
On our second date he told me that his birthday was October 11th. I knew you were trying to get my attention. And Jake, it’s just like you said. “First long kiss on a second date.” Frank once asked me if I thought you would have liked him or approved of him. I know that you would have loved him. I feel like you handpicked him for me.
Bridget Kinnier
October 12, 2005
Dear Jake,
I can’t believe you’ve been gone almost three years now. There are so many days that I don’t even believe you’re really gone. Is that strange? I don’t know. I still can’t handle the thought of you not being here. I still push it as far out of my head as possible. I think about you all of the time. But I think about you like you’re here.
I married a wonderful man today. A man so perfect for me, that I have no idea how I found him. He is thoughtful, caring, and would do anything to protect me. In that way he reminds me so much of you. He treats me the way you’re supposed to treat somebody that you love. He really loves me. I never believed in a million years that I would be able to find someone half as wonderful as him. Until I met him, I never imagined that two people could have so much in common.
nancy gibson
October 11, 2005
Dear Jake, I can't believe where the time has gone,it seems impossible that we lost you 3 years ago today. I'll never forget that morning I got the phonecall from your mother,I just started screaming. Jessie was so little ,she started crying when she saw me cry. We all rushed to get to be with you and your mom,bridge,and kev. because that's what our family always does. We support and love each other unconditionally. And you know how much I loved you. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. You are in my heart forever. I am so glad that Bill was able to meet you that one time at Nana's party, but am sad that you were taken away, because I believe that you's would of became close. it's ironic,the picture of us at nana's, you are in the back sitting behind us.OUR GUARDIAN ANGEL!!! All my love, Aunt Nancy xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Linda Fausnet
October 11, 2005
I know Jake feels the love of his family and friends now more than ever, and knows how much his mom and siblings miss him, especially today. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Wishing you all peace and comfort.
John Burke
October 6, 2005
Hi Jake,
Hard to believe that Tuesday will be the third anniversary of losing you. I start psyching myself out towards the middle of September each year and pray that October will pass quickly and quietly. October just isn't our month with losing you and Rick. I pray that we never get a late night or early morning phone call ever. There are times that I turn my phone off just so that won't ever happen again.
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't feel you rush through me. I get so emotional some time when a friend of yours stops by the store. They cry and laugh at the same time. They cry because of how well you treated them and loved them. They laugh at the stupid stuff you used to do or the times that you were just being "Jake". They tell me of how you were with them and how much you meant to them. It's nice when they hug me and tell me something about you that I did not know. That makes me laugh and cry at the same time. When someone passes the Jeep and gives me the "thumbs up" with what is printed on the spare, I get chills and smile with pride. You have always made me proud Jake. You are my hero son.
I take your day off each year Jake. I will celebrate your life with family and friends. I can guarantee that there will not be a dry eye among us.
Rest easy and peacefully Jake. I feel your sprirt every day of my life. You are loved and missed each and every day.
Always with my love,
Dad
Joyce Wild
August 8, 2005
Jake, I did not know you, never heard your name. I met a man, and learned of this unfathomable tragedy in his life. I get glimpes of who you were. Much more than a son...a tremendous piece of this man's heart. I know that you are dearly loved and missed. I pray that you watch over this man...maybe lighten his heart when those incredibly dark times overtake him. You are never more than a thought away.
Debbie Meekins
March 15, 2005
Beware the Ides of March, Jake. I will always remember that. You got a prize at school from your 3rd grade teacher because you knew what the Ides of March was about. I was so proud of you for remembering - I had told you a few years before on one of the nights that you went with me to do papers. You were just a little kid. Remember how we used to talk? I loved bringing you kids with me. Then, after it got more dangerous, I tried not to bring you. But one of you were so often waiting up for me, begging to go. It was a special time together and one of the reasons we are so close, I believe. I love Bridget, you, and Kevin so much - that will never change.
Kevin is 20 now. He is older than you will ever be. He sometimes looks and acts so much like you. It is almost like you are here. It was so difficult the day he turned 20. All I could remember is how you two would fight and wrestle and you always beat him and lorded it over him. You protected him too, though, and always stood by him and watched out for him. It's just not fair that I can't see you a little bit older and see how you would turn out. See what you would do with your life. By now, you might have found the direction that your life would take. By now, you might have found a girl who would love you. Even if not, I know you would have been okay. I know that. How? One day I brought you down some money and a plate of dinner from Phil's. When I got back, Phil told me how you called and thanked him for the dinner and said how good it was. That was just plain nice. What 19 year old boy thinks to do that, especially at that painful time of your life? You were funny and nice and hardheaded and stubborn and personable and smart and loyal and easily frustrated and generous and laidback and lazy and quick to anger and quick to give the shirt off your back.
How did this happen to us? I still can't believe that I won't see you today, that you are not here. I dread the day that it sinks in. I dread the day that I know that you are gone. I dread the day when you are just a memory of a happier time. I dread the day when I can't even imagine you in our family because everyone else is older and the image of you doesn't fit in because you are still a teenager. It doesn't hurt as badly all of the time, though there are times when I am thrown back into that pit of despair and I wonder how will I make it out this time. It is a struggle everyday. I wonder how did I live through those days when that unbearable pain never stopped, even for a minute. Now, there are moments of peace and happiness, and I am grateful for them and the fact that I did not kill myself to escape the constant pain. And so scared that I could lose everything again. How do people live with this fear? I admonish Kevin to be sure not to drink and drive when he goes out, but I know that you don't have to drive drunk to die - you don't have to be driving to die. I know that I could be sleeping and someone I love could be laying in the highway dying, and I could wake up tomorrow and the whole world will be different.
