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Jeffrey B. Thompson

1943 - 2022

Jeffrey B. Thompson obituary, 1943-2022, Pittsfield, MA

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Jeffrey Thompson Obituary

Jeffrey Bellinger Thompson, age 78, passed away peacefully at sunset at his home on Friday, February 18th, 2022, surrounded by his loving family.

Jeff was born on May 4th, 1943 in Pittsfield, MA to Zilpha "Sis" Bellinger Thompson and Orlo L. Thompson. He grew up in Dalton, MA and was in the last graduating class (1961) from Dalton High School. He attended the University of Bridgeport (Connecticut) and graduated in 1967. At that time, he was a teacher at Masuk High School in Monroe, CT. He enlisted in the United States Air Force in 1967 and spent four years in the service. Jeff worked on the flight line and worked in avionics on the F-105 in the instrument shop. That included a year in Takhli, Thailand during the Vietnam era. During that time, he married his college sweetheart, Jean Ruhl from Burlington, NJ.

Following his military service, Jeff attended Virginia Commonwealth University where he received a Master's Degree in Social Work. Jeff always felt thankful about his career as a social worker, with the perception that he got to do a lot of good things for people. He was initially employed by the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (child protective services). The last 34 years of his work career were divided between Hillcrest Hospital, where he was the Director of Social Services, and Berkshire Medical Center, where he was a member of the "Psych Team" (also known as the Primary Care Outreach Team). Jeff retired from BMC in March of 2008.

Jeff enjoyed a wide range of friendships that were established all along his path of life. He was very active in the community after his retirement, and had the opportunity to serve in many organizations, including The Council on Aging, Berkshire United Way, RSVP, Soldier On, The Santa Toy Fund, Big Sisters, Goodwill Industries, Berkshire Place, and at Berkshire Health System.

He was chairman of the group that restored Pittsfield's renowned sculpture: the World War I "Peace Monument". He also played a key role in the restoration of the sculpture of the Civil War Soldier in Park Square. He was a member of the First United Methodist Church in Pittsfield. He also volunteered at Tanglewood and the Colonial Theater. Jeff was a past commander of the VFW, Post 448, in Pittsfield, and was very active in the Veterans' community.

Jeff loved living at Pontoosuc lake. He forever loved a beautiful sunset, and often enjoyed time on the dock. He was a sports fan through and through, and especially loved the Red Sox, the Patriots, and Virginia Tech football. He was a daily walker, either indoors somewhere or outdoors on the bike trail, depending on the weather.

Jeff is survived by his wife Jeannie and his two children, Laurie Beth Keatts of Hickory, North Carolina, and Stephen Ruhl Thompson (wife: Debbi Thompson) of Fort Collins, Colorado. Jeff adored his children as well as his four grandchildren, Jillian and Lucy Keatts, and Fiona and Brayden Thompson. The grandkids took to calling him '"Bacoobah", following Jillian's lead when she came up with this unique name when she was a toddler. The four grandchildren sure loved their Bacoobah. Jeff is also pre-deceased by his brother, Orlo Stephen Thompson of Groton, MA, and survived by his sister Zilpha "Zell" Thompson Murray of Springfield, MA.

Throughout Jeff's life, he touched the hearts and lives of so many individuals in so many ways. He was a dedicated true friend to countless people. He was a loving and caring husband, father, and grandfather, and was always there for his family and friends. His many stories, sense of humor, and passion for finding fun and joy in life will live on through his family. He was a bright light in this world, and was always willing to help others in both his professional and personal life. He will undoubtedly be missed by all who knew him, and most especially by his family.

Funeral Notice:

There will be a celebration of Jeffrey's life later in the spring or early summer, with additional details to be finalized at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Jeff's memory to Boston University School of Medicine, Amyloid Center Research Fund, 72 East Concord Street, #K-503, Boston, MA, 02118.

Please visit www.DwyerFuneral.com to leave any comments, condolences, or fond memories.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 26, 2022.

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Don Wilhelm

February 16, 2024

Jean, hope you are well. My wife Carol and I have a home in Chapel Hill, N.C. If you are visiting your daughter in Hickory and would like to reminisce, please send me an email at [email protected]. Keep smiling. Best.

Donald Wilhelm

November 30, 2023

Jeff was best man at my wedding in 1969 in Wichita, Kansas. We served in the Air Force together. Jeff had a great sense of humor and was several years older than myself and I learned many things about life from him. The last time we saw each other was at our home in Maryland in the early 2000´s. Jean my deepest sympathies and best wishes.

