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Matthew H. Waite

1959 - 2010 PAWLET, VT Matthew H. Waite, 50, beloved husband of Kellie Baker-Waite and devoted father of Emily and Lilly, died unexpectedly in the Green Mountain National Forest May 6, 2010. He was born July 18, 1959, and has lived in Pawlet his entire life. Matt and Kellie celebrated their 27th wedding anniversary Feb. 12, 2010. Matt leaves his mother, Donna Lewis, of Hartford, N.Y.; his father, Myron Waite, and longtime companion, Betty Daly, of Pawlet, and step-father, Theodore Parisi of Castleton.

Matt is also survived by his wife and best friend, Kellie, and daughters Emily and Lilly, of Pawlet; three sisters, Lisa Taggart and her husband, George, of Montpelier, Va., Jill Christiana and her husband, Thon, of Florence, and Theresa Maneen and her husband, Alex, of Albany, N.Y. Matt also leaves his in-laws, Mary and Tim Baker of Dorset, Vt., and Port Orange, Fla., Vickie and Peter Haskins of Dorset, Vt., and Dale and Sherrie Baker of Dorset; two step-sisters, Laurie Parisi and her husband, Jeff Corntassel, and a step-brother, David Parisi of Tulsa, Okla. Matt was the inspiring uncle to many nieces and nephews.

Matt's early education was in the Pawlet schools and he was a graduate of Granville High School (NY) in 1977. He then worked for several years for Mithoffer Construction before starting his own highly successful excavation and concrete business, Matt Waite Excavation and Kelco Concrete. His optimism and great love of life was infectious to those around him. His hobbies were always of the most exciting nature, driving stock cars in competition as a younger man, cruising on his motorcycle and obtaining his private pilot's license, among many. However interested Matt was in his business and recreational pursuits, he never allowed those things to supersede his devotion to his family and particularly the endeavors of his two daughters, whose activities he supported and attended with uncompromised commitment.

Matt's avid support of his community was known to all. He made notable contributions to the Pawlet Public Library, Mettawee Community School, Burr and Burton Academy, Pawlet Historical Society, Riley Rink and many more. The loss of Matt will surely be tangible to the many people whose lives he touched in a positive way. His family and friends will always cherish the gifts received through knowing him.

FUNERAL NOTICE: Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, May 11, 2010, at 11 a.m. at the United Church of Dorset/East Rupert. The Rev. Dr. James Gray will officiate. Burial will follow in Mettawee Valley Cemetery. Friends may call at the BREWSTER FUNERAL HOME, 34 Park Place, Manchester, VT, on Monday, May 10, 2010, from 4 to 7 p.m., when the family will be in attendance.

The family requests that contributions in memory of Matt be made to either the Mettawee Community School Library or Burr and Burton Girls Athletics c/o Brewster Funeral Service, PO Box 885, Manchester, VT 05255. For directions or to send personal e-mail condolences to the family please visit www.sheafuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Bennington Banner on May 10, 2010.

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Dan Machell

May 19, 2010

Kellie, Emily and Lilly

We moved to Manchester, Vt several years ago and our daughter attends Burr and Burton Academy. We were at her first soccer game and knew nobody in the stands. I overheard a fellow talking about flying which peaked my interest and I joined into the conversation. He said the next day he would be bulldozing over a house for a reality show rebuild. I remarked to my partner after the game that I had the good fortune to meet someone that I could tell was a genuinely sincere and nice person. We often joked that we should call him to bulldoze over our house so we could rebuild it properly. That person, of course, was Matt. Our sincere condolances to the family. You are in our thoughts.
Dan Machell/Kelly van Dyk

Patty Winpenny

May 18, 2010

Dearest Kellie, Emily, and Lilly,
Please accept my embrace and prayers from across the continent and Pacific Ocean in Shanghai. Tristan called me right away...Tragically, our families now share a loss, losing a wonderful husband and father too young, too strong, too soon. I will be back in Pawlet June 22-August 6. Please email: [email protected] any time before then. With deepest sympathy, Patty Winpenny

May 14, 2010

Kellie and family,
Our hearts,thoughts and prayers are with you.May the love and support of family and friends, as well as memories, bring you comfort,strength and peace in the time ahead.
Our deepest sympathy,
Judy Carpenter and family

May 13, 2010

Dear Kellie,
It has been such a long time since we have seen you all. We wanted to let you know how very sorry we are for your terrible loss. Matthew Taylor Eddie and I send you are love and payers. Please give the girls and extra hugs for us. The Lewi's Family & Camp's