Anyway, it is the Ides of March, and I wish you were here. Et tu, Brutus.
Love you,
Mom
John Burke
January 19, 2005
Happy Birthday Jake! There isn't a day/hour/minute that I don't think about you. I have you safely in my heart always. I will love you forever Jake.
Love, Dad
John Burke
December 22, 2004
With tiny lights, like heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear so many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare with Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you the joy the voices bring
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me; I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not far away, we are really not apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear
And I am glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gif from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most imoportant in the stories that Christ told.
Please love and keep each other as my Father said to do. For I can't count the blessings or love he has for you. So have a merry Christmas and wipe away the tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
John Burke
October 20, 2004
Now that I am gone,
Remember me with smiles and laughter. And if you need to cry, cry with your brother or sister who walks in grief beside you. And when you need me, put your arms around anyone and give them what you need to give me. There are so many who need so much. I want to leave you something.....something much better than words or sounds. Look for me in the people I've known or helped in some special way. Let me live in your heart as well as in your mind. You can love me most by letting your love reach out to our loved ones, by embracing them and living in their love. Love does not die, people do. So when all that's left of me is love, give me away as best you can.
"author unknown"
Debbie Burke
September 23, 2004
BRIDGET’S EULOGY FOR JAKE – October 16, 2002
I’ve always thought of you, Jake, as more than a brother. Throughout our lives, we’ve been through so many rough times. It seemed that we were forced to overcome obstacle after obstacle. I wouldn’t trade a second of it for the world, though.
The difficulties that we had to face just made our family that much closer and our bond that much stronger. We couldn’t have done it without each other.
I am sad for the people who will never know the kind of relationship that we had. We were so lucky to have had it – even if it could only last for nineteen years. And the horrible pain and hurt that I feel now help to remind me how much we loved each other. And how lucky I am to have had you as not only my brother, but also as one of my best friends.
Throughout it all Jake, you were always there to protect us; whenever and wherever we needed it. I know that won’t change. I know you’ll be watching down on us and protecting us as long as we live.
You will live on in my heart forever. I have enough memories to last a lifetime. I will see you in every trip to the mall, every visit to the movies, every time I go out to eat, every time I see a car with the music just a little too loud, and every time I even look in the mirror. Thank you for being there whenever I needed you. Thank you for being such a great friend and brother, and thank you for just being my Jakey. I will love you forever.
Linda Fausnet
July 20, 2004
His Journey’s Just Begun
Don’t think of him as gone away
His journey’s just begun
His life holds many facets
This earth is only one
Just think of him as resting
From the sorrow and the tears
Think of how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved so much
Linda Fausnet
May 5, 2004
For Debbie for Mother's Day:
God Bless the Grieving Mother
God bless the grieving mother...
In January as the snow flakes fall...
And as a new year dawns...
For her memories will comfort her...
Through winter, spring, summer, and fall.
God bless the grieving mother...
In February during the month of love...
She sends her hugs..on the wings of a dove...
And her kisses are blown to the moon above.
God bless the grieving mother...
In March and on St Patricks Day...
A beautiful rainbow...a symbol of hope...
Which colors her world..in a magical way.
God bless the grieving mother...
On Easter In April as she stops to pray...
Thanking God for the gift of everlasting life...
Knowing she will be reunited someday.
God bless the grieving mother...
On Mothers Day and thru the month of May...
Whose memories are like threads of gold...
For they will never tarnish....or go away.
God bless the Grieving mother...
In June as her tears fall like the rain...
Please comfort her...and give her strength
and peaceful days to help ease the pain.
God bless the grieving mother...
In July as the fireworks light up the sky afar...
Just like her memories light up her heart...
And she wishes upon an evening star.
God bless the grieving mother...
In August...as the sun shines through...
Who's life moves on...thru ups and downs..
Whose heart is so tender and true.
God bless the grieving mother...
In September as the leaves turn and fall...
Her childs life forever etched in her heart..
Her childs name entered on the memorial wall.
God bless the grieving mother...
In October...with the harvest colors all around....
Please guide her on her journey of grief...
and keep her safe and sound.
God bless the grieving mother...
In November...a time to give thanks and pray...
Who is so thankful for each precious memory..
But wishes with all her heart...just for one more day
God bless the grieving mother...
In December as Christmas nears...
Please bless her with the gift of peace...
And many great friends to help dry her tears.
God bless the grieving mother...
Each day throughout the year...
As seasons come and go...
And time unfolds...
Day by day...
Month by month...
Year by year...
and especially today...on this Mother's day.
Copyright. Used with Permission.
Heavenly Lights Children's Memorial
Sweet dreams, Dream of me
April 20, 2004
John Burke
April 18, 2004
On Sunday, April 18, 2004, the Transplant Resource Center of Maryland held a "Ceremony of Remembrance". The ceremony was to honor those who gave the gift of life. A certificate of appreciation was presented in honor of Jake from Richard Carmona, the United States Surgeon General.
