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Mary DiLego Obituary

Mary Jane DiLego

1932-2014 BERKSHIRE Mary Jane Irwin DiLego, 81, of Berkshire, died Tuesday, February 4, 2014, at home, surrounded by her loving family. She joins her beloved husband of 61 years, William J. DiLego, who died June 22, 2013. Born in Pittsfield on April 21, 1932, a daughter of Reginald and Katharine O'Connor Irwin, she was educated in Pittsfield schools and was a 1949 graduate of St. Joseph Central High School. Mary Jane worked as a payroll clerk for General Electric Company prior to devoting her life to her husband and family. Mrs. DiLego was a communicant of North American Martyrs Chapel where she served as a Lector, Pastoral Council member, and Catechism teacher for many years. She was a recipient of the Pope Pius X award for her dedication to these programs. Over the years, she was an active member of the Lanesborough Democratic Town Committee, the Town Board of Registrars, and the Recreation Committee. She enjoyed flower gardening. Mary Jane is survived by four children, Nancianne DiLego-Heath and her husband, Bruce, of Tyringham, Lori DiLego of Berkshire, Regina DiLego of Berkshire, and Joseph DiLego, of Berkshire. She leaves five grandchildren, Benjamin Truskowski, Sarah Ambrose, Nathan DiLego-Heath, and Carly and Tessa Christman; one great grandchild, Aubrey Ambrose; and many nieces and nephews whom she loved as her own; as well as her loving and devoted caregivers. She was pre-deceased by her sisters, Katherine Best and Ann Tracy. FUNERAL NOTICE: Funeral services for Mary Jane Irwin DiLego will be held Saturday, February 8, with a Liturgy of Christian Burial at 11 a.m., at North American Martyrs Chapel celebrated by Rev. David R. Raymond, Pastor. Burial will be in the Spring in St. Joseph's Cemetery. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to North American Martyrs Chapel or to the Lanesborough Police Department or Lanesborough Fire Department, all in care of DERY FUNERAL HOME, 54 Bradford Street, Pittsfield.



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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 6, 2014.

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Preston Tracy

January 31, 2021

Bless Aunt Mary, a tough as nails Angel....still loved, still missed.....luv ya, George

PRESTON TRACY

February 1, 2020

Aunt Mary and Uncle Billy will always live on in our thoughts and prayers....loving, wise and protective....

Preston Tracy

February 1, 2015

To the toughest woman ever...I love you still Aunt Mary...xxxxGeorge

Scott Wheeler

March 11, 2014

My family will miss both Mary Jane and Bill's presence in the neighborhood and will remember their smiles and acts of kindness with fondness.

joe flynn

February 19, 2014

To lori,regina & joe I'm sorry for your loss. I know what's it like to lose a parent. my mom died april 19 2011

Cheri and Jim Allison

February 12, 2014

Lori, Tess and Carly,
So sorry for your loss. Be strong, remember the good times and she will always be with you.

Eva Forsgren

February 9, 2014

Lori and family: We are so sorry to hear of your Mom's/Grandmother's/Great Grandmother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda Pruyne

February 7, 2014

Lori, Regina, Nancianne, Joe and your family,
Bob & I send our condolences on the loss of your mother. She was a genuine, unique & caring person. She was the kind of person who said what she meant and meant what she said. I admired that about her. I will remember her fondly.

Preston [George] Tracy

February 7, 2014

Aunt Mary is loved and terribly missed by our family...she was much more than an Aunt to myself and siblings who always knew that she had our backs...a tough, tough lady with a kind and giving heart...heaven has reclaimed a true angel...our prayers and love go out to our cousins and their familys

Martha Durfee

February 7, 2014

To Mary Jane's family, sincere thoughts from the other rear pew sitter. Norman, Martha and Debbie Durfee. Mims Florida

Valerie Dean Tallet

February 7, 2014

Dear Lori & Carly & Regina & Joe & ALL OF YOUR WONDERFUL SIBLINGS & THEIR FAMILIES... Within less than 8 months you have had to say goodbye to both of your parents (and grandparents) My heart goes out to you! I believe in life after life & I am sure your Mom will still be around you. Sending you a big hug and heart felt sympathy for your loss!

February 6, 2014

Lori, Carly, Tessa and Family,
We were so saddened by the news of your mother/grandmother's passing. Know she is at rest now with your father/grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Always remember how wonderful and welcoming they were to us.
Love,
Lou Ann, Brian, Sam, Lucas and Robert Walter

Kate Bailey

February 6, 2014

Regina and family So sorry for the loss of your loved one. She was quite the character and even though I had only met her a couple years ago, I thought she was special. Regina - My best to you and BIG hugs - I am sorry I am in CA and unable to deliver a hug in person. I love you Reg, you are a testament to your parents good parenting!! Happy they are together once more and I can just see your Mom with a sweet smile on her face - listening to your Dad sing her home <3

February 6, 2014

Deepest sympathy to all of you. Yes, she is certainly with the love of her life now (your dad), and they will always be watching over all of you. MJ was a genuine "cutie pie" and I am blessed to have crossed her path in life. God Bless, Teresa

Gail Vallone

February 6, 2014

Regina and family, Your mom was one of a kind, always there for everyone. My prayers are with all of you. She is now with your dad.

February 6, 2014

Regina, Ben, Sarah,Lori,Nancianne, Joe, Carly, & Tessa: You are in our thoughts & prayers. We're very sorry for your deep loss, & are thinking of you all, & the rest of the family. Mrs. DiLego was a wonderful woman, & will truly be missed by everyone who knew her. Take care of yourselves! Love, Sue & Marc O'Neill, Las Vegas, Nv.

Val Tracy

February 6, 2014

Regina, sincere sympathy at this time of your Mother's passing. My thoughts and prayers will be with you in the days ahead.

The Donald Kruszyna Family

February 6, 2014

Dear Dilego Family :
Our Deepest Sympathy for your loss.

Fran and Marghi Boyer

February 6, 2014

When I think of Mary Jane, I picture her in the back row at church, greeting us as we came in. She will be sorely missed, but is at rest now with Bill. May the happy memories you have of your parents console you in their absence. We miss you all but also take pleasure in the memories of happy times and friendships forged in the church that means so much to your family. You know that everytime we hear "Ave Maria", we think of you. And say to each other that it isn't as good as when we heard it sung by Regina and Lori.
Our best to all the family at this sad time.

Martha Brown

February 6, 2014

Lori, Carly and Tessa
May you find peace in knowing she is at peace. You now have two angels watching over you. Love and prayers

February 6, 2014

Joe and family,
So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. We'll keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
-The girls @ NBT

Kathy Regalmann

February 6, 2014

Joe I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Kay Pierce

February 6, 2014

Lori - so sorry to read of you Mother's passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

John Eastland Eastland

February 6, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Mary Lou & Joe Trzcinka

February 6, 2014

Lori, Regina, Nanci, Joe & All - Mary Jane & Bill are together again, and you know they are happy. Can you imagine their reunion? Thank God you are a strong, faithful family unit and have many wonderful memories to cherish. Our prayers are with you all. Godspeed, Mary Jane.

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