Al and Dian Litster

March 8, 2022

Dear Jean, Stephen and Laurie,
I was saddened to read of Jeff"s passing in the Eagle. Jeff was one of a kind and the tributes by so many people bear out what a kind and caring person he was.
It brought back memories of our early years living in Pittsfield. We first met your family at DUMC. I played bridge with you Jean for a number of years. As the years passed I ran into Jeff at Hillcrest and then ran into both you and Jeff at BMC. If Iam not mistaken both our sons (Stephen) graduated from PHS the same year.
AL and I moved to Bluffton SC in 2004.
Take care Jean and our prayers will be with your family at this sad time. Love Al and Dian Litster

Judith Crosier Miner

March 2, 2022

Zell and Family, I was so saddened to hear of Jeffs passing. I'm sorry to learn Orlo passed also. I´m living in Williamsburg VA now. Please take care.

Kris (Barbalunga) Mackey

March 1, 2022

My condolences to Jeff's family and friends. I met jeff in 1984 while a patient at Hillcrest Hospital. He visited patients each day and was a friendly, caring presence in the sick room. I remember distinctly his so pleasant face and smile and his kind, encouraging words. He lives on forever in the memories of all the people he helped. Lord's Blessings and Comfort to all. With caring, Kris (Barbalunga) Mackey

Gary & Cathy Symanski

February 28, 2022

Dear Jean & family - we are so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. He was truly my favorite Northumberland neighbor. He always had a smile on his face and was always so warm and inviting. The neighborhood has not been the same since the move. He got his money out of that porch. We will miss him!

Jill Lane

February 28, 2022

Dear Jean and family, I am so sorry to hear of Jeffs passing. The class of 1961 has lost a true friend. I talked to him in November last year and said I would see him in the summer and he never answered me. Now I know why. I am sending love and prayers to you all at this time. Sincerely Jill Lane

Hank Frydel

February 28, 2022

I remember Jeff from the VVA Chapter 65 coffee hours at the Misty Moonlight Diner in Pittsfield.

Rest in Peace, fellow veteran!
Hank Frydel

Paul Caccaviello

February 27, 2022

I met Jeff on the trail a few years ago. Very nice man and we had some great conversations. I will miss seeing him there. My condolences to his family.

Jeff Hiltpold

February 27, 2022

Dear Jean, Steve, and Laurie, Our sincere condolences on your loss. Jeff was a great friend to me, I'll never forget his help he provided me over the years in my career with his well thought out letters of recommendation. He was a very good person with a very warm heart, with a great laugh and sense of humor. He always showed so much interest in our everyday musings. May the fond memories get you through this trying time. - Jeff and Tracy Hiltpold

Kathleen Sturm

February 26, 2022

A great mentor and friend. I am so pleased that we got to meet again, over the years. I am sure your family is facing a great loss- I have you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Dorothy McAvoy

February 26, 2022

Jean, Steve & Laurie,
Words never seem adequate at a time like this but know that caring hearts are reaching out to yours. I know time does not erase what love created. Thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy.

Mary J Turner

February 26, 2022

So sad to hear of Jeffs passing, worked by his side at Berkshire Health System facility, he was very friendly, caring and helpful person, he will be truly missed by somany, positive thoughts and healing prayers for his family

Jim Canino

February 26, 2022

Jean & Family,
My deepest condolences on Jeff's passing! He was a very good friend from our Hillcrest Hospital days! He was always kindhearted and smiling. Every time we bumped into each other he would invite to your house on the lake to enjoy a beer and the lake. I will miss him deeply! God bless you all!

Becky Klein

February 26, 2022

Jean, Steve & Laurie...I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word when it was needed not to mention a great neighbor!! Many great memories with the Thompsons! Much love and prayers to all of you

Karen Uliasz

February 26, 2022

Jean, I am so sorry for your loss. I met Jeff at Hillcrest as a very young nurse. He always made me feel like we had been friends for years. Never did I think that I would be working with his wife as well. This is truly a great loss.

Trish Sweeney

February 26, 2022

Jean and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. Always smiling when you walked by him at work. Wishing you all peace until you are all together again. Trish Sweeney

Matthew Pictrowski

February 26, 2022

Jean and the entire Thompson Family.
May wonderful memories and the sound of Jeff's laughter always fill your hearts and lives.
Deepest condolences.

Liz Celentano

February 26, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Jeff´s passing. He had a great laugh and terrific stories. My condolences to all of you.

Dick Mole

February 26, 2022

Dear Jean, Laurie, and Steve,
It Saddens me deeply to hear of the passing of Jeff. We have so many years of great memories together which I will always cherish in my heart. Jeff lived life to the fullest and that carried over to anyone in his presence.
My heart goes out to all of you and I offer you my love and support in this difficult time. Till we meet again Jeff,
my friend...

Bill

February 26, 2022

Jean, Laurie and Steve. My pal has moved on, but his kindness, dedication and positive attitude will always be with us. Love you all.

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