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Alsha Elmendorf Obituary

STOCKBRIDGE -- Alsha Elmendorf, 86, of Delmar, N.Y., died Sunday at St. Peter's Hospital in Albany, N.Y., after a brief illness. She was the mother of Donna Elmendorf of Stockbridge.

Born in Memphis, Tenn., on Dec. 13, 1916, daughter of Lee T. and Alsha Meehan McCourt, she was raised by her father and stepmother, Donna Monteserrat McCourt, after the death of her mother. She attended the University of Tennessee at Knoxville.

Mrs. Elmendorf was a member of St. Stephen's Episcopal Church in Delmar and served on its Altar Guild. She enjoyed handcrafts, especially knitting and sewing, giving most of what she made to charity. She and her husband, John W. Elmendorf, enjoyed outdoor pursuits, especially fishing and boating.

Her husband, whom she married Feb. 14, 1936, died Nov. 5.

Besides her daughter, she leaves a son, Lee Elmendorf of Latham, N.Y., and four grandsons. Another son, Andrew David Elmendorf, is deceased.

FUNERAL NOTICE -- The funeral for Alsha Elmendorf, who died Dec. 7, 2003, will be Thursday, Dec. 1, at 10 at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, Elsmere Avenue, Delmar, N.Y. Burial will be in Bethlehem Cemetery. Calling hours will be Wednesday, Dec. 10, from 3:30 to 6 at APPLEBEE FUNERAL HOME, Kenwood Avenue, Delmar. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Berkshire Country Day School, Lenox, Mass. She also leaves her son-in-law, Dr. Edward Shapiro of Stockbridge; her daughter-in-law, Heidi of Latham; her four grandsons, Trevor, Joshua, Zachary and Jacob, and a niece and two grandnieces. Alsha was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Dec. 9, 2003.

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Desiree Kelley

December 12, 2003

Dear friends and Family,



Alsha was my neighbor. She enjoyed and appreciated the little things in life. Every year when our Colarado Blue Spruce was decorated with Christmas lights she would say how much she enjoyed looking at the lights through her window.

When I saw her walking her dog she was always very friendly and greet me with a smile.



I will extremely miss her as my neighbor.

The memory of her kindness to her neighbors with always be remembered.



She was a kind gentle soul.



Sincerely



Jim and Desiree

Kelley

Bedrosian Gary

December 10, 2003

She was a wonderful wife and mother. I'll always have fond memories of many visits to a home made gracious by her welcoming presence.

Millie Schmitt

December 10, 2003

My mom, Donna McCourt Schmitt, enjoyed many wonderful letters from Alsha. They always stayed in touch through the years until Mom's death in 1999. Our prayers and thoughts are with Alsha's family and friends.

Fred & Joan McCourt

December 9, 2003

A dear friend and relative lost to fond memories that will never be forgotten. - Fred & Joan

Karen Kugelman

December 9, 2003

Lee and family-I am so sorry-words cannot express. Karen

Lee Elmendorf

December 9, 2003

We'll miss you Mom. Give our love to Dad.

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