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John Lauer Jr.

1947 - 2024

John Lauer Jr. obituary, 1947-2024, Edgewater, MD

BORN

1947

DIED

2024

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Kalas Funeral Home & Crematory Edgewater

2973 Solomons Island Road

Edgewater, Maryland

John Lauer Obituary

John Bernard Lauer, Jr., 77, passed away on September 4, 2024, in Annapolis, Maryland of natural causes surrounded by his family and friends. He was born on January 25, 1947, in Washington, DC to the late John Bernard Lauer Sr. and Ruth Dixon Lauer. John joined the National Guard after high school, and he was a Motor Transportation Operator. He was the owner of Lauer Construction which built custom homes for 55 years. His motto was that, "life is too short to live in a cookie cutter house". He knew that a house should be more than 4 walls and a roof. It is a place where a solid foundation is formed, memories are made, and where love resides. In addition, he had owned Gibson's Lodgings, a Historical Inn, in downtown Annapolis for 30 years. Gibson's allowed him to be a part of hosting family, friends and people from all around the world. He took great pride in every nook and cranny of the historical Inn to preserve each detail. He realized it was part of a larger story that was needed, so it would be cherished and remembered for generations to come.

John discovered his love for boating at the early age of 15 when he bought his first boat. He enjoyed power boating, and he was a member of the West River Yacht Club for 50 years. He shared his passion of being on the water with many friends and family with his favorite destination being the Crab Claw in St. Michael's, MD. The trays of food would arrive, then the Polar Bear drinks would show up, and the laughs followed.

John was a generous host to family and friends, which allowed him to share his love of food. In his mind, to feed you was to love you. John could cook up a meal for many with very short notice due to a very well organized and always stocked pantry. His friends always joked that they always left John's events with a full stomach and a fuller heart.

John had a commitment to all creatures great and small. For years he owned a variety of animals and he appreciated their beauty. In his yard, he found great joy in taking care of the birds, fox, raccoons, deer and other critters that stopped by for a John Lauer meal.

John is survived by his loving wife, Corey Lauer; his daughters, Meredith Lauer (Russ); his step-sons, Jake and Rudy Poeschek; his son, his sisters, Ruth Anne Dearybury, Kathy Curtin (Dan), and Lisa Wilson (Bob); his brother, Mike Lauer; and his grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews.

In addition to his parents, John is preceded in death by his sisters, Pat Stouffer (Bob) and Margaret Bashioum, his brother, Joe Lauer (Diane) and his nephew, Steven Wilson.

John's legacy is as solid as the homes that he built. He loved meeting people and if he didn't know them before they quickly became friends. We all hope that there are plenty of blueprints and building permits in-hand as he continues his journey alongside others that have passed. May his memory live on through each meal he shared and every toast raised in his honor. John was a man that lived big, loved big and he left a big legacy behind that is, like him, larger than life.

Friends and family are invited to celebrate John's life on Friday, September 13 from 2 to 4 and again from 6 to 8 pm at the Kalas Funeral Home and Crematory, 2973 Solomons Island Road, Edgewater, MD, where his funeral service will be held on Saturday, September 14 at 11 am. Online guestbook at:

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Sep. 11, 2024.

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Robert Pastrana

September 13, 2024

My Hero! He was an elite builder but never let work get in the way of a chance to throw, or attend, a great party. I will forever miss John Lauer and his mischievous smile. He was living proof that you don't have to grow up! Nobody could hold a candle to John's after hour antics. I was fortunate to be his friend.

Robert Pastrana

September 13, 2024

My Hero! He was an elite builder but never let work get in the way of a chance to throw, or attend, a great party. I will forever miss John Lauer and his mischievous smile. He was living proof that you don't have to grow up! Nobody could hold a candle to John's after hour antics. I was fortunate to be his friend.

Karen & Brice Cote

September 11, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will always remember John's generous contributions to Craig and Samantha's Wedding! Particularly the amazing crab feast to kick off the weekend festivities. His warmth and generosity made our family feel welcomed, and we will always have fond memories of him.

BOB WILCOX

September 11, 2024

The world is a poorer place today, yet all who knew and loved John are the richer for it. John taught me the meaning of selflessness and generosity. He gave to all and asked for nothing in return. I just imagine a world without "Big" John in it. Rest easy my friend. As an avid boater, I wish you blue skies, calm seas and a peaceful voyage. I will always take great pride and pleasure in calling you my friend. God Bless you....always.

Woody Adams

September 11, 2024

Working for John in those early years, had a huge impact for me throughout my journey in life. He taught me just about everything you needed to know about the construction process, as well a few things about life in general, these things helped me just about every day as I moved my way through life, and these are things I am very grateful for. John also lent a helping hand to just about anyone that asked and did many favors for many. One of the nicest people to walk the planet. you couldn't ask for a better neighbor, Boss, and friend. Thanks for everything !
My sincerest condolences to the family.

The Staff of Kalas Funeral Homes

September 11, 2024

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Heather Little

September 9, 2024

John played a pivotal role in my decision to pursue my dream of becoming an independent salon owner. His confidence and genuine warmth inspired me to take the leap, despite my fears. John always had a way of making you believe that anything was possible. He was a generous soul who would give the food from his plate and the shirt off his back without hesitation. I am certain that he has greatly impacted the lives of many, and his absence will be deeply felt. Rest in peace, John.
-Heather Little

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Celebration of Life

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2973 Solomons Island Road, Edgewater, MD 21037

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13

Celebration of Life

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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2973 Solomons Island Road, Edgewater, MD 21037

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14

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2973 Solomons Island Road, Edgewater, MD 21037

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