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MILLER , Thomas Wherrett On June 16, 2009, Thomas Wherrett Miller , age 77, born in Baltimore, MD and a longtime Naples resident, died with his family by his side. He met his wife, Patricia, in the sixth grade at Our Lady of Lourdes School in Baltimore and after dating all through Loyola High School and Georgetown University, they married on August 15, 1953. Tom and Pat had five daughters, and his mother-in-law noted that Tom was the ideal father for girls. His wife often commented: "If I believed in reincarnation like Tom, I'd want to come back as one of his daughters." In his early career, he worked as an accountant with his father, Thomas William Miller, for the Pimlico Race Track then became a vice president of Peterson, Howell and Heather, a corporate car leasing firm in Baltimore. In 1971, Tom and Pat moved to Naples where Tom had visited his grandparents, Joseph and Mary Wherrett, beginning in the early 1930's. In Naples, Tom developed land left to him by his grandparents and formed a real estate development company, Naples Gulf Contractors. Tom was renowned for his crackerjack mind and dry wit. He often claimed that the only exercise he liked was jumping to conclusions. Tom's great passions in life included reading, sailing, and alternative medicine (a young niece remembers that Tom was into crystals long before she was). Tom typed at lightening speed using only his index fingers, a skill leftover from his days as an English major and college newspaper editor. Tom was a member of the Naples Yacht Club, Potapskut Sailing Association in Maryland and treasurer of the Maryland Club, a Naples luncheon club. Until recently, he and Pat were summer residents of Chestertown, MD where they loved their friends, visits from their grandchildren, the crabs at Rock Hall and their view of the Chester River. Survivors include his wife, Patricia Meagher Miller, daughters Anne Vahey Miller of Summit, NJ, Mollie Dolan Miller of Cambridge, MA, Ellen Wherrett Miller of Sarasota, FL, Sara Kane Gregory of New Haven, CT and Margaret McTague Miller of Sarasota, FL, ten grandchildren (Charles, William and Patricia Poekel; Jack, Ned and Henry Rodat; Anna and Peter Kosub; Theo and Ellery Schneider), four sons-in-law, and sister-in-law Margaret Jerman. Tom Miller was pre-deceased by his parents, Thomas and Evelyn Miller, and his younger brother, Joseph.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: The Chesapeake Bay Foundation, 6 Herndon Ave., Annapolis, MD 21403, (410) 268-8816, www.cbf.org.

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Published by Baltimore Sun on Jun. 23, 2009.

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Fred Dorsey

August 18, 2009

Tom was my mentor. Working under him at PHH gave me a true perspective of the business world. Basically, I idolized his intelligence to the point of taking up his writing style. I owe my success to being mentored by T. Wherrett Miller and observing his inate ability to see through bull---- and get to the facts of the matter. He was the most intelligent, honest, and real person I have ever known. I stll think of my days spent working with him every day. God Bless you Pat, and the girls -- as I was blessed over the many years we worked together.

Fred Dorsey
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August 14, 2009

I just saw the news of Tom's passing in the Loyola High School alumni magazine. Many of that class are gone, including Terry Coles and Frank Serio.But our classmate Charles O. Wood survives as teh host of CBS Sundy Morning program as Charles Osgood.=--Jack McGrain

Jim Kosub

June 26, 2009

Dear Pat,
Dear Ellen, Vahey, Mollie, Sara, and Meg,

Words can never describe the loss created by the absence of a loved one. I miss Tom already. I know that all of you miss him dearly.

Pat, I don’t know if you ever heard this story or not but it’s one of my favorite Tom stories and it comes from the beginning of our relationship. I remember my first trip to Chestertown. I had taken the occasion to propose to Ellen, on the steps of the Lincoln memorial in DC. I later found out that Tom had questioned Ellen as to my political affiliation. Having chosen the sight of a great republican president what else was he to think. I can only hope that he wasn’t too disappointed.

As the newest of the in-laws Tom always made me feel like a welcome member of the family. I enjoyed our trips to Rock Hall, now they will be different and I look forward to returning, just to remember.

We have a reminder of Tom with us everyday, and for the last few years. The Blue Bomb as Peter and Anna affectionately refer to it. The same 1981 blue, stick shift Mercedes that I rode in when Tom would take us to Rock Hall.

It will be different now, when we go to restaurants that we frequented with Tom here in Sarasota. They will take on a special meaning.

By all accounts Tom had a wonderful life with you Pat, Ellen, Mollie, Vahey, Meg and Sara. Trust in the memories of those days to bring you comfort.

We Love You All,
Jim, Anna and Peter

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