May 12, 2010

May 12,2010
Kellie, Emily and Lilly
I am sorry to learn of Matt's passing. I talked to Perry Waite today and he told me. I first met Matt about 10 years ago at one of the race tracks. I've had many great conversations with him and found him to be a really great person. Perry reminded me of the time a couple of years ago when he filled in as our jack man at Loudon. He was as good as any jack man I've ever seen. I remember how proud he was that day. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the girls.
George and Clarice Andrade
Mystic Connecticut

May 12, 2010

Dear Kelly & Family
Our sincere, heartfelt sympathy is with all of you right now. Matt went to school with my kids. Our thoughts are with you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Linda Lulek Ogert

Diane Weeden

May 12, 2010

To Kellie, Lillie, Emily, Myron and the rest of Matt's beloved family. Matt was an inspiration and an idol to many. We will remember the good times and all he has taught us forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chuck and Diane

Ted Parisi

May 12, 2010

About Matt~~Alas taken taken swiftly and violently like the roaring wind that severed the instrument of his death from the connection to its own life source, this magnificent man leaves behind a trail of love,honor, respect,compassion and an endearing presence . Though his countenance may fade from view with the passage of time, his mark on mankind/womankind will endure.

Matthew Probasco

May 12, 2010

I was deeply saddened to hear the news. While I will miss working with him, fortunately his professionalism, talent, and willingess to do and defend the right thing was not lost on his employees. I would like to send my condolences to all of his family and friends as well as to the folks at Matt Waite Excavation and Kelco (who seemed to be one in the same to him).

Barbara & Ken Ax

May 12, 2010

Dear Kellie, Emily, Lilly and all of Matt's family.
words do not easily express our sense of loss for you and the Mettowee Valley that Matt loved and influenced in his life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Connie Siemen

May 12, 2010

I remember the suport we got from family and friends when we lost Arty . Let everyone help you at this sad time. When friends get together in Heaven, let them have a good time. Art, Connie, Theresa, Linda and Jim Siemen

Jodie and Dorothy Buffum

May 11, 2010

Kelly, Emily, Lily and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Matt. Mom and I attended the services but there were so many people conveying their condolences around you that we couldn't get to you but I want to know you are in our prayers. The girls did a terrific job writing their feelings, and Emily did a great job reading hers. His life really was one to celebrate. If there is any thing I can do,please let me know. People say it gets easier with time, but I don't think you ever miss them any less. Hold tight to the memories and the knowledge that one day you will be together again. God Bless...

Dawn (Burhans) Melville

May 11, 2010

Kellie and family,

It has been a long time since I have been back to Pawlet, but the town that I grew up in and the people I grew up with have never been forgotten. Matt was an unbelievable man and I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you all.

Rick and Joan Morey

May 11, 2010

Kelly and girls
I am so sorry about your loss I still feel the loss of my loved ones Jeff and Jody It is a very sad thing
my prayers are with you

May 11, 2010

Kelly and Girls
I am so sorry about your lost. I still feel the lost of my love ones, Jeff and Jody. It is a very sad thing. My prayers are with you

Rick and Joan Morey

May 11, 2010

Kelly and girls
I am sorry about your lost. I still feel the lost of my love ones, Jeff and Jody.It is a very bad thing. My prayer are with you.

Rick and Joan Morey

Mary Grenier

May 11, 2010

Dear Lisa and the Waite & Baker family,
I am so sorry about Matt's sudden passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Mary (Miller) Grenier

Tim & Lori Joseph

May 11, 2010

Kellie, We heard about this just today and we are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and most heartfelt condolences are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Linda Griffith-Torre

May 11, 2010

Kellie and girls, I was very sad to hear of Matt's passing. You are in my prayers.

May 11, 2010

Kellie,

I was at my office, going to Berkshire Bank when everyone was arriving for the service. I had not heard, and would've come over, except that I was wearing jeans and a workshirt. Though Matt wouldn't mind (if he were here), I wasn't dressed to respect you or the fine man I fleetingly knew as a fellow Maple Street parent. A man of integrity and quiet wisdom...not to mention the infectious smile and the so likeable personality.

Shocked as I am, I hold his memory dear and wish you and the girls the best in finding a way to make sense of this senseless tragedy.

