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Peter Stanislaw Obituary

Peter Paul Stanislaw of The Villages, Florida, formerly of Bennington, Vermont, born on April 2, 1938 to Peter Stanislaw and Anna Marie Caiola, passed away peacefully at his home June 4, 2019 with his wife Judith by his side.

Pete was born in Paterson, New Jersey and graduated from local schools. He earned a Bachelor's of Science degree from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1973 and worked as Vice President of Engineering for Morrison Berkshire in North Adams, Massachusetts.

Pete married the love of his life, Judith Hall, June 14, 1969. Together they raised seven children, Peter (Vicki) Stanislaw, Susan (Stephen) Plaisance, Garry (Jennifer) Stanislaw, Karen (Jim) Raymond, Laura (Skip) Sant, Luanne (David) Smedley, and Jennifer Austin. Pete loved his 15 grandchildren; Peter, Nick, Michael, Carly, Michelle, Timothy, Garrison, Amanda, Allison, Julia, Shane, Joshua, Andrew, and Molly, and five great grandchildren. Also surviving are two sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was predeceased by his grandson Daniel in 2010, and first wife Lucy Jane Lohrey in 2007.

While his family was his source of pride and his greatest passion, Pete had several interests that he shared with others. An accomplished saxophonist and clarinet player, Pete would often end up "part of the band" at family weddings. He was an excellent dancer and loved nothing more than taking Judy for a spin around the dance floor. Pete was a lifelong fan of the New York Giants, an excellent golfer, and a wonderful friend.

In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association.

Funeral arrangements are private and at the convenience of the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bennington Banner on Jun. 13, 2019.

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August 25, 2019

Dear Judy and Family,

On behalf of Pete's friends and classmates from Haledon School and Central High School, we offer our deepest sympathy on Pete's passing.

May all those happy times help you all in this time of sorrow.

Pete, we will always remember you.

Rest in Peace, Pete.

Doris Roffino Ververs and
Marjorie Dean Kincaid

American Heart Association

June 13, 2019

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

June 13, 2019

Sadly I didnt get to meet you. However with the love and stories ive seen and been told about you I feel like I do know you at least as a great person!!

BB

Christine Eberle

June 13, 2019

Uncle Pete you will be greatly missed. I will forever think of you when I hear a saxophone being played. I love you! Love your niece Christine Rest In Peace

D. M.

June 13, 2019

My sincere condolences to the Stanislaw family. May your treasured memories of Peter always fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. - Romans 15:13

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