At this ceremony, there were almost 300 family members of donor families as well as several recipients and their familes. What a wonderful way to honor those who have donated organs/skin/veins to save the lives of others. It was a very touching experience, meeting others who have gone through the same tragedy that all of us who love Jake went through. Many of those who I talked with all felt pretty much the same. That they had absolutely no regrets of allowing the donations to occur. Seeing others who are recipients and hearing how grateful they are was very moving. All the donor families were presented with a tree seedling to plant in honor of their loved one.
To the memory of all who were donors:
At the rising of the sun and its going down....we remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter....we remember them.
At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring....we remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer....we remember them.
At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn....we remember them.
At the begining of the year and when it ends....we remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as....we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength....we remember them.
When we are lost and sick of heart....we remember them.
When we have joy we crave to share....we remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make....we remember them.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs....we remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as....we remember them.
There was also slide presentation of all the donors and the date of their donation. Debbie had provided the TRC with a beautiful picture of Jake that I had not seen before. God.....he was so handsome( I know, I'm biased).
Thanks to all of you who keep Debbie, Bridget, Kevin, me and especially Jake in your thoughts and prayers.
"PEACE"
John Adams
February 16, 2004
To The Burke Family,
Jake's spirit and the many gifts he left behind will live on.
May God Bless!
John Adams and Family
John Burke
January 22, 2004
As many of you know, January 19th was Jake's 21st birthday. This was such a special day for me as a father. It is the time when a son truly passes from being a boy to a man. It is a time when a father wants to share so much with his son and beems with pride to see the man that his son has become. I have been so proud of him from day one. It didn't matter to me wether he was 4 or 5, 12 or 15. It would never have mattered to me. I will always be proud of him and will always honor his memory. He truly became a man long before his 21st birthday.
I look back at moments in his precious, short life and love fills my heart. Seeing him play lacrosse or football, watching him dance, hearing him laugh at a stupid joke I told or even just having him coming over and have dinner with me are monents that I will forever cherish. I can remember him asking me questions about shaving. "Dad, do you see my mustache?" I would ask him to show me. When he first started dating and he would share with me (to and extent) his experiences. These are moments that a father will never, ever forget. When he got his tatoo and he asked me not to tell his mom. He showed me his "shamrock" and I told him it looked like a pot leaf. That floored him. He was so proud of his Irish heritage and his family and friends.
I look back again at such a tragedy and try to focus on all the good that came out of this. It's hard to remember the lives he saved when I can't reach out and hug him. I feel his spirit go thru me every day of my life. It's rare when I miss spending an hour with him at Dulaney on a Sunday. It's my way of grieving and hoping for a better future.
I am truly honored that so many of you continue to honor Jake's memory. Keep it alive and don't ever forget the kind of person that he was. He would not have forgotten any one of us.
So "Happy Birthday" my son. You are truly loved and missed each and every day. Your birthday will always be such a special day for me. I love you Jake.
Dad
January 20, 2004
Happy Birthday, Jake. I hope someone bought you a beer from me in heaven.
January 19, 2004
Happy Birthday Jake.
Linda Fausnet
January 19, 2004
For Jake, and his family and friends, on his birthday:
On this special day, you are no longer
with us, but your presence is felt today in so many
ways.
Your voice is quiet, but your
spirit is strong.
You showed us so much love when you were here,
we feel your presence and we share our tears.
The love you gave us we still feel in our hearts.
You're not with us and it's tearing us apart.
Yes, we know you're in a better place,
but it's still hard because we miss your face.
You rest in peace and know we still care
and there will come a time when we'll see
you there.
We Love You and We Honor You Today and Every Day.
Debbie Burke
November 4, 2003
A year later -
How do you feel after a year of grief over the death of your child? Basically, you are shocked that you are still alive. It is impossible to believe that anyone can live through such pain and for so long. You know that you have survived what will be the worst thing to ever happen to you. You hope that it can only get better from here on, although you still feel so hurt and sad all the time. You know that compared to the first few months of intense, severe pain, it is better, but that does not lessen the pain you are still feeling. It is like the worst toothache you ever had, such as a dry socket; or the worst headache you ever had, like a migraine; or the worst stomach pains you ever had, like labor pains. It is constant and always there, even though you have to pretend that it is not. Your chest hurts so badly, but you don’t remember how it used to feel not to have that pain in it. You are exhausted. You are still not sleeping well, and grief is tiring. The world is still so gray --though, finally, once in a while, you are seeing the sunrise or moon and are able to think, "Oh, that’s pretty." You may find something to distract you from the constant pain, such as work, religion, other children, alcohol, etc., but the pain is still there. You start to feel a few stirrings of love or happiness in your heart. But they don't feel like they did before. Now, oddly, even the feelings of joy hurt like someone is stabbing you in the chest. You are irritable, of course - you have a thorn in your paw, like the fabled lion. You feel like snapping at people, but now you know that your last words to someone might really BE your last words to someone. You are always on the verge of tears - you have no idea of what will make you cry today. You can’t complain about it. What happens if you tell someone that you have a toothache? They tell you to go to the dentist. If you tell someone, that you have headache, they will ask you if you took an aspirin. There’s nothing anyone can give you for this. The only thing that will take it away is to accept the fact that your child is dead and learn to live your life without him. While it may seem that fact might sink in after a year, it is strangely not true. No matter the age of your child, you invest so much of yourself in him / her. S/he is so intensely the focus of your thoughts, plans, dreams, hopes, and fears that it is impossible to believe that it is all gone. It is tough to realize that life will never again be perfect. There will never be a purely happy day again. You know the only way to really move on is to let him go. But as long as you think about him, he will still be here a little. Letting go would be like letting him die again. A year is not long enough for that.