Love,
Brad "Marshall" Hammond

Rome

May 11, 2010

Dear Matt, You always had time and a kind word for all you met.When you where flying and would tip your wings to us earth bound,all of a sudden we all soared high above with you.Fly high and I will look and always see you tipping your wings.

Ella Baird Walsh

May 11, 2010

Those we have held in our arms for a little while we hold in our hearts forever. Remember the good times, there were so many, but never enough.

Theda Farrell

May 11, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May your memories bring strength and comfort in the days ahead.

Stephanie Breed

May 11, 2010

Dear Kellie,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts today. God bless you.

Kathy Fox

May 11, 2010

To Kellie and girls and the entire Waite family. My heart goes out to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

May 10, 2010

To Matt's entire family Jan and I would like to express your deepest sympathy and to Donna who became an instant friend this past winter we love you and hold close to our hearts. Donna I am sorry I can't be with you today. You will be in my thoughts. Love Larry and Jan Beck

Cook & Stepper Neilson

May 10, 2010

Decent, kind, loyal, loving, funny, talented: Matt was a hero of ours from the first time we met him 30 years ago. This is a hellacious loss for all who knew him--and for all that will never have the privilege. We've never known a greater guy.

May 10, 2010

Kellie,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Dave and Beth Winter

Lisa Hoffman Ramos

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie and family,

Words can't express the sorrow I have for your great loss. May your cherished memories of Matt keep with you forever and hold you up during this difficult time. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

Ken and Andrea Mason

May 10, 2010

We will miss Matt as a friend, customer and buiseness leader. Our conversations will never be forgotten.

Lisa Hoffman Ramos

May 10, 2010

Words can't express the sorrow I have for your great loss. May your cherished memories of Matt keep with you forever and hold you up during this difficult time.

Susan Gager

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie and Family,
So very, very sorry to hear about Matt. Thinking of you and sharing your sadness. We remember him fondly as a man of kindness and character, who was devoted to his family and friends. He will be missed by all whose lives he touched. May the gift of his life with you help to sustain you all in the days ahead!
Sincerely, Susan Gager (Burhans) and Family

Phil & Pauline Frost

May 10, 2010

Dear Waite family, We were so shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of Matt. He always had a friendliness that was wonderful to experience. We were always pleased with his level of professionalism and the expertise with which he did his work.
Phil and Pauline Frost
Sandgate, VT

The Badger Family

May 10, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss of Matt. I have rarely seen a man more devoted and clearly in love with his wife. I could tell you were best friends by the way he lit up when you were around and his trust in you. I am in North Carolina now but my thoughts are with you and the girls. Maybe knowing how many people love and care will help a little through your difficult time. My sincerest condolences,
Maggie Kecher

Wayne and Tara Bell

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Matt helped and touched many. He created a powerful legacy in too short a life.

May 10, 2010

Life ain't always beautiful..
Sometimes it's just plain hard
Life can break you down
It can break your heart......
My sincere sympathies to the family and friends of Matt Waite

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie and Family:
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for the loss of Matt. We will miss his irrepressible good humor,love of life, and dedication to excellence in all his varied pursuits.

Shep and Joan Guryan

May 10, 2010

kellie,emily,lilly,our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sadness,and loss,his light will shine on through each and everyone he inspired. Russell,and mary matteson

Bert Morton

May 10, 2010

Kellie,
My sincere and deepest sympathy to you and yours in the tragic loss of Matt. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bert Morton (Placemats R Us)

Luther and Diana Putnam

May 10, 2010

Dr. Kellie, Emily and Lilly
We were so saddened to hear about the accident. Matt was a wonderful man, Dad and boss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Only time and wonderful memories will help ease the pain your all going through. We are so sorry for your families loss. Your Dad will never be forgotten.

Mark and Margaret McChesney

May 10, 2010

Matt dug a lot of holes in his life. Dug some pretty big ones. None could compare to the hole he´s left in all of our collective lives. Deeper and wider than we could ever imagine. And the only things that can begin to fill that hole in are the memories of his kindness, humor, and love and the legacy he leaves behind. He lived an abbreviated life, but a full one, nevertheless. Our hearts go out to Kellie, Emily, Lily and all of the family.
Mark and Margaret McChesney Pawlet

May 10, 2010

Kellie, Emily, & Lily,

We are so extremely sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tammie, Todd, & Alyssa Sargent

May 10, 2010

Those who we truly love are never lost to us. If we listen with our hearts, we can always hear what they have to say. May the love you shared, the memories you made and your faith sustain you all in this time of unimaginable grief.

