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Michael Stillman Obituary
Friends may call at the family owned Peaceful Alternatives Funeral and Cremation Center, P.A., 2325 York Rd., Timonium, 21093 on Thursday Sept. 1 from 12 to 2 PM and 6 to 8 PM, where a funeral service will be held on Friday, Sept. 2 beginning at 11 am . Interment private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Gilchrist Hospice Center, 11311 McCormick Rd., Ste. 350, Hunt Valley, MD. 21031
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Stillman
Sponsored by John, Cindy and Jane.
Mellanie Buttman
September 9, 2011
Michael had a great smile I will never forget. The first time I met Michael I remember he was walking up the stairs at my cousin's house and he had this huge smile on his face. Although it was his first time meeting us, he fit right in. It was as if he already knew us all. I loved how comfortable he was around people. Another moment I will never forget that involved that great smile of his...Cecilia and Michael told me they finished their Wedding Program. They wanted me to take a look at it. As I was reading it, he was hovering over me, smiling. I thought to myself, "Wow, he really is excited about this wedding program." Lol. When I finally got to the last page with the list of the wedding party, his smile got bigger. I looked next to my name and saw they had me as a Maid of Honor instead of a Bridesmaid. I cried and he hugged me and told me how much they appreciated all of my help to make their wedding day special and they felt it was only right to honor me in that way. I was already very honored just being a part of their special day no matter what title I had. He was such a great man with a kind heart! I will forever miss him, his smile, and his adoring eyes for Cecilia. He will never be forgotten! Love you, Mike!
September 8, 2011
Uncle Mike, not only are you my uncle, you are my hero. A hero can be different meanings to different people.. with your strength, courage, and never ending love, you have defined what a hero means to me. You were going through the worst pain, and were enduring horrible circumstances; yet every time I would see you, no matter the pain, or the circumstances you were there with a smile on your face. You have given me an inspiration to always carry your SPECIAL smile, in my good times and even my worst of times. You are a hero in my eyes for the different view of life you have given me. Not a single day goes by that I don't think about you, and your loving face. You were such a strong and admired man, that played more than just one role in my life. You were not only an awesome uncle, you will forever remain my awesome hero. I love you Uncle Mike. Forever.
Your loving niece,
Jenna Temple
Stacie Spahr
September 8, 2011
I continue to pray that Michael will visit you all in his own special way. The strength and beauty of his family shows that he has a presence that will never fade. my thoughts and prayers for the family.
Janet Stillman
September 8, 2011
Dear Cecilia, family and friends ~
I don't know how we can fill the void on this Earth since Michael has passed.
He was selfless and driven to help others. I'll never forget him just giving one of his kids' movies to my child, saying,"We can get another one at Target". He'd give a stranger the shirt off of his back. I keep remembering the song, "One more Day" and it brings me to tears every time. I am so sorry Michael is gone. I can only think that he is another angel we have in Heaven looking out for us until he can do more for us again one day.
Reid Windesheim
September 7, 2011
To the Stillman family,I am sorry to hear of Mikes passing.We were best friends growing up all throughout elementry, jr and high school.We had lots of fun getting into trouble together.Mike and his Mom were there for me during a difficult time during my teenage years. I have not seen Mike since Arial was born. There were many times that I had thought of him and how he was doing.I am sorry I never had a chance to say goodbye. Mike will always have a place in my heart.
I LOVE YOU MICHAEL.
Cecilia Stillman
September 5, 2011
To let him go forever, was the most difficult thing I ever had to do. The pain from trying to memorize every part of him, just one last time, was excruciating. His hair still smelled like him. Everything I see reminds me of him. I tried to do laundry yesterday and found the towel that I used to wipe the blood off of his face the last night he was in the house. I just held it close and wept uncontrollably and couldn't bring myself to get rid of it...or even wash it, for fear that I'd lose every last piece of him so quickly. I can't even wash the sheets that were on the hospital bed in the house. It's difficult to be as strong as I was, when watching him fight so hard, was part of my inspiration. I broke down putting his clean clothes away that were from the beach trip. I don't know how to live without him. The kids ask several times a day for him or about him. They seem like they are wanting to grieve with me and trying to find some understanding as to 'why'...that this all can't be real. They ask to listen to the songs from the slide show...and to watch it as well. Noah seems to be the one experiencing the most sadness at this point. Jane is doing a lot of the comforting. Lori still thinks that possibly we'll see him again somewhere. Other times she will just tell Noah that he's dead in the hospital. I'm trying to help them all cope, but it's difficult at times with my own feelings about what has happened. I'm scared for the future and the overwhelming pain that we'll all continue to feel. I'm trying to still talk to Michael...hoping he can hear me asking him to help me stay strong, but my heart will never be the same. I feel his presence every so often...which brings me a short amount of comfort. Although he is no longer in pain, the fact that he had to suffer still haunts me. I miss him so very much, and feel broken without him. The reality of what has happened is hard to comprehend. I will continue to honor and cherish my memories of Michael. I thank all our family and friends for all their support and prayers during this time in our lives.
Trish Hennessey
August 31, 2011
God bless you, Michael...I will never forget your handsome, smiling face - or the love you had for Cecilia and your children. We will be there for her, just as you were. You have a new mission now - as Angel watching over your loved ones - and you'll do your job as well as when we were all together in Cockeysville. Where you fell in love with your beautiful wife. Then, now and always - feel this love from T and me. We'll see you again someday! What a reunion that will be.
Ms. Brooks
August 31, 2011
You are in my prayers. Michael was a true fighter. He had more courage than many. You will never be alone for his love for you lives within you. May Jesus give you peace and comfort.
August 31, 2011
To the Stillman family, I want to express my deepest sorrow to you and your family, my wife and I worked with Mike for years, and met my wife, while visiting with Mike. He will be deeply missed. May the Lord bless and be your family through this trying time Jan and Ken Sheldon (Ellicott City, Md)
August 31, 2011
To the Stillman Family,
I was so terribly saddened to hear of Michael's passing. We went to school together and grew up together. I have so many happy memories of climbing the tree in his backyard, shooting baskets in the driveway, and of Michael cooking for his friends. I'll always remember him as a loyal and true friend. My deepest sympathies to all,
Susan Dalrymple (Portney)
Darla Gatton-Fisher
August 30, 2011
Dear Cecilia - we are profoundly sorry for your loss. Your family is constantly in my prayers. All my love, Ms. Darla
Brandee Holmes
August 30, 2011
To the Stillman family~ I am so sorry for your loss. Both of you were so strong, and now Mike can be at peace. Our thoughts, prayers, hope, and love are with you now and in the upcoming days.
terry/dennis pingle
August 30, 2011
Sorry about your loss my prays our with you.
The Knudsen's
August 30, 2011
To the Stillman Family, Our deepest sympathy. We know that Michael will be missed by many people. Ariel and Mike hang in there.
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