That all might sound too depressing, but it is actually hopeful. You know that there is only one way to go from here - up. You made it through somehow, and nothing in this world can be worse than the past year. I'm actually pretty proud of myself for getting this far. I really miss that boy.
Debbie
Matthew Smith-Farrell, Transplant Resource Center of MD, Family Advocate
August 11, 2003
I never had the good fortune of meeting Jake, but I did have the profound honor of working with his family and friends on that terrible day in the hospital.
As a member of the team that makes organ and tissue transplant possible, I have had the chance to see families who, on the most horrible day they have ever experienced, are moved to act in the most wonderful way we human beings know: to give the gift of life. Jake and his family were those kind of people.
I cannot imagine anything can make up for the terrible loss that so many people experienced when someone as full of life as Jake passes from their midst. I do hope, however, that those who knew and loved Jake and experienced the strength of his spirit firsthand may take consolation in the fact that his vitality lives on in those to whom he has given so much.
There are people in this world who make a difference. Jake is such a man.
With the Deepest Respect,
Peggy Mummert
August 9, 2003
Dear Jake. August 9,2003
I never got to meet you in person. But I know you were a special young man. Your family and friends, loved you greatly. Your Father has told us many great things about you. I know that you were not selfish person because as a young man of sixteen years old you chose to become a organ donor and give others a chance to live.
Jake, my Father William (Bill) Wherley would have died in a weeks or maybe days if it wasn't for your thoughtfulness to be an organ donor.
My dad is the joy in our family. We went on vacation with them for 11 years in a row last year we had to cut it short he got so weak we had to bring him home and put him in the hospital. This year he made up for THE 2 YEARS HE missed out on. He was able to go to the beach and out to eat. It was great to have my Dad back!!!
Jake, I even got him dancing in the kitchen with my 2 year niece. Your dad said, "watch out if he starts doing the worm" you broke your front teeth.
He is still eating ice cream and pancakes. In fact he has gained back 90 pounds. He looks great and feels great!!!
Dad is going to get to meet my new baby Grandson who will arrive here
sometime Sept. This means a great deal to me.
Jake, I can never say or show how much I appreciate what you have done. Your liver is working 105%. Dad is back to normal in ever way!!
Jake's, family I thank you for raising a son who was so willing to give to others. You are loved!
Peggy Mummert ( Bill's daughter)
Dee Craven
August 8, 2003
Uncle John,
I wanted to let you know how sorry I am about Jake, as a child, he was my best friend. I was looking at home movies last night & one really brought a tear to my eye. We were playing red light, green light. Jake insisted on being the winner & you just kept taking 1 step farther as Jake got closer & closer to you. I remember it like it was yesterday. As I sat & watched this last night I just kept thinking that this was all a nitemare. I wonder why this happened, but I wasn't there when God hung the stars in the skies or filled the oceans. All I do know is that I love you very much and whatever happens Jake is watching over everyone who loves him. You are in my thoughts day & night.
Love Always,
Dee
Ginger Walls
August 7, 2003
John,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Your friend,
Ginger
John Burke
August 4, 2003
I am very pleased to announce that a memorial scholarship fund has been established in Jake's name at Loch Raven High School. Mr. Keith Harmeyer, Principal, has gracioulsy accepted the postion of administrator for this scholarship fund. The scholarship is open to any Loch Raven High School senior who will attend college in the fall. The senior may be male or female and must have participated in at least two school functions, either sports, band, theatre or some other school santioned function. The recepient shall receive their monetary scholarship at the awards ceremony prior to graduation. If you are interested in contributing to this scholarship, please send your contribution to:
THE JAKE BURKE MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP
c/o Loch Raven High School
1212 Cowpens Ave.
Baltimore, Md. 21286
Attention: Mr.Keith Harmeyer,
Principal
The High School will kindly provide you with a receipt for any donation that you make so that you will have it for tax purposes.
I have so many emotions about all this as you never, not in a million years, think that you will be doing something like this for the memory of your own child. I encourage you all to give what you can so that the memory of Jake will forever live on in the hearts and souls of those who love him. Thank you all, for being so supportive and loving to our family.
John Burke
1643 Yakona Rd.
Towson, Md. 21286
443-829-2796
Tom Hedges
June 8, 2003
John, I want you to know that I think about you, this tragic event in the life of your family, and know your heart still aches.
May the saddest day of your future be no worse
Than the happiest day of your past.
An Irish Blessing
God bless you, John Burke,
Tom
Linda Fausnet
May 25, 2003
I found a few poems that seemed appropriate for Memorial Day. God Bless, Jake. (and try to help stop all this rain, could you? Your Mom needs some sunshine :)
Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way that you always used.
Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well.
Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)
Canon of St. Paul’s Cathedral
Memorial Poem
We do not need a special day to bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake we know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache as we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness and secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you no one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you, your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly; in death we love you still.
There will always to be a heartache, and often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory of the days when you were here.