Sincerely,
Donna & Don Lamb & Family

May 10, 2010

Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Much sympathy and prayers, TD Bank (First Vermont Bank friends)

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie and girls. Unimaginable sadness. We have been thinking of you every day. Matt was such a positive and uplifting presence to those who knew him. He will be missed.....and missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lee and Susan Romano

Rebecca Gould

May 10, 2010

Kellie, Emily, Lilly and family, I am very sorry for this terrible and tragic accident. You are in our prayers.

Don and Denise Scarborough

May 10, 2010

Kellie and Family,
We are so very sorry for your tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donna and John Benson

May 10, 2010

Kellie and family. We were so sorry to hear about Matt. Our deepest sympathy to you all.

National Wild Turkey Federation

May 10, 2010

Our sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Matt. May our prayers help see you thru the days to come.

Susie & Jimmy Hewes

May 10, 2010

Kellie, Emily & Lilly, Matt was such a wonderful, outgoing person that we all loved and loved to be around. He was the "ideal" husband, father, business partner and best friend. He will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and the days ahead.

May 10, 2010

kellie&girls; it was a shock to hear of matt"s accident. our thoughts and prayers are with you at this of sadness.with deepest sympathy connie mason&family

May 10, 2010

Dear Matt's Family, Our sincere sympathies.
Hold on to your cherished memories.
Kevin & Susie Walsh

woody woodbury

May 10, 2010

Dear kellie and family.i,am deeply sudden to hear of your lost.Matt was a great husband and father,Also a very dear friend to me and to many,many people.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always.

Elaine Weeden

May 10, 2010

Our Deepest and Heartfelt Sympathy,
May God's love make your grief bearable and may happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time.
Our Love,
Elaine and Vern Weeden and Family

Bill Daigle

May 10, 2010

Kellie, Emily and Lilly,
My deepest Sympathy to you and your family. May you fine peace in the days to come.

John Kost

May 10, 2010

Kellie,

I'm so sorry to hear about Matt's tragic accident. We are all thinking about you and the kids.

Jill and Dave Sands

May 10, 2010

Dear Kellie and Family,
We were so very saddened to learn about Matt. We always enjoyed working with you both for these past 20 plus years. Please know that you and your families are in our hearts.

May 10, 2010

Lisa, you and your family, are in our prayers during this difficult time. Know that we are here for you and that we love you. We hope that memories of Matthew will comfort you and fill you with some peace in your spirit in the days to come. (Christie Forrest & your Wilder Middle School family)

Debbie Williams

May 9, 2010

Lisa, I offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family in the loss of your beloved brother. I know that time will ease some of your family's pain, but the memories of an obviously wonderful man will warm your hearts forever.

Ron & Robyn Hutchins

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie and family. We were so saddened to hear of your loss.We all had so much fun at the race track.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Valerie Poissant

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie, Emily, & Lilly,
We were deeply shocked and saddened to hear of Matts sudden passing. Our hearts are aching for you and your girls. We have only fond memories of Matt and it was evident that he truely loved you and the girls.Our thoughts and prayers go out to you for the difficult days ahead. May you find peace and comfort. Your Loudon Friends, Tony, Valerie,& Nick Poissant, Alburgh, VT

Amy Moore

May 9, 2010

Our hearts go out to your entire family. May your cherished memories soon fill your broken hearts.
Rich, Amy (Hicks), Makenna & Grayson Moore

Brian & Brooke DeBonis

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie, Emily, & Lilly,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Matt always had a positive outlook on life and was a great person. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Pollyand Bill Rudkin

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie,Emily,Lilly and all of Matt's family,
Our heart's go out to you for your loss and grief. Matt was by far one of God's finest examples of a Great human
being.
Such a truly genuine caring man and oh so good looking too.
Thanks Matt for all you've ever done for us,you will be in our hearts forever.

Dee Shackford

May 9, 2010

Lisa - I was saddened to read of this sudden and tragic loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
-dee shackford

Carol & Dave Donnelly

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie, Emily, and Lilly,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss.
Our prayers are with you and will remain with you in the days ahead.

Jeff Slade

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily and Lillie-
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Matt was a great man, he touched everybody he met in a special way, he was a true friend.

From the bottom of my heart I can say that in my journey of life, my path has never crossed the path of a more genuine person.

