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Raymond McKay Obituary

MCKAY , Raymond L. On July 12, 2009, RAYMOND L. McKAY; beloved husband of Melinda J. McKay (nee Spacek); stepfather of Stephanie Blair and Ian Blair; brother of Edward McKay of Morrisville, VT, and Lori McKay. Also survived by other family and friends.
The family will receive friends on Thursday 3 to 5 and 7 to 9 P.M at the MACNABB FUNERAL HOME, P.A., 301 Frederick Road, Catonsville (at beltway exit 13), where funeral services will be held on Friday 1 P.M. Interment private. Please omit flowers. Those desiring may send memorials to American Diabetes Association.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Jul. 14, 2009.

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August 11, 2009

I worked with Raymond at CTIS. We had some good times, and he was an admirable and fun person. Godspeed.

Suzanne

July 21, 2009

Melinda

I was very sorry to here of your husbands passing. Please call me anytime to talk or just spend a little time with. My prayers will be with you always. God Bless Irene Golinski

Walt and Marie DeWalt

July 20, 2009

Melinda and Family,

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We all will miss Raymond very much.

Georgia Belton

July 17, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Linda Faggio

July 16, 2009

Melinda,

We are so very sorry to have learned of Raymond's passing. As new neighbors we so enjoyed getting to know you both and always loved Raymond's dry sense of humor and ready smile. As he passed us dog-walkers every day as he drove off to work he never failed to give us the "coffee mug" salute. He will be very fondly remembered. Our thoughts are with you. Please lean on your friends and neighbors during this difficult time. We are here for you.

Fondly,
Linda and Julie Faggio

Pete and Jody Chaney

July 16, 2009

Melinda and Family -

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Raymond will be sorely missed by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Carol Ullom

July 15, 2009

Melinda, My condolences go out to you and your family. I pray that God will give you peace beyond understanding at this time. I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to.
Your friend

John and Christine Davis

July 14, 2009

Dear Melinda and Family,

We are still in shock and are so sorry.
We will always remember Raymond as a fun and happy friend.
We will cherish the wonderful times we had sailing together.
Our thoughts and Prayers are with all of you.

John and Christine

Len Tillman

July 14, 2009

Melinda,
We are so sorry to learn of Raymond's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. We enjoyed our times with you and Raymond at Oak Harbor and our raft-up together at Swan Creek. May all the good times and memories bring you peace. God bless you all.
Len & Vickie Tillman

Elaine Maltese

July 14, 2009

Oh My Melinda,
I just don't know what to say, there just aren't words to express how deeply I hurt for you. I tried to be strong for you when I called yesterday, but the words just melted into tears, and they have most of the time since I got that dreaded call from Barb Sunday evening. I can't even talk to my Florida friends w/o bursting into tears. I want soooo bad to be there for you, but I know you have a strong support system w/I your family and I know they'll all be there for you as long as you need or want. I did e-mail Dale to see if he would go in my honor, unfortunetly he's not in Maryland and won't be for some time, otherwise he said he would have been glad to be there.
You and Raymond had such a wonderful life, overcame the hurdles life through in your way, you were both full of life, fun and adventure. I know because of you, Raymond was able to fullfill hopes and dreams. Last May when you two were giving me a tour of that beautiful new home, Raymond was soooooo proud of it and his sailboat, his passion, you made those things possible for him to enjoy. He died doing what he did best, having fun,and with the one he love, you, I hear he was playing volleyball, and he had gone jet skiing that very same day. Soooo full of life.
I know you're going to have a long rough road ahead of you, but please know, I'm ALWAYS here for you..

Love,
Elaine & John

Jennifer Dowling

July 14, 2009

Melinda,

I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a wonderful man. He always had a hello and a nice smile for everyone. You are very much in my thoughts.

Sincerely, Jennifer, Steve and Darby

Maria Hopkins

July 14, 2009

Dear Stephanie and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Maria Hopkins(AMBU)

Helen Prendergast

July 14, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The McErlean Family

July 14, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days ahead. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask.

Andrew remembers sailing with you on the Bay and what a wonderful time he had with your family.

Raymond was a wonderful person and will be deeply missed.

Cheron Jones

July 14, 2009

To the McKay Family,
I send condolences and blessings in your time of need. God has a plan that we may not understand, but have faith and trust in his will. May you all be blessed and find peace through the sorrow.
Sincerely,
Cheron Jones

Lakeisha Wilson

July 14, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your spirits be uplifted in prayer.

Melissa Nandy

July 14, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Magda Sexton

July 14, 2009

Dear Lori,
We are so sorry for your loss.

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