If tears would make a staircase, and heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven and bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts; and there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
...Author Unknown
michael patrick
April 10, 2003
Dear Jake,
Friday is six months since we crashed and my 22nd bday. the sad thing is i dont want to celebrate with the guys wthout you. it isnt the same. me and eric think about you all the time and how you got the last laugh when i passed out on your couch. you mean so much to us bro. we are still like brothers and alway will be. erics car is almost done and friday we are coming up to see you so dont get my car stuck or play any pranks on us. me and gia brke up but i found me a new hottie you would be proud( A game) well until the next time we meet you will alwas be on my mind and in my prayers. we will ride again its just amatter of time. save me a cold one
love always bro
mike
John Burke
April 8, 2003
My Dear Jake,
Friday, April 11, will be exactly six months since you left us. The pain we all have since you left has been overwhelming. We miss you each and every day son. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't feel your spirit rush through me. I think of all the possibilities that I will never have to share with you again and I try to pick myself up back off of the ground. Even though it will be six months, it feels like yesterday since I held your hand and kissed your cheek last. There are times when my mind lets me see you with Bridget and Kevin, playing on the lacrosse field, working on your car, playing football, dancing or just being yourself. These times and memories that I have will always stay in my heart and hopefully allow me to face the future without you here.
The english languish has words for people who lose their parents, orphan, it has a word for someone who loses a spouse, widow, but it does not have a word to describe the undescribeable pain for somone who loses a child.
Even though my pain will last me to my last breath, I can't even begin to tell you how proud of you I am. To make such an unselfish donation of your organs/skin/vein so that others may live makes me stand tall. I am always telling others about you and how proud I am. It's your gift that has become your legacy.I hope to one day be half the man that you are.
I love you Jake. I miss miss you and one day will be able to see that smile of yours. God bless my son and know that you are loved now and forever.
Forever loving you and missing you Jake.
Dad
Linda Fausnet
February 24, 2003
Dear Debbie,
I saw this poem and thought of you:
"I'll lend you for a little time
A child of mine," He said,
"For you to love the while he lives
And mourn for when he is dead.
"It may be six or seven years,
Or twenty-two or three;
But will you, 'til I call him back
Take care of him for me?
"He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
"I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return;
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
"I've looked the wide world over
In search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes
I have selected you.
"Now will you give him all your love
Nor think the labor vain;
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?"
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, Thy Will be done!
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
"We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
"But shall the Angels call for him
Much sooner then we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
Edgar A. Guest
John Burke
January 17, 2003
Hi Jake,
Sunday is your birthday and I just had to write something from my heart. While Thanksgiving and Christmas were tough without you here, your birthday hits me so much harder. It so personal to me because it involves just you, me, our family and our friends. Even though it has been just three short months since you left, I feel like it happened just yesterday. There is not a week, a day, an hour, or minute that goes by that I don't think of you. You were my first born son and my namesake. I can still picture you so fresh in my mind when mom and I first held you almost twenty years ago. January 19th is your birthday, it was your birthday and will always be your birthday. You made me so proud of you in life and even prouder by giving the gift of life to so many others. Your legacy will always live strong and forever in my heart. You touched so many lives in such a short life. I have a void in my heart that will never heal.
" A butterfly lights beside us
like a sunbeam
And for a brief moment
its Glory and Beauty
belong to our world
But then it flies on again
and though we wish
it could have stayed,
We feel so lucky
to have seen it".
Unknown
Happy Birthday Jake! I will love you and honor your memory for eternity.
Love Dad.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory that no one can steal.
Debbie Burke
November 29, 2002
I wanted to share with you a portion of the letter from the man, who received Jake's liver. He lives in PA and has 7 grandchildren and one great-grandchild. He had been ill for two years.
"My last few weeks before my transplant were very hard for me. I could not eat the foods I enjoyed or do the things I loved. I lost 123 pounds before my transplant. I only had weeks to live. There were times I wished I would go to sleep and never wake up because I felt so sick. But my faith and family helped me to keep on fighting.
When the phone rang and it was the hospital stating they had a liver for me, my family was so excited. However, when we heard it was the liver of a nineteen-year-old young man, we cried for your son. Our grandson is also nineteen. We knew your loss was great; however, always remember a part of your son will live on in me. Thank you for the gift of life!
The recipient is doing well after the transplant. Please also keep him, and the others, in your prayers.
Denise Cappella
November 13, 2002
Jake,
God smiled the day you were born...I know this, so it doesn't surprise me that he would want you back with him. It's seems so unfair that we are left without you. We had such a short time with you...
You are loved...and will be missed every day of our lives...Please watch over your cousins...
Until we can be together again,
All my love,
Your Godmother,
Aunt Denise
p.s. Save us a table in the back...
Kevin Burke
November 12, 2002
Jake,
It's already been a month. Where do I even begin? We've had some great times, it hurts so much to say that we'll never have any more.
Every time I get in a car I know I'm gonna kick myself for not letting you teach me how to drive a 5 speed. Or not listening when you talked about Turbos for hours. And I'll know how angry you'll be when I have someone else change my oil for me.
Whenever my hair grows long and I need to go for a cut, I'm going to remember that one time someone set us up for The Question. I'll remember how big and excited your eyes got, and then how sad when I said "Yeah".
I'll always remember our wrestling matches. How you always said no matter how big I'd ever get, I'd never beat you.
I'll remember the good times, and the bad. But I think I'll remember the good a little bit more.
All that I've done my whole life, I've done it to make you proud of me. You are my big brother, and every kid brother wants to make his big brother proud of him. Not his mom, or his sister. His big brother. I'll still try to make you proud of me. I love you Jake. I always will.