Please treasure all of your memories, I know I will.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nance, Ed Dean

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie, Emily, and Lilly,

It is really hard for us to express how sad we are. Wish we could take all the pain away. May you find peace knowing how much Matt meant to us and so many people. And may your heart be warmed knowing we love you and are thinking of you.

Dan and Kim Jones

May 9, 2010

Kelly and girls,
Dan and I were so sad to hear about your loss. We have many fond memories of you and Matt in our AAU adventures. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.

Ben and Lynda Gould

May 9, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

david colton

May 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

tim,gail mahoney

May 9, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily, Lilly and family
Mere words cannot express how sadden we were to learn of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in your precious memories and may they help heal your hearts.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Janet Baierlein & Mike Beecher

wayne winston

May 9, 2010

Kellie,Emily,Lilly,and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you all, in this time of great sorrow. May you find comfort in each other as you remember this remarkable man. Peace and love to you all.

Matt & Mary Ann (Sheldon) Webb

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie and family,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Matt & Kristie LeVitre

May 9, 2010

Kellie and family,
We are sorry about your loss. Pawlet has lost a great man. May he rest in peace.
With sympathy,

May 9, 2010

Dear Donna, Jill, Lisa, Theresa and families:
I was so very sorry to learn of Matthew's death. Although I never had the pleasure of knowing him personally, I just wanted to send my condolences and love to all of you.
MaryLou Marcell-Cameron, Rutland, VT

Wayne & Darlene Lussier

May 9, 2010

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

The Hyatt Family

May 9, 2010

We are very sorry for the loss of Matt. We will all feel it. You are in our hearts and our prayers.

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily, Lillie and family, Stay strong through this most difficult time of your lives. You are in our thoughts. Love Dawn, Jessica and Jennifer Dorr

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily, Lilly and family, stay strong through this most difficult time in your life's. You are all in our thoughts. Dawn, Jessica and Jennifer Dorr

May 9, 2010

Kellie, It was with complete shock and great sadness that I learned of Matt's untimely passing. Matt was so calming and helpful to me when I was in Chicago facing my mother's terminal illness -- it pains me greatly to know what your family is going through. I have no words that will help ease your grief, only time can help... please know you and the girls are in my prayers. With deepest sympathy, Tammy Reeme (W. Pawlet)

Jim

May 9, 2010

Matt was one of a kind. Thanks for memories Matty.

May 9, 2010

Kellie,
My heart breaks for you and yours! My prayers will be with you now and forever. Please accept my condolences. Love to you Rhonda

Sandy & Tom Lane

May 9, 2010

Kellie and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time!

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal!

With Deepest Sympathy!

Colleen Munger

May 9, 2010

Kellie and Family, Gene and I are so very saddened by the sudden loss of Matt. We will forever carry the memories of our racing trips in our hearts, they were the best and funniest days of our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the many happy memories that you shared with Matt live forever in your hearts.
All our love,
Gene and Colleen Munger

May 9, 2010

I grew up in Manchester, so read this obituary to see if I knew Matt. I don't but my heart aches for your sudden and profound loss. Please know that even the thoughts and prayers of people you don't know surround you at this time of sadness.

Judy in Bennington

J.J. Martin

May 9, 2010

Dear Kellie and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your recent loss, Matt was one of the nicest people I have ever known. He was never to busy to give you a big ole smile and chat with you no matter how long it has been since you last saw each other. God bless you Matt I will remember you in the 01 modified forever.

Esther & Ralph Sheldon

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily & Lilly-
May the precius memories you have, give you strength at this very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Howard Coolidge

May 9, 2010

Kellie, Emily, Lilly, family and friends words cannot express my heart felt sadness of the loss of an amazing man. Matt was one of the best of the best. His charm and wisdom will be greatly missed. I know by the gleam on his face that he cherrished all of you. I just keep hearing the song "Live like you were dying" in my mind and i feel that Tim McGraw new Matt personally cause this sure does explain Matts life to "T". Will miss him very much but will never forget. Please accept my condolences.

Kevin & Michelle Cone

May 9, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

May 9, 2010

Kellie and Family:
Our Hearts ache for you and we realize their is nothing we can say or do to ease your pain other than keep you in our thoughts.
We thought the world of Matt
Bill and Peggy Greene

Rick/Deb Wilkins

May 9, 2010

Dear Kelly and Family,
We are deeply saddened to learn of your great loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May the love that you shared,help to bring you comfort in the days ahead.
With Deepest Sympathy,

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