Phyllis Harris-Huff
October 29, 2002
Debbie, Bridget, Kevin, & John,
I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to write something or not. Jake was/is so special and such an important part of my life, I just wasn't sure whether I was willing to share that with other people. But, because he was so special to me I am going to try this.
None of us will ever forget Jake or whom he was. None of us will ever forget all the special times and memories we have of Jake. What we all have to remember is "what would Jake want of us now?"
Debbie, I love you like a sister and I would do anything in my power to take this pain from you.
Bridget and Kevin, I have never lost a brother and I can't even begin to tell you how it must feel or what is right. Listen to your heart. Jake is there and he will lead you!!!
One of the last things Jake said to me was "Ms. Phyllis, you always take such good care of us. I love you too". I wish I could have done a better job of that. "I love you too, Jake".
My family and I will begin to adjust to life now, but we will NEVER forget you Jake and we thank you for allowing us to have a part in your life.
Debbie, I love you and I am here for you ALWAYS!!!
Love,
Phyllis
EVELYN Tucker
October 28, 2002
John, all the family and Jakes friends. We are sending our love to you all in this time of sorrow. Our prayers for you will continue. God Bless you all, GOD BLESS JAKE Evelyn, James and Joseph Tucker
Nancy Eayre
October 25, 2002
My dearest Jake,
I miss you so much. our family will never be the same again, but the love we have for one another and all the wonderful memories that we shared will last us a lifetime and nothing or no one can take that away. you have brought so much joy to our lives. I love you very much !!
Aunt Nancy
Debbie Burke
October 24, 2002
I would like to thank the great many family members and friends, who have offered their heartfelt support and generosity in this grievous time. It has amazed and eased our burden to see how many people truly cared about Jake and how many lives he touched in his own short life. Special thanks to my parents, my sisters, nieces and nephew, the Harris-Huff-Vedral’s, and Phil Meekins, without whom I don’t know if I would have had the strength to make it through this ordeal.
It is impossible to believe that we will never see Jake again. Surely, this horrendous pain will subside, and we will be able to hold on to our wonderful memories of him. Although it seemed as though I was always nagging him, I pray that he knew just how proud of him I really was. I was proud of his personable nature, his politeness to his friends’ parents, how he could carry on a conversation with anyone (even the Mayor!), how funny he was, how confident he could pretend to be, how loving he was, even his temper, because he never backed down from me. I was proud of how, although he hated being poor, he never once complained, never once made me feel like a horrible mother because there were no Christmas or birthday gifts, vacations, or new shoes. He hated getting up to deliver papers, but he always did it. He always supported his family and helped put his sister through school. We were a team, and I could not have survived the hardships of our daily life without him. He once said that the song, “Perfect Love”, reminded him of our family. That says it all.
There will always be an empty hole in our hearts. The bond that we have as a family can never be broken, forgotten, or replaced. I will always remember my little ET; my little jinx; my graceful dancer; my football player, who was always on a losing team; my boy, who loved to party, my boy, who could eat 14 ¾ pancakes; my boy, who couldn’t drive the speed limit; my protector; my helper; my friend; my beautiful young man; my “THAT BOY”.
Good night, my Jakey. Sweet dreams. Dream of me. I love you. I won’t say remember to say your prayers because you are with God now, and He will keep you safe until I can be with you again.
Love forever,
Marmee
Angela Schultz
October 23, 2002
Jake,
I don't really know where exactly to start. When I heard the news that you were gone, it was devastating. You were always such a good friend and one of the few people who I could trust with everything. Not to mention, you always made me laugh. It was amazing the way you could just liven up a room. I'll miss your jokes, your sincerity, and your random visits to College Park. Thanks for all of the memories. My deepest condolences go out to the family.
Erica Dellis
October 22, 2002
After receiving a phone call from a friend, I didn't want to believe any of this. About a month ago, I saw Jake at the store where I worked. It was such a surprise b/c I hadn't seen him since we stopped dancing. I remember all of the fun we used to have at ballet, my pool parties, and the time we messed up on a lift and I fell on my head at Westview Mall. Even though we lost touch over the years, he is someone I never forgot and someone I will always remember. God Bless Jake's family during this difficult time. My family's prayers are with you.
Anne Borys
October 22, 2002
Bridget and Family,
I'm so so sorry to hear about Jake. I know there are no words to express what you are going through right now. I loved hearing stories about Jake and he will live on forever through those stories. Just take things day by day and time will help ease the pain. I'm praying for you.
Rachael Beecy
October 22, 2002
It's been about a year since I've seen Jake, but it seems like yesterday when we were being silly as ever at Rita's. Because of Jake, I always looked forward to coming to work and seeing a smile on his face and hearing his laugh, in which I could never forget.
After Rita's I would be so happy to hear from Jake..because he was just one of those people who stuck in my heart.
I think about you, Jake, everyday...and I promise when I meet you in heaven, we will go dancing in the clubs like I promised!I hope you know that you meant a lot to me.
You will always be in my prayers..and my love, heart and prayers goes out to his family.
-Rachael-
Norma Mckinney
October 22, 2002
John and Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Be strong and of good courage;be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.(Joshua 1:9)
Cathy Ryan
October 22, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I pray that you can find God in your friends and loved ones and that in time you are able to think of Jake's life with warmth and laughter.
Barbara Lough
October 22, 2002
John and family,
May God's presence ease your trembling spirit and give you rest. He is there to cast sunlight into all of your darkened shadows, to send encouragement through the love of friends and family, and to replace your weariness with new hope. Please don’t hesitate to call upon your friends and family ANYTIME so that we may try to help ease your pain no matter how futile our attempt.
My thoughts, prayers, strength, friendship and love are being sent to you always.
Gina Dell'Uomo
October 21, 2002
Bridget, Kevin and Miss Debbie,
After all that you have endured as a family, you are the last people I can imagine who deserve this. Remember all that you have helped each other through in the past, and just know that Jake will still always be with you, if not in person, to help you deal with this loss as well. Bridget, remember how we considered ourselves lucky to have had such great times at college that we missed them so much after graduation? Well now we know how lucky we were to have had someone like Jake, even though we are missing him so much now.
Sushil Nanavati
October 20, 2002
Bridget and Family,
After recently going through the pain of losing a beloved family member, I know that no words will help ease the pain, only time will. For the small amount of time I knew Jake when he visited PSU, I knew him to be a very happy and caring person. Although no one will ever replace him, his memories are something we will always have. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Sushil
Sheila Nardelli
October 20, 2002
Dear John,
"Our family is a circle of strength and love. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every crisis faced together makes the circle stronger."
I pray the good Lord will ease your sorrow.
God be with you always.
Much love,
Sheila, Davielle, Nick & Blaise
John Burke
October 20, 2002
My Jake,
I can only look back on such a sweet short life and feel the love and pride that you fill me with. I am so very proud of you and miss you so much. I can't describe this pain that I feel and I know Mom, Ber and Boomer are dealing with such a pain that no one one can lesson. You have touched so many lives and given joy and laughter to so many and yet you continue to give to others so unselfishly. I can't sleep, eat or think straight and pray that I will wake up from this nightmare to see you laughing at me. I remember just last Monday having dinner with you and discussing our relationship. You always made me so proud and now more than ever know that you are my hero. I need your strength and guidance. I feel you around me and ask that you help me with Mom, Bridget and Kevin. Help me make the right choices in life. Know that you are loved like no son has ever been loved before. Know that I carry your memory with me as I take each and every breath. You will always be in my heart and forever in my soul.
I love you Jake......
Dad
Lisa, Jennifer Eaton
October 20, 2002
Debbie, Bridget, and Kevin,
I was so shocked to hear about Jake. I know we haven't kept in touch lately but we share alot of memories from dance and recitals. A few weeks ago I was going through old pictures and came across pictures from Ms. Paulyne's halloween parties and from recitals. I always admired how you were raising your children and how strong you were to deal the adversity that life had dealt you, Debbie. I could never figure out when you had time to sleep---you worked so hard to give your children every opportunity in life. As a mom, my heart aches for your loss and I am thinking and praying for you often as well as for Bridget and Kevin. Sincerely, Lisa
Ms. Debbie, Bridget, and Kevin:
I am so sorry to hear about Jake. He was a great person and we will all miss him very much. I will always remember taking dance lessons with you guys. You both always mad me laugh. And when I was a cheerleader with you guys. Remember when we won first place? Those were great times. AH... the memories. We will always have them to rely on. And just know that one day you will see him again. God always has a purpose even though we may not be able to see it now. I hope all of your hearts find peace.
~Jennifer
JB Elgert
October 17, 2002
Jake,
Not many people can make me cry, but you did. We all miss you.
Ms. Debbie, Mr. John, Bridget, and Kevin,
Jake was a one of my best friends. We had some great times together. He would have done anything for me or any of his other friends. So if you guys ever need anything just let me know.
Brie Carlson
October 17, 2002
Bridget,
I am deeply sorry to hear about your brother. He was a great person and very lucky to have such a wonderful sister like you. Words cannot express pain and grief at a time like this, but I want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that I am very far away right now, an ocean away as Margaret put it, but pease let me know if there is anything at all that I can do for you.
With all my love and sympathy,
Brie
pat harris
October 16, 2002
mrs. debbie bridgette and kevin,
our families have been through thick and thin, rough and easy, and sad and fun times but no matter what if we ever neede help everyone was there for eachother. Now with jake gone it's like a missing link in all that. I mean it seems like just yesterday kevin and i would have to get jake to give us rides(the times he'd show up), or the times my dogs would go nuts because they hear jakes car cruisin down the street when he would come to chill with bucky. When we'd play football on the little strip of grass in front of your old house, when bucky would break bones fighting with jake. But the one thing that sticks out most in my mind is one day when we dropped kevin off at work and he was giving me a ride home and the insulation in his car caught on fire and he put it out with pepsi(you had to have been there). Today was the hardest thing ive ever gone through that includes when my father died because i was too small to realize what had happened. you all are in my thought and prayers. I guess what i'm trying to say is if any of you ever need anything we will be here for you
Stacey Harris Vedral
October 16, 2002
The words to say to a grieving family have not be created yet. There is nothing to say that will ease there pain or fill the void left behind.
All that I can say to Jake is that I loved having every minute with you being part of my family and I know your memory will never die.
All my love.
Stacey
Brian Coutlangus
October 16, 2002
Bridget,
You are the best sister anyone could ever have, and I know that Jake knew it and still does. Only time can heal the pain of losing someone so close. Jake was a great guy with a big heart who left his impression on everyone he knew. It is to be sure that he will always be watching over you and your family.
-Brian-
Baby Terri
October 16, 2002
Aunt Debbie, Kevin, and Bridget:
I know it's hard to believe that something so tradgic would happen to our family... I'm still finding it hard to believe... But I know Jakey is watching over us all... I know the pain will never go away, but it feels good knowing that we have a great family that cares and will always be there when we need them the most... I love you Brig, Kev, and Aunt Debbie... Jakey will always be in our hearts...
Bridget
October 16, 2002
Mrs. Debbie, Mr. John, Bridget, and Kevin:
I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss. It's never an easy thing to have to go through especially not your own child. I know my family and I are glad we got to know him when we did for the time you lived next to us. There are so many memories, good and bad, you have of him and you will always remember them. He will always be with us all in spirit even though we would rather have him here with us. He will always be watching down over you. If there is anything you need just let us know and we will try our best.
Lauren Phillips
October 15, 2002
Jake,
It is so hard for me to believe you are gone right now. Just weeks ago I was giving you advice about pain that I now have to remind myself of in your loss. Even though I hurt so much right now, I do not regret having gotten the chance to know you. I will NEVER forget you.
Your girls miss you.
Much love, Lauren
stephen monti
October 15, 2002
jake,
im gonna miss u man
may he ride with us in memory forever jake fam 4 life
love always,
tuna
Mare Klima
October 15, 2002
John,
You are in my thoughts. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
Mare
John Czajkowski
October 15, 2002
Debbie, John, Bridgette and Kevin,
Words can't describe how sorry we all are for your tragic loss.
It seems like only yesterday that we watched Jake, Mike and the others playing football and lacrosse together. Running up and down the field with oversized helmets perched atop small shoulders, above stick like legs - almost looking like animated bobble heads. Or them playing Nintendo all night in our family room and then eating French Toast for breakfast the next day. Or seeing Jake at Rita's - after not seeing him for a while - and not immediately recognizing his mature face and adult build.
Now, all we have are the memories of Jake; and, great memories they are. We are all lucky to have known him - eventhough only briefly. You are lucky to have had him - eventhough your time was cut short.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You have our deepest sympathies during this time of grief.
~John~
Margaret Kiner
October 15, 2002
To Bridget and Family,
The human ability for expression vanishes at times like these. All I can say is that I am thinking of you, as I attempt to understand your loss and that Jake will never be a memory. Although I am an ocean away, I am here for you B. My love is with you, Mags.
mike wilson
October 14, 2002
jake,
we miss you dearly. you were like a brother to us. in fact we were the brothers. you will always be a member of FAM. things wont be the same without you. words cant describe how i feel right now. me, eric, and tuna wish there was more we could do for you. wish you were here. miss you alot, save one for me.
love always bro,
mike wilson(fam for life)
Rachel Elbling
October 14, 2002
Bridget -
I am so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your brother. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now, but I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you, and you are in my prayers. You are a strong person, and I know you will be able to make it through this. Keep your chin up and know that all of us in Gamma Sig and at Penn State are thinking of you. As we say in THON, your brother is now an "angel among us."
With much love,
Rachel
Molly Rogers
October 14, 2002
Jake~
It seems like yesterday we were dipping ice together at Rita's, or sitting talking and not doing our work in class. I can not believe that now you are gone. A few weeks ago we were walking down the aisles of Target, and then you were standing on my front lawn giving me a hug good-bye. It was supposed to be only temporary, but now it is not. I will miss you always, and you will never be forgotten by anyone. Watch down over all of us, and we will see you in heaven. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Love always.
Tom Hedges
October 14, 2002
John and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy. May the love of family and friends comfort you and yours.
My thoughts are with you,
Tom Hedges
Mike Czajkowski
October 14, 2002
Ms. Debbie, Mr. John, Bridget, Boomer (Kevin),
Hang in there, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jake,
Words can’t describe the great guy you were. After hardly talking through high school you were so nice to me when I saw you out just 4 weeks ago on that Thursday night. We walked around and talked as if we were back in rec. lacrosse and football when we were just 9 years old being best friends. I will never forget how much an awesome friend you were.
Love you man,
Mike
Ashley Ossmus
October 14, 2002
Jake.. You were a great friend, i will miss you so much, from memories of senior week to jumping on meghans trampoline. Watch over us!
Linda Fausnet
October 14, 2002
Debbie and family,
We're all so sorry to hear of your loss. Jake was a sweet kid, and was very lucky to have such a loving family. He will be sorely missed, but he is in God's gentle hands now.
Linda
Ginger Rogers
October 14, 2002
With deepest sympathy. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. All of Jake's friends miss him terribly. I am the mother of a friend of his and they all seem to be taking this very hard. You are not alone in your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
DENISE POPE
October 14, 2002
JOHN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND JAKES MOM AT THIS TIME OF GREAT LOSS.
HEAR MY CRY O GOD;
ATTEND TO MY PRAYER.FROM THE END OF THE EARTH I WILL CRY TO YOU,WHEN MY HEART IS OVERWHELMED;LEAD ME TO THE ROCK THAT IS HIGHER THAN I.
GOD BE WITH YOU .
DENISE POPE
MEDSTAR MEDICAL
Bridget Burke
October 14, 2002
I love you Jakey and I miss you so much already.
Carol & Bob Brown
October 14, 2002
So very sorry to hear of your terrible loss. I can't imaginge the pain of losing a child. God is with you and you are all in our prayers. I'm your Dad"s cousin Carol.
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Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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